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GirlWritesWhat on “The Necessity of Domestic Violence”: “I don’t really find too much [that’s] seriously ethically questionable.”

Yesterday, we took a look at Ferdinand Bardamu’s manosphere manifesto “The Necessity of Domestic Violence,” a thoroughly despicable piece of writing that concludes:

Women should be terrorized by their men; it’s the only thing that makes them behave better than chimps.

I decided to take a look at Bardamu’s post yesterday after running across a discussion of it in Reddit’s new FeMRA subreddit, a forum ostensibly devoted to what “women can do to advance men’s rights as women.” It’s a strange little subreddit, started by a man and dominated by some of Reddit’s most unsavory MaleMRAs, some of them banned in the regular Men’s Rights subreddit.

Recently one of the most unsavory of the bunch, calling himself JeremiahGuy this time, posted a link to Bardamu’s domestic violence manifesto, which he hosts on his website. Jeremiah naturally used the discussion as an excuse to post more apologias for domestic “discipline” along the lines of the quote from him I featured yesterday.

But I was a little surprised to see GirlWritesWhat, the blabby FeMRA video blogger who’s captured the hearts of Reddit’s Men’s Rights crowd, step into the conversation with something of a defense of Bardamu’s noxious views. After reading Bardamu’s manifesto – the one advocating that men “terrorize” their women to make them behave – GWW blithely concluded:

I don’t really find too much in the article that strikes me as seriously ethically questionable.

Have I taken that remark out of context? Yes. In context, it’s worse. Here’s the entire quote from her, and a further clarification of her position.

She wasn’t the only one in the discussion to get upvotes for suggesting that men slapping women around from time to time isn’t really such a big deal. MaunaLoona (a MaleMRA) wrote:

Lots of MRAs like to pretend that they care about male victims of domestic violence. But the Men’s Rights movement hasn’t done shit for them. And here, I think, is why: too many MRAs are less interested in helping male victims of domestic violence than they are in providing excuses and justifications for male abusers.

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Amused
12 years ago

I guess Lawgirl watches “Mad Men”?

hellkell
hellkell
12 years ago

NWO’s gonna wander into this thread and think you’re speaking Spanish, Amused.

Amused
12 years ago

Это тебе нужно в школу, уебище безграмотное.

I mean, thank Heavens for online translators, but they don’t take care of grammar. And your grammar is absolutely atrocious. Your Russian is about the same level as your medicine.

Rutee Katreya
12 years ago

David should mail the dude’s ISP, really. There’s generally limits to the jackassitude an ISP permits.

Lawgirl
Lawgirl
12 years ago

Bye bye dura

nwoslave
12 years ago

Why is it every story where man = bad and woman = good is believed as gospel? Why not the reverse?

Why is a man yelling at a woman DV, but the reverse isn’t?

Why is it when a man hits a woman he’s trying to control the woman, but when a woman hit’s a man she’s trying to control the situation?

Why is it when a woman is contantly yelling at a man he should leave, but when a man is constantly yelling at a woman she lacks options?

Amused
12 years ago

Hellkell: I have no doubt. Although I think his grasp of foreign languages is no match for Lawgirl’s. She wrote 4 words and made 3 grammatical errors. That takes talent.

jumbofish
jumbofish
12 years ago

I love troll meltdowns

Noadi
12 years ago

Doctors don’t try to rouse patient with painful stimulus, the only time I know of painful stimulus being used anymore in unconscious patients is in evaluating where a patient is on the Glasgow Coma Scale (in which case response to pain is used to determine how severe the coma is).

Lawgirl
Lawgirl
12 years ago

I’m a major shareholder in the co. andin fact I post out of the main nodes on the network. You go right ahead and “report” me lol

Amused
12 years ago

Ну иди уже, иди, уебище. Что, не получается? Может тебе под зад дать, чтоб тебе уже ушлось наконец? А то ты застряла на пороге.

Nobinayamu
Nobinayamu
12 years ago

I mean, I can literally waste hours on the internet reading reviews, researching recipes, flagging vintage dresses, looking at photographs, and watching illegal DVD rips of movies I don’t feel like renting. And that doesn’t even cover the days I’m doing actual work.

You really can’t figure out anything better than making a jackass of yourself on a site from which you’ve been repeatedly banned?

jumbofish
jumbofish
12 years ago

I am sure pell, just like how you are everything you claimed you were before.

Cliff Pervocracy
12 years ago

Dr. Lawyer ISP?

Goodness, you must just be too BUSY to have learned how disgusting it is to involve actual abuse survivors in your little online roleplay fantasy sessions.

Lawgirl
Lawgirl
12 years ago

Nodi-shut the fuck up you idiot. I think that you morons just like to see yourself in writing on the net haha

Amused
12 years ago

Well, let’s see:

1. Doctor
2. Lawyer
3. “Major shareholder”

I bet in another couple of pages, she’ll add PhD in all sciences/president of Nasa/ God’s left foot to the mix.

Lawgirl
Lawgirl
12 years ago

This is like a hen’s kaffe klatch where no one can stop cackling. Most of you sound like you were brought up in some cabin on Tobacco rd.

jumbofish
jumbofish
12 years ago

Nodi-shut the fuck up you idiot. I think that you morons just like to see yourself in writing on the net haha

Drunken projection and stupidity.

Nobinayamu
Nobinayamu
12 years ago

Seriously, the multiple sock guys? Do you think they act like this in real life?

Like, they make an ass out of themselves at a party and the host asks them to leave and they refuse to go? Are they the drunks you always see being kicked out of the bar but who stand outside on the street yelling and screaming until the cops show up instead of just getting a cab home?

Noadi
12 years ago

Nodi? Was that directed at me?

MorkaisChosen
MorkaisChosen
12 years ago

Well that all got shitty and terrible awfully quickly.

Fake internet hugs to those of you who’ve been in shitty situations and then had Dr Lawgirl ISP the Space Fairy shit all over you.

Amused
12 years ago

Lawgirl: You can set an example and get the fuck outta here. Don’t you have patients/clients to fuck up?

Lawgirl
Lawgirl
12 years ago

Some of us have actually done things in life which is why you seem so surprised. All I see here is a bunch of loser from freaky backgrounds who couldn’t get through community college. and I’m being kind her.

jumbofish
jumbofish
12 years ago

Most of you sound like you were brought up in some cabin on Tobacco rd.

Maybe because you are stoned and/or drunk?

viola
12 years ago

Ye gods and little fishes. You are a nasty piece of work.

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