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MRA Trope: Working women don’t really work, and neither do stay-at-home moms. They just fill their days with useless make-work.

Lazy nurse giving totally unnecessary smallpox vaccination just to kill some time at her makework job.
Lazy nurse giving totally unnecessary smallpox vaccination just to kill some time at her useless makework job.

Our little friend over at the Pro-Male/Anti-Feminist Technology blog has done us a favor today by summarizing the, er, evidence behind one of the manosphere’s dumbest tropes: the notion that working women don’t really work, because their jobs don’t count, or something. Here’s Mr. PMAFT:

For the most part women don’t work.  They may have jobs or be stay at home mothers/wives, but in neither case are they doing real productive work for the most part.  Various groups promote their own form of make work jobs for women.

Ok, Mr. Hard-working Superior Man, let’s see you provide some evidence for these assertions.

The type of make work jobs for women we typically see today are all government derived.  This includes direct employment by various levels of government from local government to the federal government as 57% of government employees are women.  (That percentage actually should be higher since the military and law enforcement which are necessary jobs are mostly men.  The percentage of women in make work government jobs is really higher than 57%.) 

FWIW, only about 8% of Americans work in government jobs, so even assuming that these jobs are useless make-work jobs, we’re only talking about a relatively small percentage of working women.

Most of these jobs by their very nature are unproductive make work jobs (which are also detrimental to the economy).  It also includes quasi-governmental jobs in non-profit sectors and government mandated jobs in private industry, both of which only exist due to government action and thus are mostly unproductive make work jobs also.  An example of these types of jobs are in education and health services whose employees are 76.8% women.

Um, what? How exactly do you figure that teachers and healthcare workers are doing useless work –unless you are somehow opposed to people knowing shit, and being able to read, and actually living more than a couple of decades without dying of the plague.

From this information, it is clear that women aren’t doing productive work, but instead are mostly involved in unnecessary do nothing jobs.

Dude, aside from a couple of unsourced numbers, you’ve given us precisely zero “information” so far, just opinions. The first number seems to be correct, and while doing a quick search I wasn’t able to find the source of your second number, it’s certainly the case that women make up about that percentage of workers in education and health care. But you’ve proven precisely nothing about the supposed “make work” quality of women’s jobs.

For the heck of it, let’s break down the figures a little further, just to elaborate on the kinds of work that Mr. PMAFT sees as “unproductive.”

According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics’ Women in the Labor Force databook for 2011 (available in pdf form here), women make up 73.8% of the “Education, training, and library occupations.” Yes, women make up an overwhelming majority (97%)of pre-school and kindergarten teachers – presumably in Mr. PMAFT’s world, these highly unmanly jobs are the most useless and make-worky of all. Women, of course, also make up substantial majorities of elementary, secondary, and special ed teachers. And they also make up nearly half (45%) of postsecondary teachers – college professors and the like. Somehow people emerge from our educational system, as flawed as it is, with the knowledge and skills necessary to navigate a complex world. If the women who dominate education are all useless bimbos doing fake make-work, how exactly is anyone getting educated at all?

There are any number of legitimate criticisms that can be made of our educational system. But “the real problem is that teachers are a bunch of lazy ladies who just  pretend to work” isn’t one of them.

And what of health care workers? Yes, the percentage of nurses who are women (91%) is much higher than the percentage of doctors who are women (only 32%). I can only assume that Mr. PMAFT assumes that only the doctors themselves are doing the “real work” here, even though nurses are responsible for doing many of the essential medical tasks that keep hospitals and doctors’ offices working.  Women also make up the overwhelming majority of occupational, physical, respiratory and speech therapists. All useless, I guess.

And yes, the vast majority of health care aides are also women  – doing unglamorous but vital work. I’m certain that Mr. PMAFT looks down on these women – and presumably, on the men who also work these jobs – but again I am hard pressed to see how any of this is “unproductive make-work.”

Natually, Mr. PMAFT doesn’t bother to do the hard work of proving or even providing a shred of evidence that any of these jobs  are somehow less vital to our society than, oh, developing sexbots for bitter woman-hating men.

It’s bizarre. I’m used to nonsense from MRAs. But the “women don’t do real work” trope is so patently false, and makes so little sense, it’s hard to believe that even dogmatic numbskulls like Mr. PMAFT can actually take it seriously.

Having utterly failed to make his case about working women, he moves on to attack “traditional conservatives” and stay-at home mothers:

Tradcons will say that they have an answer to this.  They will say that women shouldn’t be out working like that and instead should be in the home raising large families.  This is another form of a make work job for women.  In the past it was necessary for women to have a lot of kids because most of them wouldn’t reach adulthood.  If you wanted three children to reach adulthood, you would have to have six children or nine children to make sure that happened.  That is no longer necessary since a person’s kids are now likely to all make it to adulthood.  There is no reason to have a large family except as an unproductive make work job for women. 

