EDIT 6/15/13: Tom Ball’s manifesto is no longer posted on A Voice for Men, though it isn’t clear if this is a website glitch or a change in policy on AVFM’s part; no announcement about taking it down has been made.
EDITED TO ADD: In the wake of the Boston Marathon bombing, it seems even more important to reinterate that influential Men’s Rights website A Voice for Men continues to host, in its “activism” section no less, a terrorist manifesto literally calling for the firebombing of courthouses and police stations. Until and unless that manifesto is removed, and A Voice for Men apologizes for hosting it, I will be linking to this post every time I mention A Voice for Men.
There has been another courthouse shooting. On Monday morning, the father of a man due in court for a child support hearing pulled out a semiautomatic handgun and shot his son’s ex wife and a friend of hers as they entered the lobby of the New Castle County Courthouse in Wilmington Delaware. After an exchange of gunfire with police that left two officers wounded, 68-year old Thomas Matusiewicz took his own life. The two women Matusiewcz shot were pronounced dead on arrival at a local hospital.
His son, David Matusiewcz, had earlier served time – an astonishingly short amount of time – for kidnapping his three girls and hiding out with them in Nicaragua for a year and a half. More details on the case here, here, and here; further news coverage here.
Unfortunately, despite increased security, violence in and around courthouses has been on the increase. There have been numerous courthouse shootings and other violent attacks across the country in recent months, from Texas to New York to Washington state. Sometimes the victims are family members; other times they’re prosecutors or judges.
A recent report published by the National Center for State Courts notes that
We live in a time when threats against judges and acts of violence in courthouses and courtrooms are occurring throughout the country with greater frequency than ever before. … Individuals and groups have committed acts of violence in courthouses, often attempts to murder judicial officials, escape from custody, and disrupt or delay proceedings. Moreover, courthouses, which represent the ideals of democracy in American society, have become symbolic targets for antigovernment extremists and terrorists (domestic and international). …
In addition to shootings, bombings, and arson attacks, there have been knifings, assaults, failed bombing attempts, suicides, bomb plots, murder-for-hire conspiracies, and much more
While shootings tend to get the most media coverage, the report notes that “arson attacks, through the use of improvised incendiary devices, have increased in number and frequency.”
That’s why it’s so worrisome that A Voice for Men, the leading Men’s Rights site outside of Reddit’s Men’s Rights subreddit, continues to host a terrorist manifesto urging Men’s Rights activists to literally burn down courthouses and police stations, even if doing so means that people are killed.
The manifesto, which I have written about several times previously, was written by a troubled man (and an admitted child abuser) named Tom Ball, who burned himself to death on the steps of a courthouse in New Hampshire in hopes that his death would inspire a wave of arson against courthouses and police stations. Dictionary.com defines terrorism as “the use of violence and threats to intimidate or coerce, especially for political purposes.” And that is precisely what Ball’s manifesto advocates.
Here’s some of what he wrote, taken directly from the manifesto posted on AVFM. (I’ve put some of the more egregious passages in bold text.)
So boys, we need to start burning down police stations and courthouses. … the dirty deeds are being carried out by our local police, prosecutors and judges. These are the people we pay good money to protect us and our families. And what do we get for our tax money? Collaborators who are no different than the Vichy of France or the Quislings of Norway during the Second World War. All because they go along to get along. They are an embarrassment, the whole lot of them. And they need to be held accountable. So burn them out. …
You need to flatten them, like Wile E. Coyote. They need to be taught never to replace the rule of law. BURN-THEM-OUT!
Most of the police stations built in New England over the last 20 years are stone or brick. Fortunately, the roofs are still wood. The advantage of fire on the roof is that it is above the sprinklers. But even the sprinklers going off work to our advantage. There is no way they can work in a building with six inches of water. And I am certain we will disrupt their momentum once they start working out of a FEMA
At this point Ball’s manifesto is interrupted mid-sentence by an “editor’s note” from the folks at AVFM:
Several paragraphs in this copy of Mr Ball’s original letter have been omitted. The omitted paragraphs contained detailed instructions on the manufacture and use of simple incendiary devices.
Yes, that’s right; Ball’s original manifesto included specific instructions for constructing effective Molotov cocktails, a pretty clear indication that there was nothing figurative about his calls to “burn them out,” and that Ball literally hoped that his death, and his manifesto, would encourage a wave of arson. Indeed, that it would be the start of a literal war of Men’s Rights Activists against the US government.
