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[TRIGGER WARNING; UPDATED] A Voice for Men commenter claims that the Newtown shooting is evidence of the oppression of men

Men’s Rights activists and others in the manosphere often complain that it’s unfair to link their movement to killers like the virulent antifeminist mass murderers Marc Lepine and Anders Breivik, even though the antifeminist, anti-woman ideology of these killers is oftem indistinguishable from MRA thought.

But the plain fact is that they make the links themselves. Whenever there is some sort of mass killing by someone who is driven at least in part by the hatred of women, it seems like it’s only a matter of time before some MRA steps up to, if not explicitly endorse the killer, at least suggest some sort of sympathy or empathy with him and/or to suggest that the killing in some way is an understandable or justifiable or even praiseworthy reaction to the the alleged oppression of men.

This time it seems to have happened with record speed. Over on the A Voice for Men forum, one commenter, GregA, compares the mass killer in Newtown today — whose motives are still completely unknown — with oppressed people rising up against tyranny in the Middle East:

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So far the only reply he’s gotten challenges this odious comparison, so that’s a tiny bit comforting.

Naturally, the MRAs will say that this commenter is some sort of feminist troll. But he’s made dozens of comments on the AVFM forums that are standard-issue MRA stuff – he seems to be a bit obsessed with the notion that feminist commenters online are being paid for commenting – and his comments in the past (at least those that I looked at) seem to have been generally well-received there.

EDITED TO ADD: If you would like to discuss the Newton shootings without having to think about this horrible comment of GregA’s, I’ve set up a separate no-trolls, no MRAs, thread for that.

EDITED TO ADD MORE: Meanwhile, over on A Voice for Men itself, one of the first commenters in a thread on the subject blames the shootings on, you guessed it, misandry:

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Meanwhile, AVFM “managing editor” Dean Esmay complains that feminists “will find some way or other to blame us in specific for this.” In case Esmay is reading this, I am not blaming the Men’s Rights movement for this shooting, mainly because we have absolutely no idea what motivated the shooter. What I am doing is pointing out that someone on AVFM’s own forum, someone who has previously posted there extensively, is comparing this murderer of children to some kind of freedom fighter, and another in the very thread you are posting in has decided (based on absolutely nothing) that “misandry” is to blame.

You may also recall the numerous comments from MRAs justifying or at least excusing, the Seal Beach shooter.

Here are some more MRA comments on the Seal Beach murders which I chose not to post at the time. These are from A Voice for Men. (In the original thread they weren’t next to one another; there’s more horrible stuff in the thread besides these two comments.)

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Are these guys “feminist trolls?” No. They are both long-time commenters at AVFM.

But again, pointing out these horrible comments is not the same as blaming the MRM for that shooting, or for the shooting today.

In the case of Lepine and Breivik, people linked them to MRAs because they had (or in the case of Breivik still has) virulently anti-feminist worldviews virtually identical with much of the stuff posted regularly on Men’s Rights sites, and other “manosphere” sties generally.

Presumably we will learn more about this shooter’s motivations, and then we can decide if anyone besides the shooter himself is to blame.

EDITED TO ADD ONCE MORE: Elam has now shut down the thread on A Voice for Men; as I write this the thread on the A Voice for Men forum is still up. I suggest you take a look at it and make screenshots. Elam says it’s because I’m “using comments from the thread in order to push his lies.” It’s not clear how quoting his followers (in full, without edits) is a “lie.” Apparently he’s unwilling to let his followers continue to post comments because, we can only assume, he knows they will say more horrific things, and people outside the AVFM cult might see what those inside it actually think.

Not, at this point, that there’s much doubt about what they think.

EDITED TO ADD STILL MORE: Meanwhile, over on The Spearhead:

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As most of the readers here will know, the shooter was 20 years old, wasn’t a father and the shooting had nothing to do with any custody battle.

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Grace
Grace
7 years ago

@CassandraSays

I’m not for gun ownership (being from Aus, having limited access to most weapons has been beneficial) but I think the argument gun owners in the US are using is that it violates their 2nd amendment.

It makes sense to regulate gun control but if the 2nd amendment can be changed, the question is then, what other part of the constitution can then be changed? It is obviously a longshot but also within the realm of possibility.

The argument I believe, stems from “if the US government ever turned on its people” then those people could defend themselves and create a new nation. Again, unlikely to ever happen but then again read any history book and see the atrocities governments have done to their people in the past (eg. Mao, Pol Pot, Russia, different time periods of Europe, etc).

