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Tom Martin, leading UK Men’s Rights Activist: “Pedophiles who pay children for sex are not really rapists, because the child … understand[s] the nature of the contract.”

Tom Martin, child rape apologist

[TRIGGER WARNING: Discussion of child rape]

Tom Martin is one of the most prominent Men’s Rights Activists in the UK. He’s best known for a failed lawsuit he launched against the London School of Economics, charging the school’s gender studies program with, you guessed it, misandry. The case was thrown out of court this March, and Martin celebrated his defeat by calling a lot of people whores on Twitter and, I am proud to say, in the comments here at Man Boobz.

While Martin, known perhaps ironically as @sexismbusters on Twitter, is clearly more famous in the UK than he is here in the states, this peculiar crusader against what he sees as sexism has been celebrated (and his defeat in court mourned) by numerous Men’s Rights sites on this side of the pond. He’s been discussed many times on the Men’s Rights subreddit, where one supporter declared:

And he’s gotten write-ups on an assortment of other MR sites from The Spearhead to MensActivism.org to one Man Boobz favorite, the now-defunct What Men Are Saying About Women. On the website of the National Coalition for Men, one enthusiastic commenter gushed:

Finaly a real man with balls !!! Not like the rest of us . Tom is my hero .

But the Men’s Rights site that has given Martin the most support has been A Voice for Men, which featured Martin on one of its “radio” shows, reposted an article on Martin’s crusade from his website that seems to have been written by Martin himself (in the third person), offered updates on his lawsuit, and even publicized a recent public debate of his in England. The site has also encouraged people to donate to Martin’s legal fund.

One wonders what these supporters will make of some of the strange and awful things Martin has been saying in the comments here on Man Boobz in recent days. (There is no question that it is really him; he confirmed his identity earlier by emailing me from the account associated with his website Sexismbusters.org, and anyone skeptical of any of this is invited to contact him directly through his website.)

Most of the comments he posted here during his first commenting binge were rather risibly misogynist, frequently punctuated with his favorite epithet “whore,” a designation he feels is an appropriate one for 97% of all women and (he had recently added) for 98% of Man Boobzers of either gender. You can see here or here for numerous examples of Martin’s wit and wisdom – including his argument that hard chairs are discriminatory towards men and his now famous declaration that “female penguins are whores.”

His more recent comments, though, haven’t been funny in the slightest. Martin’s new obsession? Child prostitutes – and why they aren’t victims so much as victimizers, willing participants in an activity that makes them big money. Let me put another TRIGGER WARNING here. This is some of the most repellant material I have ever featured on man Boobz.

Here’s Martin’s opening statement on the subject:

The latest establishment scam in the UK, is to describe child prostitutes as “vulnerable children groomed for sexual exploitation”, then talk about them being “passed around” etc, without mention of the fact that these young people agreed to be whores, and are getting paid for it.

In a followup, he elaborated on this logic:

“Yeah, she offered me a job as a prostitute abroad, which would involve me receiving lots of money for taking cock, so I accepted, became a prostitute, and therefor, according to the official fem definition, this makes me a sex slave”.

Grow up!

Even a 10 year old knows, if someone is paying you for sex, that makes you a whore.

And when he talks about ten year olds here, he means this literally; in his mind, trafficked ten year old children aren’t really victims, but economic actors making an economic choice:

I stand by my statement, that child prostitutes know what they are doing, and therefore deserve to be called prostitutes, not victims.

A progressive European country (either Holland or one of the Scandinavian countries, I remember hearing), introduced in the late 90s, the legal principle of no arbitrary minimum age for consent, rather, the legal requirement to ascertain whether lawful sex had taken place was to establish whether the child or young person ‘understands the meaning of consent’ …

Now, if a ten year old is for instance [specific sexual act redacted] for money up front, then there is very much less question whether that whore understands the meaning of consent or not.

In another comment, Martin suggests that ten-year-olds who have been the victims of what some people insist on calling “real rape” would be offended by anyone thinking that ten-year-old prostitutes suffer from rape – when, after all, the child prostitutes have “agreed” to it.

From the perspective of a child who has actually been raped by an adult, how must it seem, to hear the victim-feminist establishment conflate child rape with child prostitution? The raped child remembers having no choice about participating in the sexual activity, of being forced, and then is asked to consider his or her fate or level of agency as similar or the same as that of a child who marketed them self for sex to an adult, took payment, then performed the act.

I don’t think the average 10 year old genuine rape victim would buy the manboobz style analysis that all child prostitution is rape … .

Questions of genuine agency are complicated, but not complicated enough to pass a 10 year old genuine rape victim’s bullshitometer I posit.

