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Tom Martin, leading UK Men’s Rights Activist: “Pedophiles who pay children for sex are not really rapists, because the child … understand[s] the nature of the contract.”

Tom Martin, child rape apologist

[TRIGGER WARNING: Discussion of child rape]

Tom Martin is one of the most prominent Men’s Rights Activists in the UK. He’s best known for a failed lawsuit he launched against the London School of Economics, charging the school’s gender studies program with, you guessed it, misandry. The case was thrown out of court this March, and Martin celebrated his defeat by calling a lot of people whores on Twitter and, I am proud to say, in the comments here at Man Boobz.

While Martin, known perhaps ironically as @sexismbusters on Twitter, is clearly more famous in the UK than he is here in the states, this peculiar crusader against what he sees as sexism has been celebrated (and his defeat in court mourned) by numerous Men’s Rights sites on this side of the pond. He’s been discussed many times on the Men’s Rights subreddit, where one supporter declared:

And he’s gotten write-ups on an assortment of other MR sites from The Spearhead to MensActivism.org to one Man Boobz favorite, the now-defunct What Men Are Saying About Women. On the website of the National Coalition for Men, one enthusiastic commenter gushed:

Finaly a real man with balls !!! Not like the rest of us . Tom is my hero .

But the Men’s Rights site that has given Martin the most support has been A Voice for Men, which featured Martin on one of its “radio” shows, reposted an article on Martin’s crusade from his website that seems to have been written by Martin himself (in the third person), offered updates on his lawsuit, and even publicized a recent public debate of his in England. The site has also encouraged people to donate to Martin’s legal fund.

One wonders what these supporters will make of some of the strange and awful things Martin has been saying in the comments here on Man Boobz in recent days. (There is no question that it is really him; he confirmed his identity earlier by emailing me from the account associated with his website Sexismbusters.org, and anyone skeptical of any of this is invited to contact him directly through his website.)

Most of the comments he posted here during his first commenting binge were rather risibly misogynist, frequently punctuated with his favorite epithet “whore,” a designation he feels is an appropriate one for 97% of all women and (he had recently added) for 98% of Man Boobzers of either gender. You can see here or here for numerous examples of Martin’s wit and wisdom – including his argument that hard chairs are discriminatory towards men and his now famous declaration that “female penguins are whores.”

His more recent comments, though, haven’t been funny in the slightest. Martin’s new obsession? Child prostitutes – and why they aren’t victims so much as victimizers, willing participants in an activity that makes them big money. Let me put another TRIGGER WARNING here. This is some of the most repellant material I have ever featured on man Boobz.

Here’s Martin’s opening statement on the subject:

The latest establishment scam in the UK, is to describe child prostitutes as “vulnerable children groomed for sexual exploitation”, then talk about them being “passed around” etc, without mention of the fact that these young people agreed to be whores, and are getting paid for it.

In a followup, he elaborated on this logic:

“Yeah, she offered me a job as a prostitute abroad, which would involve me receiving lots of money for taking cock, so I accepted, became a prostitute, and therefor, according to the official fem definition, this makes me a sex slave”.

Grow up!

Even a 10 year old knows, if someone is paying you for sex, that makes you a whore.

And when he talks about ten year olds here, he means this literally; in his mind, trafficked ten year old children aren’t really victims, but economic actors making an economic choice:

I stand by my statement, that child prostitutes know what they are doing, and therefore deserve to be called prostitutes, not victims.

A progressive European country (either Holland or one of the Scandinavian countries, I remember hearing), introduced in the late 90s, the legal principle of no arbitrary minimum age for consent, rather, the legal requirement to ascertain whether lawful sex had taken place was to establish whether the child or young person ‘understands the meaning of consent’ …

Now, if a ten year old is for instance [specific sexual act redacted] for money up front, then there is very much less question whether that whore understands the meaning of consent or not.

In another comment, Martin suggests that ten-year-olds who have been the victims of what some people insist on calling “real rape” would be offended by anyone thinking that ten-year-old prostitutes suffer from rape – when, after all, the child prostitutes have “agreed” to it.

From the perspective of a child who has actually been raped by an adult, how must it seem, to hear the victim-feminist establishment conflate child rape with child prostitution? The raped child remembers having no choice about participating in the sexual activity, of being forced, and then is asked to consider his or her fate or level of agency as similar or the same as that of a child who marketed them self for sex to an adult, took payment, then performed the act.

