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With courthouse violence on the rise, Men’s Rights activists continue to lionize the author of a terrorist manifesto urging men to burn down courthouses

Poster at a memorial for Tom Ball, an MRA who advocated burning down courthouses and police stations.
Poster at a memorial event for Tom Ball, an MRA who advocated burning down courthouses and police stations.

EDIT 6/15/13: Tom Ball’s manifesto is no longer posted on A Voice for Men, though it isn’t clear if this is a website glitch or a change in policy on AVFM’s part;  no announcement about taking it down has been made.

EDITED TO ADD: In the wake of the Boston Marathon bombing, it seems even more important to reinterate that influential Men’s Rights website A Voice for Men continues to host, in its “activism” section no less, a terrorist manifesto literally calling for the firebombing of courthouses and police stations. Until and unless that manifesto is removed, and A Voice for Men apologizes for hosting it, I will be linking to this post every time I mention A Voice for Men.

There has been another courthouse shooting. On Monday morning, the father of a man due in court for a child support hearing pulled out a semiautomatic handgun and shot his son’s ex wife and a friend of hers as they entered the lobby of the New Castle County Courthouse in Wilmington Delaware. After an exchange of gunfire with police that left two officers wounded, 68-year old Thomas Matusiewicz took his own life. The two women Matusiewcz shot were pronounced dead on arrival at a local hospital.

His son, David Matusiewcz, had earlier served time – an astonishingly short amount of time – for kidnapping his three girls and hiding out with them in Nicaragua for a year and a half. More details on the case here, here, and here; further news coverage here.

Unfortunately, despite increased security, violence in and around courthouses has been on the increase. There have been numerous courthouse shootings and other violent attacks across the country in recent months, from Texas to New York to Washington state. Sometimes the victims are family members; other times they’re prosecutors or judges.

A recent report published by the National Center for State Courts notes that

We live in a time when threats against judges and acts of violence in courthouses and courtrooms are occurring throughout the country with greater frequency than ever before. …  Individuals and groups have committed acts of violence in courthouses, often attempts to murder judicial officials, escape from custody, and disrupt or delay proceedings. Moreover, courthouses, which represent the ideals of democracy in American society, have become symbolic targets for antigovernment extremists and terrorists (domestic and international). …

In addition to shootings, bombings, and arson attacks, there have been knifings, assaults, failed bombing attempts, suicides, bomb plots, murder-for-hire conspiracies, and much more

While shootings tend to get the most media coverage, the report notes that “arson attacks, through the use of improvised incendiary devices, have increased in number and frequency.”

That’s why it’s so worrisome that A Voice for Men, the leading Men’s Rights site outside of Reddit’s Men’s Rights subreddit, continues to host a terrorist manifesto urging Men’s Rights activists to literally burn down courthouses and police stations, even if doing so means that people are killed.

The manifesto, which I have written about several times previously, was written by a troubled man (and an admitted child abuser) named Tom Ball, who burned himself to death on the steps of a courthouse in New Hampshire in hopes that his death would inspire a wave of arson against courthouses and police stations. Dictionary.com defines terrorism as “the use of violence and threats to intimidate or coerce, especially for political purposes.” And that is precisely what Ball’s manifesto advocates.

Here’s some of what he wrote, taken directly from the manifesto posted on AVFM. (I’ve put some of the more egregious passages in bold text.)

So boys, we need to start burning down police stations and courthouses. … the dirty deeds are being carried out by our local police, prosecutors and judges. These are the people we pay good money to protect us and our families. And what do we get for our tax money? Collaborators who are no different than the Vichy of France or the Quislings of Norway during the Second World War. All because they go along to get along. They are an embarrassment, the whole lot of them. And they need to be held accountable. So burn them out. …

You need to flatten them, like Wile E. Coyote. They need to be taught never to replace the rule of law. BURN-THEM-OUT!

Most of the police stations built in New England over the last 20 years are stone or brick. Fortunately, the roofs are still wood. The advantage of fire on the roof is that it is above the sprinklers. But even the sprinklers going off work to our advantage. There is no way they can work in a building with six inches of water. And I am certain we will disrupt their momentum once they start working out of a FEMA

At this point Ball’s manifesto is interrupted mid-sentence by  an “editor’s note” from the folks at AVFM:

Several paragraphs in this copy of Mr Ball’s original letter have been omitted. The omitted paragraphs contained detailed instructions on the manufacture and use of simple incendiary devices.

Yes, that’s right; Ball’s original manifesto included specific instructions for constructing effective Molotov cocktails, a pretty clear indication that there was nothing figurative about his calls to “burn them out,” and that Ball literally hoped that his death, and his manifesto, would encourage a wave of arson. Indeed, that it would be the start of a literal war of Men’s Rights Activists against the US government.

