[TRIGGER WARNING: Discussion of child rape]
Tom Martin is one of the most prominent Men’s Rights Activists in the UK. He’s best known for a failed lawsuit he launched against the London School of Economics, charging the school’s gender studies program with, you guessed it, misandry. The case was thrown out of court this March, and Martin celebrated his defeat by calling a lot of people whores on Twitter and, I am proud to say, in the comments here at Man Boobz.
While Martin, known perhaps ironically as @sexismbusters on Twitter, is clearly more famous in the UK than he is here in the states, this peculiar crusader against what he sees as sexism has been celebrated (and his defeat in court mourned) by numerous Men’s Rights sites on this side of the pond. He’s been discussed many times on the Men’s Rights subreddit, where one supporter declared:
And he’s gotten write-ups on an assortment of other MR sites from The Spearhead to MensActivism.org to one Man Boobz favorite, the now-defunct What Men Are Saying About Women. On the website of the National Coalition for Men, one enthusiastic commenter gushed:
Finaly a real man with balls !!! Not like the rest of us . Tom is my hero .
But the Men’s Rights site that has given Martin the most support has been A Voice for Men, which featured Martin on one of its “radio” shows, reposted an article on Martin’s crusade from his website that seems to have been written by Martin himself (in the third person), offered updates on his lawsuit, and even publicized a recent public debate of his in England. The site has also encouraged people to donate to Martin’s legal fund.
One wonders what these supporters will make of some of the strange and awful things Martin has been saying in the comments here on Man Boobz in recent days. (There is no question that it is really him; he confirmed his identity earlier by emailing me from the account associated with his website Sexismbusters.org, and anyone skeptical of any of this is invited to contact him directly through his website.)
Most of the comments he posted here during his first commenting binge were rather risibly misogynist, frequently punctuated with his favorite epithet “whore,” a designation he feels is an appropriate one for 97% of all women and (he had recently added) for 98% of Man Boobzers of either gender. You can see here or here for numerous examples of Martin’s wit and wisdom – including his argument that hard chairs are discriminatory towards men and his now famous declaration that “female penguins are whores.”
His more recent comments, though, haven’t been funny in the slightest. Martin’s new obsession? Child prostitutes – and why they aren’t victims so much as victimizers, willing participants in an activity that makes them big money. Let me put another TRIGGER WARNING here. This is some of the most repellant material I have ever featured on man Boobz.
Here’s Martin’s opening statement on the subject:
The latest establishment scam in the UK, is to describe child prostitutes as “vulnerable children groomed for sexual exploitation”, then talk about them being “passed around” etc, without mention of the fact that these young people agreed to be whores, and are getting paid for it.
In a followup, he elaborated on this logic:
“Yeah, she offered me a job as a prostitute abroad, which would involve me receiving lots of money for taking cock, so I accepted, became a prostitute, and therefor, according to the official fem definition, this makes me a sex slave”.
Grow up!
Even a 10 year old knows, if someone is paying you for sex, that makes you a whore.
And when he talks about ten year olds here, he means this literally; in his mind, trafficked ten year old children aren’t really victims, but economic actors making an economic choice:
I stand by my statement, that child prostitutes know what they are doing, and therefore deserve to be called prostitutes, not victims.
A progressive European country (either Holland or one of the Scandinavian countries, I remember hearing), introduced in the late 90s, the legal principle of no arbitrary minimum age for consent, rather, the legal requirement to ascertain whether lawful sex had taken place was to establish whether the child or young person ‘understands the meaning of consent’ …
Now, if a ten year old is for instance [specific sexual act redacted] for money up front, then there is very much less question whether that whore understands the meaning of consent or not.
In another comment, Martin suggests that ten-year-olds who have been the victims of what some people insist on calling “real rape” would be offended by anyone thinking that ten-year-old prostitutes suffer from rape – when, after all, the child prostitutes have “agreed” to it.
From the perspective of a child who has actually been raped by an adult, how must it seem, to hear the victim-feminist establishment conflate child rape with child prostitution? The raped child remembers having no choice about participating in the sexual activity, of being forced, and then is asked to consider his or her fate or level of agency as similar or the same as that of a child who marketed them self for sex to an adult, took payment, then performed the act.
I don’t think the average 10 year old genuine rape victim would buy the manboobz style analysis that all child prostitution is rape … .
Questions of genuine agency are complicated, but not complicated enough to pass a 10 year old genuine rape victim’s bullshitometer I posit.
Oh, Martin doesn’t actually think ten year olds should be prostitutes. He thinks they should wait a few years, until they’re at least 14.
Should child prostitution from the ages of 13 up be legal?
Nope. I think that prostitution is a potentially dangerous profession for which a basic qualification in health and safety be required, like an NVQ – and that kind of course would not be attainable until after the minimum of secondary school years are completed, so aged 14, 15, 16, 17 or even 18 or more depending on the country.
