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Imaginary feminists shut down debate with other imaginary feminists (allegedly) [UPDATE 2]

UPDATE: In a new post on his blog, Marshall explains what (he says) actually happened. See below for details.

UPDATE 2: AVFM says “Oops!” (See end of post.)

I just hope none of you were planning on attending the Great Vancouver All-MRA Debate on whether or not feminism has “gone too far.” Because the already strange story of this debate has taken an even stranger turn, which seems to involve a large degree of blatant lying from someone, or a bunch of someones, connected to the debate. Which, by the way, isn’t going to be happening, at least not any time soon.

A Voice for Men yesterday announced that the much ballyhooed debate would be “delayed due to outside interference.” The announcement told a dramatic tale:

Chris Marshall, a father’s rights activist and the manager of a Vancouver business where a scheduled debate addressing the question, “Has feminism gone too far?” reported that he has just been fired from his job, and escorted from the premises by Vancouver Police after 30 months of employment. The timing of Mr Marshal’s ejection comes 48 hours prior to that scheduled event.

Well, if Mr. Marshall’s alleged firing and the alleged visit from the police were indeed connected to his political activity, I guess you could call that “outside interference.”

But there is just one little problem with this story. On his blog, Chris Marshall claims to be the owner or co-owner of the car dealership that was going to hold the debate. Indeed, in one post he told this story of how his car lot came to be:

Three years ago I met a white guy named Robert Cortens. (another divorced dad) I told him my story and he said he wanted to lend me $250,000 to open up a car lot that we called CC Motors. We started with 80 cars and are now up to 200 cars in inventory.

We built this dealership with morals scruples and ethics and the concept that a good deal is when we are both happy. We now sell over 100 cars a month, most dealers sell 35 cars. We are now Vancouverʼs largest and most successful used car dealership.

So either he fired himself, and demanded that the police escort him off his own property, or someone is lying.

There are really only a couple of possibilities I can see, given the conflicting evidence out there:

1) Marshall is lying on his blog about owning or co-owning the lot – which seems unlikely, because he’s posted pictures of the lot festooned by banners and signs promoting his website and denouncing the “Lying Legal Horror Lawyers” that Marshall says are “using my son as a pawn for judicial extortion.”  You’d be hard pressed to find a car dealer who would let an employee, even a manager, put banners like this on his business. I think he must really be the owner or co-owner. [Edited to add: Also, as of 9/22/2012, the car dealership’s web page prominently promotes Marshall’s website; indeed, the biggest graphic on the page is not a picture of a car but of one of his father’s rights banners, and the link to his blog is in a bigger typeface than the link to the inventory of the dealership’s cars.]

2) Marshall wasn’t fired. He simply lied to the folks at AVFM about what happened, and they were stupid enough to believe him.

3) The AVFM dudes, realizing that no one was going to show up to watch MRAs debate themselves, have decided to cover up their own organizing ineptitude by simply making up this story, which, as usual, allows them to play the victim once again. They assumed that the MRA masses, both on AVFM or elsewhere, wouldn’t bother to fact check their story and would simply swallow it whole.

4) Marshall had some sort of falling-out with the co-owner of his business, and his removal from the property had something to do with that; AVFM simply took the opportunity to “delay” the debate and to insinuate with no proof that evil feminists were somehow behind it all.

[UPDATE: Apparently #4 is the correct answer. In a new post on his blog, Marshall explains his side of the story:

First, the investor in my  business CC Motors has take away my signing authority and the profits I have created for CC Motors. I have also been banned from the business I built from nothing to a success. I refused to make him a partner in the car business. He is no longer satisfied with the $48,000 a year he get’s for lending me $160,000.

Huh. No mention of feminists complaining about the debate. ]

AVFM seems to have gotten away with their insinuations once again. It goes without saying that the sycophants on AVFM bought the story. On Reddit, while a few commenters in the inevitable r/mensrights thread raised questions about AVFM’s nonsensical tale, most accepted it unquestioningly and  worked themselves into quite a tizzy about the terrible injustice of it all. A couple typical comments from the thread (click on the pics to see the quotes in context):

So if it is AVFM who is lying here, I suppose I should give them credit for another victory of their propaganda over the stubborn world of facts. Not that long ago, you may recall, they got away with claiming a mob of twenty or thirty people “wielding box cutters” had confronted JohnTheOther while postering in Vancouver, when JTO’s own video footage showed only a tiny handful of people taking down his posters. Meanwhile, the AVFMers keep insinuating that feminists shut down the original version of this debate, when according to the original organizer MRAs were at least partially (if not wholly) responsible. And now this.