Yeah, I’m pretty sure that’s … not … how that works.

The tradcons try to hide this fact from everyone (including themselves) with appeals to tradition, to God/Jesus, and/or nature.  That is a fallacy because if you wanted to have large families in the way tradition, God/Jesus, and/or nature intended, only some of your kids should reach adulthood.  If you have nine kids, for example, and nothing else kills six of them before adulthood, then you have execute six of your kids before they reach adulthood.

Apparently when not fantasizing about sexbots and other forms of Pro-Male/Anti-Feminist Technology, Mr. PMAFT spends a lot of time thinking about children being murdered. Who knew?

Also, it’s worth pointing out that full-time motherhood simply isn’t an option for most mothers — the overwhelming majority of whom remain in the workplace.

It’s not surprising that groups from feminists to tradcons to people in between are trying to create unproductive make work jobs for women.  It’s because whenever there is an actual productive job to be done, that job is almost always best filled by a man (government regulations notwithstanding).  This is why you don’t see women doing real work like rebuilding after hurricane Sandy, repairing 1700 foot tall transmission towers, HVAC, or sulfur mining. 

What exactly makes HVAC more essential than healthcare? Aren’t they both essential to modern society? Is HVAC “real work,” but nursing not, simply because it involves more heavy lifting?

There isn’t any productive job out there now that women are better at than men.

Well, if “making logical arguments that are well-supported by evidence” can be considered a job, Mr. PMAFT is not exactly doing men proud here.

That said, he and his fellow dudes of the manosphere are better than almost any woman I can think of at whining about nothing.

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M Dubz
11 years ago

Oh sweetie, there is a difference between whining and bitching and righteous anger combined with having conversations about likes and interests. You should learn about the differences!

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The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
11 years ago

Nah, too many big words for him to manage.

Tracy
Tracy
11 years ago

I watched a documentary last night that made me think of exactly this type of MRA spewage, so funny that you posted about it.

The documentary followed Monica and David, two adults with Down’s Syndrome during their first year of marriage. What got me thinking MRA was Monca’s mother – her husband left while Monica was still very young, and she worked her way up from an entry-level position at a cruise line to eventually being the VP, while raising her daughter, alone. I was all like ‘wow, good for you – must have been difficult’ when I realized that people like Mr. PMAFT would a) blame the mother for the husband leaving and 2) give her no credit whatsoever for the hard – and great – work she did taking care of and supporting her family.

My mum worked as ‘support staff’ at an elementary school, taking care of kids with special needs. It was hard, hard work both physically and mentally. She went back to school and got her degree. All of this as a single mother (and no, she didn’t get rid of dear ol’ dad because she got bored). To hear anyone say that a job held by a woman (including raising children) is automatically bullshit work really gets to me.

I run my own web design business; my busband does HVAC! He’ll be so happy to hear he has a ‘real’ job and not a fake one like mine. I wonder what Mr. PMAFT would say, though, if he knew I built and designed the website for the HVAC company busband works at…

Tracy
Tracy
11 years ago

*sigh* Down syndrome. Monica, not Monca. Thinking while typing comments is make-work!

LBT
LBT
11 years ago

*sigh* I miss work. 🙁

And I did all variety of various menial work. Laundry, cleaning, weeding, customer service…

pecunium
pecunium
11 years ago

Demarcq: Men work, women work, PEOPLE work( And here in the USofA and most western countries child labor is outlawed ). That being said, at least men have the integrity not to whine and complain about having to work. Even if it means being a homemaker.

Bullshit.

The MRA is all about whining how they work and women don’t. The Republicans are all about how hard it is they have to work, and others don’t.

Clearly there aren’t many happy people here on manboobz nor (many)happy women in society by that logic.

Examples of the “whining” needed.

There are 300 million people in the US. If “there aren’t that many happy people”, then there ought to be an overwhelming amount of whinging.

It ought to drown out the happy. Confirmation bias (or disingenuous pretense of fact) seems to be afflicting you.

Unlike the dudes Dave writes about, who aren’t whining, just “telling it like it is,”?

This is your idea of brilliant logic? The stuff you think gets people banned?

Please.

Demarcq
Demarcq
11 years ago

Examples of the “whining” needed.

There are 300 million people in the US. If “there aren’t that many happy people”, then there ought to be an overwhelming amount of whinging.

It ought to drown out the happy. Confirmation bias (or disingenuous pretense of fact) seems to be afflicting you.

So now you’re telling me that the majority of people in the US are happy? LOLOLOLOL

Please cite your sources for this statement. If you want an example of whining, I can give you one right here: Today at my place of work, a female employee came in sick(even though she could’ve called in sick) and spent the whole day complaining about how she deserved extra pay for showing up at work despite being sick and how men are such babies when they’re sick and how she’s such a “strong independent woman”….etc etc. Every single time I read a whiny post or hear somebody whine I will be sure to post about it here on manboobz.

whataboutthemoonz
11 years ago

Obviously, since Demarcq is legit and not a complete ass-data troll, zie’s about to outline a list of criteria determining whether a given statement can be classified as “whining” or “legitimate grievance”.