Ball made clear that this war, like all wars, would mean death for some people:

There will be some casualties in this war. Some killed, some wounded, some captured. Some of them will be theirs. Some of the casualties will be ours. …

I only managed to get the main door of the Cheshire County Courthouse in Keene, NH. I would appreciate it if some of you boys would finish the job for me. They harmed my children. The place is evil. So take it out.

AVFM doesn’t have this manifesto up as a historical curiousity. AVFM posts and comments have portrayed Ball as an Men’s Rights martyr, and the manifesto is listed in AVFM’s “activism” section. Apparently throwing Molotov cocktails through courthouse windows is a form of “activism.”

Now, the official stance of the AVFM crowd is that they don’t support such violence – that they’re just predicting that more of it will occur.

Site founder Paul Elam has written:

Thomas Ball represents a tragic, dysfunctional reaction to chronic, systemic abuse. There are many possible reactions. Some even worse than his. And while we cannot, must not, condone violence, we had better learn to expect it as long as an ideological war against men is allowed to make a battlefield in our justice system and within the heart of our own families.

Then why, Paul, do you feature his manifesto in your “activism” section, alongside a link to AVFM’s “Judicial Accountability Committee?” Why do you continue to lionize the man and treat him as a martyr?

In another post, Elam further explicated his most peculiar brand of “pacifism.” (Emphasis added.)

I am a pacifist. I do not advocate violence.  But I tell you this. The day I see one of these absolutely incredulous excuses for a judge dragged out of his courtroom into the street, beaten mercilessly, doused with gasoline and set afire by a father who just won’t take another moment of injustice, I will be the first to put on the pages of this website that what happened was a minor tragedy that pales by far in comparison to the systematic brutality and thuggery inflicted daily on American fathers by those courts and their police henchmen.

It would not even so much be a tragedy as the chickens coming home to roost. And it is certainly less of an indecency than the suicide of Tom Ball.

This is from a man who evidently considers himself some kind of 21st century Gandhi.

AVFM is not the only Men’s Rights site to lionize Ball; he’s been hailed by numerous MRAs, and his manifesto (in its entirely, including the Molotov cocktail portions) has been reposted all over the internet. Indeed, some MRAS have constructed an elaborate site memorializing him and his alleged heroism. A year after his death, Men’s Rights activists organized a “memorial” protest. He’s even been remembered in song.

Helen “Dr. Helen” Smith, a Men’s Rights advocate and sometime writer for the right wing PJMedia site, said this about his manifesto. (Emphasis added.)

His statement is not the ramblings of a madman, it is the mission of a warrior in some sense. He was fighting for his rights and for yours, if you are male. He was trying to bring some urgency to the male plight in this country, one that no one appreciates or cares about until they are engaged in the battle of the courts.

You can find more discussion and lionization of Ball by MRAs, Fathers’ Rights Activists and others here, here, here, here, here and here. A few minutes with Google will turn up numerous other examples.

Why do I continue to hammer on about Ball’s manifesto? Because so many in the Men’s Rights movement are motivated primarily by anger and hatred — of women, of feminists, and of those, like judges and police officers) that they see as feminist “quislings.” Because so many in the Men’s Rights movement – like the prolific writers and videomakers associated with AVFM – stoke this anger and hatred every chance they get.

It seems almost inevitable that at some point some especially angry and unbalanced Men’s Rights Activist will resort to violence – as MRAs like Elam have “predicted” again and again. (Indeed, we’re probably lucky that Ball did not choose to “take out” others before taking his own life.) This violence may well be directed against a judge or prosecutor or some other official seen as a feminist or feminist “collaborator.” When and if this violence occurs, no doubt the folks at AVFM will officially “lament” it – and then come up with elaborate explanations as to why it’s all really the fault of feminists. Indeed, in the posts of his I quoted above, Elam has already written what are in essence apologias for this violence, even before it has happened.

If the Men’s Rights movement wants to be seen as anything other than a hate group, MRAs need to stop lionizing the author of a terrorist manifesto, and they need to start criticizing those in their movement who make excuses for the violence that they so often warn us is inevitable.

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CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Also I love how guys like this constantly bury little nuggets of extreme violence in the middle of even their rants.

Here are some things the government can do to help:

1. government subsidize plastic surgery

2.government subsidize gym membership, making attendance to gym legally mandatory

3. set legal limits for body fat, 15% for men, 18% for women. violators be heavily fined

4. forbid purchase of certain food for individuals above certain percentage body fat

5. reinstate adultery as a crime punishable by death

6. legalize prostitution

Um, what? Did America ever have the death penalty for adultery?

