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Imaginary feminists shut down debate with other imaginary feminists (allegedly) [UPDATE 2]

UPDATE: In a new post on his blog, Marshall explains what (he says) actually happened. See below for details.

UPDATE 2: AVFM says “Oops!” (See end of post.)

I just hope none of you were planning on attending the Great Vancouver All-MRA Debate on whether or not feminism has “gone too far.” Because the already strange story of this debate has taken an even stranger turn, which seems to involve a large degree of blatant lying from someone, or a bunch of someones, connected to the debate. Which, by the way, isn’t going to be happening, at least not any time soon.

A Voice for Men yesterday announced that the much ballyhooed debate would be “delayed due to outside interference.” The announcement told a dramatic tale:

Chris Marshall, a father’s rights activist and the manager of a Vancouver business where a scheduled debate addressing the question, “Has feminism gone too far?” reported that he has just been fired from his job, and escorted from the premises by Vancouver Police after 30 months of employment. The timing of Mr Marshal’s ejection comes 48 hours prior to that scheduled event.

Well, if Mr. Marshall’s alleged firing and the alleged visit from the police were indeed connected to his political activity, I guess you could call that “outside interference.”

But there is just one little problem with this story. On his blog, Chris Marshall claims to be the owner or co-owner of the car dealership that was going to hold the debate. Indeed, in one post he told this story of how his car lot came to be:

Three years ago I met a white guy named Robert Cortens. (another divorced dad) I told him my story and he said he wanted to lend me $250,000 to open up a car lot that we called CC Motors. We started with 80 cars and are now up to 200 cars in inventory.

We built this dealership with morals scruples and ethics and the concept that a good deal is when we are both happy. We now sell over 100 cars a month, most dealers sell 35 cars. We are now Vancouverʼs largest and most successful used car dealership.

So either he fired himself, and demanded that the police escort him off his own property, or someone is lying.

There are really only a couple of possibilities I can see, given the conflicting evidence out there:

1) Marshall is lying on his blog about owning or co-owning the lot – which seems unlikely, because he’s posted pictures of the lot festooned by banners and signs promoting his website and denouncing the “Lying Legal Horror Lawyers” that Marshall says are “using my son as a pawn for judicial extortion.”  You’d be hard pressed to find a car dealer who would let an employee, even a manager, put banners like this on his business. I think he must really be the owner or co-owner. [Edited to add: Also, as of 9/22/2012, the car dealership’s web page prominently promotes Marshall’s website; indeed, the biggest graphic on the page is not a picture of a car but of one of his father’s rights banners, and the link to his blog is in a bigger typeface than the link to the inventory of the dealership’s cars.]

2) Marshall wasn’t fired. He simply lied to the folks at AVFM about what happened, and they were stupid enough to believe him.

3) The AVFM dudes, realizing that no one was going to show up to watch MRAs debate themselves, have decided to cover up their own organizing ineptitude by simply making up this story, which, as usual, allows them to play the victim once again. They assumed that the MRA masses, both on AVFM or elsewhere, wouldn’t bother to fact check their story and would simply swallow it whole.

4) Marshall had some sort of falling-out with the co-owner of his business, and his removal from the property had something to do with that; AVFM simply took the opportunity to “delay” the debate and to insinuate with no proof that evil feminists were somehow behind it all.

[UPDATE: Apparently #4 is the correct answer. In a new post on his blog, Marshall explains his side of the story:

First, the investor in my  business CC Motors has take away my signing authority and the profits I have created for CC Motors. I have also been banned from the business I built from nothing to a success. I refused to make him a partner in the car business. He is no longer satisfied with the $48,000 a year he get’s for lending me $160,000.

Huh. No mention of feminists complaining about the debate. ]

AVFM seems to have gotten away with their insinuations once again. It goes without saying that the sycophants on AVFM bought the story. On Reddit, while a few commenters in the inevitable r/mensrights thread raised questions about AVFM’s nonsensical tale, most accepted it unquestioningly and  worked themselves into quite a tizzy about the terrible injustice of it all. A couple typical comments from the thread (click on the pics to see the quotes in context):

So if it is AVFM who is lying here, I suppose I should give them credit for another victory of their propaganda over the stubborn world of facts. Not that long ago, you may recall, they got away with claiming a mob of twenty or thirty people “wielding box cutters” had confronted JohnTheOther while postering in Vancouver, when JTO’s own video footage showed only a tiny handful of people taking down his posters. Meanwhile, the AVFMers keep insinuating that feminists shut down the original version of this debate, when according to the original organizer MRAs were at least partially (if not wholly) responsible. And now this.

