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Women with self-esteem: A grave threat to modern man

Man making a woman worthless
Man making a woman worthless

Hey, horny “nice guys,” you know how you’re always saying nice things to girls and sometimes telling they’re pretty in hopes they decide to sleep with you? Or just gawking at them at the gym?

Turns out that this isn’t such a good thing. Not so much because, you know, staring at women like you’re a serial killer might just creep a lot of women out. But because all this attention might well turn these women into stuck-up you-know-whats, which is a major pain for the world’s horny guys.

In a post on Roosh’s Return of Kings blog with the lovely title “How Women Become Worthless,” some dude named Edward Thatch explains the deadly consequences of people being nice to pretty ladies.

These women, he writes,

start out as decent specimens, but somehow manage to find themselves on the red pill man’s pump-and-dump list. This is a bittersweet topic for me, because while I enjoy a random romp with girls who have managed to concentrate all of their worth between their legs, I’m also well aware of the many added benefits of girlfriending up a good one.

So how do these women become worthless bitches? Well, you see, there’s this thing called the Peter Principle, which suggests that people get promoted and promoted until they end up with a job that’s beyond their capabilities. (Never mind all those people out there who are actually a good fit for their jobs.)

Anyhoo, this happens to pretty ladies too!

A pretty girl posts a sexy pic on facebook and you click like.

 

You just promoted her.

 

The same girl goes to the gym, and a dozen guys stare at her like hungry wolves.

 

Promoted again. …

 

Everything that comes out of her pretty little mouth is super relevant and interesting to the guys who want to bang her.

 

Promoted again.

 

Her beta orbiters trip over themselves trying to please her just for the satisfaction of being near her.

 

Promotion!

 

The list goes on and on, but you get the idea. From the day she’s born until the day she slams into the wall in her mid-30s, she just keeps being promoted until she reaches her level of incompetence. When the day comes that she can’t live up to the position she’s trying to fill – most awesome, sexy and unique thing everrrrr – she becomes a worthless self-centered bore who ends up in my phone as “Blonde HB7 Tiny Boobs Wrist Tattoo.”

Who knew that life for women was nothing more than an endless parade of male flattery? Or that women feel empowered whenever creepy dudes blatantly ogle their bodies at the gym.

So some women end up thinking that they’re pretty.  What’s the harm here? Well, you see, men suffer enormously when women think they’re even a teensy bit hotter than they “really” are. It’s much better for everyone – if by “everyone” you mean all the guys trying to sleep with them – if women hate themselves a little. Or a lot.

Unfortunately,  Thatch laments, it’s men who are to blame for women thinking too highly of themselves.

We create these monsters by promoting otherwise good women far above their grade. If you’re doing this, I respectfully ask you to stop.

As it stands now, these poor overpromoted women end up hitting the proverbial wall when they hit the age of 30, or 25, or 15, or whatever, and suddenly become transformed from young hotties into old hags. And while this is, Thatch proclaims, “a hilarious version of downsizing that sends the old, fat or ugly ones to the feminist welfare line,” he also thinks this is not economically efficient.

Far better for men to handle the “sexual marketplace” in a more rational and efficient way, he concludes, “by knocking off the beta orbiting, white knighting, and supplication that keeps promoting these women to positions they cannot handle.”

Surprisingly, Thatch’s argument provokes some dissent amongst Roosh’s Neanderthal followers. Stuki, for example, points out that Facebook likes might not amount to a damn in this crazy world.

A problem with this diagnosis, is that a single pump and dump … by a perceived alpha or “hot guy”, counts for more than a million Facebook likes, as far as perception of being “promoted” goes. …

It’s not as if women don’t feel equally “promoted” by the guy trying to feel her up at the bar, just because he throws her some neg first, instead of a compliment. IOW, the solution to women being bitches, is not men becoming assholes. If being a whore had real, serious and immediate consequences, women would largely stop being whores. But as long as the only consequence is that she will “forced” to go out alone, and get her “revenge” on her “intolerant”, “sexist” and “Stepford Wife obsessed” ex, by being banged in a toilet stall by someone ostensibly (through beer goggles, if nothing else) handsomer and more “alpha” than he was, she’ll never get it. Whether Mr. Toilet Stall Banger negs her or compliments her first, doesn’t really matter.

