UPDATE: In a new post on his blog, Marshall explains what (he says) actually happened. See below for details.
UPDATE 2: AVFM says “Oops!” (See end of post.)
I just hope none of you were planning on attending the Great Vancouver All-MRA Debate on whether or not feminism has โgone too far.โ Because the already strange story of this debate has taken an even stranger turn, which seems to involve a large degree of blatant lying from someone, or a bunch of someones, connected to the debate. Which, by the way, isnโt going to be happening, at least not any time soon.
A Voice for Men yesterday announced that the much ballyhooed debate would be โdelayed due to outside interference.โ The announcement told a dramatic tale:
Chris Marshall, a fatherโs rights activist and the manager of a Vancouver business where a scheduled debate addressing the question, โHas feminism gone too far?โ reported that he has just been fired from his job, and escorted from the premises by Vancouver Police after 30 months of employment. The timing of Mr Marshalโs ejection comes 48 hours prior to that scheduled event.
Well, if Mr. Marshallโs alleged firing and the alleged visit from the police were indeed connected to his political activity, I guess you could call that โoutside interference.โ
But there is just one little problem with this story. On his blog, Chris Marshall claims to be the owner or co-owner of the car dealership that was going to hold the debate. Indeed, in one post he told this story of how his car lot came to be:
Three years ago I met a white guy named Robert Cortens. (another divorced dad) I told him my story and he said he wanted to lend me $250,000 to open up a car lot that we called CC Motors. We started with 80 cars and are now up to 200 cars in inventory.
We built this dealership with morals scruples and ethics and the concept that a good deal is when we are both happy. We now sell over 100 cars a month, most dealers sell 35 cars. We are now Vancouverสผs largest and most successful used car dealership.
So either he fired himself, and demanded that the police escort him off his own property, or someone is lying.
There are really only a couple of possibilities I can see, given the conflicting evidence out there:
1) Marshall is lying on his blog about owning or co-owning the lot โ which seems unlikely, because heโs posted pictures of the lot festooned by banners and signs promoting his website and denouncing the โLying Legal Horror Lawyersโ that Marshall says are โusing my son as a pawn for judicial extortion.โ ย Youโd be hard pressed to find a car dealer who would let an employee, even a manager, put banners like this on his business. I think he must really be the owner or co-owner. [Edited to add: Also, as of 9/22/2012, the car dealership’s web page prominently promotes Marshall’s website; indeed, the biggest graphic on the page is not a picture of a car but of one of his father’s rights banners, and the link to his blog is in a bigger typeface than the link to the inventory of the dealership’s cars.]
2) Marshall wasnโt fired. He simply lied to the folks at AVFM about what happened, and they were stupid enough to believe him.
3) The AVFM dudes, realizing that no one was going to show up to watch MRAs debate themselves, have decided to cover up their own organizing ineptitude by simply making up this story, which, as usual, allows them to play the victim once again. They assumed that the MRA masses, both on AVFM or elsewhere, wouldnโt bother to fact check their story and would simply swallow it whole.
4) Marshall had some sort of falling-out with the co-owner of his business, and his removal from the property had something to do with that; AVFM simply took the opportunity to โdelayโ the debate and to insinuate with no proof that evil feminists were somehow behind it all.
[UPDATE: Apparently #4 is the correct answer. In a new post on his blog, Marshall explains his side of the story:
First, the investor in myย business CC Motors has take away my signing authority and the profits I have created for CC Motors. I have also been banned from the business I built from nothing to a success. I refused to make him a partner in the car business. He is no longer satisfied with the $48,000 a year he getโs for lending me $160,000.
Huh. No mention of feminists complaining about the debate. ]
AVFM seems to have gotten away with their insinuations once again. It goes without saying that the sycophants on AVFM bought the story. On Reddit, while a few commenters in the inevitable r/mensrights thread raised questions about AVFM’s nonsensical tale, most accepted it unquestioningly andย worked themselves into quite a tizzy about the terrible injustice of it all. A couple typical comments from the thread (click on the pics to see the quotes in context):
So if it is AVFM who is lying here, I suppose I should give them credit for another victory of their propaganda over the stubborn world of facts. Not that long ago, you may recall, they got away with claiming a mob of twenty or thirty people โwielding box cuttersโ had confronted JohnTheOther while postering in Vancouver, when JTOโs own video footage showed only a tiny handful of people taking down his posters. Meanwhile, the AVFMers keep insinuating that feminists shut down the original version of this debate, when according to the original organizer MRAs were at least partially (if not wholly) responsible. And now this.
Actually, even if somehow, magically, everyone is telling the truth about the events surrounding Mr. Marshall, itโs not clear why the debate would have to be โdelayed.โย Despite the setback, most organizers would have just moved the event to a new location.ย (It certainly wouldnโt be that hard to find a place. Given how many people would likely have shown up, they could probably hold it in a studio apartment, or a large shoe.)
Of all the stumbling blocks that might get in the way of this debate, I would think that the lack of an opposing side would have been a much more serious one โ as the announcement notes in passing, no feminists have stepped forward to debate the AVFM crowd, Vancouver Division. Debating an imaginary opponent? Not a problem. Changing location? Impossible.
On AVFM, the person writing the announcement lets us know that Mr. Elam has been informed of the dastardly attack on free speech.
Paul Elam, when informed of these events remarked:
โThose who believe open discussion can be silenced by intimidation, and who may be patting themselves on the back should all be invited to attend the rescheduled debate which will be announced shortly on this site.โ
Very slick, Paul, working a plug for a new debate into your entirely spontaneous response to Mr. Marshallโs alleged firing.
