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Man Boobz Contest: Find the Whiniest, Most Entitled Response to Anita Sarkeesian

From "Damsel in Distress: Part 1 - Tropes vs Women in Video Games."
From “Damsel in Distress: Part 1 – Tropes vs Women in Video Games.”

So Anita Sarkeesian, who apparently didn’t run off with all her Kickstarter money to found a Misandist Gynarchy in the wilds of Canada, has  released the first video in her Tropes vs Women in Video Games project. (I’ve embedded it below.)

Naturally, this is causing great consternation in certain corners of the Internet (*cough* Reddit *cough cough* everywhere else that misogynistic nerds congregate *cough*). In the Man Boobz forum, Katz has started a contest to see who can find “the whiniest, brattiest, most entitled response” to Sarkeesian’s video on the Internet. So far Katz and Myoo have found a couple classic comments from irate Sarkeeianaphobes:

[H]ow does one go about stating that genders and gender roles are social constructs? I mean is evolution nothing to her? Does the patriarchy make male peacocks dress provocatively?

Yes. Yes it does.

And:

I’m gradually losing respect for the opposite sex. I’ve unfollowed people on tumblr who talk about how great she is, because it actually causes bile to rise in to my throat.

Yeah, that’s a totally reasonable response to a woman making a video about video games.

So anyway, I’m thinking we should bring the contest over here.

See what you can find! Consider it a sort of scavenger hunt.

Here’s my contribution, from the Men’s Rights subreddit, complaining that Damsels in Distress are the truly privileged ones:

mrsarkees

Amazingly, this acutally got called out on r/mr as being pretty damn stupid.

Also, I have another question, to add to the stack of other questions I’ve been asking lately: Just why do you think so many guys get so angry when girls and women invade what they consider a male sphere, like gaming? (Also, why do they consider gaming to belong to boys and men?)

Oh, and here’s the video that’s causing all this hubbub:

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The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
11 years ago

Some Gal, I totally misread that as “Womanhood Places” and thought “Ewww, I don’t want to store bonbons there.”

Myoo
Myoo
11 years ago

It is indeed correct to say that these damsel in distress don’t exist in a vacuum like she mentions in her vid. We, however, didn’t create it at random and forcefed the population.(she didn’t say this explicitly, but that is her case in a nutshell). No, it’s an extension of our evolutionary past. The reason why these images are so prevalent is because we recognise ourselves in it. It makes sense to save a women, but not the other way around. (otherwise, the man will come off as a pussy and the girl a bit manly which isn’t attractive at all).[…]

From one guy on the comments thread at Pharyngula. He goes on for a while, this is just from his first comment.

Michael Søndberg Olsen

Blitzgal, yeah… He’s not too bright on concepts such as shape, color, time or logic. Expecting him to know what freedom of speech is… eh.

katz
11 years ago

I think my favorite are the ones that are whining about how much money she made and how the video totally isn’t worth it. Other people paid more than I would have for a product I didn’t want! Waaaah!

Marie
Marie
11 years ago

Some Gal, I totally misread that as “Womanhood Places” and thought “Ewww, I don’t want to store bonbons there.”

sooo glad I finished my drinking when I read that. *immature giggles*

aworldanonymous
11 years ago

[blockquote]Choking on self-imposed forever-alone virginity… Huh. More power to ya.[/blockquote]

Could we please not virgin shame, I understand the temptation to pull ad hominem attacks on MRAs, gods, I’ve wanted to do it myself from time to time, but if we succumb, we only end up bringing ourselves down to their level.

In other news, here’s TJ The Amazing MRAtheist being his entitled, misogynist-in-denial, self: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NfkS9YS_T0k

aworldanonymous
11 years ago

I also fail at blockquotes lately.

Linds
11 years ago

I understand that some comments will be abusive in nature—probably most will—but so what?

As someone on Tumblr said, this is “men.txt”. Or at least “cismen.txt”. The obliviousness of how grinding and awful constant death and rape threats can be is something that can only be seen in men who have never had to deal with people constantly discussing seriously hurting you in a sexualized manner.

