
So our blabby friend JohnTheOther has an especially blabby piece up on A Voice for Men at the moment. Its ostensible subject: the pure eeeevil of unnamed anti-MRAs who misrepresent the World’s Greatest 21st Century Human Rights Movement – the Men’s Rights Movement, that is – through the eeevil practice of “quote mining.”
I didn’t read the whole thing. Mr. TheOther is not what you’d call an efficient writer. Here are a few quotes mined from the article more or less at random that I think will give you a good idea of his, um, style:
Biology, or indeed, evolutionary theory is not really the topic of this discussion, rather it is provided here as example of a rhetorical practice increasingly common among opponents of a small but growing human rights movement. …
The developing practice in opposition to human rights, of quote-mining goes beyond pathetic, into the realm of craven, futile depravity. …
However, it seems that no matter how many times it is explained that a thing formed from (bad) ideas – an ideology, and a group of people, identifiable by sex, are two distinct things, gender ideologues continue to conflate them. …
I don’t know if any of this makes any more sense in context, as I didn’t read the context. Let’s continue:
A year ago, I wrote an article focusing on the necessary public repudiation of violence, and the responsibility of open opposition to those who advocated or promoted a climate of acceptable violence, including those who openly advocate murder, such as a group of swedish feminists, and eugenics advocates on the squalid radical-hub. Statements from my original piece were quoted by at least one amoral zombie, and reframed to present my view as one which called for violence.
Of course, the author of those yellow pixels might not have realized that the original article, along with it’s unambiguous opposition to violence was posted on a site with substantially higher traffic than his own. The craven and stupid dishonesty of the quote-miner was apparent to all but a few, blinded by their own ideological goggles.
Oh, wait, I think those last two paragraphs were supposed to be about me. And I think they were supposed to refer to this post of mine, which took a look at a post of his that defended A Voice for Men’s “outing” of a group of Swedish feminists that the AVFM crew had decided, on the basis of a brief video promoting a theatrical production, were “murder advocates.” His post contained the following (unedited) paragraphs.
That’s right manboob, identifying a group of self-declared murder advocates to the public is more important than protecting those murder advocates from the consequences of advocating murder.
In the truth-is-fiction world of Futrelle’s mind, the men’s right advocates calling for public identification of a hate organization have been transmogrified into promoters of violence.
And what if they get killed David? What if rather than be arrested – as promoters of hate, and public advocates of murder, what if these depraved and murderous female supremacists come to harm at the hands of a citizen. If that happens, it will mean that a society’s system of law, designed to prevent hate organizations, and to allow redress of grievance through non violent due process is gone, wiped out by your ideology of violence and hate. That’s what you’re defending, David.
In my post, I quoted the final paragraph; here I have included the two preceding grafs to give it a bit more, what’s that word, context.
Of course, a couple of paragraphs by themselves are still kind of “out of context” I guess. Since I am pretty sure no one would like it if I simply pasted in the entire post from JtO here, I will instead direct you to his original post, here. You may make of it what you wish. I rather doubt that you will see it as a clearheaded treatise of nonviolence. Especially with that line: “And what if they get killed David?” (Which you can read in context above, or, again, in his original post. Let me link to it a sixth time here, just to make sure you know how to find his original words in context. Oops, that’s seven times now)
Interesting that a master debater of Mr. TheOther’s caliber somehow forgot to provide even one link to the controversy he was referring to, so people might be able to see for themselves what had happened, and judge his claims accordingly. I wonder why that might be?
I’ll skip the next bit in Mr. TheOther’s latest post, in which Mr.TheOther suggests that an opponent of his might have taken a quote of his out of context in a way that makes him look racist and homophobic. But since he offers no links to the actual discussion, there’s no way of judging whether this particular quote-mining claim is true. (Perhaps this discussion on the Men’s Rights subreddit could shed some light on it?)
In any case, if we put this particular discussion in a broader, er, context, there is certainly ample evidence of homophobia amongst the A Voice for Men crowd, as I have pointed out here and here. (Protip: If you want to convince people you are not homophobic, you should probably not feature a video mocking “lesbo-bos” in the sidebar of the site you help to run.)
Anyway, this next bit of his definitely has something or other to do with me:
Bottom feeding quote miners indulging in snarky feats of futrelian deceit likely do win rhetorical brownie points, at least when seen through their own ideological goggles. But they are cementing their own a public persona which will wear about as comfortably as klan robes do at a NAACP meeting. The altered landscape this movement is building is not someday, it is now, and it is coming faster all the time.
Uh, dude, my last name has two L’s in it. It should be “Futrellian deceit.” If you’re going to turn my name into a slur, at least spell it correctly.
For individuals in opposition to human rights of men and boys now, whether through lying, repetition of old, false dogmas, or the craven tactic of mis-represented and mis-attributed meaning, the comfort of a formerly one-sided monologue is over. The public squirming we see in attempts to render MRA voices silent or apologetic will escalate before it abates. But that’s okay.