Oh, Martin doesn’t actually think ten year olds should be prostitutes. He thinks they should wait a few years, until they’re at least 14.

Should child prostitution from the ages of 13 up be legal?

Nope. I think that prostitution is a potentially dangerous profession for which a basic qualification in health and safety be required, like an NVQ – and that kind of course would not be attainable until after the minimum of secondary school years are completed, so aged 14, 15, 16, 17 or even 18 or more depending on the country.

The real problem, in his mind, is that young girls try to enter into the business when they should be in school:

States with child prostitution problems should be forced to get these children back into schools to complete their education, and child prostitutes who persist should be treated as school truants, a misdemeanor, and given the carrot and stick approach to get them back on the straight and narrow or go to young offenders institutions. If they want to be prostitutes when they’re old enough, then they can go to the careers advise officer, where the pros and cons of the profession can be laid out, and an application for the training course and license can be given.

Martin mocks the very notion that child prostitutes are being exploited:

Imagine you caught your underage 15 year old daughter on the game, what would you say to her?

“Okay darling, obviously you played no part whatsoever in choosing to be a prostitute yourself, so mummy’s going to help catch the nasty pimp who put you up to this, because what you need to learn is when 15 year old girls accidentally suck cocks for money, they should be compensated, with a bit of victims of crime compensation, and, not forgetting, the original £12 cock-sucking bonanza from the punter. That’s right sweety. Double bubble time. Pass me the phone. Now how does this thing work?”

Or… would you ground the whore for 6 months until she passes all her GCSEs?

Well, given that approximately 98% of manboobzers are whores themselves, I’m guessing you’re probably going to want to blame it all on MRAs.

So prostitution should be legal. But since prostitutes are very bad, they should pay high taxes for the privilege of plying their trade, to keep them poor and in order to repay society for the damage they do:

Prostitutes need to be taxed and licensed so heavily, rendering the profession a relatively poor way of making money.

Anyone who practices as a prostitute without the necessary qualification and license, can go to young offenders institute/jail – just like any other persistent illegal unlicensed trader would.

Anyone working on the sly as an escort, should be hunted down by the taxwoman, and if caught, given a huge bill for tax evasion, as well as a fine, and prison for not having a license. Unlicensed tax-evading prostitutes should be hunted down (which would be easy enough).

Anyone choosing prostitution should pay the highest taxes, and know why those taxes are so high – because of the damage prostitution does to the prostitutes and their customers and their environment and the society.

In a followup comment, Martin sees a silver lining in the form of all the tax revenues that prostitution will bring in:

If licensed hookers pay for a massive license fee and heavy taxes, then some of that money can be ring-fenced to research how best to get women (and girls) to renounce prostitution in all its forms, because let’s face it, a lot of housewhores and princess wannabes could do with a little economic activity-inducing work ethic therapy themselves.

Meanwhile, the customers of underage prostitutes – in other words, the child rapists – should be treated gingerly:

[M]en who pay money to have sex with child prostitutes should not be criminalized – but taken out of circulation and treated compassionately for their condition. I’ve heard that most criminal activity peaks with testosterone levels, in the late teens, but paedophillia is the only crime that increases in frequency as these men get older, indicating a growing pathology for them rather than just a typical immature criminal act.

He offers this final summing up of his twisted argument:

[P]edophiles who pay children for sex are not really rapists, because the child consents, then performs the act, indicating they understand the nature of the contract. The elder is still a pedophiles, but the child prostitute is still a prostitute.

If the child is enslaved – it’s rape, or too young or stupid to know what he or she’s doing – rape. But poor, and in need of food? Not rape. A choice. Unwilling to do other hard labour paying 9 times less than the prostitution route? Not rape. A choice.

He then extends his argument to the rest of the alleged 97% of women who, in his mind, are whores:

Whatever your age, follow the golden rule, of never taking money for sex, then prostitution will be eradicated. Only the prostitute can stop charging for sex.

And of course, that means rejecting courtship gifts, engagement gifts, marriage gifts, divorce gifts, and government largess also.

I don’t think many of you are ready to renounce prostitution in all its forms. …

I know a whore when I see one.

He even returns momentarily to his earlier assertion that female penguins are whores:

Someone or other here said I was anthropomorphising human behaviour onto penguin behaviour by calling penguins whores or something.

But the point is, being a whore, is an animalistic trait, that human females should not need to resort to, given they’re at the top of the fucking food chain already. Google “nuptial gifts” and you can read studies about various animals granting sex to those males who provide the most food, or even the most glittery non-edible trinkets etc, or in the case of penguins, rocks to build nests and shelter with.