Oh, and the new debate, if it ever comes to fruition, will be based on a slightly different question. As the announcement explains:
[I]n light on the resistance among gender ideologues, and the established pattern of censorship, intimidation and threats against the original organizer, a revised premise for the debate is now under consideration.
โIs feminism a hate movement?โ
This debate is never going to happen, is it? I wonder what they’ll blame next time. Feminist caribou?
EDITED TO ADD: The fellas at AVFM have now run a … I don’t know, but it looks sort of like a correction of some kind, atop their original post:
I guess it would be too much to expect them to offer an apology of sorts for all the imaginary feminists they pointed their giant A Voice for Men Foam Finger of Insinuation at in the original post.
I believe these were the same terms on which the Republican National Convention was held. (Though, to be fair, moving that convention would have been difficult given its size.)
Clint Eastwood is helping them set it up.
It’s possible the owner was giving him a lot of leeway to manage and finally got sick of his crap, or wasn’t paying much attention, then started.
The really sad bit on the mrreddit thread are those guys who are saying ‘you know, of all the possible reasons this guy was fired, it probably wasn’t the feminist illuminati’, all completely ignored by the dudes who are saying ‘ya know, I’d hate to say Terrorist Plot because that might sound crazy, but that sure as hell won’t stop me from saying it!’
Who else can take on the dreaded feminist caribou?
What a bunch of liars. They will never get anything done because they’re too stupid, lazy, and helpless. And they are such an unlikeable group of people, they can’t even get along amongst themselves long enough to get anything done.
It really is sad, because there are some actual men’s rights issues that could use some advocates. Unfortunately, the MRM is so hateful (and incompetent) that anyone who actually wants to advocate for men’s rights has the choice of either joining a hate movement or just keeping quiet.
Considering his anger at the divorce, I think he could have been arrested for something related to the divorce (like threatening his ex) and this was just a convenient excuse to cancel the debate.
I’m betting that Marshall realized these guys were worse than he is and pulled the plug. I can’t imagine any business owner allowing employees to festoon the joint with political/personal banners and signs.
Except he already had. According to the website for the dealership, he had signs up about how feminazis were taking over the world long before this debate thing even came up. Also, on the webpage, the link to his “A Father’s Story” is actually slightly BIGGER than the link to see what cars they have on the lot.
I know, I can’t imagine a business owner allowing that either, which is why I think he must have actually BEEN the owner.
Did anybody, and I know this is a wild idea, try calling the dealership and asking to speak to Chris Marshall?
Setting up a fake firing?
Isn’t this the type of conspiricy theory we usually get on MRA’s cases for?
You mean like the conspiracy theory that feminist terrorists used violence and intimidation to get him fired from the business he owns?
Not setting up; lying about the cause/refusing to think it might not be caused by “feminism”.
Aren’t you the type of guy who disingenuously uses women’s names to troll, Sharon?
Who is “we”, in the context of your last message?
We’re talking about their conspiracy theory and getting on their cases right now.
Thanks for the encouragement.
The first post on Marshall’s blog is about some judge ordering him to take his website down, dated September 18th. I’d bet this has something to do with his reported arrest.
How do you fire a co-owner, though? Sounds like the person who made the announcement at AVfM is either lying or incompetent. Or maybe there’s a good reason for all of it, but we have such a distant view of this whole debate circus that we won’t get the whole story for a few weeks.
Did you see the reply Elam gave to the commenter who asked why, if the business seemed to be co-owned by Marshall, and already allowed itself to be used to advertise fathers’ rights, it would then go and punish Marshall for the debate?
Elam replies: “That we may never know. My impression is that he was not given reasons that were straight. I find it a very interesting coincidence that after 30 months of successfully managing that business that he was suddenly tossed on his ass two days before a controversial debate…”
Elam’s one disingenuous fucker, huh.
Also, the fact that Marshall can get himself turfed off the premises of the kind business that would put MRA banners on its website kind of suggests there’s more to this “father’s story” than a poor guy done wrong by the justice system.
The police would not get involved unless Marshall was engaged in some sort of criminal activity. Perhaps he was harassing judges or his ex wife.
I feel sorry for their kids, I would hate to have had a MRA as a father. All that public hate directed at the custodial parent, way to make the children grow up without issues. ๐
I grew up with a father who talked constant shit about my mother. Fortunately I knew he was just off his rocker and never took his words to heart. My brother, on the other hand, was influenced by him, and to this day has a problematic relationship with our mother. Some people will say things that are completely false just to try to win sympathy. It’s disgusting.
Next debate topic: when have feminists stopped beating their husbands?
@Fembot, that’s sad, because it meant that you were robbed of having a second loving parent. ๐
It depresses me a bit that we treat our cats nicer than some people treat their children.
Niktike, I added some stuff about the dealership’s web site to the post. Thanks!
I just love that they think they’re so important and dangerous to the feminist cause that we’d spend time plotting the downfall of their debate – time which could be better spent drinking frozen cocktails or watching cat videos.
@That depends on whether they are Feminist Caribou, or Straw Feminist Caribou. The latter is scary as shit (they will steal 10% of your penis if you give them the chance! Oh, and your kids), but melt away faster than the Wicked Witch of the West at the first hint of scrutiny. The former doesn’t really do anything threatening of note unless you try to fence them in.