UPDATE: In a new post on his blog, Marshall explains what (he says) actually happened. See below for details.
UPDATE 2: AVFM says “Oops!” (See end of post.)
I just hope none of you were planning on attending the Great Vancouver All-MRA Debate on whether or not feminism has “gone too far.” Because the already strange story of this debate has taken an even stranger turn, which seems to involve a large degree of blatant lying from someone, or a bunch of someones, connected to the debate. Which, by the way, isn’t going to be happening, at least not any time soon.
A Voice for Men yesterday announced that the much ballyhooed debate would be “delayed due to outside interference.” The announcement told a dramatic tale:
Chris Marshall, a father’s rights activist and the manager of a Vancouver business where a scheduled debate addressing the question, “Has feminism gone too far?” reported that he has just been fired from his job, and escorted from the premises by Vancouver Police after 30 months of employment. The timing of Mr Marshal’s ejection comes 48 hours prior to that scheduled event.
Well, if Mr. Marshall’s alleged firing and the alleged visit from the police were indeed connected to his political activity, I guess you could call that “outside interference.”
But there is just one little problem with this story. On his blog, Chris Marshall claims to be the owner or co-owner of the car dealership that was going to hold the debate. Indeed, in one post he told this story of how his car lot came to be:
Three years ago I met a white guy named Robert Cortens. (another divorced dad) I told him my story and he said he wanted to lend me $250,000 to open up a car lot that we called CC Motors. We started with 80 cars and are now up to 200 cars in inventory.
We built this dealership with morals scruples and ethics and the concept that a good deal is when we are both happy. We now sell over 100 cars a month, most dealers sell 35 cars. We are now Vancouverʼs largest and most successful used car dealership.
So either he fired himself, and demanded that the police escort him off his own property, or someone is lying.
There are really only a couple of possibilities I can see, given the conflicting evidence out there:
1) Marshall is lying on his blog about owning or co-owning the lot – which seems unlikely, because he’s posted pictures of the lot festooned by banners and signs promoting his website and denouncing the “Lying Legal Horror Lawyers” that Marshall says are “using my son as a pawn for judicial extortion.” You’d be hard pressed to find a car dealer who would let an employee, even a manager, put banners like this on his business. I think he must really be the owner or co-owner. [Edited to add: Also, as of 9/22/2012, the car dealership’s web page prominently promotes Marshall’s website; indeed, the biggest graphic on the page is not a picture of a car but of one of his father’s rights banners, and the link to his blog is in a bigger typeface than the link to the inventory of the dealership’s cars.]
2) Marshall wasn’t fired. He simply lied to the folks at AVFM about what happened, and they were stupid enough to believe him.
3) The AVFM dudes, realizing that no one was going to show up to watch MRAs debate themselves, have decided to cover up their own organizing ineptitude by simply making up this story, which, as usual, allows them to play the victim once again. They assumed that the MRA masses, both on AVFM or elsewhere, wouldn’t bother to fact check their story and would simply swallow it whole.
4) Marshall had some sort of falling-out with the co-owner of his business, and his removal from the property had something to do with that; AVFM simply took the opportunity to “delay” the debate and to insinuate with no proof that evil feminists were somehow behind it all.
[UPDATE: Apparently #4 is the correct answer. In a new post on his blog, Marshall explains his side of the story:
First, the investor in my business CC Motors has take away my signing authority and the profits I have created for CC Motors. I have also been banned from the business I built from nothing to a success. I refused to make him a partner in the car business. He is no longer satisfied with the $48,000 a year he get’s for lending me $160,000.
Huh. No mention of feminists complaining about the debate. ]
AVFM seems to have gotten away with their insinuations once again. It goes without saying that the sycophants on AVFM bought the story. On Reddit, while a few commenters in the inevitable r/mensrights thread raised questions about AVFM’s nonsensical tale, most accepted it unquestioningly and worked themselves into quite a tizzy about the terrible injustice of it all. A couple typical comments from the thread (click on the pics to see the quotes in context):
So if it is AVFM who is lying here, I suppose I should give them credit for another victory of their propaganda over the stubborn world of facts. Not that long ago, you may recall, they got away with claiming a mob of twenty or thirty people “wielding box cutters” had confronted JohnTheOther while postering in Vancouver, when JTO’s own video footage showed only a tiny handful of people taking down his posters. Meanwhile, the AVFMers keep insinuating that feminists shut down the original version of this debate, when according to the original organizer MRAs were at least partially (if not wholly) responsible. And now this.
Actually, even if somehow, magically, everyone is telling the truth about the events surrounding Mr. Marshall, it’s not clear why the debate would have to be “delayed.” Despite the setback, most organizers would have just moved the event to a new location. (It certainly wouldn’t be that hard to find a place. Given how many people would likely have shown up, they could probably hold it in a studio apartment, or a large shoe.)
Of all the stumbling blocks that might get in the way of this debate, I would think that the lack of an opposing side would have been a much more serious one – as the announcement notes in passing, no feminists have stepped forward to debate the AVFM crowd, Vancouver Division. Debating an imaginary opponent? Not a problem. Changing location? Impossible.