I’m saying women are better than penguins, or at least would be if they renounced prostitution in all its forms.

I’m sure the women of the world will be happy to hear that Mr. Martin thinks they are potentially better than penguins.

I doubt many of Mr. Martin’s American supporters are familiar with his elaborate apologia for child rape. I would like to invite Man Boobz readers to show this post, or at least some of the more repellant quotations from it, to the proprietors of the various MRA blogs and MRA forums I have mentioned above.

I wonder if any of his supporters will be willing to renounce him publicly once they know what he has said here – and apparently in some recent public debates as well. Surely no legitimate “human rights movement” would want to be associated with anyone who spouts filth like this.

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cloudiah
12 years ago

I think we should tax Tom for every idiotic thing that comes out of his mouth. It would make enough for the industrialized world to get out of debt for the rest of eternity.

Oooh, I like this idea. It’s like the opposite of a value added tax.

Tom Martin
12 years ago

To clarify, 100,000 people in the UK are sex workers. 97% of women are whores though, because they haven’t renounced prostitution in all its forms.

Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
12 years ago

And the 100 000 pounds pa? Citations?

Nanasha
Nanasha
12 years ago

Tom. I don’t care what your socialized consensus says. IT IS A BIOLOGICAL FACT that no matter how “precocious” a child is, their BRAINS ARE LITERALLY NOT DEVELOPED ENOUGH to consent to sex until early 20’s.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cerebral_cortex

Biology trumps social “thinking” no matter how many people think it.

YOU LOSE. Now pay up. The stupid tax isn’t going to pay itself.

Tom Martin
12 years ago

“Taxing prostitutes is stupid, you misogynistic blah, blah, blah”

Nanasha
Nanasha
12 years ago

http://hrweb.mit.edu/worklife/youngadult/brain.html

This is also another fascinating look into what we know about the biology of the brain as it develops. Anyone who thinks that prepubescent children or young teens are “the same” as adults have missed the fucking point.

And, by the way, there are gifted kids who excel specifically in all kinds of stuff (math, music, etc). Most of them are still kids in a lot of other areas, and often appear more advanced in one thing while being stunted or not at age-level at others. It’s largely because the brain of a child just cannot handle growing up too fast, even in kids who can play violin like someone who has trained their whole lives.

themisanthropicmuse
12 years ago

Here’s an interesting peek into bizarre batshit crazy world which Tom inhabits:

He posts the article:
http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2012/feb/15/plight-of-kashmir-young-brides
on reddit and titles it:

Guardian is upset child prostitutes aren’t getting enough money
http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/prldq/guardian_is_upset_child_prostitutes_arent_getting/

[First comment was deleted]

[–]Lawtonfogle 6 points 5 months ago

What?

You do realize that most payments made in relation to child child marriage is given to the parent, and many times the ‘payment’ is simply forgiving some dept.

And child brides are no false story, they exist in many countries. In some places, they are treated like house maids and sex aids, but in other areas they are actually treated pretty well considering the culture they live in.

[–]sexismbusters[S] -8 points 5 months ago

The parents of the child get cash, and the child gets a marriage gift, a free house, and a husband who is supposed to pay all the bills. ‘House maids’? Yes, you mean housewives. A position of economic inactivity, which is exactly what whores want. It is not a popular opinion, but it is true. ‘Sex aids’? Yes, they are whores! I’m not saying it isn’t disgusting. If females want to eradicate prostitution, then they need to put the price down to zero.
—————-

Pretty scary this guy fails to understand the intricacies of human behavior or psychology in any context.

I think this is why Tom refuses to acknowledge that child prostitution is rape. In Tom’s mind, rape is only rape if you accept nothing from the perpetrator after they have touched you sexually. If you do, even if it’s food or shelter to sustain the victim’s life, they have crossed the line from victim into willingly accepting a transaction of sex for money thus making them whores. Tom is just fucking sad, in every conceivable way.

Nanasha
Nanasha
12 years ago

If we legitimized prostitution as a business, I would be all for taxing them. However, as it is, prostitution is largely illegal in most places and simply asking people to pay tax out of pocket when most of their money is in cash and under the table in the first place is kind of impossible to do. You cannot reliably tax people for stuff that is on the black market, otherwise drug cartels wouldn’t exist (and a lot of prostitution-including child prostitution rings are actually run by drug cartels, so what do you propose to do about them? Do you honestly think that a bunch of goons with guns are going to listen to your bullshit and not take you out behind a building and execute you, then dump your body in the river like they do with anyone else who gets in their nasty criminal way?).

Also, why should prostitutes be taxed more rigorously than people in other professions? Is there a logical reason beyond “wah, I shouldn’t have to pay for sex” or are you just talking out of your ass again?