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help

Jayzuz, he’s well on the way to being Meller Mark 2. I suppose all the people who can’t get to gyms have to come up with some sort of excuse, and those who cannot use them for health reasons of whatever kind would be done away with in his little dystopia. He’s even further off the planet than the late unlamented Mr Hubbard.

But like you, I’d rather they came out with their shit openly. Only trouble is, they still think they’re the voices of sweet reason. What was it you said the other day, that the MRM should really be called Make Rape Legal? I originally thought MRA stood for Male Rape Apologist/Advocate (in the sense of advocating for rape, not for victims).

Which of course was right, in the spirit if not the letter(s) of the name.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help

Whoot, 10.30 here. Niters all!

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

The fact that anyone would even want a relationship that their partner was forced into by financial need is just so sad. It’s not exactly aiming high, you know?

I’m also amused by this dude’s constant insistence that women claim not to care about looks. I’ve certainly encountered some women who don’t care that much about looks, but I know far more who openly admit that they do care and wouldn’t date anyone they weren’t attracted to. It’s a constant theme with anti-feminist guys, this thing where they see a societal assumption or piece of unrealistic “conventional wisdom” that pisses them off and assume that feminists are the cause.

The whole “women don’t want you to know that they often pick sexual partners based on the way said sexual partners look!” thing is the dumbest conspiracy theory I’ve heard in a while.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

I’m catching up and then going back to bed (spent the night babysitting to my loaches while they got dewormed) — kitteh, I had guessed/hoped that GGG was trying to turn cultural arranged marriages into gov’n arranged dates, but I have absolutely no evidence that that’s the case. Just a desire for this to make an iota of sense.

“Disgusting statement. How many incels who show “extreme warning signs of rapists and abusers” has this retarded scum ever met? Me? Of course, I show these signs by doing “horrible acts” like attacking extreme criminals, trying to convince a girl to have sex with me after she already said yes but rejected it or posting her picture without a name after she changed her mind just to refuse again (a move she later described as done for fun and to torture me, the fact that scum like emilygoddess never commented on because it didn’t fit her bullshit, just like the fact she wanted to be in a relationship with me after it happened).”

Um…idfk, dude, yes, exactly by doing those things.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Shit, I got mod-queued by quoting GGG directly, whoops! Let me try this again!

“Disgusting statement. How many incels who show “extreme warning signs of rapists and abusers” has this r___ scum ever met? Me? Of course, I show these signs by doing “horrible acts” like attacking extreme criminals, trying to convince a girl to have sex with me after she already said yes but rejected it or posting her picture without a name after she changed her mind just to refuse again (a move she later described as done for fun and to torture me, the fact that scum like emilygoddess never commented on because it didn’t fit her bullshit, just like the fact she wanted to be in a relationship with me after it happened).”

Yes, that’s exactly how you show warning signs (though really, that’s more like a neon sign)

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

“They made me do it by killing me for 10 years. I’m sorry you’re such a fool that you think I can find somebody myself or not be bothered about it, which is blatantly against human nature. Why would I be committed? You’re not the first idiot who expressed the desire for me to be commited but the only true commital which would make any kind of difference is a permament one or close to permanent. And the only way I could be committed for a long time or life is by being chained up – otherwise, what’s to stop me from harming anybody if I’m not getting out anywhere and will thus never get a girlfriend? It’s just not gonna happen unless I do something big. And I have no intention of doing anything but writing a book for now.”

Um…

Have I mentioned that GGG scares me?

Jessay — your brother’s GF’s family sounds like a bunch of real winners themselves. Sorry y’all have to put up with that, especially with a newborn (and thus utter lack of sleep, etc). As for the blizzard, holy fuck, I refused to go out in it (not much point when there’s 40-fucking-inches of snow) — but a newborn?! I don’t even…goddamn that’s stupid.

titianblue
titianblue
11 years ago

Here are some things the government can do to help:

1. government subsidize plastic surgery

2.government subsidize gym membership, making attendance to gym legally mandatory

3. set legal limits for body fat, 15% for men, 18% for women. violators be heavily fined

4. forbid purchase of certain food for individuals above certain percentage body fat

5. reinstate adultery as a crime punishable by death

6. legalize prostitution

Shorter: The government must make it ILLEGAL for anyone to displease my boner!

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

One the one hand he seems like he might go postal. On the other hand, he’s such a whiny drama monster that it’s hard to take him seriously.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

I do kind of want to just go “that’s nice dear, when you get tired of holding your breath I’ll be in the other room” — but he’s not 5, and threatening other people, so my alarm bells go off.

