The regulars at PUAhate.com – we’ve met them before — are a strange and bitter bunch. Most seem to be self-loathing so-called “incels” who blame their lack of romantic and sexual success on their average or below-average looks. Rejecting the basic premise of the pickup artist crowd – that average guys can transform themselves into suave lotharios by mastering manipulative pickup formulas – the PUAhate regulars tend to be true believers in what they somewhat pretentiously call “looks theory,” the odd and obviously untrue notion that women only date men with “male model” looks.
As one PUAhater put it recently:
PUA makes you think that all your problems are because of your personality/behaviour – i.e. things you can control. So when you keep failing, it means that YOU are fucking up and doing things wrong
the reality is that many of us just lost the genetic lottery. we are ugly, the wrong race, the wrong height etc, and that fucked us up. there is NOTHING we can do about it
So, naturally, the PUAhaters spend a lot of their time jealous of tall, good-looking men for their supposed monopoly on the women of the world — whom they also hate.
But the strange thing is that the PUAhaters pretty much hate everyone else as well. They get angry when guys they consider ugly score “hot chicks.” They get angry when guys who are good-looking but not male models get attention from “really hot girls.” And so on, and so on, and so on.
Indeed, many of the regulars seem to walk around in a perpetual state of rage, angry at each and every man who’s managed to pair up with a woman, not to mention the women as well.
One regular recently described his “day from hell” to his comrades:
To start the day I saw a couple where it was an average White guy with an OBESE Asian girl. They were walking around acting like they were trying to prove shit. LMAO. I wanted to kick the guy in the fucking nuts for dating that landwhale. If you’re going to use the racial advantage, at least date a girl who is under 300lbs. Later I go to the gym and see the same tall guys I usually do. Even if I had a good face, how the fuck do you compete with guys who are fucking 6’4”?
Then at the gym there’s this good looking White guy there talking to this Asian dude about how Asian girls are easy and how they approach him. To make things worse after that these fucking frat douchebags come in with their girlfriends to show off . Then to cap off the day a girl I used to know from freshman year walks right past me without even saying anything. I used to fucking live next door to this bitch and now she doesn’t even say anything and acts like a pretentious cunt. She’s an Indian girl dating a White dude lmao. Days like today make you wonder why you even still try in the first place.
Of course, as I’ve mentioned before, most of those posting on PUAhate don’t actually seem to be ugly by anyone’s standards but their own, at least judging from the pictures of themselves they sometimes post to the site, which reveal them to be mostly average-looking guys, with some of the regulars even quite conventionally handsome.
But evidently they would rather believe that they have “lost the genetic lottery” rather than face a more obvious explanation for why the girls don’t like them: because they’re shallow, self-obsessed assholes who hate themselves and hate women and radiate their bitterness from every pore. (And some are even creepier than this, like this pedophile – sorry, ephebophile – who’s angry at me personally because unlike him I don’t chase after 15-year-olds. Link NSFW.)
The PUAhaters often talk about getting surgeries to “correct” their supposed genetic flaws. They would do far better to spend that money on therapy.
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That made me legit LOL for about a minute,
My work here is done. [dusts hands off]
Seriously, I am having more insomnia issues. So my work here might just be starting! (But I am going to try putting the computer down to see if I can get into a “sleep is awesome” frame of mind.) If I come back it’s because that didn’t work.
OT but…. Am I a kitty yet am I a kitty yet?
YAY, I’M A LLAMA KITTY AGAIN
ALL HAIL THE HYPNOKITTY
How is that a llama kitty?
It’s not, I was trying to strike llama out but I borked the code. Emperors New Groove joke.
WeeBoy is cute kitteh!
Well, my osteo has referred me for an MRI. She’s thinking there might be something structural with this unspeakable rotten knee.
Rarrrrrrr!
In the same way that a man will never be able to really understand what it means to get pregnant and give birth, women will never be able to really understand what it means to be sexually frustrated for a man, especially a young one, simply because they don’t have the male reproductive system. Imagine the time when you were most sexually frustrated yourself, CUBE it, and then keep it constant 24/7, and then you have the sexual frustration of the AVERAGE red-blooded human male upon hitting sexual puberty. And it gets worse if you’re a straight male, because gays and bi’s have definitely got it easier, because as someone once wisely observed, the people they want to have sex with, other (gay/bi) males, are just as horny (why do you think they are notorious for literally have sex anywhere and anytime, even and especially in public places?), unlike with females, who are not, at least not as quite, due to the combination of instinctive inhibition (evolved in humans due to the age-old social shaming of sluts + the extremely violent territorial jealousy of males) and the same sexual selectiveness the PUAhaters are talking about in the first place.
