[TRIGGER WARNING: Discussion of child rape]
Tom Martin is one of the most prominent Men’s Rights Activists in the UK. He’s best known for a failed lawsuit he launched against the London School of Economics, charging the school’s gender studies program with, you guessed it, misandry. The case was thrown out of court this March, and Martin celebrated his defeat by calling a lot of people whores on Twitter and, I am proud to say, in the comments here at Man Boobz.
While Martin, known perhaps ironically as @sexismbusters on Twitter, is clearly more famous in the UK than he is here in the states, this peculiar crusader against what he sees as sexism has been celebrated (and his defeat in court mourned) by numerous Men’s Rights sites on this side of the pond. He’s been discussed many times on the Men’s Rights subreddit, where one supporter declared:
And he’s gotten write-ups on an assortment of other MR sites from The Spearhead to MensActivism.org to one Man Boobz favorite, the now-defunct What Men Are Saying About Women. On the website of the National Coalition for Men, one enthusiastic commenter gushed:
Finaly a real man with balls !!! Not like the rest of us . Tom is my hero .
But the Men’s Rights site that has given Martin the most support has been A Voice for Men, which featured Martin on one of its “radio” shows, reposted an article on Martin’s crusade from his website that seems to have been written by Martin himself (in the third person), offered updates on his lawsuit, and even publicized a recent public debate of his in England. The site has also encouraged people to donate to Martin’s legal fund.
One wonders what these supporters will make of some of the strange and awful things Martin has been saying in the comments here on Man Boobz in recent days. (There is no question that it is really him; he confirmed his identity earlier by emailing me from the account associated with his website Sexismbusters.org, and anyone skeptical of any of this is invited to contact him directly through his website.)
Most of the comments he posted here during his first commenting binge were rather risibly misogynist, frequently punctuated with his favorite epithet “whore,” a designation he feels is an appropriate one for 97% of all women and (he had recently added) for 98% of Man Boobzers of either gender. You can see here or here for numerous examples of Martin’s wit and wisdom – including his argument that hard chairs are discriminatory towards men and his now famous declaration that “female penguins are whores.”
His more recent comments, though, haven’t been funny in the slightest. Martin’s new obsession? Child prostitutes – and why they aren’t victims so much as victimizers, willing participants in an activity that makes them big money. Let me put another TRIGGER WARNING here. This is some of the most repellant material I have ever featured on man Boobz.
Here’s Martin’s opening statement on the subject:
The latest establishment scam in the UK, is to describe child prostitutes as “vulnerable children groomed for sexual exploitation”, then talk about them being “passed around” etc, without mention of the fact that these young people agreed to be whores, and are getting paid for it.
In a followup, he elaborated on this logic:
“Yeah, she offered me a job as a prostitute abroad, which would involve me receiving lots of money for taking cock, so I accepted, became a prostitute, and therefor, according to the official fem definition, this makes me a sex slave”.
Grow up!
Even a 10 year old knows, if someone is paying you for sex, that makes you a whore.
And when he talks about ten year olds here, he means this literally; in his mind, trafficked ten year old children aren’t really victims, but economic actors making an economic choice:
I stand by my statement, that child prostitutes know what they are doing, and therefore deserve to be called prostitutes, not victims.
A progressive European country (either Holland or one of the Scandinavian countries, I remember hearing), introduced in the late 90s, the legal principle of no arbitrary minimum age for consent, rather, the legal requirement to ascertain whether lawful sex had taken place was to establish whether the child or young person ‘understands the meaning of consent’ …
Now, if a ten year old is for instance [specific sexual act redacted] for money up front, then there is very much less question whether that whore understands the meaning of consent or not.
In another comment, Martin suggests that ten-year-olds who have been the victims of what some people insist on calling “real rape” would be offended by anyone thinking that ten-year-old prostitutes suffer from rape – when, after all, the child prostitutes have “agreed” to it.
From the perspective of a child who has actually been raped by an adult, how must it seem, to hear the victim-feminist establishment conflate child rape with child prostitution? The raped child remembers having no choice about participating in the sexual activity, of being forced, and then is asked to consider his or her fate or level of agency as similar or the same as that of a child who marketed them self for sex to an adult, took payment, then performed the act.
