The regulars at PUAhate.com – we’ve met them before — are a strange and bitter bunch. Most seem to be self-loathing so-called “incels” who blame their lack of romantic and sexual success on their average or below-average looks. Rejecting the basic premise of the pickup artist crowd – that average guys can transform themselves into suave lotharios by mastering manipulative pickup formulas – the PUAhate regulars tend to be true believers in what they somewhat pretentiously call “looks theory,” the odd and obviously untrue notion that women only date men with “male model” looks.
As one PUAhater put it recently:
PUA makes you think that all your problems are because of your personality/behaviour – i.e. things you can control. So when you keep failing, it means that YOU are fucking up and doing things wrong
the reality is that many of us just lost the genetic lottery. we are ugly, the wrong race, the wrong height etc, and that fucked us up. there is NOTHING we can do about it
So, naturally, the PUAhaters spend a lot of their time jealous of tall, good-looking men for their supposed monopoly on the women of the world — whom they also hate.
But the strange thing is that the PUAhaters pretty much hate everyone else as well. They get angry when guys they consider ugly score “hot chicks.” They get angry when guys who are good-looking but not male models get attention from “really hot girls.” And so on, and so on, and so on.
Indeed, many of the regulars seem to walk around in a perpetual state of rage, angry at each and every man who’s managed to pair up with a woman, not to mention the women as well.
One regular recently described his “day from hell” to his comrades:
To start the day I saw a couple where it was an average White guy with an OBESE Asian girl. They were walking around acting like they were trying to prove shit. LMAO. I wanted to kick the guy in the fucking nuts for dating that landwhale. If you’re going to use the racial advantage, at least date a girl who is under 300lbs. Later I go to the gym and see the same tall guys I usually do. Even if I had a good face, how the fuck do you compete with guys who are fucking 6’4”?
Then at the gym there’s this good looking White guy there talking to this Asian dude about how Asian girls are easy and how they approach him. To make things worse after that these fucking frat douchebags come in with their girlfriends to show off . Then to cap off the day a girl I used to know from freshman year walks right past me without even saying anything. I used to fucking live next door to this bitch and now she doesn’t even say anything and acts like a pretentious cunt. She’s an Indian girl dating a White dude lmao. Days like today make you wonder why you even still try in the first place.
Of course, as I’ve mentioned before, most of those posting on PUAhate don’t actually seem to be ugly by anyone’s standards but their own, at least judging from the pictures of themselves they sometimes post to the site, which reveal them to be mostly average-looking guys, with some of the regulars even quite conventionally handsome.
But evidently they would rather believe that they have “lost the genetic lottery” rather than face a more obvious explanation for why the girls don’t like them: because they’re shallow, self-obsessed assholes who hate themselves and hate women and radiate their bitterness from every pore. (And some are even creepier than this, like this pedophile – sorry, ephebophile – who’s angry at me personally because unlike him I don’t chase after 15-year-olds. Link NSFW.)
The PUAhaters often talk about getting surgeries to “correct” their supposed genetic flaws. They would do far better to spend that money on therapy.
Aw, Jeffiepoo, you’re letting us down. Those last two are weak. You can do better than that.
For someone who wants to take others to task for not picking up on nuance and context, you seem remarkably obtuse about the difference between people being actually vexed and people winding you up.
You faceplanted, dude. Go ahead and try to deflect to David, but it was all you.
That’s fine. I don’t care.
Geez. Whatever. Gawd, Mom! *sulks in room, hates women*
You’ve been out-trolled by an angry kid with a sticky capslock key. That’s just sad.
In other news, it’s spring though this guy doesn’t seem to be feeling it
Ah, clumsy kitties! My brain feels all better now. ^^
“To troll a feminist site using misogynistic language is, in fact, misogynistic.”
You’re mistaking opinion with fact again. Whether anything outside of empirically proven scientific truths can be a fact is also a matter of opinion. Words like “feminist”, “misogynist” are subjective and both can be openly used as pejoratives, depending on somebody’s point of view.
There are multiple factors to consider. Who defines what makes a site feminist? Can that be factually proven, or is it just a matter of opinion? Different people have different points of view. Who are you to define their point of view for them? Who are you to define the points of view of all feminists, or all trolls, or all misogynists? How are you to know the true beliefs and motivations of misogynists, feminists or trolls?
Please give detailed responses.
Jeffiepoo, oh where are you?!?! It’s just our teeny tiny little pond, but you couldn’t handle it, huh?
Too obvious, dude. Subtlety is needed for truly effective trolling.
Please kiss my ass, lackwit.
No. 🙂
Which module is this for, and what percentage of my overall grade?
“Please kiss my ass, lackwit.”
I love you even if you are full of hate.
You keep using those words, but they do not mean what you would like them to mean. Go get an actual dictionary, instead of listening to the voices in your head.
LOL!
Nice try with the irrelevant relativism, though.
Folks, I think I see what the problem is here. See, Looks lives in a nightclub and therefore can’t understand that there are plenty of people (ugly* people even!) who meet and date and fuck and sometimes pair up for long periods of time all without trying to pick someone up at a nightclub.
*and yes, attractiveness is subjective. Half the dudes you listed as someone I supposedly long register at about a “meh” for me and the other half actually are not good looking to my eyes at all. But clearly I’m either a lying hypergamous bitch or an anomaly (or both!) because SCIENCE. Does anyone else get the feeling that perhaps Looks is in High School where science is “Science” because it’s the name of a class?
*long FOR. That’s meant to be “Half the dudes you listed as someone I supposedly long for” Blah. I think there’s a word-thieving monster afoot too.
“Wah! Stop oppressing me with your ebil feminizt definitions!”
“You keep using those words, but they do not mean what you would like them to mean. ”
Yes, because they’re subjective. You’re learning.
Did someone leave a window open?
I am so zen that I managed to get my answer in before his reply.
No, Jeffiepoo. There is an established meaning for those terms and their attendant movements. No amount of petulance and tantrums on your part can change that.
Flip the tape. We’ve heard this side before and it’s boring.
Random thing I learned on PUAhate – some of the PUA guys are using EST/Werner Erhard stuff? Damn. That shit will fuck you up.
HAHAHAHAHA, or, so you can understand it, LOL.
You’re not worthy of hate.You’re the equivalent of sand in one’s asscrack. Easily dealt with.
“No, Jeffiepoo. There is an established meaning for those terms and their attendant movements. No amount of petulance and tantrums on your part can change that.”
Is misogyny a movement now? Oh geez.
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Aw, Ross is trying to run with the big dogs.
Rossiepoo, does it burn your biscuits that us feminists and “manginas” are smarter, faster, and better than you?
“Laugh university clippers nursery suicide mobile phone aquarium hanger.”
A list of all the things you’ve tried and failed at!