The regulars at PUAhate.com – we’ve met them before — are a strange and bitter bunch. Most seem to be self-loathing so-called “incels” who blame their lack of romantic and sexual success on their average or below-average looks. Rejecting the basic premise of the pickup artist crowd – that average guys can transform themselves into suave lotharios by mastering manipulative pickup formulas – the PUAhate regulars tend to be true believers in what they somewhat pretentiously call “looks theory,” the odd and obviously untrue notion that women only date men with “male model” looks.
As one PUAhater put it recently:
PUA makes you think that all your problems are because of your personality/behaviour – i.e. things you can control. So when you keep failing, it means that YOU are fucking up and doing things wrong
the reality is that many of us just lost the genetic lottery. we are ugly, the wrong race, the wrong height etc, and that fucked us up. there is NOTHING we can do about it
So, naturally, the PUAhaters spend a lot of their time jealous of tall, good-looking men for their supposed monopoly on the women of the world — whom they also hate.
But the strange thing is that the PUAhaters pretty much hate everyone else as well. They get angry when guys they consider ugly score “hot chicks.” They get angry when guys who are good-looking but not male models get attention from “really hot girls.” And so on, and so on, and so on.
Indeed, many of the regulars seem to walk around in a perpetual state of rage, angry at each and every man who’s managed to pair up with a woman, not to mention the women as well.
One regular recently described his “day from hell” to his comrades:
To start the day I saw a couple where it was an average White guy with an OBESE Asian girl. They were walking around acting like they were trying to prove shit. LMAO. I wanted to kick the guy in the fucking nuts for dating that landwhale. If you’re going to use the racial advantage, at least date a girl who is under 300lbs. Later I go to the gym and see the same tall guys I usually do. Even if I had a good face, how the fuck do you compete with guys who are fucking 6’4”?
Then at the gym there’s this good looking White guy there talking to this Asian dude about how Asian girls are easy and how they approach him. To make things worse after that these fucking frat douchebags come in with their girlfriends to show off . Then to cap off the day a girl I used to know from freshman year walks right past me without even saying anything. I used to fucking live next door to this bitch and now she doesn’t even say anything and acts like a pretentious cunt. She’s an Indian girl dating a White dude lmao. Days like today make you wonder why you even still try in the first place.
Of course, as I’ve mentioned before, most of those posting on PUAhate don’t actually seem to be ugly by anyone’s standards but their own, at least judging from the pictures of themselves they sometimes post to the site, which reveal them to be mostly average-looking guys, with some of the regulars even quite conventionally handsome.
But evidently they would rather believe that they have “lost the genetic lottery” rather than face a more obvious explanation for why the girls don’t like them: because they’re shallow, self-obsessed assholes who hate themselves and hate women and radiate their bitterness from every pore. (And some are even creepier than this, like this pedophile – sorry, ephebophile – who’s angry at me personally because unlike him I don’t chase after 15-year-olds. Link NSFW.)
The PUAhaters often talk about getting surgeries to “correct” their supposed genetic flaws. They would do far better to spend that money on therapy.
I need to go to bed, you people have to stop writing!
can’t – stop – reading….
Also, hi.
@starskita – It is totally true that men win mates by displaying their splendid tails, because SCIENCE!
@Looks_Law
Reality is more complicated than that, buddy. Some are chosen, some are not.
Cheekbone-having? Um, most people have cheekbones. You can tell on account of how it’s part of the basic structure of a face. Mandibles otoh…
Oh God, that “Brian” character is disgusting. Dude – fourteen year old girls are obnoxious. especially in groups. It’s a fact. So are fourteen year old boys. They are not “provoking assault” – THEY ARE SHOWING OFF TO THEIR FRIENDS LIKE THE IMMATURE CHILDREN THEY ARE.
Fuck this noise, I’m turning in my human card and going back to Arcadia.
Wow, what a horrible piece of shit. And they wonder why we call people like him misogynistic…
Kitteh, you owe me one cup of tea for that!
Technically we have mandibles: we tend to call it a jaw.
I have cheekbones… I keep them in a jar, as trophies of my victories in battle.
(that’s hot, right?)
Monogamous afaik, didn’t know he was an exhibitionist. Then again, I’ve seen the kiss so yeah.