On AVFM, the person writing the announcement lets us know that Mr. Elam has been informed of the dastardly attack on free speech.
Paul Elam, when informed of these events remarked:
“Those who believe open discussion can be silenced by intimidation, and who may be patting themselves on the back should all be invited to attend the rescheduled debate which will be announced shortly on this site.”
Very slick, Paul, working a plug for a new debate into your entirely spontaneous response to Mr. Marshall’s alleged firing.
Oh, and the new debate, if it ever comes to fruition, will be based on a slightly different question. As the announcement explains:
[I]n light on the resistance among gender ideologues, and the established pattern of censorship, intimidation and threats against the original organizer, a revised premise for the debate is now under consideration.
“Is feminism a hate movement?”
This debate is never going to happen, is it? I wonder what they’ll blame next time. Feminist caribou?
EDITED TO ADD: The fellas at AVFM have now run a … I don’t know, but it looks sort of like a correction of some kind, atop their original post:
I guess it would be too much to expect them to offer an apology of sorts for all the imaginary feminists they pointed their giant A Voice for Men Foam Finger of Insinuation at in the original post.
I just remembered the flounce song from Making light and felt the need to share.
http://nielsenhayden.com/makinglight/archives/013677.html#013677
Sharon/some guy’s sock-puppet: “It isn’t the first time that feminists have engaged in dirty pool to shut up dissent.”
Wait … you’re suggesting that this Marshall guy – who has been in divorce court for the past 10 years, who has the most epic angry-customer reviews I’ve ever read, who is currently in a financial dispute with his business partner – you’re seriously suggesting that when he was escorted off the premises of aforementioned workplace by the police, that the most parsimonious explanation is that it was the work of *feminists*?
What do you think feminism is, the Illuminati??
I think I’m going to second what Fembot said; you’re not interested in being rational. The sooner you get banned the better.
My “sandflies” (or possibly “sandfleas”) didn’t fly, but they did seem to be found in groups. I haven’t been able to figure out what they are usually called.
I, even after 16 years in the army, still like camping.
Well, maybe they didn’t fly, but I didn’t notice them doing it. Most of my bites were on my legs (specifically, the back of my legs, where I forgot to spray my bugspray.)
For those of you who don’t follow Shit Reddit Says, it’s been on a mission lately to pressure Reddit’s administrators to crack down on a number of illicit/unethical image sharing subreddits (i.e. of underage subjects/containing sexually explicit material taken without the subject’s consent).
Here is r/MensRights’ reaction to this.
You may lol.
Tulgey: It makes me rather angry actually. And that comparison to TubeCrush (completely irrelevant as it is) makes a point the “it’s only sexist when men do it” brigade keep on missing. First few pages of TubeCrush: pictures of men from head to waist/foot, all clothed on the train, looking like full human beings. First few clicks on creepshots: a close-up of some woman’s crutch (!), close-ups of other body-parts, zoomed in on semi-clothed on the beach. How could the poster seriously compare those two and not see the trend, and not see it everywhere around us?
MRA leaders like Elam make violent threats about feminists all the time, saying that the idea of “fucking up” our “shit” gives him throbbing erections. He talks about “doomsday plots” to cause us pain and suffering. And you want to say that we try to shut up dissenters? That’s rich.
How about you MRAs cut the bullshit. Stop prentending you care at all about improving society, stop pretending you care about challenging issues of masculinity Just come out and say “As MRAs, our ultimate goal in life is to rape and abuse women”. You are not a legitmate movement. You are a fucking cancer on humanity.
Unexpected update: AVFM has sort of admitted they were wrong. See the update in the OP (or go back over to the AVFM post.)
@nerdiah, I came across a term recently that might answer your question:
http://www.talkorigins.org/origins/postmonth/feb02.html
It explains MRAs very well, in my view.
@Sharon: “Why do you come into feminist spaces and disagree? Don’t you know that disagreement is against feminist moral code? Clearly everyone here agrees that cutting against the grain is an afront to their ideology”
We simply disagree with SomeGuy. Gasp!
God. You people are so unaware
And here is what got Paul to issue what he denies is a correction:
http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/10btwd/new_info_on_the_vancouver_avfm_debate/
The red pill should come with a warning: User will experience permanent psychosis. These guys are living in an alternate reality where apparently if you say the same thing enough times, it comes true. They must be really pleasant to live and work with.
>Tulgey: It makes me rather angry actually. And that comparison to TubeCrush (completely irrelevant as it is) makes a point the “it’s only sexist when men do it” brigade keep on missing. First few pages of TubeCrush: pictures of men from head to waist/foot, all clothed on the train, looking like full human beings. First few clicks on creepshots: a close-up of some woman’s crutch (!), close-ups of other body-parts, zoomed in on semi-clothed on the beach.
Yeah, the guys at creepshot apparently find faces revolting or something…
@Tulgey, Kakanian
The Guardian had a good (albeit terrifying) article on creepshots and revenge porn yesterday.
