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Men’s Rights Activists Greet Adria Richards’ Firing with Cheers, Gendered Slurs

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And so the Internet has found a new woman to hate. Most of you are probably already familiar with the Adria Richards debacle that’s developed over the past several days. If not, Jill at Feministe has a good summary of events:

Adria Richards, formerly of the company SendGrid, was at a tech conference this week when some dudes behind her made a series of inappropriate and sexual jokes. Annoyed by the pervasiveness of misogyny in the tech world, she snapped a photo of them and put in on Twitter with a complaint. One of the conference organizers spoke to the men and they apologized. Totally reasonable! Good response, PyCon. Later, one of the dudes got fired. Instead of getting mad at the company that made the choice to fire him, the internet hordes descended on Adria. She was on the receiving end of rape and death threats. Her address and phone number were published. Her blog and her company’s website came under DDoS attack. Oh and then her company, SendGrid, fired her.

Like Jill, I think firing someone for a “dongle” joke is an overreaction, to say the least. But Richards wasn’t responsible for that; indeed, she told the fired man she hoped his employer would reconsider and take him back.

SendGrid’s firing of Richards is far more problematic. It’s one thing to get in trouble for acting like a sexist boor; it’s quite another to get in trouble for simply pointing out someone else’s problematic behavior. Richards faced a virtual lynch mob for simply documenting an example of the everyday sexism that permeates the tech world; by firing her, SendGrid essentially sided with the mob.

Is “lynch mob” an unfair term to describe those who’ve gone after Richards? No. In this context, the term is sadly apropos, as the target of all this online “activism” is not only female but black – two strikes against her in the minds of many of her, er, “critics,” who attacked her as a “fucking nigger” as well as a “cunt.” (The more genteel racists referred to her derisively as a “diversity hire.”)

Numerous commenters have already documented some of the appallingly racist and misogynist attacks on Richards. (The links in the above paragraph contain plenty of examples.)

Here, I’d like to focus specifically on the attacks on Richards coming from Men’s Rights activists – that is, from people who like to think of themselves as upstanding human rights activists for the 21st century, virtual equivalents of Martin Luther King. In fact, many of the reactions of MRAs show them to have far more in common with the bigots who fought against the civil rights movement than they do with King.

In the Men’s Rights subreddit, the MRA masses gave more than one hundred upvotes to a graphic describing Richards as a “racist, sexist and hypocritical cunt.” Evidently pointing out that white men as a class have certain advantages in the world is a kind of “racism.”

Elsewhere in the subreddit, aasorted commenters indulged themselves in gendered slurs. Greyfeld got dozens up upvotes for comments denouncing Richards as a “feminist cunt” and a “screeching harpy cunt.” DerpaNerb described Richards as “a racist/sexist cunt [who’s] clearly … not capable of doing her job properly.” Buster2209 scored 160 upvotes with a comment describing Richards as a “stupid bitch [who] brought it on herself.” Cyridius simply declared “I hate her because she’s a dumb ignorant bitch.”

Others happily gave the Men’s Rights movement credit for Richards’ firing. The execrable EvilPundit got 180 upvotes for a post essentially endorsing the virtual lynch mob and declaring Richards’ firing to be proof that the Men’s Rights movement had entered a “new phase.”

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Sorry to burst your bubble, Mr. Pundit, but there’s nothing new about men harassing and threatening a black woman.

AnnArchist – a former contributor to Reddit’s now-banned Beating Women subreddit —  reacted with indignation to someone who pointed out Richards had been harassed:

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Over on A Voice for Men, where the locals describe themselves with no sense of irony as Men’s Human Rights Activists, there was much rejoicing over the firing of Richards, who was variously described as an “entitled bitch,” a “sociopathic bitch,” a “femshit” and a “bush pig.” Naturally, the c-word, applied to all feminists, made an appearance as well.

Daflory hoped that Richards’ firing would be the start of an industry-wide purge:

Adria Richards seems like an entitled narcissist, who had become used to deference as a moral authority through her impeccable credentials as a diversity goddess: black, Jewish, and female. …

No one ever told Adria Richards that she was at best only an tolerated guest in the world of tech, and she could either play by male rules and contribute, or get lost. Hopefully other feminists in tech will get a similar message.

And August Løvenskiolds’ mind went straight to the gutter:

[A]fter being outed as a betrayer of her customers, none of them will want to work with her, and any tech company that hires her will instantly lose credibility.

She’s going to be hard-pressed to find a job as a sex-worker unless the light is quite dim.

Taking a step back from the particulars of the incident, Mark Trueblood wondered if a man strike might help to put things right once again:

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I’m pretty sure Amnesty International doesn’t exactly endorse this sort of “human rights” activism.

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The Kittehs' Unpaid Help

::receiving hugs with pleasure::

🙂

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Autocorrect is weird – it took sessions first and changed it on the second use?

I’m convinced it’s a minion of Basement Cat.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

That coconut looks like the inside of the husk — the impossible to get into without a drill husk. Sounds delicious in other words!

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Actually! If I’m reading Kittehs food preferences correctly she might like pomelo. It’s sort of like a really sweet grapefruit without the sharp undertone that grapefruit has.

I wonder if it causes the same drug interaction problems that grapefruit does.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Coconut is one of my favorite smells. Have you ever had a fresh coconut, the baby kind where you can just make a hole in it and drink the juice? It’s awesome.

