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The wit and wisdom of the guy who created that “beat up Anita Sarkeesian” game

Yesterday I wrote about a vile online game in which players were invited to “beat up Anita Sarkeesian,” the feminist cultural critic who’s faced endless harassment because she had the temerity to ask for donations to fund a video project looking at sexist tropes in video games.

The game, which (happily) has been removed from Newgrounds.com, where it was originally posted, was put together by a young Canadian gamer named Bendilin Spurr. On the game’s page, he offered this explanation as to why he created the game:

Anita Sarkeesian has not only scammed thousands of people out of over $160,000, but also uses the excuse that she is a woman to get away with whatever she damn well pleases. Any form of constructive criticism, even from fellow women, is either ignored or labelled to be sexist against her.

She claims to want gender equality in video games, but in reality, she just wants to use the fact that she was born with a vagina to get free money and sympathy from everyone who crosses her path.

That doesn’t really explain much, as asking people for voluntary donations to a video project is a far cry from “scamming,” especially since she’d asked for far less, and that the misogynist backlash to her project began long before she’d collected anywhere near this amount.

It also doesn’t quite explain why Bendilin felt that a Sarkessian-punching game was the best format to make this, er, critique.

Last night, after learning from the comments here that young Bendilin had a profile on Steam and a Twitter account, I decided to peruse both to see if I could find more clues that might explain his foul game.

On his Steam profile, he’s set forth his basic philosophy of life, video games, and how much women suck:

I think it’s just adorable how absolutely no girls are any good at video games, just like how no woman has ever written a good novel. They are nothing but talk and no action, probably because girls are such emotional creatures and base everything they do on their current feelings and then try to rationalize their actions later. How pathetic.

You know what’s priceless? When a gamer girl posts a pic of herself looking as slutty as possible and then throws a fake fit when people talk to her like she’s a whore. What did you think was going to happen, you dumb broad? Lose thirty pounds.

Sadly, these aren’t terribly rare or original opinions for a young male gamer.

Over on Twitter, Bendilin has offered a number of conflicting explanations for why he felt so much hostility for Sarkeesian and her video project that he felt justified in creating a video game devoted to punching her in the face.

There’s the fiscal argument:

There’s the laziness argument:

There’s the rather strange argument that Sarkeesian is not taking the proper time to research the subject, although she has not yet started the project. (Also, one of the reasons she was asking for money was so that she could take the time to research the subject properly.)

The “nuh-uh you’re wrong” argument:

The “she won’t listen to me argument.” Part one: The Lego Incident

And Part 2, in which our hero explains that making a video game about punching someone in the face is a great way to open a dialogue with them:

Naturally, Bendilin, like most misogynists, fervently denies that he’s a misogynist:

Yep, that’s right. The guy whose Steam profile claims that “absolutely no girls are any good at video games” and that “no woman has ever written a good novel,” and who decided to express his criticism for a video project that hasn’t even started by making a video game in which players punch the woman behind it in the face, is angry that anyone might conclude that he hates women.

Well, Bendilin, if you wanted to defend video games and the gaming community at large from charges of sexism, you’ve done a bang-up job of it.

UPDATE: Bendilin is also an artist! Here, Virgil Texas takes a look at Bendilin’s erotically charged Sonic the Hedgehog art.

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Wetherby
Wetherby
12 years ago

TRIGGER WARNING FOR WHIMSY:

Tulgey Logger wins today’s internets.

cloudiah
12 years ago

Cliff, stop white knighting, you mangina.

hellkell
hellkell
12 years ago

No cookie for Cliff.

Ithiliana
12 years ago

@JohnnyTroll: apparently, since she deleted his comments and did not immediately reply to him, he had to make a game to let many men beat her up–he wants her attention.

Pretty pathetic.

But he’s gotten a lot of attention now, hasn’t he?

Why didn’t he do the effort and research to debunk her videos (either the existing ones, or the ones she began to produce)? What is he so afraid of?

kirbywarp
kirbywarp
12 years ago

@cloudiah:

It then continues digging, digs too deep, and unleashes the Balrog on Maryland.

