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Men’s Rights Activists Greet Adria Richards’ Firing with Cheers, Gendered Slurs

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And so the Internet has found a new woman to hate. Most of you are probably already familiar with the Adria Richards debacle that’s developed over the past several days. If not, Jill at Feministe has a good summary of events:

Adria Richards, formerly of the company SendGrid, was at a tech conference this week when some dudes behind her made a series of inappropriate and sexual jokes. Annoyed by the pervasiveness of misogyny in the tech world, she snapped a photo of them and put in on Twitter with a complaint. One of the conference organizers spoke to the men and they apologized. Totally reasonable! Good response, PyCon. Later, one of the dudes got fired. Instead of getting mad at the company that made the choice to fire him, the internet hordes descended on Adria. She was on the receiving end of rape and death threats. Her address and phone number were published. Her blog and her company’s website came under DDoS attack. Oh and then her company, SendGrid, fired her.

Like Jill, I think firing someone for a β€œdongle” joke is an overreaction, to say the least. But Richards wasn’t responsible for that; indeed, she told the fired man she hoped his employer would reconsider and take him back.

SendGrid’s firing of Richards is far more problematic. It’s one thing to get in trouble for acting like a sexist boor; it’s quite another to get in trouble for simply pointing out someone else’s problematic behavior. Richards faced a virtual lynch mob for simply documenting an example of the everyday sexism that permeates the tech world; by firing her, SendGrid essentially sided with the mob.

Is β€œlynch mob” an unfair term to describe those who’ve gone after Richards? No. In this context, the term is sadly apropos, as the target of all this online β€œactivism” is not only female but black – two strikes against her in the minds of many of her, er, β€œcritics,” who attacked her as a β€œfucking nigger” as well as a β€œcunt.” (The more genteel racists referred to her derisively as a β€œdiversity hire.”)

Numerous commenters have already documented some of the appallingly racist and misogynist attacks on Richards. (The links in the above paragraph contain plenty of examples.)

Here, I’d like to focus specifically on the attacks on Richards coming from Men’s Rights activists – that is, from people who like to think of themselves as upstanding human rights activists for the 21st century, virtual equivalents of Martin Luther King. In fact, many of the reactions of MRAs show them to have far more in common with the bigots who fought against the civil rights movement than they do with King.

In the Men’s Rights subreddit, the MRA masses gave more than one hundred upvotes to a graphic describing Richards as a β€œracist, sexist and hypocritical cunt.” Evidently pointing out that white men as a class have certain advantages in the world is a kind of β€œracism.”

Elsewhere in the subreddit, aasorted commenters indulged themselves in gendered slurs. Greyfeld got dozens up upvotes for comments denouncing Richards as a β€œfeminist cunt” and a β€œscreeching harpy cunt.” DerpaNerb described Richards as β€œa racist/sexist cunt [who’s] clearly … not capable of doing her job properly.” Buster2209 scored 160 upvotes with a comment describing Richards as a β€œstupid bitch [who] brought it on herself.” Cyridius simply declared β€œI hate her because she’s a dumb ignorant bitch.”

Others happily gave the Men’s Rights movement credit for Richards’ firing. The execrable EvilPundit got 180 upvotes for a post essentially endorsing the virtual lynch mob and declaring Richards’ firing to be proof that the Men’s Rights movement had entered a β€œnew phase.”

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Sorry to burst your bubble, Mr. Pundit, but there’s nothing new about men harassing and threatening a black woman.

AnnArchist – a former contributor to Reddit’s now-banned Beating Women subreddit — Β reacted with indignation to someone who pointed out Richards had been harassed:

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Over on A Voice for Men, where the locals describe themselves with no sense of irony as Men’s Human Rights Activists, there was much rejoicing over the firing of Richards, who was variously described as an β€œentitled bitch,” a β€œsociopathic bitch,” a β€œfemshit” and a β€œbush pig.” Naturally, the c-word, applied to all feminists, made an appearance as well.

Daflory hoped that Richards’ firing would be the start of an industry-wide purge:

Adria Richards seems like an entitled narcissist, who had become used to deference as a moral authority through her impeccable credentials as a diversity goddess: black, Jewish, and female. …

No one ever told Adria Richards that she was at best only an tolerated guest in the world of tech, and she could either play by male rules and contribute, or get lost. Hopefully other feminists in tech will get a similar message.

And August LΓΈvenskiolds’ mind went straight to the gutter:

[A]fter being outed as a betrayer of her customers, none of them will want to work with her, and any tech company that hires her will instantly lose credibility.

