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The Men’s Rights blogger behind The Black Pill – formerly known as Omega Virgin Revolt – has made it his life’s mission to bring down the Pickup Artist movement, or at least the part of it that overlaps with the Men’s Rights movement online. Not because “Roissysphere gamers” are misogynist assholes who preach a mixture of manipulation and date-rapery to their readers. But because, in his estimation, these guys are promoting a “Misandrist Dating Advice Distraction (MDAD)” that convinces poor oppressed men that they can solve their problems by manipulating drunk hotties into sleeping with them – thus distracting them from the much more important goal of destroying feminism.
No, really.
The MDAD is especially insidious because it turns self described anti-feminists into feminists without those anti-feminists being concious of the process. …
I am declaring complete and total war against the MDAD. My goal is nothing less than COMPLETE DESTRUCTION of the MDAD so that whenever feminism is being fought in the future any discussion of dating advice is regarded as useless or a feminist trick and ignored. The MDAD is what is blocking the progress of mens rights more than anything else right now.
In his latest attack on the evil MDAD, Mr. Black Pill takes aim at the notion that women should have any influence over dudes who give out dating advice.
One of the ways that feminism controls everything is by making it so that everything needs female approval to be taken seriously. …
Dating advice is also held hostage to female approval. In fact, it is held hostage to female approval to a greater degree than almost anything else. Why is that?
Perhaps because if someone is giving out dating advice, rather than raping advice, to straight dudes, female approval has to be part of the package? If the idea of women offering opinions on dating advice makes your head explode, I’m not sure you understand the concept of consent well enough to be dating, much less giving out dating advice to others.
Mr. Pill continues:
Dating advice should be evaluated based on a scientific analysis of its results, on whether it works or not. If a dating strategy works, it doesn’t need female approval. Female approval doesn’t make a dating strategy work or work better. It’s completely irrelevant to dating advice. This is why no form of dating advice, including game, can be trusted. All forms of dating advice are currently held hostage to women for the benefit of women. Currently, every form of dating advice exists for the purpose of benefiting women not for helping men get more and better dates.
Yeah, “game” is a giant gift to women. Clearly the women of the world – especially the feminists – should be grateful for the opportunity to have more creepy manipulative dudes hitting on them.
Roissyite gamers are constantly trying to get female approval for game. They say that game is about “what works” for getting women, but if that were true they wouldn’t care about getting female approval for game.
Mr. Pill’s evidence for this? That some “Roissyite gamers” have tried to convince the slut-shaming, chart-making dating guru Susan Walsh that “game” is great for women. And that some male gamers are fans of a female game guru by the name of Kezia Noble.
Noble is bad news for men, Mr. Pill explained in a previous post, because dudes should
never ask women for advice about women. No matter what women will give you bad advice about women even if it’s unintentional. I am certain every man reading this has had the experience of their moms giving them bad advice about women. Knowing this gamers should avoid and denounce Kezia Noble but they don’t. They love her proving that gamers are nothing but mangina sycophants. Gamers can’t even hold themselves to their own ideas. If they can’t do that then game doesn’t exist and gamers are nothing but feminist manginas looking for new ways to kiss women’s asses.
Given that someone as allergic to female opinion as Mr. Pill is unlikely to fully understand or appreciate the notion of consent, I’m thinking it’s just as well that he remains a virgin.
I actually had to ask on his blog because I really cannot see the logic of “your dating strategy should never involve the approvement of women.” Unless of course you do not view women as people and this dude certain does not.
However, with my luck, the flu is on it’s way, only a matter of time.
I suspect he’s equating dating to something like dog-training. He wants research into how to train women, as he is sure they can work out the best way. Then, all women will follow his commands willingly and go on dates with him because a) women are all the same and b) they are simple stimulus/response creatures.
But… you can’t even apply the same techniques to all DOGS.
@ Aworld:
Good luck getting better! I have never been sick more often than my first year in the dorms (that was also the year of the swine flu, which I also got). As to dating, there is no reason to start before you feel ready. I’ve recently come to the conclusion that I need to work on my ability to set personal boundaries before getting into a relationship, especially a sexual one, and that unless I fall head-over-heels right now a relationship would be my last priority, behind schoolwork and having my own time, and that isn’t fair to the guy.