If anything, the people who should be taxed the most are the people who make tons and tons of money, such as CEOs and shareholders of companies. Most of them can make more money in five minutes than the average worker makes in five years. So why not tax people who have the most money instead of the blue-coller workers who work with their bodies and hands? Prostitution is at least as body-intensive as working in a foundry or in construction. Why shouldn’t it be similarly taxed as a profession?

Nanasha
Nanasha
12 years ago

Just to add to my “prostitution should be legitimate business” post- I was NOT including child prostitution as being something that ought to be legal. Consenting adults should be allowed to choose a regulated, safe and well-paid with benefits prostitute job if they wish, just like consenting adults can join the porn industry or get an office job. But children are still being exploited by being forced into prostitution and that’s seriously fucked up.

Nanasha
Nanasha
12 years ago

The price for “sex”? What about the price for RAPE? The price for rape is that the woman expects not to be MURDERED or PHYSICALLY BLOODIED AND BEATEN. Therefore is rape still “whoring” just because the woman wants to SURVIVE it?

If you seriously think that all sex has a price, then you must be a horrible excuse for a human being, because I have never met anyone who attempted to charge me for sex nor have I charged anyone for sex.

If you throw some coins down at a woman after you rape her, does that mean it wasn’t rape? If you beat the shit out of a man and give him a present, does that excuse the assault?

NO.

These guys seem to think that buying a meal for someone means that they OWE them a use of their bodies for whatever they want.

It’s like people who think that consent to sex is consent to pregnancy is consent to having ectopic pregnancy is consent to dying an agonizing death because if you consented, you should not get access to abortion. Therefore, consent to sex is consent to death.

The sheer brain explodiness of this illogical mode of thinking makes me think that these guys have had a portion of their cerebral cortex removed.

themisanthropicmuse
12 years ago

@Nanasha:”The sheer brain explodiness of this illogical mode of thinking makes me think that these guys have had a portion of their cerebral cortex removed.” I don’t know but I am thinking that a partial lobotomy would still leave a person too intelligent to say the type of nonsensical tripe Tom does. He’d need a full one or perhaps Tom is the very first case of a conscious individual with anencephaly.

Argenti Aertheri
12 years ago

“The sheer brain explodiness of this illogical mode of thinking makes me think that these guys have had a portion of their cerebral cortex removed.”

Yeah, no, they’re way too together for a lobotomy victim. And did Tom imply that feminists support dowries? ORLY?

Tom Martin
12 years ago

Nanasha said:

Tom. I don’t care what your socialized consensus says. IT IS A BIOLOGICAL FACT that no matter how “precocious” a child is, their BRAINS ARE LITERALLY NOT DEVELOPED ENOUGH to consent to sex until early 20′s.

Nanasha, does this mean we should raise the legal age of consent to 21? I think quite a few 16 year olds in the UK would be able to engage their brains to succinctly tell you to… er… rethink that one.

Anyway, here’s an article about a prostitution tax meter set up in Germany. It doesn’t charge enough to be a deterrent, but it’s a start:

http://theweek.com/article/index/218808/germanys-remarkable-prostitution-tax-meter

Argenti Aertheri
12 years ago

And I got ninja’ed while looking up an orly…oh erfworld, how I bloop thee 🙂

Yeah, either it was a partial lobotomy and he’s always been this dumb, or he’s just this dumb — my money’s on the latter. (Though maybe if I note that the former involves what is basically an icepick, in an eye socket, he’ll be too busy squirming to post?)

And um, my psych major self needs to say that lobotomies rank high among the worst things psych has ever done.

Fembot
Fembot
12 years ago

Tom, why won’t you answer my questions?

How are you NOT a whore?

Fembot
Fembot
12 years ago

Gosh, the good trolls always ignore me. maybe I should ask easier questions 🙂

Fembot
Fembot
12 years ago

Also, if I was interested in renouncing prostitution in ALL of its forms, how do I know what all of those forms are? How can I renounce something if I don’t know what it is?

Nanasha
Nanasha
12 years ago

Tom, you still haven’t argued why taxes should be used to deter behavior. As far as I know, taxes are used to raise money for services and programs, not as a penalty. Those are called, well, PENALTIES (such as health and safety violations, etc).

If throwing whores in jail and fining them because prostitution is illegal (our current behavior in most places that prostitution is illegal) is not strong enough a deterrent, then what makes you think that prohibitive taxing WILL?

I’m beginning to think that we ought to tax people for displaying such an egregious lack of logic. It may not shut them up, but damn, we’ll be able to get out of national debt quicker than you can say “97% of women are whores.” XD

Argenti Aertheri
12 years ago

“How can I renounce something if I don’t know what it is?”