Actually, even if somehow, magically, everyone is telling the truth about the events surrounding Mr. Marshall, it’s not clear why the debate would have to be “delayed.”  Despite the setback, most organizers would have just moved the event to a new location.  (It certainly wouldn’t be that hard to find a place. Given how many people would likely have shown up, they could probably hold it in a studio apartment, or a large shoe.)

Of all the stumbling blocks that might get in the way of this debate, I would think that the lack of an opposing side would have been a much more serious one – as the announcement notes in passing, no feminists have stepped forward to debate the AVFM crowd, Vancouver Division. Debating an imaginary opponent? Not a problem. Changing location? Impossible.

On AVFM, the person writing the announcement lets us know that Mr. Elam has been informed of the dastardly attack on free speech.

Paul Elam, when informed of these events remarked:

“Those who believe open discussion can be silenced by intimidation, and who may be patting themselves on the back should all be invited to attend the rescheduled debate which will be announced shortly on this site.”

Very slick, Paul, working a plug for a new debate into your entirely spontaneous response to Mr. Marshall’s alleged firing.

Oh, and the new debate, if it ever comes to fruition, will be based on a slightly different question. As the announcement explains:

[I]n light on the resistance among gender ideologues, and the established pattern of censorship, intimidation and threats against the original organizer, a revised premise for the debate is now under consideration.

“Is feminism a hate movement?”

This debate is never going to happen, is it? I wonder what they’ll blame next time. Feminist caribou?

EDITED TO ADD: The fellas at AVFM have now run a … I don’t know, but it looks sort of like a correction of some kind, atop their original post:

I guess it would be too much to expect them to offer an apology of sorts for all the imaginary feminists they pointed their giant A Voice for Men Foam Finger of Insinuation at in the original post.

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Tulgey Logger
Tulgey Logger
12 years ago

Hey, the internet can totally movie too. I watched a movie on the internet just last week.

The Internet can movie?!

This changes everything.

Kiwi girl
Kiwi girl
12 years ago

If we’re in a camp, can it be by the beach with 4-star hotels and be kitteh-friendly? My days of tents and wearing jandals in a shower where the hot water only lasts 1 minute per 50c are gone. Oh, and where the pub is the shop is the camp management and the closest petrol station is 25km away. It was New Years Eve, in the summer because it was Southern Hemisphere and it rained for 4 days. Then the car broke down on the way home.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
12 years ago

I do not camp.* I am firmly committed to the no-camping principle. Why anyone wants to spend money to go sleep on the ground in a place where both bathing and cooking are challenging is a mystery to me.

* The one exception would be the Saudi version, where people who live in the city go hang out in the desert for the weekend. It’s a major undertaking and does not involve being cold at night, dirt, or inadequate food.

WeeBoy
WeeBoy
12 years ago

Why would anyone bother to conspire to stop it? The self aggrandising MRA’s might be assuming they would have had an audience of thousands, but in reality they would have had three men and a dog show up to talk up some straw feminists then tear them down again. Then they would have had a collective mastie over how awesome they are and how they totes just defeated feminism.

I think it’s actually better for them it’s not happening, now they have a chance to do what they’re best at – playing the victim.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
12 years ago

Also the dog would have gotten bored, wandered off, and peed on some cars.

Shiraz
Shiraz
12 years ago

The so-called debate was a non-event from the get go. Why all the speculation?

thebewilderness
thebewilderness
12 years ago

It would be irresponsible not to speculate.

WeeBoy
WeeBoy
12 years ago

@kiwi girl – being that I am from the same two islands as you, I think you’re doing Christmas camping a disservice. You didn’t mention the mozzies, the blocked toilets, the half a rugby team in a tent four meters away who are perpetually drunk and noisy, or the inevitable blackouts.

(Should be noted I love camping. So ner.)