Note that Stuki here apparently thinks he’s somehow not already an asshole.

VargisBitch takes issue, a little bit, with the term “worthless.”

They are not worthless but … western women reach a point of uselessness. They have value in the beginning but at that time, they dont use that value for anything serious other that getting pumped left and right, attention whoring etc, you know, the sex and the city dream..after many years of this they are just beyond rescue, their self insteem is inflated beyond any reasonable level…plus they are getting rather old. So yea, at that exact moment, they become wortless. But they still have no reason to panic, there are hordes of horny bluepill men, who didnt get sex during THEIR prime , to pick the sorry remains..

When you understand the dynamics behind this, you are a redpill man.

Most commenters seem to agree, though, with the broad outlines of Thatch’s, er, analysis. Madvillain complains that there are even a few “white knights” to be found even in the manly world of the manosphere.

While there are almost no white night panderers in the manosphere, when a commenter comes along with the user name like “”just a girl”, or “SunshineMary”, guys will breath in that pussy scent wafting from the female name on their computer monitor and congregate around her, demonstrating their alpha intelligence by explaining the ways of the world to the cute little lamb.

Hammer, meanwhile, fantasizes about putting fat ladies in camps.

You can’t just haul off all the worthless ones and put them in some adjacent zone to live in. Instead you have to step into every relationship with a girl knowing she’s going to lie at some point, that she’ll try to manipulate to gain the upperhand, that she will try to contribute very little if anything and that she will start acting difficult at some point along the way, and for what? I honestly don’t know how men have tolerated the crap women throw at them for so long.  …

I never thought I’d say this but maybe a benevolent dictator would be good for a while. A red pill dictator, who would put all the fatties into one zone, we’ll call it the Fat Zone, another can be called the Fem Zone for feminists, all manner of zones so that they could live among their ilk. Want join the Athletic Zone where people are in reasonable good shape? Lose weight, stop eating. Want to join the Equal Zone where men and women are treated equal where men do not give most of the social, economic and legal benefits to women? Sign a contract stating such explicitly. Want to join the Man Zone where the men make the rules and rule the roost? Sign on the dotted line gals. Everyone can get what they truly want. Maybe it won’t be perfect but I sure as hell would prefer it.

Turbo the Drycleaner, who apparently is too manly to bother with the shift key, doesn’t think that technology is the issue here.

beta males are no new invention and have existed, in large numbers, since time began. they are not going away. just because online dating and facebook have immortalized their hamfisted attempts at getting poosy dosnt mean it didnt happen before. girls would get all sorts of looks, gifts, and marrage proposals way back when that fed their egos. you could say that because they are now online, a woman can have constant access to validation but thats not a whole lot diffrent than living in a rural area, as many used to, and seeing the same orbiters every day.

Days of Broken Arrows disagrees:

White knighting was less a problem before the Internet age. You could only stare at a woman so long and most Betas didn’t just walk up to strange women and compliment them.

But nowadays, Facebook and Instagram are major ego-stroking devices for women. Someone needs to do a post called “NEVER like a woman’s Facebook photo.” The massive amount of orbiters on FB makes me ill.

One day in 1955, Rosa Parks refused to give up her seat on the bus for a white man, and helped to usher in a civil rights revolution. Could Days of Broken Arrows’ brave refusal to “like” women’s Facebook pictures usher in a similar revolution, this time for men who are so terribly bruised and oppressed by women with self-esteem?

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Tina
Tina
11 years ago

Why do these men keep talking about women and their behavior so much, like they know our minds? They don’t. Raise your hand if you’ve known a really pretty woman who thinks herself worthless except for her looks and hates all of the attention, because she is not dumb. She’s actually really intelligent but doesn’t get taken seriously because of her looks. She gets hit on by jerks who just want to have sex with her…because of her looks. Society has expectations of her: she must always look good, no going out without makeup; she must be a tigress in bed, heaven forbid she actually be vanilla; she’s actually more logical and has more sense than you (jerks) but she must not show it …so she doesn’t hurt your fragile egos. And these jerks will call her names if she dare turn them down for sexual favors because she does know that she’s smarter than you and knows you only want sex from her.

