The regulars at PUAhate.com – we’ve met them before — are a strange and bitter bunch. Most seem to be self-loathing so-called “incels” who blame their lack of romantic and sexual success on their average or below-average looks. Rejecting the basic premise of the pickup artist crowd – that average guys can transform themselves into suave lotharios by mastering manipulative pickup formulas – the PUAhate regulars tend to be true believers in what they somewhat pretentiously call “looks theory,” the odd and obviously untrue notion that women only date men with “male model” looks.
As one PUAhater put it recently:
PUA makes you think that all your problems are because of your personality/behaviour – i.e. things you can control. So when you keep failing, it means that YOU are fucking up and doing things wrong
the reality is that many of us just lost the genetic lottery. we are ugly, the wrong race, the wrong height etc, and that fucked us up. there is NOTHING we can do about it
So, naturally, the PUAhaters spend a lot of their time jealous of tall, good-looking men for their supposed monopoly on the women of the world — whom they also hate.
But the strange thing is that the PUAhaters pretty much hate everyone else as well. They get angry when guys they consider ugly score “hot chicks.” They get angry when guys who are good-looking but not male models get attention from “really hot girls.” And so on, and so on, and so on.
Indeed, many of the regulars seem to walk around in a perpetual state of rage, angry at each and every man who’s managed to pair up with a woman, not to mention the women as well.
One regular recently described his “day from hell” to his comrades:
To start the day I saw a couple where it was an average White guy with an OBESE Asian girl. They were walking around acting like they were trying to prove shit. LMAO. I wanted to kick the guy in the fucking nuts for dating that landwhale. If you’re going to use the racial advantage, at least date a girl who is under 300lbs. Later I go to the gym and see the same tall guys I usually do. Even if I had a good face, how the fuck do you compete with guys who are fucking 6’4”?
Then at the gym there’s this good looking White guy there talking to this Asian dude about how Asian girls are easy and how they approach him. To make things worse after that these fucking frat douchebags come in with their girlfriends to show off . Then to cap off the day a girl I used to know from freshman year walks right past me without even saying anything. I used to fucking live next door to this bitch and now she doesn’t even say anything and acts like a pretentious cunt. She’s an Indian girl dating a White dude lmao. Days like today make you wonder why you even still try in the first place.
Of course, as I’ve mentioned before, most of those posting on PUAhate don’t actually seem to be ugly by anyone’s standards but their own, at least judging from the pictures of themselves they sometimes post to the site, which reveal them to be mostly average-looking guys, with some of the regulars even quite conventionally handsome.
But evidently they would rather believe that they have “lost the genetic lottery” rather than face a more obvious explanation for why the girls don’t like them: because they’re shallow, self-obsessed assholes who hate themselves and hate women and radiate their bitterness from every pore. (And some are even creepier than this, like this pedophile – sorry, ephebophile – who’s angry at me personally because unlike him I don’t chase after 15-year-olds. Link NSFW.)
The PUAhaters often talk about getting surgeries to “correct” their supposed genetic flaws. They would do far better to spend that money on therapy.
No. It’s not. If it were the human race would’ve become extinct long ago.
Next question?
Physiognomy? You take that bullshit seriously? That’s the “science” that started with the premise that African Americans were dumber than whites and therefore everyone who had slightly Af-Am features must have lower intelligence, too.
And even if Darwin explored it, which is news to me, he wasn’t perfect, either, and I note that you don’t state what he concluded about it.
Aw Jesus, you know, you really make it hard for non-asshole atheists out here.
I like my cobbler kind of bitter, as befits an evil feminist. Or at least sour. Raspberry is always nice.
@kiki: Nice one!
I dont want attention Im here to defend Puahate as I see strawmens and misrepresentations all over the article.
you must understand the point of view of some puahaters.
Nobody is going out there hating on everyone. Spitting in peoples faces, wearing T-shirts that say “Fuck women, Fuck those bitchcunts”.
Certain males go out, they are rejected due to not reaching the threshold of looks that some women have set and desire in a prospective partner. Women do the rejecting because they hold all sexual power and can therefre select based on what ever preferences they want, preferences being good looks which are indicators of good genetics.
Its that simple. Its not an exaplanation for ALL cases, as there are anomalies and exceptions.
I do love the fact that these guys think “hot people find it easier to get laid than people who are less hot” is some sort of fascinating new theory that the rest of the world just isn’t brave enough to engage with.
Hah, I don’t hate women , I just don’t delude myself by idealizing them like the manginas do. And all those happy couples are only like that because they’re still in the honeymoon stage, but once it’s gone, inevitable 180-degree reversal! Love of the romantic variety is just a desperate delusion anyway and what we call “true love” are individuals who were lucky enough to find someone else with a mutually compatible delusion that could effectively sustain a mutually reinforcing collective hysteria.