Ball made clear that this war, like all wars, would mean death for some people:
There will be some casualties in this war. Some killed, some wounded, some captured. Some of them will be theirs. Some of the casualties will be ours. …
I only managed to get the main door of the Cheshire County Courthouse in Keene, NH. I would appreciate it if some of you boys would finish the job for me. They harmed my children. The place is evil. So take it out.
AVFM doesn’t have this manifesto up as a historical curiousity. AVFM posts and comments have portrayed Ball as an Men’s Rights martyr, and the manifesto is listed in AVFM’s “activism” section. Apparently throwing Molotov cocktails through courthouse windows is a form of “activism.”
Now, the official stance of the AVFM crowd is that they don’t support such violence – that they’re just predicting that more of it will occur.
Site founder Paul Elam has written:
Thomas Ball represents a tragic, dysfunctional reaction to chronic, systemic abuse. There are many possible reactions. Some even worse than his. And while we cannot, must not, condone violence, we had better learn to expect it as long as an ideological war against men is allowed to make a battlefield in our justice system and within the heart of our own families.
Then why, Paul, do you feature his manifesto in your “activism” section, alongside a link to AVFM’s “Judicial Accountability Committee?” Why do you continue to lionize the man and treat him as a martyr?
In another post, Elam further explicated his most peculiar brand of “pacifism.” (Emphasis added.)
I am a pacifist. I do not advocate violence. But I tell you this. The day I see one of these absolutely incredulous excuses for a judge dragged out of his courtroom into the street, beaten mercilessly, doused with gasoline and set afire by a father who just won’t take another moment of injustice, I will be the first to put on the pages of this website that what happened was a minor tragedy that pales by far in comparison to the systematic brutality and thuggery inflicted daily on American fathers by those courts and their police henchmen.
It would not even so much be a tragedy as the chickens coming home to roost. And it is certainly less of an indecency than the suicide of Tom Ball.
This is from a man who evidently considers himself some kind of 21st century Gandhi.
AVFM is not the only Men’s Rights site to lionize Ball; he’s been hailed by numerous MRAs, and his manifesto (in its entirely, including the Molotov cocktail portions) has been reposted all over the internet. Indeed, some MRAS have constructed an elaborate site memorializing him and his alleged heroism. A year after his death, Men’s Rights activists organized a “memorial” protest. He’s even been remembered in song.
Helen “Dr. Helen” Smith, a Men’s Rights advocate and sometime writer for the right wing PJMedia site, said this about his manifesto. (Emphasis added.)
His statement is not the ramblings of a madman, it is the mission of a warrior in some sense. He was fighting for his rights and for yours, if you are male. He was trying to bring some urgency to the male plight in this country, one that no one appreciates or cares about until they are engaged in the battle of the courts.
You can find more discussion and lionization of Ball by MRAs, Fathers’ Rights Activists and others here, here, here, here, here and here. A few minutes with Google will turn up numerous other examples.
Why do I continue to hammer on about Ball’s manifesto? Because so many in the Men’s Rights movement are motivated primarily by anger and hatred — of women, of feminists, and of those, like judges and police officers) that they see as feminist “quislings.” Because so many in the Men’s Rights movement – like the prolific writers and videomakers associated with AVFM – stoke this anger and hatred every chance they get.
It seems almost inevitable that at some point some especially angry and unbalanced Men’s Rights Activist will resort to violence – as MRAs like Elam have “predicted” again and again. (Indeed, we’re probably lucky that Ball did not choose to “take out” others before taking his own life.) This violence may well be directed against a judge or prosecutor or some other official seen as a feminist or feminist “collaborator.” When and if this violence occurs, no doubt the folks at AVFM will officially “lament” it – and then come up with elaborate explanations as to why it’s all really the fault of feminists. Indeed, in the posts of his I quoted above, Elam has already written what are in essence apologias for this violence, even before it has happened.
If the Men’s Rights movement wants to be seen as anything other than a hate group, MRAs need to stop lionizing the author of a terrorist manifesto, and they need to start criticizing those in their movement who make excuses for the violence that they so often warn us is inevitable.
Aim for 5%!? By living in the gym, meth, or genetic restructuring?!
And good point about GGG’s parents, I’d somehow forgotten about the part where they declined to press charges when he assaulted? them. I could find details but I already did his blog and HugoFuckingSchwyzer’s once each, that’s enough for one day (more like one lifetime!)
