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Men’s Rights Redditor: “(Most) women don’t love men.” (Also, it’s only respectful for dudes to hang onto nude pics of an ex-girlfriend.)

Over on the Men’s Rights subreddit, some of the fellas are discussing a recent post from Arthur Goldwag on the Southern Poverty Law Center Hatewatch blog. Goldwag looks at some of the hero-bashing comments from MRAs in the wake of the Aurora shootings, which we’ve discussed here and here.

This somehow inspires the prolix Men’s Right Redditor Demonspawn to set forth some of his opinions about (most) women and how shitty they are. The whole discussion is worth reading, as a sort of case study in MRA hypocrisy: all this woman-hatred comes in a thread in which Reddit MRAs wax indignant once again that anyone might possibly label them hateful. (Also, how dare women suggest that there’s anything untoward about a dude hanging onto nude pics of an ex, when clearly not deleting them is a sign of “respect.”)

Looks like Demonspawn won himself a convert! Congrats. you beautiful douchebag.

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ShadetheDruid
ShadetheDruid
12 years ago

Actually, scratch that, i’m not convinced he uses even half his arse.

aworldanonymous
12 years ago

Does Paul Elam have kitties?

Viscaria
Viscaria
12 years ago

I’ve heard David Futrelle is single-handedly responsible for global warming!

hellkell
hellkell
12 years ago

I’ve heard that David Futrelle causes tooth decay.

ShadetheDruid
ShadetheDruid
12 years ago

I’m pretty sure David Futrelle stole my milk.

cloudiah
12 years ago

David Futrelle was Harry Reid’s anonymous source.

hellkell
hellkell
12 years ago

David Futrelle was Deep Throat.

Dracula
Dracula
12 years ago

David Futrelle is secretly just David Futrelle in a David Futrelle costume.

Anathema
Anathema
12 years ago

This is, in point of fact, why I firmly believe that men should date women who are roughly comparable in earning potential make approximately the same amount of money as them. I have gone on many dates, it’s true; I’ve also turned down and neglected to pursue many potential dates.There were, obviously, a plethora of reasons, but one the most common is and wasbecause of a disparity in our earnings. will not be objectified for my money – I consider this a shining example of cultural misandry and will mitigate it whenever possible I fight against it whenever I can. And women who work– and especially, who are as successful as me –, especially those who are as successful as me, are much less inclined to expect me to subsidize their livelihood, like I’m some sort of all-purpose servant and butler. likely to expect me to pay the bill on my own when we go out on a date.

I encourage other men to restrict their dating pool likewise.

Steele, I know you want to be a writer. So I’ve tried to edit the first comment you made on this particular blog post in order to make it more readable. I’m sure that even my edited version can still be improved, but I think it’s still better than what you wrote. You have the unfortunate tendency to use big words when smaller ones will do and include irrelevant information that distracts from whatever point you are trying to make. I’ve tried to cut down on that.

For your sake (and the sake of everyone who has to read your comments) I hope you learn from this.

cloudiah
12 years ago

David Futrelle added 163,000 jobs in July.

aworldanonymous
12 years ago

David Futrelle is actually Jimmy Hoffa.

gelar
gelar
12 years ago

David Futrelle wished my favourite mug into a cornfield.

Dracula
Dracula
12 years ago

Not a lot of people know this, but midway through the first season Paul Elam was replaced by David Futrelle. Viewership skyrocketed.

Tulgey Logger
Tulgey Logger
12 years ago

If David Futrelle, then who was phone?

cloudiah
12 years ago

David Futrelle is Paul Elam, Andrea Dworkin, Michael Phelps, and the entire cast of The Brady Bunch.

amandajane5
12 years ago

David Futrelle sunk my battleship!

Dracula
Dracula
12 years ago

Pay no attention to the David Futrelle behind the curtain!

Arielle Shander
12 years ago

Not sure if intentional satire…or unintentional stupidity.

WordSpinner
WordSpinner
12 years ago

Like Falconer said, the picture bit is the creepiest–probably because while the author knows he has to justify why women and men have different definition of “love”, the idea that he’s holding his ex “accountable” for her “actions” by keeping nude pictures is so obvious it can be used as an example.

fembot
12 years ago

I’m so sick of hearing about hypergamy. There is a big difference between wanting to find a rich man to support you, and wanting to find a man with his shit together who has a bank account and a decent credit score. Sheesh. And these guys are aware that sometimes men end relationships, right? Why is it always women doing the dumping in these scenarios?

aworldanonymous
12 years ago

David Futrelle is actually a woman, who is actually a horse, who is actually a broomstick, who is actually a series of ducks in a broomstick costume.

Kyso K.
12 years ago

When you hear a grown-ass man complain because women don’t love him the same way they love small children, you know you’re dealing with a healthy dude. “She did not treat me with the same unconditional love and constant adoration that she gives to children, so Imma gonna hoard these nude pictures of her, and probably let her know that i could upload them to the internet at any time.”

Anna found the creepy and Falconer found the evil.

Shaenon
12 years ago

That whole meme that there’s separate gendered definitions of love/respect needs to die a horrible death. NOW.

They always fall back on it when using the same definition would show how goofy their argument is. Like, can you imagine this guy reacting well if he discovered his girlfriend had a collection of sexy nude photos of men she dated? I’m sure he would nod sagely and say, “Yes, honey, of course you need to punish your old boyfriends by staring longingly at naked pictures of them. I respect the hell out of that.”

I do like how hilariously specific this particular example is. Sorry your girlfriend got mad about your fap collection, dude.

Shaenon
12 years ago

When you hear a grown-ass man complain because women don’t love him the same way they love small children, you know you’re dealing with a healthy dude.

Liz Lemon: You’re so insecure you get jealous of babies for their soft skin.
Jenna: AND because of how much attention they get.