I notice that list omits Tommy Lee Jones, Chris Rock, Charles Bronson, Ray Winstone, Samuel L Jackson, Daniel Day Lewis, Matt Smith, Benedict Cumberbatch and a couple of dozen others with faces better described as characterful rather than cosmetically attractive. None of them “male model” material. Might I also add that I find Patterson and Depp not. at. all. physically attractive, I don’t know them so I can’t say whether I’d find them appealing in person.
There’s more to attractiveness or charisma of a person than a physical appearance that attracts attention generally.
Looks_Law is like a textbook example of what’s going on over at puahate, ya’all. Seriously. Now here’s somebody who is demonstrably stupid; he doesn’t understand science, history, or culture. He’s angry, self-pitying, hypocritical and understands almost nothing about about sex and sexual chemistry and interaction.
But he’s decided to come here and lecture us about the “truth”.
It naturally follows that he’s unsuccessful with women because he’s not a wealthy male model.
My current guy is too tall and lanky, embarrassingly skinny no matter how much he eats, has really bad skin due to a terrible acne problem in his teens, and has a medical condition that causes him to sweat anytime an air conditioner isn’t blasted at him. There is nothing about him that is “conventionally attractive.” I’m with him because he’s smart, and funny, and adorably sweet. He’s kind, not in the “meets minimum standards way” but in going out of his way to help everyone. He wooed me by asking my thoughts on a political situation, and followed up with some really insightful commentary of his own. I slept with him on the first date because he talked about the books he enjoys and why he enjoys them.
These guys never get it. You can be “ugly” on the outside, and the most handsome man I ever met. You can be drop dead gorgeous, and the most hideous man I ever met. Its not about your looks, its about your words and actions.
Survey says… BULLSHIT!!!
Maybe I should clarify that the physiognomists postulated that Africans were dumber than Europeans, because their racism was bigger than just dissing on slaves. Sorry.
I wonder if this little dose of attention will hold him over for a few months.
Tommy Lee Jones, Chris Rock, Charles Bronson, Ray Winstone, Samuel L Jackson, Daniel Day Lewis, Matt Smith, Benedict Cumberbatch
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because all these guys are male leads in popcorn flicks watched by the masses right? RIGHT?
And we’re here to mock misogyny. Nobody cares about puahate except that it provides a lot of examples of misogyny that are worthy of mockery.
If you and the rest of your echo chamer want to spend time with each other online convincing yourselves that you’ll never ever be in a relationship because of the LMS theory you’ve invented, you go right ahead. Have fun.
We’re going to mock you.
Everybody wins.
Three words: Steubenville. Assange. Clinton.
Q E muthafuckin’ D.
Movies are not the only media, dipshit.
My other how could you leave him off the list what’s wrong with you guy. And he’s tall too! Though I guess the new cutoff has been moved to 6 ft so maybe he’s an inch or two too short.
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Looks_Law is like a textbook example of what’s going on over at puahate, ya’all. Seriously. Now here’s somebody who is demonstrably stupid; he doesn’t understand science, history, or culture. He’s angry, self-pitying, hypocritical and understands almost nothing about about sex and sexual chemistry and interaction.
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Teach me then dear wizard?
You tell me How humans? ( Mammals in the animal kingdom select mates according to SCIENCE)?
Hey Looks? Can you hear my derisive laughter over there?
Seriously dude, I have no idea what you look like, but if this is how you really think, what makes you think that your thoughts aren’t a pervasive stench to every woman you meet?
Imma just keep poking this troll, seeing as the rage and straw women he keeps throwing about makes it impossible to have a convo with him.
I give it a week.
Speaking of wizards, don’t people find the kid from Harry Potter kind of cute now that he’s an adult? He’s pretty tiny too.
(Too young for me.)
Admitting your ignorance is a good first step.
All kidding aside, I’m not interested in explaining anything to you. I just want to mock you. Not because you’re unsuccessful with women. It’s natural for humans to want to be in sexual and/or romantic relationships and everyone gets frustrated. That’s perfectly understandable.
It’s the “LMS!! Hypergamy!!! Sex is only about money and physical attraction!!! Bitches ain’t shit!!!!!!11!!1!!” stuff that I find so funny.
And I’m going to keep mocking it.
Also, what is up with the cheekbones obsession?
Yeah, Cassandra, Matthew Lewis really won at puberty.
I like cheekbones…omg, I’m the strawwoman! Again, sorry for letting the side down.