Seriously Tom! I mean, do you denounce blooping?

Does anyone here get erfworld jokes, or should I knock it off?

Nanasha
Nanasha
12 years ago

Also, Tom, there is a good reason that car rental places and hotels do not allow people under 24 to use them.

I would be fine with raising the legal consent age to a higher number, but to be fair, according to this article: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/9578992 , the cerebral cortex is generally close to complete adult formation/development around 18 years of age. It is not *fully developed*, however, until one hits mid-20’s which is why a lot of places will not allow you to rent a car, rent a hotel, or enter into certain binding contracts until you’re around 24.

This still does not mean that 10 year olds have sufficient cortical development to truly consent or enter any legal binding contract, including a work contract.

Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
12 years ago

What happens if I denounce prostitution in most of its forms, but I miss one? How about if I do renounce prostitution in all its forms today, but next week someone comes up with a new form?

Tom Martin
12 years ago

Nanasha said,

“… Tom refuses to acknowledge that child prostitution is rape. In Tom’s mind, rape is only rape if you accept nothing from the perpetrator after they have touched you sexually. If you do, even if it’s food or shelter to sustain the victim’s life, they have crossed the line from victim into willingly accepting a transaction of sex for money thus making them whores.”

Well Nanasha, nearly right, except for one sneaky detail. Child prostitutes accept money before the pedophile has touched them, not after.

They have the option not to accept the money, you whore apologist you.

But anyway, well done for concurring that prostitution should be taxed. However, your argument appears to be that because there might be some difficulty taxing sex workers, we should therefore… give up? … because the criminals have guns? Our police have guns, Nanasha, and it is their job to go and get the guns the criminals have. Our police force will not be intimidated (very brave in the line of duty).

But remember, the criminal elements will be removed from the equation, because prostitution will be a licensed activity, for non criminals only, for which you will need to have passed an NVQ in health and safety and taking cock.

The money raised will easily be enough to effectively police any unlicensed or underage prostitution.

The reason sex workers should pay a higher rate of tax, is to act as a deterrent, because sex work is something most people would like to see less of, for the variety of reasons which inform our understanding about what is right and wrong. I have my reasons, and 65% of women and 60% of men in the UK have their own reasons, for why they think it is wrong to sell sex.

Seraph
Seraph
12 years ago

Argenti – I get the erfworld joke.

Fembot
Fembot
12 years ago

Why are you so obsessed with prostitution, Tom? You’ve put a lot of thought into this. Did a prostitute break your heart once?

Nanasha
Nanasha
12 years ago

Tom, why is sex sacred? People sell other services, such as massage, yard work, child care, even septic-tank clean-out service. All of these services involve the use of their bodies for a price so that people don’t have to go through the effort of learning how to do it themselves.

Why should consenting adult people who want to sell sex not be allowed to exist? Obviously there must be people who wish to BUY sex services, otherwise there would be no such thing as prostitution. If you don’t want to have sex for money or pay for sex with money, that is YOUR right, but you should not be allowed to make a pay-service illegal simply because you don’t want to pay for it. I mean, I don’t like acupuncture, but it works for other people so why should I try and ban it just because I don’t want to do it?

And how do you know that pedophiles pay children for sex before the sex happens? Are you present for all child/pedophile sex/money exchanges? Are you a *shudder* “peeping Tom”?

Besides, according to most statistics, most pedophiles do not use child prostitutes. They groom and abuse children who are put into their close circle of influence and then abuse children by using shame, coercion and fear tactics to silence them. Pedophiles have much more in common with sociopaths than with fetishists. They seem to also find some level of sexual satisfaction in the torture and abuse part, not just the sex. Pedophiles behave in very seriously sociopathic ways, and most of them do not believe in paying for sex because they believe it is owed to them for free (much like you appear to, actually).

Do you advocate that we raise the tax on other blue-collar service professions so that people will be encouraged to learn how to fix their own sewage systems and massage themselves? And also, the “tax” for prostitutes right now is much more severe- they get thrown in jail (often with hard criminals), and must pay large fines if caught. One might argue that a criminal record and losing all their money would be enough to stop it, yet most of these prostitutes go back to the streets when they are set free. Simply making it legal and taxing it heavily would not stop prostitution.

As I said before, the only way to stop prostitution is for people who want to pay for it to stop paying for it.

After all, we don’t seem to have anyone who sits around on street corners selling Betamax (anyone remember these?) machines because there is no street demand for it. Same thing goes for the amount of bootleg VHS tapes that you no longer see. Stop the demand and the supply will dwindle.

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