Michael Søndberg Olsen

Virgin shame? It’s no shame to be a virgin, except if you’re an absolute asshole who repel any advance. Which was the point. Not that I don’t get yours.

aworldanonymous
11 years ago

Fair enough, I guess I’ve been spending a bit too much time around youtube and facebook flame wars, It’s kind of become a force of habit.

Some Gal Not Bored at All

@The Kittehs’

That reminds me if a bit in Coupling where Patrick mishears “Why don’t men like snuggling?” As “Why don’t men like smuggling?” and includes in his answer that men have fewer “concealment crevices.”

/Moffat fan

Other than that, all I can think about is yeast infections which are not very funny.

Michael Søndberg Olsen

“Fair enough, I guess I’ve been spending a bit too much time around youtube and facebook flame wars, It’s kind of become a force of habit.”
You delve into Youtube comments? WHY? Protect your sanity!

kamilla1960
kamilla1960
11 years ago

Deoridhe
Deoridhe
11 years ago

I love that the people who say, “She trolled for offensive comments so she could have the moneeeeeez” are most likely the ones complaining now about her disabling comments.

Michael Søndberg Olsen

“Other than that, all I can think about is yeast infections which are not very funny.”

Never worked in a bakery, eh?

aworldanonymous
11 years ago

“Fair enough, I guess I’ve been spending a bit too much time around youtube and facebook flame wars, It’s kind of become a force of habit.”
You delve into Youtube comments? WHY? Protect your sanity!

Sometimes I get bored and like to drink tears of impotent MRA rage.

Kim
Kim
11 years ago

@Michael

Even if you mean well, your comment was still hurtful. It is virgin-shaming and that’s not on.

joanimal
joanimal
11 years ago

So Anita Sarkeesian, who apparently didn’t run off with all her Kickstarter money to found a Misandist Gynarchy in the wilds of Canada

I cannot put into words the disappointment I feel. I was going to sell all my worldly goods and move there,

Michael Søndberg Olsen

Kim, I wasn’t shaming him for being a virgin. There’d be no point, and yes it would be wrong.I was mocking him for his idea that women somehow prolong his virginity by refusing to sleep with him.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

I don’t know where Michael has come from with his dubious jokes, but I wish he’d go back there.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

I was mocking him for his idea that women somehow prolong his virginity by refusing to sleep with him.

Who’s idea? That seems to be something you’ve inferred. Either way, not on.

Some Gal Not Bored at All

This one certainly isn’t the whiniest, but I did find it amusing that they have never heard a feminist complaint about any of the misogyny in pop or general or high culture. Nope, their first exposure was Sarkeesian and videogames.

As for the video, aside from the research being done at the level of a grade student I just have a big question named “So what?”. What exactly is it supposed to prove, and what is so wrong or damaging about these “tropes”. As rightfully noted they are a plot devices from times before Anno Domini and they are legitimately used in movies, TV series, books and just about every other medium out there over centuries. What exactly is wrong with games doing that too and since when are game designers and developers supposed to abide by the feminist inquisition in every decision they make regarding a game?

All of society is misogynistic and caters to me. Why can’t games do it too? 🙁

defskyoen at Forbes.
Other than that, defskyoen basically says all the same things about Sarkeesian *gasp* seeking attention for her project, implies that she asked for the threats (shocker) and that she then made money because of them *gasp*.

I just find the lack of awareness of anything that has been happening in feminism (or, for that matter, academia and elementary/secondary education) for at least fifty years oddly charming. Like Brendan Fraser in Blast from the Past, but with hatred.

Michael Søndberg Olsen

hellkell, I agree. Sorry. That was inferred.

Marie
Marie
11 years ago

@some gal

not the whiniest, but definitely facepalm worthy.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
11 years ago

I didn’t read Michael’s joke as virgin-shaming – and I am virgin, too, by any physical standards. I read it as creepy MRA shaming: the why of guys like this being alone, not the fact of it. Which might be splitting hairs, I dunno.

Some Gal: “That reminds me if a bit in Coupling where Patrick mishears “Why don’t men like snuggling?” As “Why don’t men like smuggling?” and includes in his answer that men have fewer “concealment crevices.”

LOL! And now I’m thinking of smuggling as in Devon and Cornwall and West Country accents. Arrr!