I don’t think the average 10 year old genuine rape victim would buy the manboobz style analysis that all child prostitution is rape … .

Questions of genuine agency are complicated, but not complicated enough to pass a 10 year old genuine rape victim’s bullshitometer I posit.

Oh, Martin doesn’t actually think ten year olds should be prostitutes. He thinks they should wait a few years, until they’re at least 14.

Should child prostitution from the ages of 13 up be legal?

Nope. I think that prostitution is a potentially dangerous profession for which a basic qualification in health and safety be required, like an NVQ – and that kind of course would not be attainable until after the minimum of secondary school years are completed, so aged 14, 15, 16, 17 or even 18 or more depending on the country.

The real problem, in his mind, is that young girls try to enter into the business when they should be in school:

States with child prostitution problems should be forced to get these children back into schools to complete their education, and child prostitutes who persist should be treated as school truants, a misdemeanor, and given the carrot and stick approach to get them back on the straight and narrow or go to young offenders institutions. If they want to be prostitutes when they’re old enough, then they can go to the careers advise officer, where the pros and cons of the profession can be laid out, and an application for the training course and license can be given.

Martin mocks the very notion that child prostitutes are being exploited:

Imagine you caught your underage 15 year old daughter on the game, what would you say to her?

“Okay darling, obviously you played no part whatsoever in choosing to be a prostitute yourself, so mummy’s going to help catch the nasty pimp who put you up to this, because what you need to learn is when 15 year old girls accidentally suck cocks for money, they should be compensated, with a bit of victims of crime compensation, and, not forgetting, the original £12 cock-sucking bonanza from the punter. That’s right sweety. Double bubble time. Pass me the phone. Now how does this thing work?”

Or… would you ground the whore for 6 months until she passes all her GCSEs?

Well, given that approximately 98% of manboobzers are whores themselves, I’m guessing you’re probably going to want to blame it all on MRAs.

So prostitution should be legal. But since prostitutes are very bad, they should pay high taxes for the privilege of plying their trade, to keep them poor and in order to repay society for the damage they do:

Prostitutes need to be taxed and licensed so heavily, rendering the profession a relatively poor way of making money.

Anyone who practices as a prostitute without the necessary qualification and license, can go to young offenders institute/jail – just like any other persistent illegal unlicensed trader would.

Anyone working on the sly as an escort, should be hunted down by the taxwoman, and if caught, given a huge bill for tax evasion, as well as a fine, and prison for not having a license. Unlicensed tax-evading prostitutes should be hunted down (which would be easy enough).

Anyone choosing prostitution should pay the highest taxes, and know why those taxes are so high – because of the damage prostitution does to the prostitutes and their customers and their environment and the society.

In a followup comment, Martin sees a silver lining in the form of all the tax revenues that prostitution will bring in:

If licensed hookers pay for a massive license fee and heavy taxes, then some of that money can be ring-fenced to research how best to get women (and girls) to renounce prostitution in all its forms, because let’s face it, a lot of housewhores and princess wannabes could do with a little economic activity-inducing work ethic therapy themselves.

Meanwhile, the customers of underage prostitutes – in other words, the child rapists – should be treated gingerly:

[M]en who pay money to have sex with child prostitutes should not be criminalized – but taken out of circulation and treated compassionately for their condition. I’ve heard that most criminal activity peaks with testosterone levels, in the late teens, but paedophillia is the only crime that increases in frequency as these men get older, indicating a growing pathology for them rather than just a typical immature criminal act.

He offers this final summing up of his twisted argument:

[P]edophiles who pay children for sex are not really rapists, because the child consents, then performs the act, indicating they understand the nature of the contract. The elder is still a pedophiles, but the child prostitute is still a prostitute.

If the child is enslaved – it’s rape, or too young or stupid to know what he or she’s doing – rape. But poor, and in need of food? Not rape. A choice. Unwilling to do other hard labour paying 9 times less than the prostitution route? Not rape. A choice.

He then extends his argument to the rest of the alleged 97% of women who, in his mind, are whores:

Whatever your age, follow the golden rule, of never taking money for sex, then prostitution will be eradicated. Only the prostitute can stop charging for sex.

And of course, that means rejecting courtship gifts, engagement gifts, marriage gifts, divorce gifts, and government largess also.

I don’t think many of you are ready to renounce prostitution in all its forms. …

I know a whore when I see one.