Anyway, these guys should consider themselves lucky because they dodged speeding silver bullets. As someone else noted, a good woman can make a man but a bad woman can break a man, and in the 21st century AD in the Western World, ground-zero the USA, there are NO more good women, at least not in the context of being decent relationship material for non-Alpha straight men. Once the honeymoon period is over, much more often than not they turn into either hags (let themselves go), nags (go crazy), an adulteress (super-evolved form: cuckolderess), gold-digger (divorce you and take half your gross estate plus alimony/child support for the rest of your life w/o even visitation rights), or some combination of some or all of them. As a wise man noted, “Foolish and wretched is the man who builds his happiness on the unstable and impermanent affections of a woman.”
Wait a minute… if they really think they’re physically butt-ugly, why don’t they resort to plastic surgery? I’m generelly not particularily taken with the whole business of body modification, but if somebody thinks he’s too ugly for life, it might actually help him.
Awww, Abnoy’s been wandering around with his eyes closed again, ignoring all those couples the other bonerwhiners are complaining about. Poooor widdle Abnoy, nobody’s catering to your terribul terribul sexual frustration. Why’s it so difficult for a wanker like you to use your hands, eh?
This article= lopsided.
You misunderstand the mind of the avg puahater. These men have been bullied, ostracized, rejected their entire lives.
In order to understand puahate, you have to have an understanding of science. This is something none of you here have clearly.
Looks Theory is biology and observable fact.
Firstly, we dont hate good looking men. We envy people who have won the genectic lottery and aspire to reach their societal stature. We admire men who manage to defy science and ” date women”
Our problem is with the deplorable behaviour of the modern woman. The hypergamy, the entitlement complexes, thirst for validaation etc etc. When a woman makes fun of men for having flaws and humiliating men who have done them no harm( happens all the time), that is disgusting.
There are plenty of anecdotes from puahate of men being laughed at, verbally attacked for their looks and rejected on the sole basis of them not being good looking enough.
To deny that modern women behave horribly is to be hypocritical on your part. You constantly complain about misogyny but fail to see that women are horrible. you think women are perfect angels who dont look out for their own interests.
You think women are beings who dont seek the best mate they can as it would benefit them to do so?
So to you people, bullying, verbal abuse and social exclusion is only something that happens to women?
We are imagining being treated like crap by people in totally unprovoked situations?
So when I go up to sit at a table and everyone leaves almost immediately is that because I was somehow a douchebag to them?
What about when everybody gravitates towards good looking people( which happens all the time!)….
Why cant you people understand that negative treatment creates shyness, social anxiety and reclusiveness and that negative feedback is directly correlated to not being Looks?
If you are good looking people treat you well, you are far more likely to develop confidence and a strong self-esteem this way.
You people blame everything on us. this way you basically say that bullying doesnt exist, people who are status obsessed dont exist, shallow people dont exist, social exclusion doesnt exist and that the reason negative things happen to us is because we are assholes?
Where does the ” asshole” behaviour come from then geniuses? From thin air? We just became douchebags from drinking contaminated municipal water?
Beauty is not subjective. It is a measurable entity. All things beautiful fit to certain specifications of symmetry and harmony.
google the “Golden Ratio”
All beautiful people share similar measurements, all beautiful things from buildings, to mountains, to cars to the milky way galaxy.
Well, well, well, we have another trolly idiot.
If beauty is so measurable, so objective, then pray tell how beauty standards differ so much between different cultures and different races over time? Do you think the tiny, misshapen feet of women in imperial China beautiful and incredibly sexy? No? Because the men then did. Do you think white lead paint, with vermillion lips and blue veins traced on the breasts to be beautiful? They did in Elizabethan times.
Get over yourself and stop blaming everyone else for your problems.
And I’m smelling sock here.
What’s your morning height, eh?
Is this a riddle or do you maybe want to try saying that again in English?
typical avoidant behaviour in this site. Anything in disagreement with TEH FEMINISTS is bullshit.
Ill ask you morons again.
Is a negative feedback loop from being treated badly throughout your life not a more plausible explanation for a non-positive outlook?
Question 2. Do you deny , YES or NO, that people treat you differently depending on your Looks, Social status or wealth?
Dude, you really need to stop drunk commenting on this blog.
Do you think the tiny, misshapen feet of women in imperial China beautiful and incredibly sexy? No? Because the men then did. Do you think white lead paint, with vermillion lips and blue veins traced on the breasts to be beautiful? They did in Elizabethan times.
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http://www.goldennumber.net/face/
Why cant you go and read the FACTS. Human beauty is based on divine proportion.
Dude, you really need to stop drunk commenting on this blog.
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answer the question.
At no point do you retort, just typical shaming tactics.
This world isnt perfect. People care about you social status, wealth and looks. Denying this is moronic. Basing your entire view of the world on what YOU think and not what has proof and is glaringly obvious and testable is stupid sorry.
Some people get treated badly because they arent good looking. This causes a lowered self-esteem, confidence and subsequent reclusiveness.
Show me one good looking person that is on a Chan or forum that is a NEET, virgin, Shut-in, friendless and I will give you $1million.
Truth:
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