Actually, even if somehow, magically, everyone is telling the truth about the events surrounding Mr. Marshall, it’s not clear why the debate would have to be “delayed.”  Despite the setback, most organizers would have just moved the event to a new location.  (It certainly wouldn’t be that hard to find a place. Given how many people would likely have shown up, they could probably hold it in a studio apartment, or a large shoe.)

Of all the stumbling blocks that might get in the way of this debate, I would think that the lack of an opposing side would have been a much more serious one – as the announcement notes in passing, no feminists have stepped forward to debate the AVFM crowd, Vancouver Division. Debating an imaginary opponent? Not a problem. Changing location? Impossible.

On AVFM, the person writing the announcement lets us know that Mr. Elam has been informed of the dastardly attack on free speech.

Paul Elam, when informed of these events remarked:

“Those who believe open discussion can be silenced by intimidation, and who may be patting themselves on the back should all be invited to attend the rescheduled debate which will be announced shortly on this site.”

Very slick, Paul, working a plug for a new debate into your entirely spontaneous response to Mr. Marshall’s alleged firing.

Oh, and the new debate, if it ever comes to fruition, will be based on a slightly different question. As the announcement explains:

[I]n light on the resistance among gender ideologues, and the established pattern of censorship, intimidation and threats against the original organizer, a revised premise for the debate is now under consideration.

“Is feminism a hate movement?”

This debate is never going to happen, is it? I wonder what they’ll blame next time. Feminist caribou?

EDITED TO ADD: The fellas at AVFM have now run a … I don’t know, but it looks sort of like a correction of some kind, atop their original post:

I guess it would be too much to expect them to offer an apology of sorts for all the imaginary feminists they pointed their giant A Voice for Men Foam Finger of Insinuation at in the original post.

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hellkell
hellkell
12 years ago

Come some guy, fight the power! ONE MORE COMMENT!

blitzgal
12 years ago

Yeah dude, comment again and get your ass banned, PLEASE.

Gametime
12 years ago

I would love to see a world where everyone upheld high or Feynmanian standards for intellectual honesty. I wish I could say I saw that here in your writings David, but I don’t.

See, there’s the kernel of some quality troll pretension here, but some guy always has to bury it beneath layers and layers of tedium.

Shame, really. If he were just a bit more pompous and unreflective, he could’ve been the next Steelepole. He could’ve been a troll worth laughing at.

blitzgal
12 years ago

All the positive reviews here are written in the same style – poor spelling, weak grasp of punctuation and halting, abrupt syntax which is characteristic of a developmentally disabled 11 year old or a junkie with a grade 8 education. Having met the staff at this place I can safely assume that they are responsible for all these reviews.

HAHAHAHAHA, whoa.

Myoo
Myoo
12 years ago

@someguy
Half of the thread in comments does not equal half of the thread in commenters. The majority of the commenters believe it was feminists that got the guy fired. You constantly misrepresent the stuff you’re talking about, and I don’t know if you just can’t read for content or if it’s deliberate. Either way, maybe work on that before criticizing David.

nerdiah
nerdiah
12 years ago

Oh, I see the people from JJ have now commented on the reviews for CC to let people know that “JJ MOTORS NO LONGER AFFILIATED WITH CHRIS AT CC MOTORS”. The reviews from back when they were are pretty shocking. Chris is even named in a lot of these. I can’t imagine.

Sharon Seemins
Sharon Seemins
12 years ago

WTF is wrong with you, some guy?

Why do you come into feminist spaces and disagree? Don’t you know that disagreement is against feminist moral code? Clearly everyone here agrees that cutting against the grain is an afront to their ideology.

Hell, you’re looking at a ban for it. If you get banned, you would have to go to hidemyass.com or some sort of free IP proxy site just to keep fucking with us. Is that really what you want? All for a disagreement?

Shiraz
Shiraz
12 years ago

Heavy.

thebewilderness
12 years ago

Sock puppet alert!

Myoo
Myoo
12 years ago

Why do you come into feminist spaces and disagree? Don’t you know that disagreement is against feminist moral code? Clearly everyone here agrees that cutting against the grain is an afront to their ideology.

Hell, you’re looking at a ban for it. If you get banned, you would have to go to hidemyass.com or some sort of free IP proxy site just to keep fucking with us. Is that really what you want? All for a disagreement?

You can’t make this shit up folks.

Jake
Jake
12 years ago

I checked his web site and he’s complaining about not being able to see his kid because he didn’t email seven days in advance like the court order says, and jesus how hard is it to send an email.