He even returns momentarily to his earlier assertion that female penguins are whores:

Someone or other here said I was anthropomorphising human behaviour onto penguin behaviour by calling penguins whores or something.

But the point is, being a whore, is an animalistic trait, that human females should not need to resort to, given they’re at the top of the fucking food chain already. Google “nuptial gifts” and you can read studies about various animals granting sex to those males who provide the most food, or even the most glittery non-edible trinkets etc, or in the case of penguins, rocks to build nests and shelter with.

I’m saying women are better than penguins, or at least would be if they renounced prostitution in all its forms.

I’m sure the women of the world will be happy to hear that Mr. Martin thinks they are potentially better than penguins.

I doubt many of Mr. Martin’s American supporters are familiar with his elaborate apologia for child rape. I would like to invite Man Boobz readers to show this post, or at least some of the more repellant quotations from it, to the proprietors of the various MRA blogs and MRA forums I have mentioned above.

I wonder if any of his supporters will be willing to renounce him publicly once they know what he has said here – and apparently in some recent public debates as well. Surely no legitimate “human rights movement” would want to be associated with anyone who spouts filth like this.

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Bostonian
12 years ago

I gave my love to Jesus, but now he never calls…

Ithiliana
12 years ago

@hellkell: True–plus the fact that the judge threw the lawsuit out while laughing snarkily the whole time would seem to have already made it fairly illegitimate, or delegitimate, or whatever, though IANAL.

aworldanonymous
12 years ago

So what did I miss?

darksidecat
12 years ago

Throwing around terms to describe concepts you clearly don’t understand like “agency” isn’t going to fool anyone about your child rape and trafficking apologism, Tom Martin. Now fuck off and die.

Nanasha
Nanasha
12 years ago

I’m not quite sure what Tom was trying to argue- that fat people are funny because they can’t stop stuffing their faces (GUFFAW GUFFAW), or that fat people are worthy of ridicule because they eat enough weird organ meat to get massively obese because of it (huh? this actually exists?).

I mean, I can understand the whole “stop eating Twinkies all the time” and “put down the five hundred cheeseburgers” because they actually make some sense (even though they are equally bigoted and NONE OF ANYONE’S BUSINESS), but seriously, eating thyroid glands to get fat? You couldn’t do that, because the thyroid gland is a tiny butterfly-shaped organ in the neck, and eating human organs is, as far as I know, illegal. And even if you were eating animal thyroids, that would involve you ingesting far too much thyroid hormone, which would probably cause a lot of messed up side effects in your own body (especially if it is pig or cow thyroid, as this is the dessicated thyroid gland used in the treatment of thyroid disorders to help people normalize their levels).

I mean, at least if you’re going to be an ass and make horrible fat jokes, you might as well make some modicum of logical sense instead of trying to make ridiculous “puns” that make no sense whatsover. But you know what? Preferably, you should just take the advice of Thumper the rabbit from “Bambi”- “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all!”

Being fat has nothing to do with whether or not someone should be treated with respect and decency. However, I would have to say that the putrid behavior of Tom has demonstrated that he is as ignorant as a bag of rocks. Or maybe just one big rock.

A rock named Tom.

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Week Woman
12 years ago

‘Or… would you ground the whore for 6 months until she passes all her GCSEs?’. Let’s hope he never has children. Jesus.

viola
12 years ago

…in terms of health and safety it was completely unsustainable as a lifestyle, but god, it WAS fun. There’s a certain pleasure in devoting literally all your waking hours to a totally consuming project, even if that project is also horribly planned and trying to kill you.

Yes. This. Fifteen hours of heavy physical labour for ten days getting theatres built in time for a festival, in my case. I get so many bruises I lose count, get so filthy I have dust lines around my underwear, lose inches from my waist even though I’m stuffing myself with sugar every break to keep going, and go back every year because it’s just so much fun. If I had to do it for a month I would probably die. But for ten days it’s awesome.

Tom Martin
12 years ago

There’s a lot of comments comparing me to sewerage, or agreeing I’ve got no friends, or wishing I would burn, or speculating that I’m from some other non-human sub-species, or comparing me to some foul pestulence. It’s all a bit fire and brimstone – and like a religious threat, used in lieu of any real argument.

The child prostitutes say they’re not victims.
And the fact they take money off a punter for sex, says it’s not really rape.

Pimps are not controllers, they are in truth merely agents for the prostitute, so don’t blame them exclusively either.