Flu vaccinations are a wonderful thing 🙂
@aworldanonymous, I actually did the same thing my junior year of college. I’d just had two really bad relationships in a row (the second one abusive), and I decided that I needed to get my psychological house in order before I started inviting other people to share it with me again. I think it did me a world of good, though I did occasionally get some flack for it.
I think that it’s great that you’re in tune with what you need, and that you’re willing to give yourself the time and space to figure things out.
And if you like sweets, my go to for cold and flu fighting is honey. Lots and lot of honey.
Hi Aworld, I’m an aspie/autistic too (female) and i’ve also decided to stop looking for romantic partners for a while, mainly just because as I’m approaching it now it’s not working for me and it’s making me too desperate to act safely and rationally. So I’m trusting that things will change eventually if i just work on myself and try to survive college/stress. Good luck!
Well, I didn’t claim he was rational, sensible or well-informed. Even though I am sure he thinks he is the most logical and rational person in the world.
I suspect he has no instinctive grasp of social interaction and, unlike other people without that instinct, his huge sense of entitlement tells him reality needs to conform to his perception, rather than him accepting he has a limitation and working with what he’s got.
aworld – welcome to the college campus, aka “giant petrie dish.” It takes about 10 days into each semester for some bug to come out on top and start making the rounds of the campus. This will happen after every break as well, most likely. I strongly recommend boosting your immune system however you choose (vitamin C, turmeric, garlic, whatever) and employing lots of hand sanitizer!
http://www.amazon.com/How-Train-Man-Nancy-Winters/dp/0312199007
http://www.amazon.com/Behave-Using-Secrets-Professional-Trainers/dp/1563056267/ref=pd_sim_sbs_b_1
http://www.amazon.com/Husband-ry-101-Husband-Spouse-Always/dp/0741417456/ref=pd_sim_sbs_b_3
Could be worse. My college is infected with strep.
I see NWO’s now posting his porn collection.
Yo, Slavey, this insight into your sex life is fascinating and all, but it’s really not polite to masturbate in public.
Awh, look at Owly fruitlessly trying to chip away at feminism. Let’s see:
-A book no one read, apparently.
-A book explicitly identified as a humor book
-A book where the following is the very first description:
Yes, Owly, I’m sure this proves that modern women are all just as bad as PUAs and Feminism is the gynocracy arglebargle. Meanwhile Roosh has admitted to being a rapist and Heartiste draws strangely childish pictures of women surrounded by disembodied jizzing penises to express his disgust at promiscuous women.
Just remember to pee outside next time.
NWO has discovered pictures. I don’t know whether or not this counts as progress.
Yes, NWO, the patriarchy doesn’t have a hella good view of men either.
Is there a particular reason all of you are being incredibly dishonest about what I said? I know that the answer to that. You are trying to attack me for being a virgin and slander me as a potential rapist because you have no real argument against what I said.
NWO, if your point was that those books are stupid and sexist, I agree. I JUST AGREED WITH NWOSLAVE. And I’m not sorry.
I lol’d.
Yeah, I dunno, it’s just that now I’m out of the high school environment and there’s no real pressure to seek romantic endeavours, I figure, why bother? If fortune finds me well, and I find someone I want to spend the rest of my life with, then that’s great, but I’m beginning to feel as if living a life of celibacy wouldn’t necessarily be a bad thing.
And I just shot down the big argument of every single evopsych/biotruth troll on the internet without even trying, fuck yeah.
So I take it NWO’s moved up from handcuffs to leashes. Kinky bastard.
Haven’t read anything yet, just wanted to say, THAT PICTURE!!! =3
And the collared man he chose looks so happy too. Poor Slavey, unable to ever achieve happiness because he can’t just admit that he wants an evil woman to enslave him with her see-through miniskirt and lead him around on a leash.
Just to be completely clear I don’t approve of the idea of training men lie they’re fucking animals (because they’re PEOPLE, duh), but the picture with the dude in the collar is a little more interesting than I think it maybe should be…… ;D lol
Also, I always wonder if guys like this don’t think about their positions thoroughly, or if they really actually truly honestly believe that women are Borg.