EDIT 6/15/13: Tom Ball’s manifesto is no longer posted on A Voice for Men, though it isn’t clear if this is a website glitch or a change in policy on AVFM’s part; no announcement about taking it down has been made.
EDITED TO ADD: In the wake of the Boston Marathon bombing, it seems even more important to reinterate that influential Men’s Rights website A Voice for Men continues to host, in its “activism” section no less, a terrorist manifesto literally calling for the firebombing of courthouses and police stations. Until and unless that manifesto is removed, and A Voice for Men apologizes for hosting it, I will be linking to this post every time I mention A Voice for Men.
There has been another courthouse shooting. On Monday morning, the father of a man due in court for a child support hearing pulled out a semiautomatic handgun and shot his son’s ex wife and a friend of hers as they entered the lobby of the New Castle County Courthouse in Wilmington Delaware. After an exchange of gunfire with police that left two officers wounded, 68-year old Thomas Matusiewicz took his own life. The two women Matusiewcz shot were pronounced dead on arrival at a local hospital.
His son, David Matusiewcz, had earlier served time – an astonishingly short amount of time – for kidnapping his three girls and hiding out with them in Nicaragua for a year and a half. More details on the case here, here, and here; further news coverage here.
Unfortunately, despite increased security, violence in and around courthouses has been on the increase. There have been numerous courthouse shootings and other violent attacks across the country in recent months, from Texas to New York to Washington state. Sometimes the victims are family members; other times they’re prosecutors or judges.
A recent report published by the National Center for State Courts notes that
We live in a time when threats against judges and acts of violence in courthouses and courtrooms are occurring throughout the country with greater frequency than ever before. … Individuals and groups have committed acts of violence in courthouses, often attempts to murder judicial officials, escape from custody, and disrupt or delay proceedings. Moreover, courthouses, which represent the ideals of democracy in American society, have become symbolic targets for antigovernment extremists and terrorists (domestic and international). …
In addition to shootings, bombings, and arson attacks, there have been knifings, assaults, failed bombing attempts, suicides, bomb plots, murder-for-hire conspiracies, and much more
While shootings tend to get the most media coverage, the report notes that “arson attacks, through the use of improvised incendiary devices, have increased in number and frequency.”
That’s why it’s so worrisome that A Voice for Men, the leading Men’s Rights site outside of Reddit’s Men’s Rights subreddit, continues to host a terrorist manifesto urging Men’s Rights activists to literally burn down courthouses and police stations, even if doing so means that people are killed.
The manifesto, which I have written about several times previously, was written by a troubled man (and an admitted child abuser) named Tom Ball, who burned himself to death on the steps of a courthouse in New Hampshire in hopes that his death would inspire a wave of arson against courthouses and police stations. Dictionary.com defines terrorism as “the use of violence and threats to intimidate or coerce, especially for political purposes.” And that is precisely what Ball’s manifesto advocates.
Here’s some of what he wrote, taken directly from the manifesto posted on AVFM. (I’ve put some of the more egregious passages in bold text.)
So boys, we need to start burning down police stations and courthouses. … the dirty deeds are being carried out by our local police, prosecutors and judges. These are the people we pay good money to protect us and our families. And what do we get for our tax money? Collaborators who are no different than the Vichy of France or the Quislings of Norway during the Second World War. All because they go along to get along. They are an embarrassment, the whole lot of them. And they need to be held accountable. So burn them out. …
You need to flatten them, like Wile E. Coyote. They need to be taught never to replace the rule of law. BURN-THEM-OUT!
Most of the police stations built in New England over the last 20 years are stone or brick. Fortunately, the roofs are still wood. The advantage of fire on the roof is that it is above the sprinklers. But even the sprinklers going off work to our advantage. There is no way they can work in a building with six inches of water. And I am certain we will disrupt their momentum once they start working out of a FEMA
At this point Ball’s manifesto is interrupted mid-sentence by an “editor’s note” from the folks at AVFM:
Several paragraphs in this copy of Mr Ball’s original letter have been omitted. The omitted paragraphs contained detailed instructions on the manufacture and use of simple incendiary devices.
Yes, that’s right; Ball’s original manifesto included specific instructions for constructing effective Molotov cocktails, a pretty clear indication that there was nothing figurative about his calls to “burn them out,” and that Ball literally hoped that his death, and his manifesto, would encourage a wave of arson. Indeed, that it would be the start of a literal war of Men’s Rights Activists against the US government.
Ball made clear that this war, like all wars, would mean death for some people:
There will be some casualties in this war. Some killed, some wounded, some captured. Some of them will be theirs. Some of the casualties will be ours. …
I only managed to get the main door of the Cheshire County Courthouse in Keene, NH. I would appreciate it if some of you boys would finish the job for me. They harmed my children. The place is evil. So take it out.
