PUAHAte.com is an … interesting place. A site for debunking the ridiculous claims and shitty behavior of Pickup Artists? Sounds great – at least until you realize that the denizens are mostly dudes who hate PUAs for all the wrong reasons. That is, they hate PUAs not so much for being manipulative scumbags but for being ineffective manipulative scumbags — whose alleged magic formulas for bedding the hot babes don’t really work.
The other day I was introduced to a fledgling Twitter account, @puahate_txt, which reposts hilariously awful comments from PUAhate.com. This inspired me to take another look at the site and do a little poking around for awful quotes on my own. They weren’t hard to find. (It’s harder, really, to find comments that aren’t awful.)
Here’s one charming fellow, who calls himself ToadLookingMaggot, and who holds a grudge against the entire female gender because of a $3 loan gone awry.
After reading ” The manipulated man ” i saw women really for what they where, little selfish Moneysucking vampire Whores.
This rinsing stuff starts in high school if not earlier they try to leech money, food, free rides and basically anything that benefits them in some kind of form. I borrowed a female 3 dollars for meal a meal one time, for months she said that she was going to let me have it and in the end i never got them back.
It doesn’t matter if it’s 2 dollars or 2.000 dollars there freaks never pay you back. Only idiots buy drinks for women.
Men are ruining women because they let them get away with anything. Never in my life will i ever spend money on women unless we pay 5050 on a date.
Uh, obvious question here, but if you hate women, and think that they’re all “Moneysucking vampire Whores,” WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO DATE THEM? I’m pretty sure that you’re not going to find many interested in you either, at least not after they get a whiff of your personality.
And that’s your PERSONALITY, not your looks. PUAhaters seem obsessed with the notion that women only date male models, and spend a lot of time bemoaning their own looks – I just quoted a guy who describes himself as a ToadLookingMaggot, after all. Yet whenever they post pictures of themselves they seem to be completely normal, average, not-actually-bad-looking-at-all guys. Guys, your problem isn’t your lack of beauty on the outside. What’s ugly is your attitudes.
Speaking of which, here’s RomanCitizen, a self-described Incel, lamenting that life is sad to all but the “top 10%” of men? Why? Because ladies walk around looking all pretty, yet for some reason they do not allow RomanCitizen to fuck them.
The life of man is a sad one
Excluding the top 10%.
Born into a world of plenty, of abundance, of denial.
See, smell, imagine.
Do not taste, touch, feel.
Like a caged animal in a harem, fed only occasionally fish heads (scraps in the game).
And when the caged animal gets the fish head (scrap), he is happy and rationalizes his pitiful existence, like many men …
But, the cage is still a cage. A fish head – still a fish head.
PROTIP: If you think of the women you don’t find sufficiently desirable as “fish heads,” and walk around in a perpetual boner-rage, you’re probably not going to seem especially charming to the women you do find desirable. Or to anyone else except perhaps the denizens of PUAHate.com. And not all of them, either.
Nikki (if you’re also Womenbuttz, going by that PS?) – drop David a line with the info; you can contact him by clicking on the pic of his head.
Arg, mix.
NaNNaNNaNNaNNaNNaNNaNNaNNaNNaNNaNNaNNaNNaNNaNNaN Batman!
I watched that video 4 or 5 times. Thanks NightShadeQueen!
I like your new gravatar, leftwingfox! 😀
Thanks! 😀
Wow, you’ve all been busy the last few days! I had to be busy with other things and I’m just catching up.
But I wanted to say, in reference to the original post, that ToadLookingMaggot and Roman Citizen, by their own self-descriptions, make me visualize them as this:
Somehow, I think even Gollum would manage to blame his inability to get a date on the fact that he was a wizened, homicidal creature suffering from some form of dissociative identity disorder and an addiction to a malevolent magical artifact, not to mention years, perhaps centuries, spent eating fish and goblins in a cave; rather than blaming all the hobbit ladies he never even went out and met for being unwilling to fuck an unemployed former hobbit.
I wonder if Andy Serkis ever complains that women are only interested in him because he played a wizened, homicidal creature with DID and an addiction problem in several very popular films…
Don’t have time to read the comments here but I saw the article and puahate.txt twitter feed. I put two and two together and realized someone here set the twitter up. So I set up an email to tell you the twitter is really funny!
I am two..thr..;;ee.,..oh, the woman member of puahate. I had to leave due to death threats. I shouldn’t be posting here. If you look in the archives for my username (remove the punctuation) you will see my many posts. No way to prove I’m real, That’s the way of the internet.
Hey, Jones, welcome. Sorry to hear that these assholes were harassing you.
The puahate.txt twitter is great, but it wasn’t set up by anyone here (that is, by me or any of the regular commenters).
Thank you, yes, sorry I misread the article.
I was a mod at one time. You can tell from this thread that your coverage and the twitter account have really upset them. Everyone responding in the thread is a mod, a former mod, the Admin, or a protege of the Admin, i.e. a troubled young man taken in under the Admin’s wing.
http://puahate.com/showthread.php?t=62251
Anyway, it’s great what you all do here.
If your standards for “attractive woman” come through the models you see on the covers of magazines at your local drugstore’s/convenience store’s magazine shelf, then it’s easy to see women who don’t match up as “fish heads,” and still crave them. Male sex drive usually doesn’t turn off during a period of deprivation; on the contrary, as the posters you’re mocking will attest to, it only gets worse. If you’re starving, “any crumb seems like gourmet cuisine.”
As for attitudes, it’s difficult for them to find out what’s a positive attitude to attract women especially since they once took the snake oil offered by the PUA industry. Who would they turn to ask? Most women don’t want to explain to men they don’t find attractive just what they find unattractive about them, for instance. Perhaps the “ToadLookingMaggot” (maybe he meant “Maggot-EatenToad”?) felt that women get so many free passes (such as opened doors, free drinks at bars, etc.) from men that he feels he isn’t going to do it anymore without reciprocation.
And maybe a poem like this would be better for encapsulating what they’re feeling?
There’s love enough for he
love enough for she
love enough for you
But no love for me.
The occasional free drink I never asked for…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=axPe_p0OLcY
A thread necromancer? Who’da thunk?
It’s weird that the people on that website reject PUAs, but the only thing they reject about their worldview is that it doesn’t work to get them laid. The dehumanizing of women, the simplistic reduction of social skills, the fantasy that women are all constantly trolling for one night stands and have no emotional side to even satisfy—that’s all true of course.
Worse/Funnier is that they blame their looks for their lack of success with women, as if the smell of anger, insecurity, and hate wasn’t more than enough to scare away anybody. But most of them don’t have the awareness to even know that people give off vibes or make a social impression, because they don’t have the social instinct themselves to know this.
The irony of course is that these PUA hate guys are more misogynistic and hate filled towards women than the “real” PUAs, some guys that get into gaming women learn things about women and more importantly themselves and come out with a better world view than they had before. These PUAhate mothafvckers just sit around in a puddle of thier own tears and semen, bitching about how “women only want kids to fulfil their narcissistic desires” at least the genuine PUAs are doing “something” about their unforfilling predicament, instead of just moaning.