That body fat percentage? Those numbers are silly enough that you could have an eating disorder and still not meet them. I somehow doubt that mandatory gym attendance and other legally enforced body standards would help any. Of course, fool here is more concerned about his potential date being 20 lbs overweight than dangerously underweight. Ribs and spines are hawt right?

…where’d I see him say something about women being 15+ lbs overweight being undateable ? (Probably right next to how he’d date anyone who wasn’t a “600 lb whale”…)

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

The body fat percentage he’s quoting is lower than is usual among Olympic athletes in the more energetic sports. It’s nonsense, basically.

I think we have our wires crossed about which dude we’re talking about though? Mr let’s execute people for adultery is ridiculous, but he doesn’t ping my “this person may be an immediate danger to those around them” buttons the way government girlfriends dude does.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

I don’t mean the one he’s stating that the government should enforce (on which – sorry, dude, but you can’t outsource your motivation to work out to the Feds), I mean the bit where he’s saying men should aim for 5% body fat. That’s really unusually low, even for a pro athlete.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Wires crossed = check!

I thought that was GGG, but I’m pre-coffee and spent the night with 3 hour alarms to check in the loaches (considering they don’t take medication well, deworming went smoothly, here’s hoping the damned chemical came in time to save the sicker of them)

…no sleep + no coffee = I make no sense and drop EA jokes (rusty steel syringe, check!)…I’m gonna go make coffee I think >.<

My first bit above — “that’s nice dear” — is how GGG would strike me if less threatening. And yes, that body fat percentage is absurd (can women with “fatty sacks” even have that little body fat? Or, if possible, her boobs would be on the small side and thus she’d probably still not be attractive to this sort?)

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

From some of the references the second guy is dropping I’m guessing he’s Japanese American, which is probably playing into his idea of what a hot guy has to look like. To put that in perspective, here is bigtime Japanese celebrity lust object, who likes to tell everyone all about how he’s only 6% body fat.

Thing is, whiny dude seems to live in America, and most women here really don’t expect men to be that thin.

(Not a critique of the guy in the commercial – he looks great. I just don’t think a body fat percentage goal that low is either realistic for most men or something that’s expected of them.)

GGG really does sit right on that line between eye-rollingly absurd and WTF did you just say worrying.

pecunium
11 years ago

5 percent? Barring certain abnormal/extremely atypical metabolisms, that’s not healthy. I, who have a little more than that (in the 8 percent range) routinely have doctors who want to do tests to see if I have secondary health issues causing/caused by it.

Body fat isn’t a healthy/unhealthy marker. Being low is often worse than being a little high, because you need that fat to manage your metabolism/systemic health.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

GGG scares the shit out of me. I think Pecunium said he was in Croatia.

I told him to run for office, there’s not enough batshittery in politics these days. His sarcasm meter is busted, surprise, surprise.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Look on the bright side. If he does run for office he’ll make a lot of local reporters very happy, because snark is fun to write.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

I think the world or his immediate area should know just how Not Right he is.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

A round of mockery from his local media would also do him good.

Bagelsan
11 years ago

Hey, at least this guy isn’t using BMI! His ridiculously low numbers at least address body fat directly. Evil, evil body fat… taking all his girlfriends…

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Incel underpants gnomes logic.

1. Get government to enforce 15% body fat limit on men.

2. Immediately get arrested for breaking said limit.

3. ?

4. Lots of sex with hot chicks.

inurashii
inurashii
11 years ago

I think that we can all expect a particular surge of incel rage today…

also, hi everybody >_>

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

I’m assuming 5% was a typo as the blockquoted BS says 15% — but even that seems either genetic or difficult of a “fuck it, not happening just to please your boner” level difficulty. (A quick googling here is suggesting that <18% for females isn’t even safe, and &lt15% for males in the “so you’re a bodybuilder?” category)

And, ok, you want to be a bodybuilder? (And/or look like Criminal Mind’s Morgan? [daaaammn]) Have fun with that? Consult a doctor before starting any fitness related program? Or whatever that standard line is.

Demanding it of anyone and everyone just to please your boner? Hope you enjoy killing off the species, pretty sure <18% body fat and pregnancy don’t really go so well together.

Cassandra — GACKT? Get out of my iTunes! That aside, yeah, he’s quite slender.

Re: GGG — yeah, his local area should probably know that he might turn violent, particularly the women he might try to date (then again, maybe they already do and that’s [part of] why he’s single)

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

I really feel for his parents, too. Nobody should have to live with that.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

I believe the 5% was his comment on what men should aim for in order to maximize the number of women who want to fuck them? Hopefully a typo, because otherwise he’s not exactly plugged in to the American mainstream.

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