On that note… do we have any swedes here? because I wonder what the point of this page is:
>Or machoikollektivtrafiken.se, a Swedish feminist blog consisting mainly of photos of men (again, taken unaware) with their legs apart on public transport, ie basically of photo stream of men’s crotches.
Found it in the guardian’s comment section and… yeah, still not as bad as linking shots with faceook user profiles, but…well… It’s wierd all the same.
Wait, didn’t the person who organized the original debate say members of the MRM threatened her? How did that do a complete flip in their discourse?
dumbguyscene will have a long wait before Elame answers his questions about AVfM’s structure, activism, or general plan.
Put me in the “camping sucks” erm … camp. I was outside for less than 4 minutes last night going from the car to the house and I got 5 mosquito bites. I’m really allergic to those fucking things. Rar.
Damn those imaginary feminists are horrid people! Yeah, this debate will never happen because no one takes the MRM seriously, accept MRAs.
Sorry Ruby, we don’t accept MRAs. We do however, think no one except an MRA would believe the shit they do.
Wow, upper class and poor grammer.
Shorter Elame: even though proof that I’ve clearly fucked up has come forward, I’m totally right in what I posted.
He reported the information that fit his preconstructed narrative. What, he couldn’t have picked up the phone to call JtO’s new best bud Chris? Too much pressure to get the scoop on all the other media outlets covering this breaking story? What an ass.
Yo, not to be a buzzkill or anything, but “lame” is a pretty ableist term and it would be awesome if we could stop using it to insult asshats like Elam.
@Crumbelievable
“MRA leaders like Elam make violent threats about feminists all the time, saying that the idea of “fucking up” our “shit” gives him throbbing erections.”
The goal of feminists is to destroy the all encompassing, “patriarchy.” Or so they say. The actual patriarchy is really just the family structure with the husband as the head of the household, that is the very basis of a flourishing society. Feminists, and most western women, after decades of indoctrination have built the new patriarchy with the state as the head of the household. Man is now seperated from the family by the patriarchy women have enacted by law.
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“He talks about “doomsday plots” to cause us pain and suffering.”
The doomsday plot is the plague of feminism. Everyone suffers under feminism, since that’s what it’s been designed to do. Any society infested with the plague of feminism becomes inpoverished, and hateful. The elite prospers as they suck the wealth and morality from society under the guise of feminism.
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“And you want to say that we try to shut up dissenters? That’s rich.”
Here, as well as the MSM dissenters are silenced. The war against women reigns supreme as the only thing that matters on the political front.
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“How about you MRAs cut the bullshit. Stop prentending you care at all about improving society”
What has feminism improved? Slaughtering a mans unborn child? Kidnapping his living children? Kicking him out of his home? Getting a man fired because a womans precious feelings were slighted? Stealing his wealth? All backed by the guns of the state. Violence, violence everywhere. All backed by the patriarchy women have built.
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“stop pretending you care about challenging issues of masculinity”
Masculinity is, and has always been exactly the way it should be. The only challenge comes from women who believe they are perfect, and men should be more like women.
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“Just come out and say “As MRAs, our ultimate goal in life is to rape and abuse women”.
Abuse is abuse. What’s worse, individual abuse or state enforced abuse? Special laws for special people? What could be more appaling than having laws codifying women being superior to men in every aspect of life? What’s the difference between a master and a slave? If the master hits the slave it ain’t so bad, but if the slave hits the master it’s a heinous crime. The word of the master is incontrovertible. The word of the slave is dubious at best.
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“You are not a legitmate movement.”
Feminism is a movement started by the elite for a specific purpose. To destabilize and demoralize. To destroy the patriarchal family and transfer all wealth and power to the elite using the state as enforcers. Look how well it’s worked, how easily women were duped.
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“You are a fucking cancer on humanity.”
Even the worst MRA is superior to the best feminist. Look at the devastation feminism wrought in just a short time in poor India. A true cancer to be sure. Women are easily played which is why the elite always focus on their efforts on women. Filling their collective heads with how they’ve been held back, how great they are, how oppressed they are, how bad men are. Women’s vanity is an easy mark.
Equality will be achieved, just not the way the elite promised. Reductionist equality is what the elite had planned all along. Everyone will be equally impoverished while we all toil for a few thousand elite at the top. Women have served the elite well and the elite will reward women with equality at the bottom. Well done!
Kakanian:
The Swedish site is about illustrating the difference in male and female body language, specifically about why men take up so much more space than their bodies need, mostly due to their insistence on spreading their legs all the time. It’s seen as an expression of power (high-status individuals often take up more space than they physically need, while low-status individuals often try to make themselves smaller), and used as an everyday example of the difference in gender roles.
It’s not focussed on crotches, it just so happen that men’s love of spreading their legs so their genitals face onlookers is one of the prime ways they manage to take up so much space. The site includes several images of men with their legs together, resting their feet on opposite seats, no crotch visible.
In addition to not being about sex, it’s not about shaming either (though some images highlight the occasional rudeness http://machoikollektivtrafiken.se/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/2012-03-03-15.32.54.jpg). The group in charge of the blog writes that they don’t want to police how people sit, merely draw attention to the differences. A bit petty perhaps, but again, not about sexualising men.