Yes, I love those.

The place where we got married in HI had several coconut palms on the property, and we had lots of fresh coconut. It also had mango and tiny banana (so good) trees.

Pomleo does cause the same drug interactions as grapefruit, so be careful.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Fuck, refresh fail!

Sid — yeah I know, but I’d thought it applied to a sub-set of mental illnesses, the ones with hallucinations, since they could resemble the altered states caused by certain drugs. I MIT be wrong on that, but in any case, I rather doubt things like suicidal depression where included (which was what that idiot roommate was talking about)

scrapemind — you aren’t new around here, I remember your games and I imagine plenty of other people do too, stop trying to wiggle out of stupidity with “yeah that’s what I meant!” You where, in so many words, saying that “everyone knows” when Sid’s referring to a limited set of religions.

Even ignoring that, it’s just plain asinine to say that “[e]veryone knows that crazy people are closer to God.” when plenty of people either don’t believe in god at all, or belief in god/gods/goddess/goddesses where that isn’t believed. In simplest terms, no, not everyone knows that, because a fairly large percentage of people don’t even believe that possible (atheists for example)

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Scrapemind and talacaris are the kind of trolls I find most baffling. They seem to get a huge kick out of making people feel bored and vaguely irritated. As hobbies go that’s an odd one.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

I could have sworn scrapemind got ye olde banhammer, but they all start to blend together, especially super-boring ones like this.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

You know the old Spector Wall of Sound? These guys are the Wall of Blah. Just as distinctive but a lot less fun to listen to.

cloudiah
11 years ago

There must be a kink where people get off on causing boredom and slight annoyance in others. Don’t these trolls know you shouldn’t involve other people in your kink without their consent?

I have seen those little coconuts in Brazilian markets in LA, but not very often. Yum.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

As far as I can tell the biggest appeal of trolling for the dudes who troll feminist sites is that it’s a way to force women to interact with them without the women’s consent.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Wall of Blah or the noise adults used to make in the Peanuts cartoons.

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Definitely less fun than the Wall of Sound!

Scrapemind and talacaris are those strange, boring type of trolls who love to throw in “jokes” that would probably be okay in a private setting among friends who know each other really well. Since they’re anything but friends here and this is a public setting, those jokes are not funny, not appropriate, not witty, not anything but weaksauce trolling.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

I like that one too.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Reminder to those new to scrapemind, he pulls shit like this

scrapemind | November 17, 2012 at 11:40 am
Heterosexuality is patriarchy, no? But this site is full of boring old liberal feminists who think that heterosexuality is a valid lifestyle and is just the way some people are, rather than fun radical feminists who entertain me by saying that heterosexuality can and should be abolished.

P.S. I realize that it might seem like bisexual erasure that I’m discussing the heterosexuality of Typhonblue, a bisexual woman, but I’m not going to pretend that the heterosexual desires of bisexuals are somehow “queer” (ugh) just because the subject of desire isn’t exclusively heterosexual. Bisexuals are both heterosexual and homosexual, rather than, as some bisexuals fancy themselves, neither heterosexual nor homosexual: That would be asexuality. Pansexual, omnisexual, polysexual, multisexual, sapiosexual, “queer”, et al., are made-up bullshit.

cloudiah
11 years ago

Oh, WeeBoy, I’m so sorry about the sucky mental health system, and I hope your friend gets through this okay. More hugs to all who want them.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

I think the idea there is that it’s really funny to get people riled up about stuff that you consider unimportant, but the thing is, the usual response isn’t “I am so offended” as much as “there is a moth that keeps flying around and getting in my face and wow that’s annoying”.

cloudiah
11 years ago

the noise adults used to make in the Peanuts cartoons

This is exactly how I hear them.

Viscaria
Viscaria
11 years ago

As far as I can tell the biggest appeal of trolling for the dudes who troll feminist sites is that it’s a way to force women to interact with them without the women’s consent.

This is why I roll my eyes at the guys who come here and tell us about how they do everything they can do avoid contact with women. Oh, yeah? That’s why you decided this was the blog for you?

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Hey scrapemind, what to do call my long distance sort of still a relationship? We’re both genderqueer and bi but ze’s got another partner (and I had my other poly partner go monogamous with someone else). You have to know what’s in our pants to decide right? Or gonna make it simple and just claim that long distance sort of still a relationship isn’t a thing? Despite ongoing attempts to wrangle zir grad student schedule into letting me come visit?

In other words, bugger off, I’m not about to forget what sort of shit head you really are.

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I’m amazed scrapeshite allows that asexuality is a thing.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

I was at the garden store today, and I saw a fly swatter/bug zapper combo shaped like a small tennis racket. I wish there was something like that for talacaris and scrapemind.

I got some pink flamingos for the backyard! Next up is a big Buddah and a flying pig to go with the copper rhino I have back there.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

I’ve been shopping for jeans again in between bouts of work.

(Yes, I know that I have too many pairs of jeans. Don’t care.)

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

That’s OK, Cassandra, I bought makeup today. I really don’t need more. Don’t care, I like it.

Viscaria
Viscaria
11 years ago

I’m pretty sure it was scrapemind who decided to point out that a new commenter was trans without her permission, in the hopes that it would lead to other commenters attacking her for it.

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