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Men’s Rights Activists Greet Adria Richards’ Firing with Cheers, Gendered Slurs

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And so the Internet has found a new woman to hate. Most of you are probably already familiar with the Adria Richards debacle that’s developed over the past several days. If not, Jill at Feministe has a good summary of events:

Adria Richards, formerly of the company SendGrid, was at a tech conference this week when some dudes behind her made a series of inappropriate and sexual jokes. Annoyed by the pervasiveness of misogyny in the tech world, she snapped a photo of them and put in on Twitter with a complaint. One of the conference organizers spoke to the men and they apologized. Totally reasonable! Good response, PyCon. Later, one of the dudes got fired. Instead of getting mad at the company that made the choice to fire him, the internet hordes descended on Adria. She was on the receiving end of rape and death threats. Her address and phone number were published. Her blog and her company’s website came under DDoS attack. Oh and then her company, SendGrid, fired her.

Like Jill, I think firing someone for a “dongle” joke is an overreaction, to say the least. But Richards wasn’t responsible for that; indeed, she told the fired man she hoped his employer would reconsider and take him back.

SendGrid’s firing of Richards is far more problematic. It’s one thing to get in trouble for acting like a sexist boor; it’s quite another to get in trouble for simply pointing out someone else’s problematic behavior. Richards faced a virtual lynch mob for simply documenting an example of the everyday sexism that permeates the tech world; by firing her, SendGrid essentially sided with the mob.

Is “lynch mob” an unfair term to describe those who’ve gone after Richards? No. In this context, the term is sadly apropos, as the target of all this online “activism” is not only female but black – two strikes against her in the minds of many of her, er, “critics,” who attacked her as a “fucking nigger” as well as a “cunt.” (The more genteel racists referred to her derisively as a “diversity hire.”)

Numerous commenters have already documented some of the appallingly racist and misogynist attacks on Richards. (The links in the above paragraph contain plenty of examples.)

Here, I’d like to focus specifically on the attacks on Richards coming from Men’s Rights activists – that is, from people who like to think of themselves as upstanding human rights activists for the 21st century, virtual equivalents of Martin Luther King. In fact, many of the reactions of MRAs show them to have far more in common with the bigots who fought against the civil rights movement than they do with King.

In the Men’s Rights subreddit, the MRA masses gave more than one hundred upvotes to a graphic describing Richards as a “racist, sexist and hypocritical cunt.” Evidently pointing out that white men as a class have certain advantages in the world is a kind of “racism.”

Elsewhere in the subreddit, aasorted commenters indulged themselves in gendered slurs. Greyfeld got dozens up upvotes for comments denouncing Richards as a “feminist cunt” and a “screeching harpy cunt.” DerpaNerb described Richards as “a racist/sexist cunt [who’s] clearly … not capable of doing her job properly.” Buster2209 scored 160 upvotes with a comment describing Richards as a “stupid bitch [who] brought it on herself.” Cyridius simply declared “I hate her because she’s a dumb ignorant bitch.”

Others happily gave the Men’s Rights movement credit for Richards’ firing. The execrable EvilPundit got 180 upvotes for a post essentially endorsing the virtual lynch mob and declaring Richards’ firing to be proof that the Men’s Rights movement had entered a “new phase.”

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Sorry to burst your bubble, Mr. Pundit, but there’s nothing new about men harassing and threatening a black woman.

AnnArchist – a former contributor to Reddit’s now-banned Beating Women subreddit —  reacted with indignation to someone who pointed out Richards had been harassed:

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Over on A Voice for Men, where the locals describe themselves with no sense of irony as Men’s Human Rights Activists, there was much rejoicing over the firing of Richards, who was variously described as an “entitled bitch,” a “sociopathic bitch,” a “femshit” and a “bush pig.” Naturally, the c-word, applied to all feminists, made an appearance as well.

Daflory hoped that Richards’ firing would be the start of an industry-wide purge:

Adria Richards seems like an entitled narcissist, who had become used to deference as a moral authority through her impeccable credentials as a diversity goddess: black, Jewish, and female. …

No one ever told Adria Richards that she was at best only an tolerated guest in the world of tech, and she could either play by male rules and contribute, or get lost. Hopefully other feminists in tech will get a similar message.

And August Løvenskiolds’ mind went straight to the gutter:

[A]fter being outed as a betrayer of her customers, none of them will want to work with her, and any tech company that hires her will instantly lose credibility.

She’s going to be hard-pressed to find a job as a sex-worker unless the light is quite dim.

Taking a step back from the particulars of the incident, Mark Trueblood wondered if a man strike might help to put things right once again:

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I’m pretty sure Amnesty International doesn’t exactly endorse this sort of “human rights” activism.

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The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
11 years ago

Viscaria – what’s the bet this is the only way they can get anyone to pay any attention to them?