I don’t think the average 10 year old genuine rape victim would buy the manboobz style analysis that all child prostitution is rape … .
Questions of genuine agency are complicated, but not complicated enough to pass a 10 year old genuine rape victim’s bullshitometer I posit.
Oh, Martin doesn’t actually think ten year olds should be prostitutes. He thinks they should wait a few years, until they’re at least 14.
Should child prostitution from the ages of 13 up be legal?
Nope. I think that prostitution is a potentially dangerous profession for which a basic qualification in health and safety be required, like an NVQ – and that kind of course would not be attainable until after the minimum of secondary school years are completed, so aged 14, 15, 16, 17 or even 18 or more depending on the country.
The real problem, in his mind, is that young girls try to enter into the business when they should be in school:
States with child prostitution problems should be forced to get these children back into schools to complete their education, and child prostitutes who persist should be treated as school truants, a misdemeanor, and given the carrot and stick approach to get them back on the straight and narrow or go to young offenders institutions. If they want to be prostitutes when they’re old enough, then they can go to the careers advise officer, where the pros and cons of the profession can be laid out, and an application for the training course and license can be given.
Martin mocks the very notion that child prostitutes are being exploited:
Imagine you caught your underage 15 year old daughter on the game, what would you say to her?
“Okay darling, obviously you played no part whatsoever in choosing to be a prostitute yourself, so mummy’s going to help catch the nasty pimp who put you up to this, because what you need to learn is when 15 year old girls accidentally suck cocks for money, they should be compensated, with a bit of victims of crime compensation, and, not forgetting, the original £12 cock-sucking bonanza from the punter. That’s right sweety. Double bubble time. Pass me the phone. Now how does this thing work?”
Or… would you ground the whore for 6 months until she passes all her GCSEs?
Well, given that approximately 98% of manboobzers are whores themselves, I’m guessing you’re probably going to want to blame it all on MRAs.
So prostitution should be legal. But since prostitutes are very bad, they should pay high taxes for the privilege of plying their trade, to keep them poor and in order to repay society for the damage they do:
Prostitutes need to be taxed and licensed so heavily, rendering the profession a relatively poor way of making money.
Anyone who practices as a prostitute without the necessary qualification and license, can go to young offenders institute/jail – just like any other persistent illegal unlicensed trader would.
Anyone working on the sly as an escort, should be hunted down by the taxwoman, and if caught, given a huge bill for tax evasion, as well as a fine, and prison for not having a license. Unlicensed tax-evading prostitutes should be hunted down (which would be easy enough).
Anyone choosing prostitution should pay the highest taxes, and know why those taxes are so high – because of the damage prostitution does to the prostitutes and their customers and their environment and the society.
In a followup comment, Martin sees a silver lining in the form of all the tax revenues that prostitution will bring in:
If licensed hookers pay for a massive license fee and heavy taxes, then some of that money can be ring-fenced to research how best to get women (and girls) to renounce prostitution in all its forms, because let’s face it, a lot of housewhores and princess wannabes could do with a little economic activity-inducing work ethic therapy themselves.
Meanwhile, the customers of underage prostitutes – in other words, the child rapists – should be treated gingerly:
[M]en who pay money to have sex with child prostitutes should not be criminalized – but taken out of circulation and treated compassionately for their condition. I’ve heard that most criminal activity peaks with testosterone levels, in the late teens, but paedophillia is the only crime that increases in frequency as these men get older, indicating a growing pathology for them rather than just a typical immature criminal act.
He offers this final summing up of his twisted argument:
[P]edophiles who pay children for sex are not really rapists, because the child consents, then performs the act, indicating they understand the nature of the contract. The elder is still a pedophiles, but the child prostitute is still a prostitute.
If the child is enslaved – it’s rape, or too young or stupid to know what he or she’s doing – rape. But poor, and in need of food? Not rape. A choice. Unwilling to do other hard labour paying 9 times less than the prostitution route? Not rape. A choice.
He then extends his argument to the rest of the alleged 97% of women who, in his mind, are whores:
Whatever your age, follow the golden rule, of never taking money for sex, then prostitution will be eradicated. Only the prostitute can stop charging for sex.
And of course, that means rejecting courtship gifts, engagement gifts, marriage gifts, divorce gifts, and government largess also.