This decision should not be a knee-jerk reaction and thus thought out properly in regards to possible future probabilities.

Falconer
7 years ago

@kysokisaen: Sig also makes handguns, and I heard it was two handguns and the Bushmaster was the only rifle.

I think I’ll join you in that drink, Shiraz.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
7 years ago

Also from The Age:

Liberal Democrats are already pushing for tighter laws but despite a long history of school shootings Republicans have yet to be swayed that further gun control is necessary.

“‘That’s one thing I hope doesn’t happen,” said Rep. Mike Rogers, a senior Michigan Republican who is a former FBI agent, according to The New York Times. ”That’s certainly the lowest common denominator. What is the more realistic discussion is, how do we target people with mental illness who use firearms?”

Just. Fucking. Typical.

timetravellingfool
7 years ago

Ahaha, the conservatives need to devise a strategy to target people with mental illness? Isn’t that, like number five in their playbook after the unemployed, minorities, immigrants, and single mothers?

kysokisaen
7 years ago

I guess it was two handguns. The article I was looking at was an older one and must have crossed the semi-automatic with the Sig Sauer when IDing the guns. .

Shiraz
Shiraz
7 years ago

Cheers, Falconer.

Kitteh, the right’s just digging themselves deeper — like with all those “women can’t get pregnant through rape” comments. It’s really a bad time to start whining about gun ownership, but hey, if they can’t help themselves…*shrugs*

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
7 years ago

It’d be nice to think that there would finally be a turning against the whole right-wing gun obsession in the US, but I’m not seriously expecting anything like that. Hell, our much smaller and less ingrained gun lobby here made a lot of noise when gun control laws were tightened after Port Arthur in ’96, and we’ve nothing like the gun culture of the US.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
7 years ago

Right now the implication is that every gun he had was legal, and it seems like kind of a large collection of serious guns for people who may have had a mentally imbalanced person in the household. It struck me because I have known gun-nutty people in much more gun-nutty cultures than Connecticut who have reduced or eliminated the household gun collection when they became responsible for the care of impaired or imbalanced family members.

First and foremost, I get what you were trying to say — that the family should’ve cared enough about the shooter (their child), and society in general, to cut back the gun collection (if only because of the suicide risk).

However, I’ve moved back in with my parents, as the only other option was homelessness, and I am positive that if they were required, by law, to have only a certain number/type of gun, because I’m mentally ill, they’d kick me out long before they’d sell the guns. (Why I am sure of this is a long painful story, but I’m sure of it.)

So while I understand what you were trying to say there, I don’t think the implications of it would help the mentally ill, at least not those of us with less than supportive families. Nor do I think more gun control would really prevent this sort of thing — as you said, all the guns were legally owned — and as my parents would be all together too quick to point out, laws are for law abiding citizens, they don’t do much good if someone just doesn’t give a shit about the law.

Finally, thank you for letting me have that little vent, I don’t dare say anything on the topic in the family “discussions” as I’m the only liberal in the house. Also, I’ll be joining in that round of shots in just a moment, I need more tea for my tea and Jamesons.

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The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
7 years ago

Would the “laws are for the lawful” thing really apply in these cases of mass shootings? Is there anything to suggest they’re carried out by long-term or career criminals? They seem so often to be of the “Nobody knew! He was such a nice guy!” variety. Regardless, I can only say that reducing the number of such weapons in the community could only reduce the opportunity for such mass killings. And it’s not like it’s the law-abiding, armed-to-the-teeth citizens who actually stop the shootings when they happen. It’s the police, when the murderers don’t end up killing themselves as well.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
7 years ago

Here’s the thing. Would reducing the number of guns that are in circulation prevent all future cases of random violence? No. Would it stop a really determined person from hurting other people? No. But it would limit the scale of the events, and if guns were harder to get then some people might just give up. For those reasons alone it’s worth limiting gun ownership.

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The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
7 years ago

Exactly. I don’t see people here ranting that we should loosen gun control laws. Well, I daresay there are far-right gun lovers who do, but I don’t frequent those sort of sites.

kysokisaen
7 years ago

I’m sorry that in your personal situation things would be tougher for you if we had rules about how many guns a person could have if they were responsible for mentally imbalanced people, but how can we use that as a reason for inaction? It’s true that most mentally disturbed people and most gun owners are not dangerous. But it is equally true that spree shooters who use these crazy assault weapons to do insane amounts of damage to innocent people (a) tend to have histories of mental illness and (b) overwhelmingly get their guns legally. I honestly don’t think this is a problem that can be solved with more regulations. It’s a culture thing – we don’t like facing up to mental issues in our family and friends if we can possibly ignore it, and we love our guns. When those two issues colloide, the results are catastrophic. Mental illness is far too nuanced a thing to fit into a gun control debate that has long since forgotten that nuance is a thing.