The real problem, in his mind, is that young girls try to enter into the business when they should be in school:
States with child prostitution problems should be forced to get these children back into schools to complete their education, and child prostitutes who persist should be treated as school truants, a misdemeanor, and given the carrot and stick approach to get them back on the straight and narrow or go to young offenders institutions. If they want to be prostitutes when they’re old enough, then they can go to the careers advise officer, where the pros and cons of the profession can be laid out, and an application for the training course and license can be given.
Martin mocks the very notion that child prostitutes are being exploited:
Imagine you caught your underage 15 year old daughter on the game, what would you say to her?
“Okay darling, obviously you played no part whatsoever in choosing to be a prostitute yourself, so mummy’s going to help catch the nasty pimp who put you up to this, because what you need to learn is when 15 year old girls accidentally suck cocks for money, they should be compensated, with a bit of victims of crime compensation, and, not forgetting, the original £12 cock-sucking bonanza from the punter. That’s right sweety. Double bubble time. Pass me the phone. Now how does this thing work?”
Or… would you ground the whore for 6 months until she passes all her GCSEs?
Well, given that approximately 98% of manboobzers are whores themselves, I’m guessing you’re probably going to want to blame it all on MRAs.
So prostitution should be legal. But since prostitutes are very bad, they should pay high taxes for the privilege of plying their trade, to keep them poor and in order to repay society for the damage they do:
Prostitutes need to be taxed and licensed so heavily, rendering the profession a relatively poor way of making money.
Anyone who practices as a prostitute without the necessary qualification and license, can go to young offenders institute/jail – just like any other persistent illegal unlicensed trader would.
Anyone working on the sly as an escort, should be hunted down by the taxwoman, and if caught, given a huge bill for tax evasion, as well as a fine, and prison for not having a license. Unlicensed tax-evading prostitutes should be hunted down (which would be easy enough).
Anyone choosing prostitution should pay the highest taxes, and know why those taxes are so high – because of the damage prostitution does to the prostitutes and their customers and their environment and the society.
In a followup comment, Martin sees a silver lining in the form of all the tax revenues that prostitution will bring in:
If licensed hookers pay for a massive license fee and heavy taxes, then some of that money can be ring-fenced to research how best to get women (and girls) to renounce prostitution in all its forms, because let’s face it, a lot of housewhores and princess wannabes could do with a little economic activity-inducing work ethic therapy themselves.
Meanwhile, the customers of underage prostitutes – in other words, the child rapists – should be treated gingerly:
[M]en who pay money to have sex with child prostitutes should not be criminalized – but taken out of circulation and treated compassionately for their condition. I’ve heard that most criminal activity peaks with testosterone levels, in the late teens, but paedophillia is the only crime that increases in frequency as these men get older, indicating a growing pathology for them rather than just a typical immature criminal act.
He offers this final summing up of his twisted argument:
[P]edophiles who pay children for sex are not really rapists, because the child consents, then performs the act, indicating they understand the nature of the contract. The elder is still a pedophiles, but the child prostitute is still a prostitute.
If the child is enslaved – it’s rape, or too young or stupid to know what he or she’s doing – rape. But poor, and in need of food? Not rape. A choice. Unwilling to do other hard labour paying 9 times less than the prostitution route? Not rape. A choice.
He then extends his argument to the rest of the alleged 97% of women who, in his mind, are whores:
Whatever your age, follow the golden rule, of never taking money for sex, then prostitution will be eradicated. Only the prostitute can stop charging for sex.
And of course, that means rejecting courtship gifts, engagement gifts, marriage gifts, divorce gifts, and government largess also.
I don’t think many of you are ready to renounce prostitution in all its forms. …
I know a whore when I see one.
He even returns momentarily to his earlier assertion that female penguins are whores:
Someone or other here said I was anthropomorphising human behaviour onto penguin behaviour by calling penguins whores or something.
But the point is, being a whore, is an animalistic trait, that human females should not need to resort to, given they’re at the top of the fucking food chain already. Google “nuptial gifts” and you can read studies about various animals granting sex to those males who provide the most food, or even the most glittery non-edible trinkets etc, or in the case of penguins, rocks to build nests and shelter with.
I’m saying women are better than penguins, or at least would be if they renounced prostitution in all its forms.
I’m sure the women of the world will be happy to hear that Mr. Martin thinks they are potentially better than penguins.
I doubt many of Mr. Martin’s American supporters are familiar with his elaborate apologia for child rape. I would like to invite Man Boobz readers to show this post, or at least some of the more repellant quotations from it, to the proprietors of the various MRA blogs and MRA forums I have mentioned above.
I wonder if any of his supporters will be willing to renounce him publicly once they know what he has said here – and apparently in some recent public debates as well. Surely no legitimate “human rights movement” would want to be associated with anyone who spouts filth like this.
It’s almost as if the term whore doesn’t apply to 97% of women.
Almost as if he is making up definitions to fit his cause….
Well, in Tom’s case “whore” is a marketing term, like how Starbucks call their small coffee a “tall”. It’s all part of his attempt to build a brand that he can convert into income. He does have a 37 thousand pound bill to pay, after all.
Dean Esmay, I’m really not sure what point you think you’re making with your comment. Did you actually read my post, or did you hear about it second-hand?