I had a laugh at an MRA trope coming up in an unlikely place last night. I was watching Due South, a very strange ep called Starman. A bloke called Ian was convinced he’d met the love of his life in a bar, and at one point Ray lost all patience with him (understandably) and told him he was a pretty ordinary guy, but compared to the others in that bar he was Brad Pitt, and a potential quickie was all she’d been interested in, get used to it.

The Brad Pitt reference made me lol, not least ‘cos it shows how old that little MRA line is. 🙂

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

It’s funny when they try to make us turn on each other too. It might even be an effective trolling technique if they knew what buttons to push, but they’re clueless, so they don’t.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
11 years ago

Viscaria – ewwww! What a miserable thing to do, whoever it was.

I remember someone who should have known better (forgotten the name) doing that to LBT and getting jumped for it not so long ago.

Shopping! Are we gonna talk shopping? I’ve been on a tunic-buying bout lately. I bought two more of the semi-transparent ones the other week. I have Manboobz conversations to thank for taking the plunge and wearing leggings without feeling I must have a skirt – and more importantly, telling the brain to mind its own business about how other people are wearing ’em.

cloudiah
11 years ago
CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

I already have the skinny and cropped versions of these so I figured I might as well get the straight leg too (though I know it won’t be as flattering as the skinny).

http://www.revolveclothing.com/DisplayProduct.jsp?product=PAIG-WJ455&c=Paige+Premium+Denim&d=5

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Viscaria: that was gross.

Kitteh’s: that was Kladle who jumped all over LBT, and it was rather ironic, seeing as zie had tried to set zirself up as Boss Queer after the mass exodus fallout.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Cassandra: I like the wash on those.

cloudiah
11 years ago

Shopping: I need to find an outfit to wear to my 2nd cousin’s wedding in July. Daytime dressy. I don’t wear dresses or skirts. Any ideas?

(I don’t dress up much.)

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

“I had no information to jump to a conclusion on what Argenti Aertheri was. I googled the name and if that’s her deviantART, I guess she’s female. Sorry if that wasn’t hilarious.”

No scrapemind, it still isn’t. Though I still can’t believe you took my joking “well what am I then?” as reason to go tracking down my profile on other sites. It’s creepy, you are creepy, and you are not, nor have you ever been, welcome here.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

I love that wash, which is why I’ve been collecting it in every cut that I can. So far I have skinny, cropped, and bootcut. I really prefer stiffer denim, don’t like the super stretchy stuff with elastane at all.

cloudiah
11 years ago

Scrapemind is an asshole.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

@ cloudiah

Cute capris and a floaty top, plus cute sandals?

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
11 years ago

Spiffy jeans, Cassandra!

hellkell – what was the exodus about? I mean, if it’s something that can be talked about here. I know darksidecat and a couple of other trans* members left, I’ve seen their comments in old forum threads, but was that it, or is the exodus something else?

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Dresses are always comfy and keep (me anyway) from separates anxiety. Dress, cute sandals, and a clutch and you’re good to go.

What styles do you normally wear? I’m trying to steer you to the right stores.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Kitteh’s: that was it. It was some long simmering stuff that boiled over.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

If you’re willing to wear a dress but normally don’t then a dress is the way to go, especially if it’s likely to get hot (floaty skirts allow for air circulation).

cloudiah
11 years ago

Um, I mostly wear black jeans and t-shirts, or when I have to “dress up” for work I wear black pants and solid color shirts. I am extremely boring, fashion-wise. 😀

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

cloudiah: I’m an idiot. Do you not wear dresses period or just not normally?

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
11 years ago

Do you like smart jeans, cloudiah? Those plus a pretty top might do. Do you like things like linen jackets? One of those over a light blouse/top would be smart without being OTT formal.

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Kitteh — I wasn’t around at the time, but as I understand it the exodus was more about religion, or homophobia in religion, or something like that.

Enjoy your shopping guys! Mine has all been fish stuff lately, so probably not real interesting (trust me here, no one wants details on my DIY filter, and if you do, go check out the 1,400+ comment thread!)

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Then you want something comfy, possibly black. I would try the Gap or J. Crew for something that would work without making you uncomfortable.

If I were anywhere near LA, we’d a have a bitter feminist shopping trip.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

I’d say white pants/capris and a colorful top is the way to go. Capris are good if you want to show off cute shoes, and white pants allow you to pick any color you want for your top. Don’t go sleeveless if the wedding will be in a chruch or temple though because it might get too cold.

cloudiah
11 years ago

Kittehs’, my take on it is that it was a little more complicated than that, but I really don’t want to talk about it in Troll Central.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Argenti: yes, that was it, coupled with accusations of David harboring homophobes. It was pretty awful all around.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
11 years ago

hellkell – that makes sense. I read a huge fight in one old thread, about asexuality and transsexuality. It was ugly, almost Oppression Olympics stuff.

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