@Johnny:

Why, is that what you used to call it?

Swing and a miss, my desperate friend.

OverlordTomala
OverlordTomala
12 years ago

Just for lulz here’s his youtube account. I found it on his steam profile.

http://www.youtube.com/user/Bendilin

Pam
Pam
12 years ago

The ironic part is, the only reason she got the money is because she’s viewed as weak, helpless and infantile

Hmmmmm, I wonder if those are the same reasons that Paul Elam receives money following his incessant requests for donations.

Tulgey Logger
Tulgey Logger
12 years ago

Well, with the one caveat that they are specifically male who deserve to die for harassing a woman.

What in the game says that they deserve death? What communicates that message? Considering as it’s an equally valid option to literally say “thanks” to all the catcallers, I’d say that it’s a game about “the problem of and responses to street harassment.” More quotes from the interview with the creators of the game you obviously did not read or listen to showing why one would not consider them dangerous or problematic to hire:

MARTIN: Let me ask you this, Emily, and Suyin, I’m going to ask this question to you also. You know, there are those who would argue that kind of visual violence, game violence, television violence, that media violence in general just perpetuates a culture of violence. And while there’s no data that show that sort of a heavy user of video games is going to go out and commit violence, there are those who would say that you just adding more violence to the culture doesnt even if its a fantasy doesnt really help us very much.

Emily, what do you say about that? And Suyin, I want to hear your perspective too.

Ms. MAY: One of the things that really struck me about the game is that it does feel and did emit the same kind of emotions for me, personally, that being street harassed did and it made me feel very scared. And it made me wonder if I made a wrong turn or if I got stuck in a back alley that perhaps, it would escalate to assault or even something worse. And, you know, I think that, you know, replacing violence with violence isn’t the answer, but I think at the core of what Suyins trying to do is that shes trying to create a response to street harassment that feels empowering. And thats a challenge. And thats something that we really work hard to do at Holla Back, as well.

MARTIN: And so you didnt like it?

Ms. MAY: No, I did not like shooting guys at all. I will be totally frank. It totally freaked me out.

(Soundbite of laughter)

Ms. LOOUI: Wow.

Ms. MAY: I would much rather have a bar of soap to go around washing their mouths out with than I would a gun.

MARTIN: Well, thats an idea, Suyin. That could be the PG version of it.

Ms. LOOUI: Yeah. I definitely had women saying, you know, why dont you try hugging them or how do you what is a way that you could actually flip it around so they become embarrassed? For me, in particular, I really wanted the violence to be so ridiculous and sort of over the top gory, that people would know that it was a joke.

But I do understand and it was one of the huge things when I was making it to make sure not to give points for everybody that shot someone. I didnt want to advocate that violence was an appropriate response in any way.

lol pick your battles, fool

hieropants
hieropants
12 years ago

Kirby – no problem, I was unclear in my post. I did mean the pledge system that donates money to PP for every protestor who shows up.

kirbywarp
kirbywarp
12 years ago

@Tulgey Logger:

Don’t you know that famous corrolary of Poe’s law? “No matter how over the top and extreme something is, there will be someone out there who takes it seriously.”

Cliff Pervocracy
12 years ago

Ahahaah HI ION!!!

Steele
Steele
12 years ago

Are you afraid of women? I don’t mean afraid we’re taking over the country, or afraid we’ll spermjack your false accusation for alimony Title IX, but, like, personally afraid?

If you sit down at a bus stop at night, and the other person there is a woman, do you hope and pray she leaves you alone? If you stay over at a date’s house, and she’s a woman, do you always have to remember to tell a friend where you are and make sure you can get home on your own if you need to? If a woman says “nice buns” to you on the street, do you have to worry she might start following you and trying to corner you?

I don’t see how this is exactly relevant, Cliff. Of course you have a point in a very general sense- indeed, it’s true that men are usually stronger than women, and this has real-world consequences- although it’s worth noting that men are victimized far more often than women. By other men, of course, but nonetheless, women don’t have a monopoly on the
“fear” you describe.