In my post, I linked to a post on the NCFM web site, and quoted the first comment there on the post. I said nothing else about the NCFM.
Here is the link I gave:
http://ncfm.org/2012/03/action/ncfm-member-tom-martin-says-in-debate-sex-slavery-is-voluntary-and-rape-statistics-are-inflated/
I didn’t claim that Martin was a member; the only person making that claim is the person who wrote the headline on NCFM’s own site.
I didn’t claim they were involved in his case. I didn’t claim I’d ever spoken to anyone at the NCFM. I don’t care if they know about me or not.
This is literally all I wrote about them:
That’s the commenter I quoted. I will change the word fan to “commenter” so that there won’t be any possible confusion.
I never suggested that they, or any of the sites I mentioned, agreed with Martin about child prostitutes. At this point, as I noted it’s not clear how many MRAs here know of these views of his. The point of my post is that many MRAs supported HIS LAWSUIT. — and that I will be interested in seeing if any of them distance themselves from Martin after they hear his views on this subject.
Dean: showing all the typical TROLL reading comprehension!
You know, DeanTroll, there’s a reason David links to things: so people can go and read the source, as well as the quote (he also does a pretty good ‘quote sandwich’–englishtchur technical term about introducing the quote, etc.).
If you just did that, you could avoid these embarrassing public boo-boos!
Actually, NCFM made me a lifetime honorary member – but no, they weren’t aware of my opinions about pedophilia and child prostitution. It’s a difficult subject to talk about without idiots… oh wait.
“Actually, NCFM made me a lifetime honorary member”
Tom, meet Dean. Dean, meet Tom. One of you is lying – care to argue it out?
(I don’t have any popcorn, but I can offer pitta bread and hummus.)
Wow, it’s almost like he’s self-aware.
But all those who are genuinely disgusted by reading my comments first hand should unfollow sexismbusters on twitter and facebook and youtube immediately. You won’t want to see the two vids coming out this month either. A bit too honest for your liking. Just keep watching the fluffy bunny videos on manboobz, and agreeing amongst yourselves that you’re not whores.
More blatant whoring from Tom! When will this wanton display of whorishness end?
I’m sure Tom’s membership will remain in good standing. The dudes at NCFM will make excuses for him, I am sure.
I say this because every time I think MRAs have sunk to their lowest point, they manage to dig yet further.
Tommy, Cupcake, I’m going to watch your videos, and then I’m going to start a blog devoted entirely to poking holes in your logic specifically, as well as analyzing them from a psychology major’s standpoint starting in September.
Casandra, you can’t seem to tell the difference between whoring and a vocation. I wonder why!
I LOLed again. Dude is on a roll. And now I’m gonna go mix up some cocktails for the little party I’m having with all my whore-friends who aren’t forcing money into my hands as recompense. Truly, this IS the whoriarchy /Twilight Zone theme comes on
Tom, sweetie, you are the biggest whore that I’ve ever seen. Shame you’re not good enough at it to pay off that bill you incurred as a result of your frivolous lawsuit, but hey, keep trying and maybe someone will give you money. You big whore.
New Man Boobz slogan?
“whoriarchy” Is it wrong that I thought of Gallifrey before anything else when I saw that word?
Tom, it’s after 1 AM! If you’re going to be producing a Very Important Documentary tomorrow, you need your beauty rest!
Also, hahahaha, trolling Manboobz is his “vocation.” See, some are called to serve others with their labor, some with their learning, some with their caring… and some with their yelling WHORES on the Internet over and over.
No, silly, trying to build a career as a professional Outraged Sexist is his vocation. Which is why he keeps whoring his product all over the place.
Basically Tom wants to be Ann Coulter when he grows up, but with less hair and more swearing.
aworldanonymous,
I should point out, that for my final year film in my undergraduate film making degree, I conducted an experiment to find out which sex desires more environmentally unfriendly mates – and I was certain it was going to be women, choosing men for their big cars etc – which was true, but on a whole range of other ideal partner lifestyles, women made much more environmentally friendly choices for their ideal man than the choices men made of women – and I dutifully reported it – so, I genuinely don’t know the outcomes of these experiments, but I will set out my hypothesis before we begin, the whores.
Hahaha.. >.< If it wasn't for Tom wasting £37,000 (or whatever it was), i'd swear he was a parody.
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Why would you be doing a sociology experiment in a filmmaking class? They want to see your control of visual language and efficient storytelling, not whether you can test some hypothesis.
Okay, so your Y axis is humor and your X axis is WHORE–how do you plan to measure either of these?
What could a woman do to score above a zero on “humor,” and what in Heaven and Earth could a woman do to score below 100 on WHORE?
Do you have at least one non-whore woman lined up to interview?
Cassandra said:
Basically Tom wants to be Ann Coulter when he grows up, but with less hair and more swearing.
Well Cassandra, there are five new baldness treatments in the pipeline, but no drugs for treating a receding personality, so what are you going to do?
Aww, he thinks he’s Winston Churchill.
“Well, madam, I may be drunk, but whaagarrble you’re ugly drunk ugly wow I’m druuuunk.”