Great, now I’m thinking about that college PE requirement that graded me on my BMI.
Not to make the thread about me, but that was some shaming shit right there.
Yes, yes it was. Closest I ever had was a pass/fail course that measured periodically in relation to your previous measurement, not some generic baseline >.<
grades on BMI… Bullshit. I can slack off the entire term and be at the same point I started. If I worked out (like mad) I could increase it. There isn’t anything healthy I can do to decrease it.
@Jessay
I am really sorry for what you and your family and your brother’s girlfried are going through, but I am really uncomfortable with this:
There is a world of difference between not wanting a potential baby carried to term and loving the eventual baby. Just as a woman can want an abortion, either change her mind or be unable to get one, and be a wonderful loving mother, I believe that a woman can think that abortion is the best option for someone else (although she should never be as pushy and controlling as the girlfriend’s mother was/is), but still end up being a loving grandmother. There are plenty of signs that the grandmother is a horrible person including how she approached the issued of abortion, but merely having believed that abortion was the best option is NOT one if them.
(My comment also applies to everyone who is not a woman as well, but I wanted to address the grandmother issue directly so I talked specifically about women.)
The “women secretly date men for looks!” thing is so laughable for another reason – the looks aren’t what the MRAs think they are. They seem to think there’s one cast-iron rule for what’s beautiful or handsome; that only those narrow limits can be considered attractive; and that everyone follows those rules (except their noble selves, of course). Thing is, handsome =/= attractive, and what any given person might think is good looking or attractive can cover quite a range, as well as being very different from what the next person thinks. Very basic stuff, but the MRAs either can’t or (more probably) refuse to get it. Small example: saw a guy recently who I thought very nice looking. And the first thing that caught my attention? He was overweight; I noticed him simply because he was a big guy. The second thing, what made me think “He’s really nice looking” was that he had beautiful eyes. Would the MRAs believe a woman could look at a fat man and think he’s good-looking? I bet they wouldn’t. Or they’d say we were lying, because they judge everyone’s honesty by their own.
See, I think the former sounds dangerous too. Imagine if he was dating someone who cheated on him.
I’ve been wondering what would happen if an MRA was to win custody- here are a few examples which ran through my head:
MRA’S DAUGHTER: Dad- my boyfriend dumped me…
MRA DAD: Serves you right for getting on the Alpha Male Cock Carousel- maybe you should have turned down the captain of the football team and saved yourself for a Nice Guy instead… and now you’re Damaged Goods you’re not going to find a husband and become a good wifey so you’re no good to me anymore… get the fuck out of my house…
MRA’S DAUGHTER: Dad… I think I might be pregnant…
MRA DAD: Serves you right for being a slut… and no, I won’t pay for an abortion- you have to learn to live with the Consequences. Don’t even think about asking the father for money, you filthy spermjacker- men should have the right to shirk Consequences… in fact, don’t even ask ME for money- I’m stopping your allowance right now, and throwing you out of the house…
MRA’S SON: Dad- I asked a girl to the prom and she said no…
MRA DAD: Son, let me tell you something: rejection is just a powerful tool women use to belittle us men. Who cares if she already has a prom date- this is personal and it’s also an attack on all of mankind, coordinated from Feminism HQ. What you need to do is ask her again, and if she says “no” just drag her back here and force yourself upon her- it’ll be fine, she’s clearly asking for it by being hot and not wearing a sack every day. When she makes the inevitable false rape complaint, don’t worry- I’ll think up an alibi and back you up all the way. In any case we’ll punish this cunt for daring to think she didn’t owe you infinite gratitude for the offer of your boner.
MRA’s offspring (of any gender): I always thought you were an arsehole, Dad. Thanks for confirming it for me.
Just what I’ve always wanted, a non-romantic transaction to determine who I will spend the rest of my life with. Sounds dreamy.
And why so much focus on weight? How can an incel seriously be picky about body fat percentages of other people? How exactly are we going to go about creating a world where everyone, even those with genes that cause them to store more fat than others, can get down to his expectation of an ideal %? How about subsidizing HEALTHY FOOD, which is the root of the problem in many cases, that healthy food is too expensive and difficult to acquire for many lower income people who don’t have easy access to supermarkets? And are women going to be paid for their time in the gym? I damn sure don’t have the time to hit the gym daily and work out to the point where I have a super tight body. Most working people don’t. There’s problem number two, living in a society where the minimum wage is so low that people have to work overtime in order to make ends meet, leaving them exhausted and unable to be active on their down time. But like, don’t focus on the societal reasons why so many people are overweight. Just force women, specifically, into gyms and plastic surgery offices to make the women you encounter more pleasing to the eye.