AVFM doesn’t have this manifesto up as a historical curiousity. AVFM posts and comments have portrayed Ball as an Men’s Rights martyr, and the manifesto is listed in AVFM’s “activism” section. Apparently throwing Molotov cocktails through courthouse windows is a form of “activism.”
Now, the official stance of the AVFM crowd is that they don’t support such violence – that they’re just predicting that more of it will occur.
Site founder Paul Elam has written:
Thomas Ball represents a tragic, dysfunctional reaction to chronic, systemic abuse. There are many possible reactions. Some even worse than his. And while we cannot, must not, condone violence, we had better learn to expect it as long as an ideological war against men is allowed to make a battlefield in our justice system and within the heart of our own families.
Then why, Paul, do you feature his manifesto in your “activism” section, alongside a link to AVFM’s “Judicial Accountability Committee?” Why do you continue to lionize the man and treat him as a martyr?
In another post, Elam further explicated his most peculiar brand of “pacifism.” (Emphasis added.)
I am a pacifist. I do not advocate violence. But I tell you this. The day I see one of these absolutely incredulous excuses for a judge dragged out of his courtroom into the street, beaten mercilessly, doused with gasoline and set afire by a father who just won’t take another moment of injustice, I will be the first to put on the pages of this website that what happened was a minor tragedy that pales by far in comparison to the systematic brutality and thuggery inflicted daily on American fathers by those courts and their police henchmen.
It would not even so much be a tragedy as the chickens coming home to roost. And it is certainly less of an indecency than the suicide of Tom Ball.
This is from a man who evidently considers himself some kind of 21st century Gandhi.
AVFM is not the only Men’s Rights site to lionize Ball; he’s been hailed by numerous MRAs, and his manifesto (in its entirely, including the Molotov cocktail portions) has been reposted all over the internet. Indeed, some MRAS have constructed an elaborate site memorializing him and his alleged heroism. A year after his death, Men’s Rights activists organized a “memorial” protest. He’s even been remembered in song.
Helen “Dr. Helen” Smith, a Men’s Rights advocate and sometime writer for the right wing PJMedia site, said this about his manifesto. (Emphasis added.)
His statement is not the ramblings of a madman, it is the mission of a warrior in some sense. He was fighting for his rights and for yours, if you are male. He was trying to bring some urgency to the male plight in this country, one that no one appreciates or cares about until they are engaged in the battle of the courts.
You can find more discussion and lionization of Ball by MRAs, Fathers’ Rights Activists and others here, here, here, here, here and here. A few minutes with Google will turn up numerous other examples.
Why do I continue to hammer on about Ball’s manifesto? Because so many in the Men’s Rights movement are motivated primarily by anger and hatred — of women, of feminists, and of those, like judges and police officers) that they see as feminist “quislings.” Because so many in the Men’s Rights movement – like the prolific writers and videomakers associated with AVFM – stoke this anger and hatred every chance they get.
It seems almost inevitable that at some point some especially angry and unbalanced Men’s Rights Activist will resort to violence – as MRAs like Elam have “predicted” again and again. (Indeed, we’re probably lucky that Ball did not choose to “take out” others before taking his own life.) This violence may well be directed against a judge or prosecutor or some other official seen as a feminist or feminist “collaborator.” When and if this violence occurs, no doubt the folks at AVFM will officially “lament” it – and then come up with elaborate explanations as to why it’s all really the fault of feminists. Indeed, in the posts of his I quoted above, Elam has already written what are in essence apologias for this violence, even before it has happened.
If the Men’s Rights movement wants to be seen as anything other than a hate group, MRAs need to stop lionizing the author of a terrorist manifesto, and they need to start criticizing those in their movement who make excuses for the violence that they so often warn us is inevitable.
The only problem with the water rescue instincts is that if you try to get in the water they’re all NO DON’T DO IT!
I am dying of adorable at all the newfies. Big floofy gentle dogs are the most gorgeous things.
I want one to hug, look at the big floofy babies.
You don’t see dogs of this breed much in Britain, and definitely not much in London.
Awww! I’m sitting here clapping for Rocky, Otto and Augustus! Thanks for the videos! They help.
Kitteh’s:
MRAs seem to have time for their children at one other time in their lives: the nine months between their conception and their birth. While an MRA’s child is in the womb they can use it as a means to control the woman carrying it- to demand the right to stop their child being aborted and to force the woman to face the Consequences of “her” actions. After the child is born they lose interest- more than that, they demand the right to take no interest at all, to take no responsibilities, to pay no money and to face no Consequences for their own actions.