Am I starting to understand, sorta, this now? ‘Cuz my brain hurts…

pillow in hell
pillow in hell
11 years ago

You know, making real honest to Ceiling Cat yogurt is pretty simple…

Xanthë
11 years ago

Answering David:

One day in 1955, Rosa Parks refused to give up her seat on the bus for a white man, and helped to usher in a civil rights revolution. Could Days of Broken Arrows’ brave refusal to “like” women’s Facebook pictures usher in a similar revolution, this time for men who are so terribly bruised and oppressed by women with self-esteem?

I’m guessing: no.

(Not that anyone needed to answer such a blatant rhetorical question, but it doesn’t hurt to spell it out.)

Canuck_with_Pluck
Canuck_with_Pluck
11 years ago

I love looking at these conversations after I’ve gone to bed….:D

Since there seems to be a food discussion…last night I blended chocolate frozen yogurt and peanut butter together….Best. Decision. Ever.

Tina
Tina
11 years ago

Ugh..I missed this part the first time: ” If being a whore had real, serious and immediate consequences, women would largely stop being whores. But as long as the only consequence is that she will “forced” to go out alone, and get her “revenge” on her “intolerant”, “sexist” and “Stepford Wife obsessed” ex, by being banged in a toilet stall by someone ostensibly (through beer goggles, if nothing else) handsomer and more “alpha” than he was, she’ll never get it. Whether Mr. Toilet Stall Banger negs her or compliments her first, doesn’t really matter.”

I don’t even know where to start. The fact that they are looking for girls to, what ..date? marry? in bars? (hint: don’t think they’re looking for “Mr. Right” in a bar) This is the only “type” of female they are attracted to? (hint: this is your problem, not hers) They can’t stand her “whore” behavior? (hint: would that be because you guys are looking in a mirror and don’t like what you see) Gee, maybe it these fellas would stop acting like “whores” themselves they might attract a “nice girl”. Nah, that’ll never happen.

Chocolate is in order now. And kittehs…lots of cute kittehs…

Canuck_with_Pluck
Canuck_with_Pluck
11 years ago
Reply to  Tina

@Tina: No such thing as a “nice girl”. Our secret feminist indoctrination class (aka: everything taught in school in the last 40 years, according to MRAs) forbids it. So what’s a poor MRA to do? Foiled again by us dastardly feminists!

Bagelsan
Bagelsan
11 years ago

Be interesting if Schrodinger’s Bits acted like Greebo did in his Schrodinger’s Cat moment – the choices being Alive, Dead or Bloody Furious

Oh, so you’re familiar with my period.

Demarcq
Demarcq
11 years ago

One night stands are a REALLY shitty way of reproducing nowadays

Not true. Some women already have a means of supporting a child that may result from such. Sometimes they’re married to another man(think cuckoldry-it does happen and more frequently than you want to believe), but other times they’re single, have a job, and don’t actually need to rely on a man to support and raise a child.

Sexual attraction may operate on instinct and emotion (often but not always) but sex does not always do so. People who are not MRAs often think about their choices rather than assuming if their dick vibrates they are entitled to fuck whatever is making it vibrate no matter what the other person wants.

Many, many people, in fact, may feel a sexual attraction to a person and do absolutely nothing about it, because we are capable of thought. And women, having vastly more to risk in having sex with a man, are far, far more likely to think about the consequences and risks before having sex, especially with someone they do not know very well.

You are making a ton of assumptions here, my friend. Smart, wise people do think carefully about the consequences of their sexual behavior. But quite a few people are dumb and foolish when it comes to the birds and the bees; and they act on their impulses without regards to the consequences. And this goes for BOTH men AND women. Birth control pills clearly are a game changer. And do not assume that I think this is a *bad* thing. Why the hell shouldn’t women get to enjoy sex just like men?

drst
drst
11 years ago

*sigh* I miss real yogurt. The soy stuff is just not remotely the same. Damn lactose intolerance. Although if I could get one food back from the LI, it wouldn’t be yogurt, it would be cheese.