Hey, Mr. TheOther. If you really want to prove my “futrelian” or even my “Futrellian” deceit, how about this: provide specific examples of me taking something you or some other MRA has written out of context in a way that distorts its meaning.
For your convenience, you can find all the Man Boobz posts that reference you here and here.
And for anyone who now has the song “Working In the Coal Mine” stuck in their head, here’s the Lee Dorsey original:
Argenti: They are the bane of my first draft writing, and so they plague my online life.
I want to see Owly do the job of a stay at home parent for a day, since he says it’s so easy. He would have to take care of a colicky baby and a rowdy preschooler all day with no breaks. His shift doesn’t end during bedtime either. If a child gets a fever or stomachache at 2 am, then he does not sleep until the child goes back to sleep.
He would also have to make three meals, two snacks, scrub the dishes, do two loads of laundry, put the clothes away, entertain the children, put up a million toys, take out the trash, clean up a potty training accident, vacuum, dust, mop up some finger paint, and at the end of the day bring his wife a beer while she relaxes in front of the TV. This would be an easier day when nobody has any appointments, classes, shopping, or errands to do. On those days, he would drive his wife to work and back so that he could use the family car for the day while she’s at work. You can’t have two cars on one income unless you’re rich. Well, if you have a second car, it’s a clunker that may or may not run when you need it.
If his wife ever takes the kids outside to play for an hour, then everyone will say she’s a stellar parent, while totally ignoring everything he does. His work is considered mandatory, while hers is considered going above and beyond.
If people asks him what he does, they will say “Oh it must be nice to do do nothing all day. You’re lucky.” or just assume he’s incompetent to do anything else, because taking care of children is considered low status drudgery. Other people might pay lip service to people who take care of babies and children, but even they refuse to pay child care workers a living wage for their work.
If he needs extra money to help make ends meet, he could watch another three children, too, for $15 a day per child. At ten hours a day, his childcare services would net him $4.50 an hour, a little more than half of minimum wage. He could also tend a garden, take up canning, and sell Tupperware door to door to help the family stay afloat. None of these jobs will be considered worthwhile contributions for the family income, though, because they’re coded as feminine by our society, and anything considered “women’s work” is seen as inferior.
Lastly, I would not real children to be in NWO’s care, so it would have to be those robot baby dolls they make you care for in home ec classes.
Ten years ago, my sister was paying $50 per day for her kid. However, she works 12-hour shifts, so that day was actually 14 hours, which works out to about $3.50 per hour for the babysitter. It turned out to be cheaper for my sister to get a full-time, live-in nanny, and the nanny made more money than the babysitter who took in kids.
Child care costs scare me. We will be having our first baby in the next few, but I also plan on going back to teaching, so my husband has agreed he will take care of baby during the day. He will also be going to school part time and doing various odd jobs for his dad. His plan B for childcare is “my sister will watch the baby.” This scares me!
I meant next few years, we aren’t pregnant yet.
$50 a day is very expensive. My numbers were the prices of childcare in Joplin pre-tornado, for an unlicensed home caregiver. The prices for licensed, center based care are more expensive than home based care, but that’s the case almost everywhere. The cheapest centers used to cost $25 a day. Now the prices are up, because so many daycares were destroyed. I’m sure the prices will go back down as daycares are rebuilt.
Hey NWO, I know you think that women never care about men dying on the job, especially men working in mines. I guess you’ve never been to the Joplin Museum Complex to learn about the lead and zinc mines that made Joplin the large, successful city it is today. If you had, you would know about Francis Perkin’s advocacy for the sick and dying men in Joplin’s mines
How about that? It was a woman that was worried about sick men, and she wanted them to have safer working conditions. Perhaps you should take a break from your pity parties and learn some more history.
@Shaenon
“Message me on Facebook (same username as here). I’ll arrange for you to move out to my place and do all my cooking, cleaning and childcare for free. I demand that you also keep yourself attractive and amusing, but that shouldn’t be so hard. In return, you may sleep under my roof and eat some of the food you prepare. It is a sweet deal. Do not pass this up.”
Nuh uh princess. Role reversal, remember. I get to bitch how I do all the work and you don’t do shit. I get to dictate whose oppressed. I get to spend 80% of the worlds wealth. You have sex me up whenever I say so, my mood is all that matters. One wrong word from you and you’ll be out on alimony/child support row living in the gutter. You get your lazy ass out there and work, the day you die is the day you get to retire. It’s all about me baby.
[cloudiah dons protective gear and channels Owly for a second]
Of course! Women are always perfect little princesses. She probably sat down in the street and cried to get her big daddy guvmint to say they would give those evil men better working conditions, and then she tootled off to her cushy HR job wearing silky underwear while men continued dying in the mines so she could have her bon bons and kitty litter.