Regardless, are you somehow suggesting that this makes misandry acceptable? I’m not following you here.

hellkell
hellkell
12 years ago

Why do they always think they can sockpuppet?

Ithiliana
12 years ago

@Cliff: How is a game depicting violence against fictional threatening men worse than a game depicting violence against a real, non-threatening woman?

Silly glrl–all men, even fictional, are more important than [fill in the blank with typical mra slur]!

Because: WHAT ABOUT TEH MENZ?

hellkell
hellkell
12 years ago

Steele, you dolt. You mrms and your “misandry” are a joke. In order for misandry to be a reality, there would have to be real, long-standing, systemic oppression of men. There isn’t, just your vague hurt fee-fees that you’re not always gonna have the privilege you take for granted.

Steele
Steele
12 years ago

Or if the word “misandry” is a sticking point for whatever reason, let me rephrase- does this mean hating men, or being nasty toward individual men, is okay? I’m honestly not following the thought processes on this forum. But then I rarely do with feminists.

Ithiliana
12 years ago

@Troll’o’Steele: you do know that the VAST MAJORITY IF NOT TOTALITY of street harassers are male? (Not panhandlers, street harassers).

Very few women have ever had another woman sexually proposition them on the street.

Therfore, FUCKING REALITY.

A lot more real, I suspect, than the World of warfare games (if you’re talking historical reality) or any of the other war types games.

kirbywarp
kirbywarp
12 years ago

Heh.

( the point ) ========—– *woosh*

( ) – steele
/|
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(There is nearly no way this will work out properly)

Dani Alexis
Dani Alexis
12 years ago

(There is nearly no way this will work out properly)

Stick-Steele has an Escher Girls spine.

Cliff Pervocracy
12 years ago

Regardless, are you somehow suggesting that this makes misandry acceptable? I’m not following you here.

I’m suggesting it makes “misandry” not a real thing.

An individual can hate men or do violence against men, just as an individual can hate or do violence against people with hats, but it’s not a common and pervasive pattern in society. Misogyny is something you see on TV, in video games, all over the Internet even when you’re on a damn cooking forum. “Misandry” is a couple of carefully mined quotes and relatively isolated incidents.

Anyway I really don’t see how shooting men for sexual harassment is killing them “for being men,” unless you’re saying that sexual harassment is inherent to maleness.

Epiphany!
Epiphany!
12 years ago

ben spurr, johnny and steele just made Ms. Sarkeesian another 200 bucks. And it wasn’t no husband’s money. Also, I do not have rabies.

Wetherby
Wetherby
12 years ago

@Troll’o’Steele: you do know that the VAST MAJORITY IF NOT TOTALITY of street harassers are male? (Not panhandlers, street harassers).

As a native Londoner, I’m afraid I’m going to have to disagree with the “totality” claim – it really isn’t hard to find a woman yelling something sexually objectionable at you if you happen to be in the right/wrong part of London on a Saturday night in an environment where the average blood alcohol level is likely to be quite high – outside a pub or a club, for instance. It’s certainly happened to me, and on several occasions.

But I completely concede that this happens considerably more frequently to my female friends.

Steele
Steele
12 years ago

To hellkell: “Misandry” is a word that, to my knowledge, describes antipathy toward a specific group of people. So obviously it can exist. If you want to argue that institutionalized misandry, in a sociological sense, doesn’t exist, I’d disagree (I am an MRA after all), but that’s a case that could be made. However, saying “misandry isn’t a thing” just makes you look like a damn fool with an axe to grind.

Tulgey Logger
Tulgey Logger
12 years ago

The MW grunts are all male for two reasons- it’s a war simulator, and the vast majority of soldiers actually are male in real life, and male is the default template in a male-dominated gaming industry. The street harassment game is explicitly targeting men as men.

Wrong. Only the catcalling men in the game are killable. There are men on the street whom it is not possible to kill (or to say “thanks” to).

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