Bagelsan
Bagelsan
11 years ago

Some women already have a means of supporting a child that may result from such.

May. MAY. The whole point is that your odds of getting an entirely reproductively-fit offspring out of a one-night stand (now OR in the past) are fairly crappy. It’s just not a good reproductive strategy in humans.

Demarcq
Demarcq
11 years ago

BTW drst, dicks do not vibrate. You clearly must not be around them much so don’t confuse the human penis with your sex toys.

Carleyblue
Carleyblue
11 years ago

OK, I know this might be addressing something that came up a while back. I didn’t read through the latest comments, sorry. It’s just that when everyone here says they don’t care how people except their partners think they look, dislike getting compliments from random guys, and care more about what someone who doesn’t want to sleep with them thinks, I think Wow, that’s great.

Except, and I don’t know how to put this, but I’m not like that. The idea of being ugly terrifies me. It’s not so much over people thinking I’m ugly, but the idea of being ugly, the knowledge of it. I wish I could think that everyone is beautiful in their own way, but I just can’t. I hear what the people I know say about people they think are ugly, and the thought of being spoken about like that is too much to bear. Also, when I get complimented on the street it makes my day better (unless it’s really gross and disgusting or makes me scared). It has always made me angry when I see someone who seems to put no effort into their appearance and then expects to find romantic partners. I just think ‘how could you possibly expect anyone to ever want you’? (I know this is wrong, and has a lot to do with how my parents raised me. My mother once told me she didn’t understand why fat people didn’t just kill themselves).
I feel like I will just always be a bad feminist in that area.

Now I know some of our MRA friends might look at what I’ve written and think ‘aha, one of them admits it’ (whatever ‘it’ is supposed to be). But I’m just wondering why I’m like this, since reading comments like the ones here just always makes me feel a little guilty. Any tips on how I could ‘improve’ my thinking are welcome.

Shiraz
Shiraz
11 years ago

Um, what?

“You are making a ton of assumptions here, my friend. Smart, wise people do think carefully about the consequences of their sexual behavior.”
OK, so far, not unreasonable.

“But quite a few people are dumb and foolish when it comes to the birds and the bees; and they act on their impulses without regards to the consequences. And this goes for BOTH men AND women.”
So what? What point are you trying to make, sparky? Do you always refer to sex and fucking as the birds and the bees? That’s…cute.

“Birth control pills clearly are a game changer. And do not assume that I think this is a *bad* thing. Why the hell shouldn’t women get to enjoy sex just like men?”
I dunno. Um, again. What point are you trying to make? Or do you think the women here don’t understand the importance of the pill?

That business about one-night stands being a common means to motherhood is just silly. Someone else can post about that, I’m not touching it.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

BTW drst, dicks do not vibrate. You clearly must not be around them much so don’t confuse the human penis with your sex toys

Says an MRA douche who clearly has no idea how biology, dating, or anything else works.

I’m thinking this is Suz’s attempt at socking.

howardbann1ster
11 years ago

…Demarq’s goal posts are shifting so rapidly it’s giving me vertigo. I could swear this latest post is arguing with the position he took up on the last page.

I rarely have the energy for folks who don’t appear to be arguing in good faith. Moreso when they’re pretentious and boring.

Argenti, you’re about to start in on your first Pratchett novel, you say? Hmm. Lords and Ladies. Oh, I quite like that one.

I can’t remember if it has enough footnotes. Pratchett novels rarely have as many footnotes as they ought to have. Since each footnote is the best footnote ever.

Sample footnote, from a book that’s not Lords and Ladies, regarding Pascal’s Wager.

“Upon his death, the philosopher in question found himself surrounded by a group of angry gods with clubs. The last thing he heard was ‘We’re going to show you how we deal with Mister Clever Dick around here…'”

Bagelsan
Bagelsan
11 years ago

BTW drst, dicks do not vibrate.