They’re a bit like those people who claim to be pro-life but also support the death penalty, wanting to “save” unborn people but then having no desire to protect them at any other stage in their lives- they’re like MRAs in that their logic also makes no sense.
The MRA view on custody battles just highlights their twisted logic once again- they claim women are naturals at child-rearing and should accept that this is their god-given biological role and just shut up and do it, then when their wives leave them they suddenly decide that women are unfit parents and that they want to try a bit of parenting after all.
It seems they believe children have two purposes in life: to allow them to spite the women pregnant with them, and to allow them to spite the women trying to claim custody of them after a divorce. What if an MRA was to win a custody battle? What would they even do with a child after it’s served its purpose?
I knew child support in the UK was pitiful, but $3,000 over ten years??? So, $300 per year, or $25 per month? That’s £16 GBP per month- less than the cost of a mobile phone bill, broadband package, cable subscription… and nowhere near enough to feed and clothe a child. Still, I’m sure the MRAs will still see Ball’s ex-wife as a gold-digger and are assuming that his $25 per month would only have bought her a mansion full of gold-plated diamond-studded ambergris-scented candles.
The only problem with the water rescue instincts is that if you try to get in the water they’re all NO DON’T DO IT!
That is the cutest thing I’ve seen in days, and we have kittens.
@The Stepford Knife – Child support is generally based on income (as well as other factors) and it’s not uncommon for men who want to dodge child support to do things like work for cash in order to hide their true income.
MRA’s would either hire a nanny if they could afford it or just remarry. I doubt that they really love their kids and want them. Kids are just more “things”. “Win at all costs”
My brother is dealing with the deadbeat parent issue right now. His wife abandoned him and their two kids a few years ago. She tosses him a few bucks every now and then. It was after two years of this nonsense that he finally went to the state to file for child support. And now her entire side of the family thinks he is this evil person for daring to ask for a measly $400 a month for their two kids and refuses to speak to him. The good news is, she is so lazy that she will never seek to take the children away from him out of spite. That would be way too much work. It’s easier to just piss and moan about how she never wanted children anyway and how terrible it is for my brother to expect her to put in her fair share.
On topic, this spectrum of violence that we see from entitled people who clearly believe that they are justified in making the world hurt simply because they hurt just makes me sick. I truly believe that this Dorner situation makes the LAPD look terrible (especially with how it has concluded, and the fact that they shot three innocent people during the manhunt), but to me he sounds just like these guys who kill their families because their wives leave them, or murder several women at an aerobics class because he “can’t get a date.” To fight “the power,” he attacked the powerless — civilians like Quan and her fiance, and the couple he held hostage.
Changing the subject somewhat (every time I venture to comment here it seems to be to link to something else, sorry) but I can’t get over some of the comments on a current guardian article about page 3, (UK boobs in newspaper insanity) I know whenever there is anything written by a woman the hoards of peculiar men descend but this seems to be particularly bad. I was wondering if anyone could help me out deciphering some of them:
An attractive heterosexual caucasian billionaire being the centre of a fantasy novel is offensive to men? Fo’real? Am I missing something?
>blockquote>ok; try this on for size.
the concepts you cite (‘objectification’ and ‘male gaze’) are mechanisms for demonizing male sexuality. by classifying bad male behaviour as ‘systemic’, but deliberately avoiding having to do the same for the female equivalent, you achieve a very limited, naive form of freedom for women – freedom from moral agency. congrats – you now have an excuse for being sexist – ‘b-b-but, you know, the patriarchy’. strong stuff.>/blockquote>
The last time I spoke back to a guy making lewd comments to me I was apparently demonising the poor soul. AND I DIDN’T EVEN REALISE.
There are also various references to ‘misandy’ throughout the thread which is strange but somehow adorable, seeing it outside its native habitat venturing out into the wild. I would like to see a real example of misandry (other than the threat of taking boobs out of a newspaper or the messy divorce system.)
Phew, sorry for the rant. Link to the article anyway: http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2013/feb/12/murdoch-page-3-sexism-media
What?! How did I do one blockquote right and the other wrong? I am sorry and ashamed. =(
@daintydougal
It’s the blockquote monster. It gets everybody eventually.
The Blockquote Goblin works in mysterious ways, dougal…
Tina, the “win at all costs” thing is a trait of sociopaths- they don’t care who gets hurt or what the fallout from a situation is as long as they “win”. In terms of personality disorders I think MRAs seem more narcissistic than sociopathic- a sociopath is unable to empathise while a narcissist is able but unwilling, but the signs of both disorders are similar.