I don’t think many of you are ready to renounce prostitution in all its forms. …
I know a whore when I see one.
He even returns momentarily to his earlier assertion that female penguins are whores:
Someone or other here said I was anthropomorphising human behaviour onto penguin behaviour by calling penguins whores or something.
But the point is, being a whore, is an animalistic trait, that human females should not need to resort to, given they’re at the top of the fucking food chain already. Google “nuptial gifts” and you can read studies about various animals granting sex to those males who provide the most food, or even the most glittery non-edible trinkets etc, or in the case of penguins, rocks to build nests and shelter with.
I’m saying women are better than penguins, or at least would be if they renounced prostitution in all its forms.
I’m sure the women of the world will be happy to hear that Mr. Martin thinks they are potentially better than penguins.
I doubt many of Mr. Martin’s American supporters are familiar with his elaborate apologia for child rape. I would like to invite Man Boobz readers to show this post, or at least some of the more repellant quotations from it, to the proprietors of the various MRA blogs and MRA forums I have mentioned above.
I wonder if any of his supporters will be willing to renounce him publicly once they know what he has said here – and apparently in some recent public debates as well. Surely no legitimate “human rights movement” would want to be associated with anyone who spouts filth like this.
Fatness is a choice, ladies, and so is being a whore. Going bald (currently) is not, due to poor efficacy of available treatments, including transplants. That will change, if Aderans, Histogen, Replicel, Allergen and Tsuji-Lab among others have anything to do with it. All you need to do in the meantime is shut the fuck up until they sort it out. The apparent acceptability of attacking the bald though, is a great example of the lack of equality men have. People do not generally attack or humiliate women who are going bald – but when it’s a man…
Exhibit C, Cassandra.
[Insert videos of cats when losing argument as usual].
Here is a video of a cricket player nearly getting his toupee ripped off by a fellow team-mate:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qjMOH6VEPMA
Can you imagine someone doing that to Dolly Parton or Beyonce whilst they were at work?
You guys realize that our child rape advocate is not actually going to make any documentary at all, right? I mean, I doubt anything will make it to YouTube in the near future.
Bro, I’m Italian. My build is bigger than that of another woman my height. Not the flesh, the bones underneath. I can’t not have my bones. You’re dumb.
Child rape: also a choice
Here’s the thing, Tom, she wasn’t making fun of your baldness. She was making a comparison to Ann Coulter and using your physical appearance as a reference point. She included the hair because one of Coulter’s trademarks is her long blonde hair.
If someone called me a “Short, brunette version of Ann Coulter” it wouldn’t be the (accurate) descriptions of my physical appearance ticked me off because the insult isn’t about being brunette or short but about being a right-wing idiot.
That’s where you in at least a few cases are wrong, thyroid problems are a very real problem, and in many cases there are severe psychological disorders behind the weight. Do your research before you start writing double standards like that.
Cry me a fuckin’ river.
Well VoIP, obviously not to Tom. We need to be really nice to pedophiles, because they cannot help harming children. The children in question, however, are fair game as long as the pedophile has to pay a pimp to rape them.
All she said was that you had less hair than Ann Coulter. You seem a little sensitive, Tom, for someone who likes to call us all fat whores. Your unattractiveness is due primarily to your personality, dude.
Baldness *can* be a choice. You can always shave your head.
Also, when even sexist websites like Cracked start posting articles that show that being fat is about as much of a choice as your height or eye color, you know that it’s probably not just a question of putting down the cheeseburger: http://www.cracked.com/quick-fixes/fat-officially-incurable-according-to-science/ (not that I’d want to give up cheeseburgers just so nasty asshats like Tom here will finally get an erection just from looking at me- since, ya know, that’s all women seem to be good for according to him).
Once again, it is not your hair follicle count that I find utterly repulsive. It is your lack of basic human decency and tact. Your argument is completely unrelated to the actual PROBLEM.
There are perks to just shaving your head Tom, no one will have a clue how bald you are.
Ew, am I the only one that caught that when Tom Martin suggested child rape should be illegal, he meant that raped and trafficked kids should be punished for having been raped and trafficked because he sees them as “whores”.
Wait…..so according to Tom, being a whore is a choice, but 97% of women are unaware that they are whores and must therefore be told by him and therefore realize the errors of their ways and renounce any and all whoredom to his bum self by giving him money?