She’s going to be hard-pressed to find a job as a sex-worker unless the light is quite dim.

Taking a step back from the particulars of the incident, Mark Trueblood wondered if a man strike might help to put things right once again:

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I’m pretty sure Amnesty International doesn’t exactly endorse this sort of “human rights” activism.

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The Kittehs' Unpaid Help

Jessay – I just this minute gave my leg a big rub-down with the hemp oil (and the basin a big rub-down with grease remover after splashing it all over …) and then came here and read your reply! πŸ™‚ So we’ll see how it goes. My leg’s quite sore after doing the shopping, so it’s a good test for it.

Argenti – “Actually, my freshman roommates said exactly that, I β€œjust need to be closer to god” yeah…” – EWWWWWW from a dualistsortofdeist on that one. πŸ™

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Coconut oil’s good for inflammation, I take some for my hip.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help

It’d smell good too, yes? My hairdresser uses something (shampoo, conditioner, no idea) that smells of coconut and it’s divine.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Kitteh’s it does smell good.

scrapemind
11 years ago

Argenti, your freshman roommates had no idea what they were talking about. Everyone knows that crazy people are closer to God.

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Fuck off, scrapingthebottomofthebarrel. You aren’t funny and aren’t welcome.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Coconut is one of my favorite smells. Have you ever had a fresh coconut, the baby kind where you can just make a hole in it and drink the juice? It’s awesome.

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No, I haven’t!

::strains to remember if they sell coconuts in our supermarket::

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

How about atheist crazies? Or pagan crazies? Or people who’d prefer not to be called crazy by you?

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

For drinking you want the white kind that don’t have the fibrous brown husk on the outside. You can literally just make a hole and stick a straw in it.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help

Hmm, I don’t think they sell those around here. Leastwise, I think I’d remember if I’d seen a non-brown coconut. Oh the joys of a semi-food-desert!

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Aiiieeee mutant coconuts!

πŸ˜€

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

I’ve yet to encounter anything coconut-based that I don’t like, which is part of why Thailand is a dessert paradise for me.

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Mmmm, it would be! πŸ™‚

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Also – coconut soap, coconut lotion, coconut shampoo, coconut rice…

lolbeast
11 years ago

@ the kittehs unpaid help

have you tried acupuncture? I have some damage to the muscles on the left side of my body that I thought was permanent. It’s surprisingly fast and effective, and I’m not sure where you live, but in my city and others I have lived in previously there is community acupuncture that doesn’t cost an arm and a leg. Overall pretty thrilled with the results.

Sid
Sid
11 years ago

@Melody: Ah, thank you. Yes, 23 definitely is adult, I just didn’t know how old she was. Thanks again πŸ™‚

@Argenti: Technically-speaking, there are some pagan religions/traditions/cults (the good kind, I mean) which view mental illness, as well as artificially-altered states of consciousness, as either a form of worship or a symptom of being close to the Divine. Granted, that’s almost certainly not what Scrapemind was referring to, but I felt it was worth mentioning ^^

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lolbeast – no, I haven’t. My osteo used needles on my leg once, but I didn’t notice any improvement, and the darned things left bruises. I’m getting an MRI done in a couple of weeks, just in case this very unresponsive knee has some structural damage.

I think all the acupuncturists here in Oz would be private, and I’d be very surprised if Medicare or my private fund covered them.

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Oh, much I know – my insurer does cover (or more likely partly cover) acupuncture. Whaddya know. πŸ™‚

scrapemind
11 years ago

Sid, I was referring to that sort of thing, as well as Christian mystics like Hildegard of Bingen.

Shadow
Shadow
11 years ago

@Cassandra

That’s the one thing I miss about Sri Lanka. The canned coconut water we get out here usually comes from some premium fruit, but there’s something about drinking it straight out of the coconut.

@kitteh’s

You’re unlikely to get it at the regular supermarket, but you might find it in some Sri Lankan stores or East Asian stores.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

I miss the fruit in Thailand in general, especially pomelo and tiny bananas, neither of which are ever as good here.

lolbeast
11 years ago

@Kittehs unpaid help

best of luck with your knee! sending long distance hugs. acupuncture can cause bruising or even very mild bleeding, but it isn’t anything to worry about. it does take repeated sessions to have a lasting effect, but a time goes on the seasons can be further and further apart. πŸ™‚

lolbeast
11 years ago

wow autocorrect, sessions not seasons

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