So, anyway – feel better now that you had your little tantrum and got lots of attention, whiny manchild? Is the troll-o-meter all charged up? I guess we’ll be seeing you again in a few months, then.
This kiss
Looks: 23 years. Didn’t date at all until six months shy of 23. We’ve been married twelve years come May. And he’s lovely, but not leading man material – among other things, Hollywood seems to have a problem with gigantic surgery scars. All the more for me, I suppose.
Looking at other threads I’ve noticed there are rather a lot on the subject of male-pattern baldness. Have they all forgotten about this guy?
http://postmasculine.com/newsite/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Neil-Strauss.jpg
Yep, that’s the original PUA. Who gets loads. And is bald.
I see looks law has activated his telepathy again…
@bagelsan
nope. I mean, I feel a little bad about it, but I’m depressed (though not suicidal) so I don’t give two fucks. Didn’t turn me into a jerk. Also super pissed because it seemed like he was trying to say people are depressed because they can’t get dates…like wah?
Also extra pissed at ross, because he cares (supposedly) that looks law is suicidal, but clearly doesn’t care if any of the regulars are. Probably Ross is just using it for his trolling though.
eagerly signs up 😀
@looks jackass
because women get the way worse stick than men in terms how they should look for movies. But I don’t think you actually wanted an answer.
please go squeeze a cactus.
@bagelsan
not just you. normally when I meet someone who’s attractive I have a temporary ‘oh, xie’s cute’ thought, but I need to actually know people for it to be more than a passing thought. If that makes sense :/
@Nobinayamu
You aren’t alone in your character crushes 😀 I think half the reason I like Maria Canal’s voice so much is cuz she voiced Hawkgirl in the Justice League…. (I have a huge crush on Hawkgirl /embarrassed).
@trollboy
18 years XD
@looks law
yeah, there’s nothing wrong with having a ‘slutty past’. Also, I think you should step on legos for thinking that not being judged for how much sex you have is a privilege. It shouldn’t have had to have been fought for.
forgodsake, female privilege is not a thing. at least give me a citation. sheesh.
oh god go fuck yourself. I’m getting tired of your whining about how hard it is to be a man. If you want pleasure, use your damn hand, if you want a date or friends, try not to be a toxic asshole. god, go swallow a lego.
like what does that even mean?
HHAHAHAHAHHAHA
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No.
you have no idea how relieved I am to hear this.
Owowoowowowow facepalmed so hard it hurt.
@weeboy
disagree. 😛 Chris Hemsworth is one of the two male actors I find attractive.
@kittehs
D’awww 😀 That’s a nice picture.
oh, fuck this guy. May his every step be filled with legos.
And I finally caught up with the comments! *throws a party* 😀
“Looking at other threads I’ve noticed there are rather a lot on the subject of male-pattern baldness. Have they all forgotten about this guy?
http://postmasculine.com/newsite/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Neil-Strauss.jpg
Yep, that’s the original PUA. Who gets loads. And is bald.”
He’s also very rich, famous and succesful.
LMS bro.
Virgil, you back so soon?
Don’t be. That version of Hawkgirl is made of unalloyed awesome … although she did get to wear the Atheists Don’t Get Religion hat sometimes 🙁
I don’t read the Hawkman comics, so I don’t know about the other versions of Hawkgirl all that much.
“Virgil, you back so soon?”
Sadly not guys, sorry to disappoint.
You know, just because socks come in pairs doesn’t mean sock puppets need to.
Go away, troll.
Does that comment make sense? I mean, as anything besides Virgil trying to cover up his Virgil-ness.
…this blog really does induce a justifiable level of paranoia…
It makes sense to me, but like you said, they all start to blend together after a while.
Omg I could squee so hard about hawkgirl but it would be a derail. But the only versions I’ve seen of her is Shayera Hol (she was in the Justice League tv show) and Kendra Saunders and Carter Hall as Hawkman and Hawkgirl together in the comics. I … hehe. Well I could squee forever but I think I’ll just stop fangirling before I take over the thread.
I can’t make my mind up which is sadder, a bunch of guys moaning online why they can’t get lucky with women, or the pathetic loser who monitors their site so he can bring back tidbits for his own pathetic little circlejerk of a website in an effort to mock them.
No wonder this website is becoming irrelevant and losing traffic, it’s become home to a bunch of bullies.