Restricting the gun ownership of people responsible for disturbed individuals would be a civil liberties nightmare, but there is this tiny slice of gun owners who won’t put on their grownup hats and get rid of their comically excessive guns when they should. People like your parents are exactly the problem, and if the culture can’t or won’t regulate themselves honestly then the only solution left is the Katz Test: Are you in the military Y/N?

Yoyo
Yoyo
7 years ago

I …just…don’t….get…it. What plausible reason is there to have a pistol except to kill human beings? However, given that there are so f..king many guns already in the states how about you make ammunition impossible to get. One bullet at a time and you have to wait a week before you can buy another. Or one bullet at a time and you have to account for the previous one.

hellkell
hellkell
7 years ago

Chris Rock had a bit that said bullets should cost $5,000 apiece, that way you had to be REALLY sure you wanted to kill someone.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
7 years ago

First, you can’t just limit guns for the caretakers of the mentally ill, that really is a civil liberties nightmare. Second, people like my parents are definitely part of the problem, but they, and others like them, already firmly believe that Obama wants to take their guns — all guns. And on his more out there days my father rants about how then we’ll have a race war and white people will loose because only criminals will have guns (and of course not-white = criminal)

In short, the conservatives are less sane than many of the mentally ill (makes for fun family dinners, let me tell you!)

These should be two separate issues though — fixing our mental healthcare system should not be based on gun crime (or crime in general) but on the simple fact that people deserve healthcare, all types of healthcare.

“Would the “laws are for the lawful” thing really apply in these cases of mass shootings? Is there anything to suggest they’re carried out by long-term or career criminals?”

My parents don’t mean “already a criminal” they mean that criminals will use illegal guns if they want, because wtf do they care about gun laws if they are going to break another law. Mind you we’re well down the rabbit hole here (and White Rabbit just queued, all the irony)

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
7 years ago

Oh and re: bullets — my father’s collection of those is more or less harmless, it’s kept well locked up in flat file drawers, sorted by various things — he collects them the way some people collect, idk, action figures, lunchboxes, etc.

Mind you, this doesn’t stop him from ranting about Obama making bullets harder to get and wtf that’ll mean in “the coming race war” *sigh*

kysokisaen
7 years ago

Argenti, I’m sorry for your situation and like most people here, would totally support improving our culture’s support of the mentally ill. But the fact that your parents are assholes and you’re not wouldn’t be particularly relavent to gun control reform. I would support government programs that gave free apartments for life to people with the slightest, most bullshit, easily-faked diagnoses before I’d say well, most gun owners are reasonable people and you can’t argue with the ridiculous ones, so we really can’t do anything about how easy it a few assholes make it for a few mentally disturbed assholes to take everyone out with them.

If unreasonable people insist on being unreasonable, then once again, we’re back at the Katz Test.

Back in the day, people used to collect deformed fetuses. Not many, and most of the time they weren’t hurting anyone. But we still decided that was illegal as fuck and now it doesn’t matter how antique the specimen is, if you buy or sell it and you aren’t basically a doctor, someone is going to jail. People who are still interested in such collections have to make do with replicas. Here in Japan, where gun ownership of any kind is illegal as fuck, casual collectors have to make do with models. Such is the unfairness of life sometimes, and if the kids in the school shootings keep getting younger and younger, your asshole father might just have to suck it up.

This of course applies mostly the semi-auto assault rifles, which is pretty much the only kind of gun ban Americans can get behind. We are eons from the day when Obama can take your dad’s shotguns, Glocks or antique six-shooters away. I assume, if we could make legislation restricting gun ownership based on the mental well-being of the entire household, such laws would be strictly applied to only certain types of guns, much like there are plenty of loopholes in the current background check process.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
7 years ago

I feel like part of the problem we’re running into in this conversation is that for a lot of Americans gun culture is so entrenched that they can’t even imagine getting rid of it. People are so used to kowtowing to the segment of the population that has a fetishistic relationship with guns that the idea of just straight out telling them that no, they can’t have toys that can be used to kill people, is almost unthinkable. Whereas for those of us who’ve lived in places without that culture it seems baffling that this country allows those people as much leeway as it does.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
7 years ago

Most of what you just said is entirely correct, but bear in mind here that when the discussion of mental illness and gun control comes up, it inevitably refers to the diagnosed mentally ill. Which means people like my father — paranoid, probably delusionally so, aren’t going to show up on any of those lists. Put in place any ban based on mental illness and it makes people like him even less likely to get mental healthcare.