And our incentive to subject ourselves to verbal abuse and give our hard-earned wages to this joker is…..?
Also, I find it so strange when men come here and complain about fat women like fat men don’t exist. Not that being fat is a character flaw or even particularly changeable, but it certainly isn’t a sin of just one gender.
I hate to fall into SRS-speak here (as revealing that I read SRS threatens to reveal that Manboobz is all an evil plot by SRS, or vice versa, I forget), but:
Child rape: LOL
Hair loss: NO. NOT LOL.
darksidecat – Yeah, that’s pretty much his take on the matter.
VolP said:
Bro, I’m Italian. My build is bigger than that of another woman my height. Not the flesh, the bones underneath. I can’t not have my bones. You’re dumb.
Volp, I’ve had three Italian girlfriends, and they were all slim and hot, despite eating all that pasta every damn day. I think Italian women might get fat in there twenties onwards more than women in other. more progressive European cultures because of the relatively low economic activity rates of Italian women. The same thing happens in Spain.
If you are one of those very fat people for whom obesity is not your fault, then don’t take it personally, but the vast majority of fat people are like that due to lifestyle choices, including economic inactivity, which should be a feminist issue.
And remember, we’re living in an era of anorexia hysteria (created by feminists), where women are more scared of being a few pounds underweight than overweight, despite obesity being much more of a health risk than anorexia – so in that context, it’s healthy to point out that men prefer women a bit thinner than women prefer women.
At least, according to a book called A Billion Wicked Thoughts, which tracked porn search engine phrases, and found women watching porn preferred to see fatter women than men do when watching porn.
WordSpinner – I don’t find it strange at all. Fat men aren’t depriving (straight, skinny-preferring) men of valuable decoration or potential sexual partners. But fat women are robbing those men of sex objects!
VoIP: I’m Italian and German. I joke that we were bred in my family to pull plows when there was no livestock around. My grandmother was 6′, and my aunt was 6’2″. We are a solid people.
Lol @ economic inactivity makes you fat. Tom, just how drunk are you? You have things to do tomorrow, sweetcheeks, we need you bright-eyed and bushy-tailed.
Tom — go read that cracked article, maybe you can learn something.
I’ve always found it funny that people who specifically state that they want to make absolutely no effort to pleasure their partners, act like huge disrespectful asshats who have huge entitlement complexes without having to adhere to basic hygiene or appearance care when it comes to themselves, and generally appear to be some of the most unpleasant individuals I’ve ever encountered are the first to complain about “the fat chicks” and “those evil bitches” and the like?
It’s like, well maybe people won’t immediately write you off if you don’t act like a racist, sexist, ablest douchebag whose idea of sexual performance is rolling over and going to sleep after you come after five minutes of boring robotic thrusting.
Perhaps no one wants to fuck you, NOT because there are problems with other people, but because the problem is YOU.
Seriously. Do I give a crap about all of the people I don’t want to fuck or who don’t want to fuck me? Nope. And if the only people I could have sex with who wanted sex with me were as unpleasant as this, I doubt I’d ever have sex. Seriously. I can live without being told it’s “my fault” that I didn’t orgasm “fast enough” before my partner did, and that because of my “horrible performance” that they won’t cuddle with me afterwards.
I am not impressed, Tom. Not impressed at all.
Apparently you’ve never heard of this thing called a desk job.
Being “economically inactive” (i.e., only a wife and mother) burns a hell of a lot more calories than having any kind of job where you stare at screens and type all day.
Oh man wouldn’t that be nice.
Anyway, what if someone’s fat and it is their “fault”? What’s it to ya? It’s not women’s job to be pretty for you. If you happen to be attracted to redheads, you can’t expect every woman on Earth to dye her hair.
Question: what do you actually know about cultures not your own that cannot be found in, say, an episode of “Bugs Bunny” from the 50s?
See, you guys are a lot taller than my dad’s side of the family, every single one of which, male and female, except my dad, is about 5’2,” with the same resolute solidity. Some historian found out that the average height of the Roman soldier was also 5’2″. These are the bodies that built the Roman Empire.
Tommy is GLaDOS now, except, you know, without the wit, charm, and remorse that made GLaDOS such a great character.