I’m calling manboobzers human whores. A trait shared with animals, but one humans have the cognitive powers, awaredness, and choice to transcend.

If your 10 year old doesn’t know what a whore is, but is one, then something’s wrong with that kid’s education. Perhaps they’ve been reading manboobz articles and taking Cuntrelle literally in between poundings.

I think Cuntrelle and his followers are prostitution apologists.

Week Woman
12 years ago
Reply to  Tom Martin

What about male child prostitutes? Are they ‘whores’?

Tulgey Logger
Tulgey Logger
12 years ago

Shorter Martin: Oh yeah?!

Sharculese
12 years ago

how’d your video, go, dude?

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
12 years ago

“I think Cuntrelle and his followers are prostitution apologists.”

He’s moved on from calling us whores!

Tom — you still haven’t explained what’s so terribly wrong with (adult) whores.

Tulgey Logger
Tulgey Logger
12 years ago

Tom — you still haven’t explained what’s so terribly wrong with (adult) whores.

Something something increases conditions for war WHORES

Bostonian
12 years ago

He did not make a video.

Snowy
Snowy
12 years ago

Aww and I was so looking forward to the video.

Tom Martin
12 years ago

Yeah, everyone’s avoiding any comment on the wrong position you’ve all taken about agency of child prostitutes.

Being a prostitute apologist is the same as being a prostitute. Only people who renounce prostitution in all its forms, can be considered non-whore humans.

Sharculese
12 years ago

Yeah, everyone’s avoiding any comment on the wrong position you’ve all taken about agency of child prostitutes.

is that like how youre avoiding questions about how your video went?

Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
12 years ago

By whom? Oh, wait, just you and you’re filth. Never mind, then.

Bostonian
12 years ago

So Tom, you have shared your opinion that child prostitutes totally chose their profession outside on the street then? If you film that exchange, I would watch it.

Our position is not wrong, you are just plain wrong on multiple levels.

Tulgey Logger
Tulgey Logger
12 years ago

Being a prostitute apologist is the same as being a prostitute.

Takes money for sex =/= thinks it’s okay to take money for sex.

That this has to be explained does not speak well of your education.

cloudiah
12 years ago

BigMomma summarized how I feel about your position on child prostitution very well.

Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
12 years ago

@ Tulgey Logger “That this has to be explained does not speak well of your education.”

Give him a break, how much education do you think he got after quitting his deliberately ill-chosen degree?

Snowy
Snowy
12 years ago

Being a prostitute apologist is the same as being a prostitute. Only people who renounce prostitution in all its forms, can be considered non-whore humans.

So what? Why is being (using the Tom Martin definition of whore) a “non-whore human” something people should want to be? From what you’ve said so far it seems to involve a lot of tedious accounting for every bit of minutia you give or receive in a romantic relationship. I think I’ll pass.

hellkell
hellkell
12 years ago

Tom, you want people to contribute to your video projects or buy them when they’re done. WHORE.

The First Joe
The First Joe
12 years ago

Ok, I’m gonna step out on a limb here and say, as someone who cares about Men’s Rights…
And assuming this pedo apologia is genuinely the words of the actual Tom Martin, and ever since the “ooh, hard chairs” & “whoresWHORESwhores” stuff it wouldn’t surprise me….

Fuck right off Tom Martin.

Kids of ten have no grasp of the significance of money vs. sex acts or any of that, because they are children! They are incompetent to make any such decision or contract themselves – because they are children! We protect children from engaging in certain adult activities because they are not mentally, physically or emotionally equipped to deal with those things, hence, age of consent*. You utter fuckwit Tom Martin! Fuck off!

Also, your wish to opress actual adult prostitutes – who perform, in effect, a valuable social service… one which is mainly used… by MEN – is absolutely the opposite to a human rights stance. Decriminalisation of adult prostitution in those backward countries where it remains illegal or quasi-legal is IMO an urgent human / men’s rights issue.

(Denmark, New Zealand, Germany, Spain have all thoroughly decriminalised prostitution, so adult sex-workers there are now largely able to engage in their profession without persecution by the coppers, and thus are able to work with a greater degree of safety and assurance of keeping their earnings.)

*While there is a legit debate to be had about age of consent, see the variation across many decent, developed countries (e.g. UK = 16, Germany = 15), this BS from Tom isn’t it. And no, !!ten!! is nowhere near it. Not by a country mile. For fuck’s sake Tom, you’re a mentalist!

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