[cloudiah disengages from Owly thoughts, and cleanses brain with kitten & baby sloth videos]
You’ve already convinced up that you’re a horrible excuse for a human being. You don’t need to constantly repeat yourself.
NWO thinks safer working conditions are a plot to “feminize” the workplace. He would rather work in dangerous conditions to prove how manly he is.
[Owly]
Well of course, if all the men got killed who is going to pay for princesse’s bon bons.
[/Owly]
Speaking of Owly, I’ve read/lurked on the last few threads and have a pretty good idea of his, er, style, but I’m not sure what the Big Book of Learnin’ is. Help a newbie out?
This is where I get ninja’d by someone:
http://manboobz.forummotion.com/t454-nwo-s-big-book-of-learnin
Yeah, in slaveyworld she was just paying “lip service”, and if she was a real ally she’d have gone around punching other women in the face.
The Book of Learnin’ is a giant compendium of (paraphrased) stuff he has actually said and, to the best of our knowledge, actually believes to be true. It has also been illustrated.
Nope, Shade, this time you were the ninja-er.
I would gloat, but all I can think is “maybe I spend too much time on Manboobz”. Plus your linking skills are a lot better than mine. 😛
Just for a bit of explication I have a description of what prison could be, if people like Ruby didn’t think making it possible to add rape to the list of indignities they face is necessary.
Almost Heaven in Oklahoma
“Oh the luxury of that first meal! Lunch was a boneless, skinless chicken quarter on the bone and green beans, a half pint of no fat milk, a packet of artificially sweetened ice tea, two slices of ham and a slice of 2% milk cheese and two very thin slices of whole wheat bread and a packet of mustard and another that contained freeze-dried coffee and Sweet and Low.”
Imagine describing that as luxury, and being, “almost heaven.”
Ruby laughs at the place he came from, on the way to that slice of paradise.
There were even pillows and sheets in the cells! What luxury!
And the food! You haven’t an appreciation of what that means! The previous 26 months had been awful food, soy instead of real meat, basically all carbs (poison to a diabetic like me) and the need to be a junkyard dog protecting your food so it isn’t stolen by the other dogs in the pen….
I could think in the solitude without smelling the farts and body odor of fourteen other people trapped in that box previously mentioned. I could shower anytime we were not required to be in our cells, a private, individual shower with both hot and cold water faucets that actually functioned! Oh the luxury!
That’s what Ruby supports, stripping all privacy, all sense of being treated a human being. Why? Because they were “bad”. The guy I am quoting is a con-man. I found out about him because a convicted terrorist is trying to get him sent back to prison; for the “crime” of talking about his being a convicted terrorist.
And if he goes back, Ruby will laugh as hat the idea of him being raped.
But she’s a “good person”. She loves her pets, and her family: and people getting raped.
Damn, the last three grafs are all my thoughts, not quotation.
As disgusting as Ruby’s views on incarceration are, they are, sadly, not uncommon. I still remember my shock when I discovered that Eugene Volokh — a jurist with whom I always disagreed on politics, but whose legal scholarship I respected — thinks that relatives of crime victims should be given the opportunity to torture or kill the perpetrators.
OK, I can almost see where old fashioned an eye for an eye thinking would lead someone to conclude that allowing the relatives of victims to kill the perp would be acceptable (I don’t agree, but I can see how someone arrives at that viewpoint, as fucked up as it is), but how does he explain why he thinks it’s OK to allow torture?
CassandraSays:
Here is his explanation. Personally, I think it’s vile. If we are going to sink to the level of the perpetrator, what moral authority do we have over him?
And in any event, I’ve always found that people interpet “an eye for an eye” in a rather incomplete fashion. What that principle says to me is that retribution must be limited to the harm suffered. In other words, if you take out someone’s eye, they can’t kill you. Even within that Bronze-Age Mesopotamian, the amount of suffering you inflict on a criminal may not exceed the amount of suffering he inflicted in the course of the crime for which he was convicted. Still, Volokh doesn’t grasp even that much. All he seems to be saying is that wanting to inflict suffering as revenge is a noble sentiment and should not be frustrated.
(I believe he’s had a child since that post went up. I wonder how he applies his principles of retributive justice to playground disputes.)
A stolen toy for a stolen toy, maybe? That kind of thinking has always struck me as rather childlike, so maybe the playground is the best place to apply it anyway.
Also, ugh.
Well. My sister was making $50 per hour at the time, so she could afford it. It was kind of the going rate in Ft McMurray. It’s gone up since then, law of supply & demand.
re Eugene: I remember when that happened: Sigh, deep and mournful
The thing is, I’ve known Eugene since… 1986,or so. Even with that I was shocked to read that. Appalled even.
Honestly, I don’t think his underlying thinking on the matter has changed; even with a child, for the same reasons Ruby thinks it. He doesn’t imagine his family members could ever perpetrate such a crime, ergo the only way he is involved is if they are the victim.
And, from a safe remove, he thinks he’d want to take revenge.
you do that already, dummy