He’d probably freak out about bans on specific types of guns, but outside his delusional little world, yeah, banning things like semi-auto rifles in general makes sense. Just don’t tie it to “because the owner is mentally ill”.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
7 years ago

That was directed at kysokisaen, but applies to Cassandra as well (the part where I agree, more or less).

Part of my problem here is that I do know responsible gun owners — the sort that keep everything locked up, the ammo separate, only shoot at targets, etc. And since I’m not a real fan of eating animals in general, I don’t see much difference between hunting and skeet shooting.

katz
7 years ago

Cassandra, give us a little credit; it’s more of a “pick your battles” thing. When you’re up against people who want to get rid of unions and Medicare and birth control and progressive taxes and the Civil Rights Act, broaching one more issue that will make them freak out and help mobilize and consolidate their base can seem like it’s not worth it.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
7 years ago

See, this is what I mean – so what if some gun owners are responsible? Given the damage done by guns and the number of gun related deaths, I don’t see any reason why people should be allowed to own guns of the non-hunting variety no matter how “responsible” they are about it. If you take out the guns used for hunting what you’re left with is weapons designed to kill and maim – why should people’s desire to play with those be seen as reasonable?

I can see why people don’t want to take on the gun lobby from a practical pov, but from an ethical pov I still think it’s important to point out that America’s love affair with guns is fucked up.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
7 years ago

::waves from downunder::

Hear, hear!

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
7 years ago

I really think this is one of those cultural divides where people on opposite sides just can’t understand each other at all.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
7 years ago

Cassandra — it’s also 300~ years old and written into our constitution. It isn’t just that taking on the gun lobby would be a nightmare, it’s that it’s nearly impossible to change the constitution even when people generally agree.

As for the “are you military Y/N?” thing — the point of that bit of the constitution was supposed to be to allow “we the people” to fight the government if the need ever arose again (remember, this was right after the revolutionary war). Sure, there’s a good argument to be made that that’s not really relevant anymore, but to the people dead set on keeping their guns? They firmly believe they need to defend themselves from the gov’n, and from criminals, and that the current administration wants to take their guns…it’d go all Waco if we tried passing anything more than the assault rifle ban in the current political climate.

Reinstating that, expanding it even, is a good idea though.

But katz is right, with the current political climate, we really do have to pick our battles, and loosing medicare, progressive taxes, the Civil Rights Act, birth control and potentially Roe v. Wade itself — they’re all too important to try taking on the gun lobby.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
7 years ago

FTR — I don’t see the need for guns outside of farmers defending their livestock, but in the current politic climate, the risk of more gun owners using them because they feel like they’re being attacked, the risk of the right-wing in general claiming this is an attack and liberal propaganda…there’s too many other important things potentially up for “comprise” already.

Also, I’m not comfortable with the idea of armed police and an unarmed society — that one may well be cultural divide.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
7 years ago

I feel like, at this point in history, the idea that lots of people are actively entertaining the idea of hoarding guns so that they can potentially get into a shootout with the government is fucking terrifying. I’m far more scared of those people than I am of even the nastiest Republicans.

(I might feel differently in a country where the rule of law was a complete joke, and I’ve lived in one of those. In the US, though? That mindset is ridiculous.)

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
7 years ago

These *are* the nastiest of Republicans btw — they think it’s reasonable because Obama is proof of how stupid the country has become, that abortion and gay marriage prove how immoral we are, and that the US has, in general, gone to all the wrong kind of people. And that they’ll soon have to defend themselves from violent hordes of non-white liberals (I guess GLBT folks aren’t in these hordes because gay men are too effeminate or something? My father rants about how all French men are gay…hard to fit his bigotry on GLBT issues into this end of the world view)

Only good part about all this is his stockpile of water means I have plenty of aged water for the fish tanks XD

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
7 years ago

And yes, it is fucking terrifying, problem is that they’re a small subset of gun owners — there’s the set that just want to shoot targets, either for self-defense (since we do have plenty of criminals with guns, thus people think guns would help in home defense), as practice for hunting, or, I would guess, for the Freudian “enjoying the power trip” reasons.