Myoo
Myoo
12 years ago

@thebewilderness
Yeah, this is starting to sound more and more like some troll that we already know.

(With apologies to Gotye)

Now and then I think of when you used to post here
Like when you posted stuff that were just outright lies
Told myself you wouldn’t get to me
But felt so annoyed in your company
You were an ass and a big pain and I still remember

Doooooo
Deee-dooo-dooo-dooo
Dooo-dooo-dooo
Deee-dooo-dooo-dooo

You seemed to be addicted to a certain kind of blandness
Like repetition of the same stuff, it had no end
So when we found out you could not make sense
And what you said showed you were just dense
I’ll admit that we were glad that you were gone

But you didn’t have to come right back
Make out like it never happened and that you weren’t banned
And I don’t want to read your crap
But you act like you’re a stranger and that’s really silly
No you didn’t have to stoop so low
Change your username, your avatar and your IP number
I guess you thought it wouldn’t show
But you’re obviously some troll that we already know

But you’re obviously some troll that we already know
But you’re obviously some troll that we already know

Doooooo
Deee-dooo-dooo-dooo
Dooo-dooo-dooo
Deee-dooo-dooo-dooo

Now and then I think of all the times that it seemed over
But you believed it was always something we had done
Why couldn’t you just stay away
We don’t want to read what you say
But you simply couldn’t let it go
And now we know you’re just some troll that we already know

But you didn’t have to come right back
Make out like it never happened and that you weren’t banned
And I don’t want to read your crap
But you act like you’re a stranger and that’s really silly
No you didn’t have to stoop so low
Change your username, your avatar and your IP number
I guess you thought it wouldn’t show
But you’re obviously some troll that we already know

But you’re obviously some troll that we already know
But you’re obviously some troll that we already know

[x2]
Some troll
(We already know)
Some troll
(We already know)
Some troll
(You’re obviously some troll that we already know)

(we already know)
(that we already know)
(we already know)
Some troll

Creative Writing Student

@Jake

I have problems sending email because I am terrified of screwing it up.

However, this guy doesn’t seem to be the type to have massive social anxiety, so…

nerdiah
nerdiah
12 years ago

Jake: Are you totally getting sucked-into this guy’s story as well? For some bizarre reason, he has posted a psychologist’s assessment of himself to his website.

Sharon Seemins
Sharon Seemins
12 years ago

Agreed, all it takes is an email. Hell, you would think that something so simple would be easy, and yet when 80% of fathers can’t get custody one would think that they can’t manage even that.

Send the email and get custody, fuckheads.

Tulgey Logger
Tulgey Logger
12 years ago

Also, when I wrote the post there were a lot fewer comments challenging the story.

The Internet can movie?!

This changes everything.

Tulgey Logger
Tulgey Logger
12 years ago

…move.* Hah.

Anyway, Seemins, it’s really remarkable that, in a space so intolerant of any dissent whatsoever, your contentless comments and baseless criticisms are still allowed.

yet when 80% of fathers can’t get custody

When was that? The 70% of times they win when they fight for custody or what?

Nepenthe
Nepenthe
12 years ago

@Myoo

*standing ovation*

The non-ape residents would join me, but the Fuzzy One doesn’t like Gotye and the Scaly One doesn’t have hands.

wordsp1nner
wordsp1nner
12 years ago

CWS–I’m terrified of the phone for the same reason. But I like email.

What I wonder is why that ended up in the court order. I wonder if that is standard, or if he’d been screwing with his ex by demanding visits at the last minute?

Jake
Jake
12 years ago

@nerdiah: I have trouble looking away from internet trainwrecks.

thebewilderness
12 years ago

Criminy! Did you read his website. He has been violating a lot of court orders lately.

Fembot
Fembot
12 years ago

Fuck off Sharon.

nerdiah
nerdiah
12 years ago

wordsp1nner: “or if he’d been screwing with his ex by demanding visits at the last minute?”

It’s safest to assume that issues exist on both sides. Even by 2007 there was already a long history of access arrangement difficulties, to the point at which the psychologist kind of threw up his hands and said he wasn’t going to sift through it to determine the veracity of each claim and counter-claim. He also said, in response to the Justice’s request to determine if there was a risk he might not return the child, that there was a “a moderate risk of Mr. Marshall failing to comply with Court directed orders. as his past conduct predicts such conduct”, so this would explain the court’s behaviour. Though how this has been allowed to go on for 10 years is beyond me.