A veritable anthem for average looking guys with nothing particularly interesting about them who are pissed off they can’t date women much more conventionally attractive than they are.
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@Bagelsan
Don’t be silly, women don’t have brains.
Also, on the people get to have preferences argument, if all the women of LA happened to have preferences that excluded dudes like our whiny wannabe rapper, so what? After all, people are allowed to have preferences…
@NNY
If he’s frustrated, then that’s fine. But the frustration is his own fault. He should be frustrated with himself, not with the women who have standards. They are doing nothing wrong.
And he doesn’t have to settle, but he also doesn’t have to blame the women he ostensibly thinks quite highly of.
“Why should someone lower their standards because a group of people don’t or can’t meet that standard?”
And yet that’s what the whining men we’re talking about expect women to do all the time. The men aren’t expected to be hot, or interesting, or even moderately intelligent – but they think they’re entitled to sex with supermodels.
Anyone getting a whiff of socks here?
(Notes that the answer to my earlier question is both petulant and suffering from poor reading comprehension in this case, with a side order of disingenuous.)
@ Some Gal
Actually it’s simpler than that. He’s allowed to have preferences, but by the same logic so are other people, so it’s hypocritical for him to complain about the fact that some women’s preferences exclude him.
Don’t be silly, women don’t have brains.
Okay, then I love him for his brain and he loves me for my mindless husk. 😀
You’re attracted to whoever you’re attracted to. The problem is feeling entitled to someone’s time and attention when they aren’t interested in you.
I get it now. He is going to tell you what you think so he can tell you how wrong you are to think it. Criminy!
@CassandraSays
It is hypocritical, but it is also projecting. The reason he can’t get the women he wants is his own unrealistic expectations. He is totally allowed to have those, but if those standards become a problem, if he gets frustrated, the place to look is to himself and not to the women.
NNY basically acknowledged that with the guy in Nebraska example. However, all of it is really beside the point because what NNY really seems to want is to defend a guy’s right to be hypocritical and to whine without us criticizing him or laughing at him.
I don’t see it as entitled to sex with supermodels. More like wishful thinking/hoping.
Oh and cloudiah, I haven’t searched Youtube for the videos you demanded. However there are a bunch of articles all over the internet from older women complaining that men their age pass them over for younger women. Maybe those women should lower their standards and try and date older men instead. They might just be able to increase the pool of men available for them to date.
See: https://www.google.com/search?q=he+left+me+for+a+younger+woman&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&aq=t&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a&channel=fflb
@NNY- recall that bit where he was standing next to a group of women who were pretty much as conventionally attractive as himself, and acted like it would be some hardship to date them? Yeah, I somehow doubt it’s really a personality flaw in the women of LA that keeps this guy single.
I’d don’t think we even have to go there, honestly, especially not when dealing with a disingenuous troll. Want the right to have standards about who you’ll date? That’s fine, but you have to accept that other people have the same right too. Turns out that means that the people who you want to date mostly don’t want to date you? Too bad, sucks to be you, etc.
The stench of sock is increasing.
David, do you happen to have some IP checking Febreze handy?
This is why I keep coming back to this site. The only time it actually gets funny is when you guys start behaving like typical feminist, especially kitten boy himself. It’s hilarious. LOL 🙂
@NNY
An awful lot of what you find on your particular search is assholes who cheated. Also, a lot of women just looking for advice. After skimming the first page, I didn’t really see much complaining. I did see this:
It is really hard to marry a guy who ages faster than you do, so your advice doesn’t really apply to the search results.
Some Gal Not Bored at All,
I just see it as a difference of opinion. Most people here see it as “whining”. I see it as “corny”. I just find it amusing that the majority of the commenters here see this in such a negative light where others would see the video in a more neutral light.
I am also curious as to the hostility towards him actually making a video regarding his frustration. It seems that the commenters here agree that he has the right to be frustrated, but god forbid he express that frustration on youtube or even criticize someone other than himself.
And for the record, I do agree that he should have worked on himself first. He should have went to the gym, got contacts, maybe a new hairstyle, not wear crappy clothes, etc… prior to making this video. But he didn’t, so I just see the video as corny. Hell, if it becomes popular enough, it might actually catapult him socially to where he can date a supermodel. Weirder shit has happened in this wacky world.
“He should have went to the gym, got contacts, maybe a new hairstyle, not wear crappy clothes, etc… ”
Or just not be a douchebag. Yeesh! Shallow much?
thebewilderness is right. This one smells like a stuffed hamper.
…one used only for socks! *dramatic music*
@NNY
You seem like you haven’t actually been following the discussion. No one here thinks he should be frustrated with the women. His frustration with the women is what the video is about. That is wrong.
Why should he criticize someone other than himself? No one else did anything worthy of criticism.
Joanna, I don’t know any models. So I am not sure what personality traits they have. But everyone can improve themselves on the outside.
It’s funny that you think that this guy’s looks are the real reason why he can’t get laid =P
@ Joanna
Actually, can we not play into that particular trope? His looks would lead me to dismiss him as a potential date right off the bat, and that’s OK. People are allowed to do that. It’s just when you do that and then complain about how unfair it is that others do the same that you’re being unreasonable.
Not everyone in LA are Hollywood types. If you don’t like how shallow Hollywood types are, hang around with other people?