Though honestly, there’s something quite satisfying to hitting your mark, I’m perfectly happy doing such with a bow and arrow though (just find me a nice left handed one please? I shoot lefty for some strange reason)

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
7 years ago

I meant Republican politicians. The own-guns-with-intention-of-forming-militia people are terrifying because they represent societal chaos and the breakdown of law and order, and they actually WANT that to happen. I’ve lived in places where society is less generally orderly than the US, and it sucks. So people actively trying to create those conditions tweak my “WTF is wrong with you, and are you going to kill me?” radar.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
7 years ago

“I meant Republican politicians.” — ahh, my mistake.

“So people actively trying to create those conditions tweak my “WTF is wrong with you, and are you going to kill me?” radar.”

Yeah, my father definitely pushes those buttons for me (gods, every time I’ve thought I might be about to die it’s been because of him, and accident or not, I’m never getting in a car with him driving again)

There is definitely something seriously wrong with that type of person, problem with basing gun laws on them though is that they’re a tiny subset of gun owners. Most are more like my grandfather, with one rifle somewhere (he won’t share that info) and the bullets elsewhere — and his old service revolver is in storage someplace or another, again, he gets real cross about how no one else needs to know where. Most he’s ever going to shoot is that damned fox that keeps going after the local rabbits.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
7 years ago

But allowing people like your grandad to have guns helps create the conditions in which people like your dad thrive. That’s the problem – the whole cultural relationship that America has with guns is just really weird.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
7 years ago

Perhaps? My grandfather isn’t real fond of my father’s collection, and I can’t get behind taking away service revolvers, or hunting rifles. And I don’t even really approve of hunting, other than to protect livestock // scare off larger predators.

For example, I have an aunt in upstate NY, cow land — the farmers all keep rifles to kill gophers (their burrows will seriously injure a cow) and to scare off coyotes and the like (I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase “fox in the hen house”? yeah, it’s a Bad Bad Thing)

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
7 years ago

And I do know people who’ve never held a gun and probably never will, and maybe it is a cultural thing, as even they think that hunting rifles have a logical purpose (defending livestock // killing problem critters)

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
7 years ago

I think we’re hitting that cultural divide again.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
7 years ago

Probably — doesn’t the UK and Australia allow rifles for farm defense though? I’d always thought they did, but maybe I misunderstood.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
7 years ago

Guns for hunting are definitely allowed in certain circumstances, though I don’t know what the rules are. Upper class twits in the UK love shooting things.

(I love how right as we’re having this conversation Jeff shows up in the other thread to illustrate every single dumb and simplistic argument in favor of why guns can never go away. But then only criminals will have guns! Jeff makes the babylogicJesus cry.)

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
7 years ago

Maybe banning // limiting non-hunting ammo would be the solution here? Allow replicas for collectors, and hunting ammo as that does have its purpose, but make non-hunting ammo expensive or impractical to obtain?

Outlawing guns really isn’t practical, not with the second amendment and the current political climate.

And as for skeet shooting, I suspect there’s some sort of ammo that’d crack plaster without doing grievous bodily harm. Don’t they usually use rifles anyways though? Idk how outlawing rifles could/would work, what with it being an Olympic sport and all.

khymchanur
7 years ago

Things like this are hardly new, or specific to the MRM. I mean, some people actually blamed the Virginia Tech shootings on mercury laden vaccinations. There’ll always be some people who’ll see any tragedy through the lens of their pet cause.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
7 years ago

Well, gotta give Jeff this much, his idiocy is what prompted my previous comment about ammo.

kysokisaen
7 years ago

Here’s the thing, Argenti, we can’t get rid of guns. Changing the US Constitution in this climate would be fricking impossible. But a semi-automatic rifle ban could probably get past the Supreme Court if people got to keep their handguns, shotguns and Brit-defeating muskets. Everyone knows that the traditional reasoning for the 2nd Amendement is laughably out of date. It does’t matter how much surplus military hardware that could be hoarded even by a small community: a well-armed citizenry is not what’s keeping us free from the spectre of King Obama. He’s got the missile silos and space lasers and weaponized pop music and whatever else the military spends their giant ass share of our tax money on. And tradition is no reason to go easy on a modern gun that is favored by spree killers because the mighty musket in the hands of a determined population is how the United States avoided being Canada.