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Lol a we doing ancedotes? Cuz I counter with the old man who called the AAA service center for a jump after taking his wife shopping — happy elderly couple counts twice.

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Oh hey, I found stats in under a minute — http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/lif_hap_net-lifestyle-happiness-net

“DEFINITION
This statistic is compiled from responses to the survey question: “Taking all things together, would you say you are: very happy, quite happy, not very happy, or not at all happy?”. The “Happiness (net)” statistic was obtained via the following formula: the percentage of people who rated themselves as either “quite happy” or “very happy” minus the percentage of people who rated themselves as either “not very happy” or “not at all happy”.”

US rate: 84%

cloudiah
11 years ago

Every single time I read a whiny post or hear somebody whine I will be sure to post about it here on manboobz.

Um, thanks? But you do realize that individual examples of whining — even if we believe you, which I don’t — don’t really count as evidence, right? Oh, you don’t get the whole concept of scientific method? No? Well, carry on.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Projection again – trollboy is miserable, so he assumes everyone else must be too.

cloudiah
11 years ago

Argenti, data doesn’t matter. What matters is that Demarcq knows someone who isn’t happy so … PROOF.

Demarcq
Demarcq
11 years ago

Argenti: What percentage of the US population participated in that survey?

Furthermore, I said it before and I’ll say it again: HAPPY PEOPLE DO WHINE!
Nobody is happy all the time at every single moment in their life. And it wasn’t me who put forth the abysmally stupid idea that “happy people don’t whine”. Why is it so hard to fathom that an otherwise happy person might whine or complain at a moment when they aren’t happy? Furthermore, if your whining induces guilt in others then it can easily be used to manipulate them into getting what you want. Particularly if the social rules give you permission to behave that way.

That’s one the biggest reasons this blog exists and people like you post here: MRAs are engaging in socially unacceptable behavior as it is considered a faux pas for men to whine and complain; even in situations where they actually are being treated unfairly. Now I understand that you people will interpret the previous sentence as a complaint, but no matter how I or anyone else may feel about it, it’s the way it is.

katz
11 years ago

Please, please, if I ever try to prove that everyone in the world is miserable to justify my own unhappiness, make me get help.

whataboutthemoonz
11 years ago

No, seriously. Demarcq is a serious contributer to conversation, a true intellectual who values integrity.

This is why zie is outlining a set of criteria used to determine what is or is not whining.

Kiwi girl
Kiwi girl
11 years ago

Trolls seem to have missed the set theory part of maths at school.

USA_females = {1,2,3,4,…,x}

Example_female= {329145}

{329145} =/= {1,2,3,4,…,x}

If they miss the basics, then no point shifting onto explaining statistics, sampling, generalising…. /rolls eyes

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

I don’t think trollboy understands what “faux pas” means. “Let’s replace all the women with sexbots!” is not a faux pas, it is a hilarious sign of complete batshittery.

Kiwi girl
Kiwi girl
11 years ago

Definition of whine, #2 is the one that is of relevance:
http://www.thefreedictionary.com/whine

Except, now we’re back to MRAsplaining word definitions.

cloudiah
11 years ago

That’s one the biggest reasons this blog exists and people like you post here: MRAs are engaging in socially unacceptable behavior as it is considered a faux pas for men to whine and complain; even in situations where they actually are being treated unfairly.

For us, it is considered socially unacceptable to be misogynistic, think men are better/of higher value than women, think women “don’t really work”, etc. etc.

This isn’t hard Demarcq. Try to keep up.

katz
11 years ago

Aaaand now he’s saying that if we didn’t survey every person in America, then the rest of them were probably unhappy.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Now now, cloudiah, it is very unfair that men do not currently have sexbots, and they have every right to complain about it, just like Meller had every right to complain about feminists depriving him of the hovercars that he deserved.

Demarcq
Demarcq
11 years ago

I don’t think trollboy understands what “faux pas” means.

A faux pas is a violation of accepted social norms. It’s as simple as that. Our current accepted social norms mandate that it’s not acceptable for men to whine and complain; but for women it IS acceptable. I guess it’s hard for you to understand that society has a double standard about whining that is gender based.

Demarcq
Demarcq
11 years ago

Also, criticizing women’s behavior does not equate with misogyny. The idea that if you aren’t inherently sympathetic to all people who are female simply because they are female you’re a misogynist is a false dichotomy.

Clearly women do work, and that’s how it should be. But I’m sick to death of hearing them complain about having to and I hear that quite often.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Aw, look, it’s trying to be disingenuous.

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