Time for more brain bleach I think… as a dog person it’s been good to see all the love for big dogs today, but now I think it’s time for some little ones:
I’m so happy to see all the dog love here! Due to being allergic to cats, I can’t fully enjoy kittens like some of you. Huskies are wonderful too! So talkative.
And as for entitlement, I see that too blitzgal. It’s like since they can’t have what they want, they can punish whoever.
OT but must share. I’m ripping up magazines to use the pages as cushion in boxes instead of newspaper. So, I’m ripping up and crumpling pages from one of my husband’s “Men’s Fitness” mags. One page features a lovely, long-haired female with a “sexy look” on her face. I grimace and, of course, flip the page to see what equally lovely advice is given. I quote: 3) HAVE SEX WITH WOMEN, NOT ON THEM * “Guys tend to objectify their sexual partners,” says Steve Santagati, author of “The Manual: A True Bad Boy Explains How Men Think, Date, and Mate”. “If we’re too wrapped up in our objectifications, then we’re having sex with a body, not with a person. Women can feel that disconnect, and the sex is never as good because she’s not going to pull out all the stops for a man who treats her like a blow-up doll.”
@Tina
Of course the reason to treat women like people is that the sex will be better. *eyeroll*
I have nothing to add except more brain bleach. Can’t do videos ’cause my iPod battery is low, but here’s a link about Snowball, the YouTube sensation who prompted a breakthrough in animal neuroscience: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2011069/Snowball-dancing-cockatoo-sense-rhythm-amazed-scientists.html
(Yes, it’s the Daily Fail, but they’re not wrong on this and there are multiple videos)
Aww, big fluffy dogs! If anyone in the US would like a big fluffy dog, here is a good place to find one.
If I get a dog, I want an alsatian.
And good god, how many more people have to die from gunfire before enough is enough?
And I’d like to point out that evil acts are pretty common. Regular folks shoot people every day, not just the sociopaths and narcissists. I don’t think that those two personality disorders are nearly common enough to account for even just the shooting deaths in the US. Also, the stew of fear your media is constantly spewing on US networks.
What the hell is going on down there?
For all that it’s a DUH statement – or should be – it’s not only more than all these MRAs and PUAs can fathom: they’re outraged at the very idea that women should be any different from RealDolls.
Wait. Of all the reasons to bitch about 50 Shades of Grey… they choose THAT? That’s like going to a feast of sewage and bitching about the tablecloth!
But they’re not going to complain about the rapey notions, the male control, or the virgin-to-instant-sex-expert stuff, are they? Of course they’re going to whine that Grey isn’t some sort of loser asshole (aka poor beta NiceGuy™) getting to abuse some Hot Babe.
50 Shades (yes, I read it, or at least skimmed it – there is not enough brain bleach in the WORLD) is so horrendously written that no conclusions can be drawn from it except that it is a horrendous piece of writing. The characters, both male and female, bear no resemblance to anything but the most shallow and facile representation of a human being; the sex is literally unbelievable, not to mention ridiculous and physically implausible; and don’t get me started on the grammatical errors, poor sentence construction, and lack of any coherent plot.
A 100 page Harlequin published in 1982 would be better written than that drivel. I can’t even use the “at least people are reading something” excuse for it.
Sorry, I feel very strongly about that piece of slop. No one should be using it to conclude anything at all except that the author is laughing all the way to the bank, and that the general public’s standard of reading material has fallen to an all-new low.
My summary of the prose of 50 Shades of Grey:
“Holy crap, oh my, I flush at his grey eyes, oh my, holy crap, he touches me down there and I flush, holy crap, oh my, what kinky fuckery is this, Fifty Shades, oh my, my inner goddess does the macarena, oh my, holy crap, we sizzle, my subconcious disapproves, holy crap, Fifty Shades, oh my.”
^ That’s basically a 50SoG sex scene with all the creepy shit removed.
And there’s the fact that EL James is a despicable human being:
And then there’s THIS.
And loads of sex toy companies are selling kink equipment and toys under the 50SoG name… this is the first time in my life I’ve ever been slightly ashamed to be kinky. 🙁
I had a far rantier piece of comment that explained why EL James is despicable but basically she calls people who tell her that 50SoG is abuse propaganda ‘trolls’ and that they are trivialising domestic abuse and many of the people who say these things ARE abuse survivors who got triggered by the books.
http://slightlylessthaninsane.wordpress.com/2013/02/02/what-just-happened/
There’s this from http://www.booksnreview.com/articles/1799/20121208/author-fifty-shades-grey-el-james-talks.htm
It was all properly HTML’d but it was eaten.