@Argenti yeah, it’s tough but ultimately we’re doing what’s right by the baby which is the most important thing. We have to swallow our pride a lot in not going off on her because we don’t want her to have any ammo to use against us in the event that maybe she’d try to sue for custody or something ridiculous like that. I wouldn’t put it past her. I just feel really bad for the gf. We’re in that position where we know she has an unhealthy relationship with her family that is clear as day but are helpless until she decides to cut them off or stand up to them. I was kinda surprised the hospital discharged her in that storm btw, but I guess they are hurting for money and probably didn’t have the budget to keep her an extra night or something.
@Some Gal, I can understand that coming off as cold, but I didn’t quite express the extent of the pressure. I’m not just talking about trying to convince her to get an abortion (which is not her place to begin with), but threatening her, punishing her, trying to bribe her, and making her clean the cat box (there is a specific illness that pregnant women can pick up from cat feces that will cause miscarriage). This woman wasn’t simply looking out for her daughter’s best interests in wanting her to finish school or something, and is currently not looking out for the baby’s best interest by refusing to help unless it’s done on her terms (the daughter moves back in with her, breaks up with my brother, refuses us rights to see the baby, and is under her complete control). We’re dealing with a very sick individual here. I don’t believe that considering abortion makes you a bad parent/grandparent, and so that came out wrong, but bullying and abusing someone who refuses one, no, just no. I don’t buy the act.
Dave,you’re a lying sack of shit. We are tired of your lies. I throw down the guantlet,bitch. Are you man enough to accept my challenge? If so click here: http://mensrightsboard.blogspot.com/2013/05/an-open-invitation-to-dave-futrelle.html
Mr. Man, what exactly am I supposed to refute? There are indeed some awful women in the world. There are women who are bigots, abusers, and remorseless killers. Neither I nor any feminist who lives in the real world would ever claim otherwise
This is hilarious. HE THROWS DOWN THE GAUNTLET, BITCH. I laughed so hard I nearly peed.
Sorry, “guantlet”– which I think might be mini-guano?
“Throwing (down) guano” isn’t a bad description of what the MRM does actually.
Ironically, guano can be used to make explosives…just like AVfM’s activism page calls for. Best they dispose of the guano.
Oh and guys? 4 out of his 9 links are Cathy fucking Brennan. Show of hands who thinks she’s a decent person? *sits on hands* no wait…*grabs scissors* momentary lapse where I forgot that she’d think me inherently a violent rapist…if I exist in her world…I haz a confused now.
On March 31st. Masculist man says this on Facebook:
HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH
[pauses to catch breath]
HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH
bug brennan is a total asshat, and deserves to step on LEGOs for all of eternity.
I’m going to sleep, still laughing at Masculist Man.
It isn’t really mock worthy, but if you dare wander to AVfM Elam is saying she contacted him about men hating men. Presumably she means trans* women. I really really want to believe that either he made it up, or she’s trying some harebrained scheme to get back at them over loosing her conference venue (whether MRAs had a hand in that is it’s own matter, but yeah, they do NOT need to team up, they’re both plenty despicable on their own)
G’night though!
Agreed, also I’m pretty sure Jody Arias really is guilty and a terrible person. Doesn’t deserve the death penalty, though, because no one male or female deserves it and also because we keep putting innocent people on death row.
I still don’t know what to make of that alleged email Elam allegedly got from Brennan. I mean, she doesn’t even let men (or trans* women) *look* at her blog, so why would she offer to write for AVFM?
Yeah, um, pretty sure Jody Arias is a murderer and all-around nasty person. Why she shouldn’t be killed: because no one should have the right to kill anyone else. Not Jody Arias and not the state.
Now I’m curious who this Brennan person is. Off to Google!
Cathy Brennan is despicable. Once she even outed a trans* teenage boy against his will and spread the information at his school. She is easily one of the most cruel anti-trans* radfems out there.
From what Google is telling me her bigoted attitude towards trans* people is the only reason anyone has heard of her (the only links I’m seeing are to trans blogs talking about how awful she is, or MRA blogs screaming about how awful she proves feminism is), so once again I have to question the MRA claim that they have identified a super big time really important feminist leader to quote-mine.