Whaa?? *staggers back in shock*

howardbann1ster
11 years ago

Carleyblue: it doesn’t make you a bad person. It means that you’ve internalized the message society has been screaming at you.

Given how much effort they’ve put into screaming that message at you, it’s not surprising. It can take a lot of work to block them out.

The message that is screamed from every streetcorner is ‘women are nothing without male validation of their looks.’

The obvious corallary is that when you recieve male validation, that’s everything.

Your mother’s message, explicitly, is that there is no worth beyond personal appearance. None. That fat person who might cure cancer, or win a gold metal in the olympics (do NOT even get me started on the people saying that the weightlifter was a bad example and would cause people to be unhealthy with her weight… think about the implications, okay? They’re obese. They’re an olympic-level athlete. It’s almost like that weight is pretty damn healthy, isn’t it?).

But your mother reduces it to their looks, their weight, in one job.

It doesn’t make you a bad person. And the surest way to undercut that is to expose yourself to more voices pointing out that an ugly, overweight person is still a person. Period, full-stop. With all that implies.

howardbann1ster
11 years ago

BTW drst, dicks do not vibrate.

Whaa?? *staggers back in shock*

…so you’re saying I should see a doctor?

howardbann1ster
11 years ago

But your mother reduces it to their looks, their weight, in one job.

Jab! Dammit, jab! Makes a lot more sense that way, too.

eline
eline
11 years ago

Yuck American yoghurt. I think they try to make it so low-fat and low-calorie that they need to take yoghurt out and put water in, and then solidify it with gelatin or starches. Also for non-low-calorie yoghurts it saves the company money to use less yoghurt and fill it up with cheaper crap like gelatin and HFCS. It’s done here, too, but only for a few brands; the diet yoghurts.

About the mammoth hunting: there is actually a shift going on as we understand better and better our ancestors, and apparently women hunted far, far more than was previously thought (some estimates say that whilst gathering plants women hunted over 60% of the meat eaten, small prey for the most part ie the stuff that kept people alive when mammoth hunts were not quite so successful, which probably was quite common).

Bagelsan
Bagelsan
11 years ago

…so you’re saying I should see a doctor?

Now let’s don’t be hasty…

Creative Writing Student
Creative Writing Student
11 years ago

@CarleyBlue

If it makes you feel any better, the reason I disregarded compliments/desperate attempts to build my self-esteem via body image from people was because I thought they were lying. It’s not like I have magical ‘I don’t care’ armour (but I’m starting to grow some, yay!), and those on here who do have probably been wearing it for many years.

Tracy
Tracy
11 years ago

*sigh* I miss real yogurt. The soy stuff is just not remotely the same. Damn lactose intolerance.

Make your own! It’s easy easy easy – just need starter culture, which you can order/buy (or, if you’re lucky you can find a good yogurt to use as a starter). If you let it ferment for 24 hours, almost all of the lactose is gone. Most store-bought yogurts aren’t fermented very long, and have all the additional crap like gelatin, etc. Also – coconut milk makes a good yogurt, as long as you use a decent, full fat coconut milk.

JustACheeto
JustACheeto
11 years ago

All this talk about American yogurt is a bit of a shock to me. I had no idea yogurt wasn’t supposed to be gelatin-like. I’ll keep my eyes open for a chance to try the real stuff.

leftwingfox
11 years ago

Not just gelatine, but modified corn starch. Honestly, I think health-food-faddism is probably just as responsible as cost for the use of gelatine and corn starch. Yogurt is marketed to the diet crowd, and no-fat yogurt is watery without the fat assisting the thickness. Skim milk and thickeners are cheaper, so that’s what they use for everything now.

Heck, even the good supermarket brands here in canada list both skim milk and cream in the ingredients. They probably bulk-buy skim milk for everything, then add a little cream, rather than buying separate shipments of whole and skim milk.

That said, the good brands really are pretty good. I can find Astro’s “Balkan style” yogurt (milk, cream, culture.) to be really good for cooking. Makes a killer muffin.

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