There is no defensible reason for normal civillians to have easy access to a bullet-fountain. People like them because they’re cool and badass. Normally I think guns should be a state thing – this is a case where what’s right for Rhode Island might not be right for Texas, and that’s fine. But a federal ban on assault rifles? Yeah, everyone but a specific group of gun nuts would be fine with it.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
7 years ago

Maybe this would be a good opportunity for gun control advocated to use parody to get their point across. Mock up a video of someone using an assault rifle to shoot foxed/possums/whatever other small animal is bothering your livestock. Target practice with the assault rifle. Make the hardcore gun nuts look ridiculous for wanting the damn things and take away their “but it has practical uses!” excuse.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
7 years ago

Was that supposed to be directed at me or Cassandra? I ask because that’s basically a summary of my mismash of thoughts in multiple comments…maybe I just didn’t make sense while working things out in comment form?

In any case —

Changing the US Constitution in this climate would be fricking impossible. But a semi-automatic rifle ban could probably get past the Supreme Court if people got to keep their handguns, shotguns and Brit-defeating muskets. Everyone knows that the traditional reasoning for the 2nd Amendement is laughably out of date. It does’t matter how much surplus military hardware that could be hoarded even by a small community: a well-armed citizenry is not what’s keeping us free from the spectre of King Obama. He’s got the missile silos and space lasers and weaponized pop music and whatever else the military spends their giant ass share of our tax money on. And tradition is no reason to go easy on a modern gun that is favored by spree killers because the mighty musket in the hands of a determined population is how the United States avoided being Canada.

There is no defensible reason for normal civillians to have easy access to a bullet-fountain. People like them because they’re cool and badass. Normally I think guns should be a state thing – this is a case where what’s right for Rhode Island might not be right for Texas, and that’s fine. But a federal ban on assault rifles? Yeah, everyone but a specific group of gun nuts would be fine with it.

Agreed, on all of it (so long as we continue to make mental illness a separate issues, that was what had concerned me with your earlier comments) — though, I’d say that trying to change the constitution currently wouldn’t be just impossible but irresponsible, with birth control, abortion, medicare, civil rights, etc all up for debate.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
7 years ago

Cassandra, can I email your comment, in full to my lighting designer FWB? He does filmography on the side, he’s probably busy, but he could do it if he had time.

Also, airsoft guns pack enough punch for target practice, while just stinging if you get shot with one (quite the sting, but you’ll recover with nothing worse than a bruise, just remember your eye protection!)

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
7 years ago

Sure!

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
7 years ago

Not promising he’ll ever do anything with the idea, but I’ll send it to him now, thanks!

And as a warning, not that you won’t see my comment saying such — I just asked Jeff to please come comment on this thread instead of that one.

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The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
7 years ago

Argenti – yup, guns are allowed for farm use, definitely. And there are shooting clubs and the like – plus professional shooters who go killing kangaroos (shudder – please, anyone reading this, if you’re ever tempted to eat kangaroo, DON’T. There’s nothing humane about the way they’re killed). And yahoos who think pig-shooting is macho. We do have a lot of trouble with feral animals – gods I hate that word, like it’s the animals’ fault – but the need to control numbers is an excuse for some real lowlife shooters.

Your father thinks all Frenchmen are gay? How’d he get his wires so crossed, given the usual Frenchman = great lover trope? Not that either’s true, or that it should be surprising, given what you’ve said about him. It just caught my eye ’cause Mr Kitteh is French.

kysokisaen
7 years ago

Argenti I know you want to keep your guns but if the gun-having people can’t be trusted to keep dangerously unbalanced people away from dangerous guns, then the government will step in. They have to, because there are clearly enough careless people willing to pass legally-obtained semi-automatics to people who absolutely should not have them. Will they do a shitty job? Almost certainly! Is our mental health system in any sort of shape that such a rule could be fairly and reasonably enforced? No. Does ‘keep medicated people away from guns’ sound like the kind of simple solution voters would love? Yes, yes it does. You’re a mentally ill person who will defend the rights of gun nuts to have guns, but are you completely sure the gun nuts would do the same for you?

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
7 years ago

Hateful cultural stereotypes never make any damn sense. I once ran across a really obnoxious woman who went on and on about how “asexual” she thought Chinese men were (she lived in Singapore). She seemed a bit confused when I asked her how, if that was the case, there ended up being over a billion people in China.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
7 years ago

Let me guess – she didn’t find Chinese men appealing = they’re asexual-seeming. Or something equally dumb.