Kiwi girl
Kiwi girl
12 years ago

@WeeBoy 🙂 Nice to see a fellow kiwi! I forgot to add that the menfolk took their rifles and went hunting on a day that was merely drizzling rather than raining. After they got back, 5 hours later, we all bought fish and chips. I’ve also done the camping where there are no toilets and one takes a shovel and toilet paper, and where you’re swimming in a tidal river most of the day so from day 2 you can’t comb/brush your hair because of all the silt. And I’ve slept in shearers quarters where you ran the risk of fleas from the mattresses. And camped under a tree where a morepork (native owl, for the non-Kiwis) nested above us and kept me awake every night. Oh I love hotels now. 🙂

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
12 years ago

As a child my parents once made me go camping in Scotland so, you know, feel my pain. Hotels are lovely.

khymchanur
khymchanur
12 years ago

Given that the co-owner was friendly enough towards father’s rights ideas to allow Marshall to festoon the place with banners, he’s pretty clearly not a part of the alleged conspiracy of feminist cops and feminist caribou.

<conspiracy-mode>Well, obviously the feminists got some dirt on the co-owner and used it to blackmail him!</conspiracy-mode>

Kiwi girl
Kiwi girl
12 years ago

Ah yes, I know all about Scotland as I read “Cross-stitch”, and have watched Hamish Macbeth and Trainspotting. A flatmate also showed me photos of him at a Scottish train station in the winter, and the snow was platform height. 😛

Sooo.. the manboobz conspiracy is that we’re going hotelling and not camping!

cloudiah
12 years ago

I just had a debate with my cat, Hazel, where I took the side “MRAs are total douchecanoes,” and she took the side, “No, MRAs are complete douchekayaks.” I had 3 minutes, then she had 3 minutes, followed by 2 minute rebuttals for each party, and then a 1 minute wrap-up for each side. Buster, my other cat, moderated, and declared that feminism won.

More importantly, what are mozzies?

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
12 years ago

The Scottish midge is a fearsome creature indeed. Not one of them alone, true, but a swarm of them? You’re inhaling the damn things while they’re biting you. So summer is still cold and wet, just slightly less so, and with more insects.

I feel like a Pratchett character…hotels, hotels are nice.

mythago
12 years ago

Good grid, we’re far too busy promoting abortions, burning bras, seducing innocent housewives and solidifying our iron-fisted control of world government to waste time messing up a circle-jerk “debate” at a car dealership.

But I guess it’s easier on the ego to think “THE FEMINISTS DID A SABOTAGE” (so! very! important we are!) than to think “man, we fucked up.”

Kiwi girl
Kiwi girl
12 years ago

@cloudiah mozzie is Kiwi/Aussie slang for mosquito. But we used to have way more sandflies (midges?) than mosquitos, which also bite in the same way, so mozzie used to be used somewhat loosely. Both give me red swollen, itchy welts.

But also wetas. My phobia.

Fembot
Fembot
12 years ago

I’m with CassandraSays. Camping sucks.

WeeBoy
WeeBoy
12 years ago

@cloudiah, mozzies are mosquitos. And they are horrible and unpleasant.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
12 years ago

I’m not sure if midges are also called sandflies? They like damp places, hence being common in Scotland. They are also clearly agents of Satan/Cthulhu/insert your choice of force of evil here.

cloudiah
12 years ago

Bugs that bite are terrible. On the other hand, for a different view of hotels I recommend Troubles by J. G. Farrell.

wordsp1nner
wordsp1nner
12 years ago

I quite like camping, but for my family it usually means staying in a state park, where they have toilets and showers and a pre-made fire pit. In Oregon you can rent yurts at the state parks which have a heater and beds, though not sheets.

I don’t react to mosquito bites (the itchiness is an allergic reaction, and I’m not allergic) but my first couple of days on South Caicos in the Caribbean I got eaten alive by these 1 mm bugs we called sandflies. They hurt when they bit, looked like specks of dust, and the bite swellings lasted for around two weeks. I spend the first class of my study abroad program nearly asleep because I took some benadryl for the itching.

Sharon Seemins
Sharon Seemins
12 years ago

Jesus H. I’m trying to finish The Last Story here. Gimme some time to catch up, y’all.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
12 years ago

OK, that does sort of sound like a midge. Do they swarm?

I’m allergic to both mosquito and midge bites, yay.

Kiwi girl
Kiwi girl
12 years ago

Our ones swarm, and are found near water. In the summer, I get bitten on the exposed bits of my legs and feet at the train station, and it’s not that close to the river. 🙁 Apparently the term “sandfly” is a misnomer, and they’re midges. Nasty blood sucking things. I went through a lot of calomine lotion when I was a child… just realised I don’t think I’ve seen that in the chemist for years.

cloudiah
12 years ago

Oh and (reading backwards), Myoo, that was great as usual.

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