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GirlWritesWhat on “The Necessity of Domestic Violence”: “I don’t really find too much [that’s] seriously ethically questionable.”

Yesterday, we took a look at Ferdinand Bardamu’s manosphere manifesto “The Necessity of Domestic Violence,” a thoroughly despicable piece of writing that concludes:

Women should be terrorized by their men; it’s the only thing that makes them behave better than chimps.

I decided to take a look at Bardamu’s post yesterday after running across a discussion of it in Reddit’s new FeMRA subreddit, a forum ostensibly devoted to what “women can do to advance men’s rights as women.” It’s a strange little subreddit, started by a man and dominated by some of Reddit’s most unsavory MaleMRAs, some of them banned in the regular Men’s Rights subreddit.

Recently one of the most unsavory of the bunch, calling himself JeremiahGuy this time, posted a link to Bardamu’s domestic violence manifesto, which he hosts on his website. Jeremiah naturally used the discussion as an excuse to post more apologias for domestic “discipline” along the lines of the quote from him I featured yesterday.

But I was a little surprised to see GirlWritesWhat, the blabby FeMRA video blogger who’s captured the hearts of Reddit’s Men’s Rights crowd, step into the conversation with something of a defense of Bardamu’s noxious views. After reading Bardamu’s manifesto – the one advocating that men “terrorize” their women to make them behave – GWW blithely concluded:

I don’t really find too much in the article that strikes me as seriously ethically questionable.

Have I taken that remark out of context? Yes. In context, it’s worse. Here’s the entire quote from her, and a further clarification of her position.

She wasn’t the only one in the discussion to get upvotes for suggesting that men slapping women around from time to time isn’t really such a big deal. MaunaLoona (a MaleMRA) wrote:

Lots of MRAs like to pretend that they care about male victims of domestic violence. But the Men’s Rights movement hasn’t done shit for them. And here, I think, is why: too many MRAs are less interested in helping male victims of domestic violence than they are in providing excuses and justifications for male abusers.

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Andre
Andre
12 years ago

@timetravellingfool. You will think I’m joking, but if I was trying to imply anything by it, it was so long ago I’ve forgotten. I think it’s less revealing what I was trying to imply than what others have concluded from it. They have gone much further than I would have dared, even though it is my story. In a sense the train of conversation has been so disrupted and broken that the story cannot serve a useful purpose. That is a shame because it is a true story.

pillowinhell
12 years ago

How tragic! We’ve derailed our own thread! And we started that so very,very long ago that Andre here can’t remember if he had a point to his story beyond listening to his own voice. I bet it started so long, long ago he’s almost dead from old age.

Ugh
Ugh
12 years ago

I love how three pages in Pell not only is unable to explain what his point was, but also refuses to even try.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
12 years ago

7.10pm, Pell tells story.

9.13pm, Pell can’t remember why he told it.

timetravellingfool
12 years ago

pillowinhell, I am just disgraced at your lack of manners- this (going out on a very thin limb here) man is a newcomer to our fine comments section- the least we could do is show him a little courtesy- if he cannot remember what point he was trying to make when he posted, he can hardly be to blame- perhaps he was under the influence of narcotics or some such thing. My point is be gracious and courteous in thought and manner, pillowinhell; questioning a man`s motives is crude and unbecoming.

Andre
Andre
12 years ago

Why does everyone answer for everyone else on this site? I address one person and get a reply from someone else. Perhaps when I’m a little less tired: it’s gone 3am where I am, I may take the trouble to back-up three pages and regain my train of thought. If all I had to do was recite from leaflets, I wouldn’t have this problem. I’m not interested in analysis as an abstract exercise. That is pissing in a pot, and anyone can do that.

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The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
12 years ago

I have this image of TTF adjusting Pell’s hat … 😀

pillowinhell
12 years ago

*scuffs floor with penitant look*

But you cracked a smile didn’t you?

*said with tiny mischevious grin*

Ugh
Ugh
12 years ago

You know, “I don’t remember my point, and you’d just tear it apart anyways because it was stupid,” would have been more succinct.

timetravellingfool
12 years ago

How large is the pot? My aim isn’t the best. Cursed female frailty.

pillowinhell
12 years ago

I bet pissing in a pot while standing would be more amusing than this guys prattle.

Timetravelingfool, am I forgiven yet?

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The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
12 years ago

WHOOOOO my copy of Due South just arrived! And in nine days, too, that’s pretty special.

hellkell
hellkell
12 years ago

Andre, are you new to the internet?

Welcome to Manboobz, we mock misogyny and talk all over the place. Do try to keep up.

timetravellingfool
12 years ago

*sigh*, Just remember to treat guests properly in the future, pillowinhell. Expecting them to explain their premise is simply rude.

pillowinhell
12 years ago

Beloved is never shocked or appalled at my behaviour.

*goes to sulk in corner*

timetravellingfool
12 years ago

Beloved is an uncouth harlot. I have couth coming out my ass.

pecunium
pecunium
12 years ago

Compare and contrast:

I didn’t quite just plop the story in the conversation, although I did tell it sans context, just as is. I plopped it in in reply to another post – in a conversation in which I was participating.

And:

@pecunium. I’m not arguing anything or saying it has to do with anything or anybody. I’m just telling you about my friend.

I suppose those are compatible. It didn’t mean anything, it was just a response.

It didn’t mean anything, it was just words.

@timetravellingfool. You will think I’m joking, but if I was trying to imply anything by it, it was so long ago I’ve forgotten

Dude… what was it, two hours? And there are all these aides memoire in the form of the comments to which you were replying, they are all of one page back (I checked).

But, if you have such a paucity of short term memory, it might behoove you to put it all in context when you make the comment.

pecunium
pecunium
12 years ago

Kitteh’s Ration it. Three seasons goes by in a hurry.

pillowinhell
12 years ago

Laughing so hard I can barely type…

WHOOOO! I can’t WAIT to tell Beloved he’s an uncoutrh harlot!! The look on his face will be PRICELESS!!!!!!

*oxygen depletion to brain setting in. Laughing too hatrd to draw breath

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The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
12 years ago

I have couth coming out my ass.

They have medications for that nowadays …

@pecunium – you’re not wrong. We’re lousy at rationing dvd series in our household, we go through them really fast. Mind you we also watch them over and over again, so it isn’t too much of a problem! 😀

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The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
12 years ago

now if only they had medication for blockquote fail …

Andre
Andre
12 years ago
Reply to  hellkell

@hellkell. I think you don’t know what you’re doing. To use an English expression, you are “chewing a brick.” Why should I wish to keep up with such an activity?

@timetravellingfool. You learned to piss in a pot a long time ago. The time should have passed where you needed to hold it up so you can be congratulated.

I’ve exhausted my interest more than anything else and am going to bed. Goodnight everyone.

hellkell
hellkell
12 years ago

‘Night, Andre. Stick the flounce.

timetravellingfool
12 years ago

Ok, look, you guys, I kind of need help figuring out the parting shot aimed at me- what the fuck does ‘the time has passed where I need to hold it up’ mean? Is there a point where you can just think about aiming your pee and it happens?

pillowinhell
12 years ago

Ahahahahahah!!GASPahahaahaahaaha!

His response a deadpan face “a harlot??””
GASP ahahahahahaaha!!!!

Gasp gasp tee hee hehhe

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