Manosphere doofuses have a wide assortment of excuses for dismissing this blog without actually having to deal with anything I’ve ever actually said. There’s the old “you’re a misandrist bigot so I don’t have to read anything of yours to know what you think” argument; no evidence of the alleged misandry is ever given. There’s the old “you call yourself Man Boobz and that’s a silly name so I can pretend that nothing you say counts” excuse; actually, I call you guys the “man boobz,” but never mind. Then there’s the old “he’s fat” chestnut. (See the next-to-last pic here.)
My favorite excuse, though, is a little logical fallacy you might call “argumentum ad kittypicturem.” That is, the claim that I can’t be taken seriously because sometimes I post pictures of adorable kitties. I’m not sure why these pictures confuse and infuriate misogynists to the extent that they do, but I’m sort of happy this is the case, because every time I run across it, it gives me an excuse to POST MORE KITTY PICTURES.
This time the kitty picture hater is the lying liar Dalrock, whom we’ve met several times before—most recently when he complained about women taking jobs from men by “playing career woman much the way that Marie Antoinette played peasant and Zoolander’s character played coal miner.”
In a post with the ponderous yet somehow also very silly title “We need worthy adversaries,” Dalrock dismisses my blog as one of the unworthy ones, the only example of said unworthiness being this post I made featuring pictures of several adorable kittens.
Here is my rebuttal:
Yes, that’s a hedgehog. Let’s see how they deal with THAT!
OK, that was really uncalled-for, PosterformerlyknownasElizabeth. Now I am completely bewitched, charmed and mesmerized by baby sloths. Awwwwwwww!
Well, that and the stupid factor, too. Mustn’t underrate that when it comes to reactionaries. I had one screeching on Twitter that opinion pieces I write for, you know, actual publications online should all be disregarded because at Pandagon, we let it hang out a little with jokes about cheesy movies and songs.
you don’t get to choose the people who oppose you, the people who oppose you choose it themselves
yeah, it’s a problem for mras that the site thats become their biggest adversary is kind of goofy, but that’s just indicative of the level of response they deserve
I am not apologizing for teh adorable Bigkitty.
Because look at that:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vkZ1qR-v__8&feature=related
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW
“Zoolander’s character”?
http://youtu.be/vkZ1qR-v__8
Just want to remind you that some MRA’s love cats, and draw very important lessons from their behavior.
Someone in the MRM should send Bernard some money (or a gift card to Walmart) so he can buy some props. I can’t believe how cheap this guy is. His bedroom probably consists of a mattress on the floor with a ratty wool Army blanket.
On a more serious note, Amanda Marcotte brings up an interesting point. For example, misogynists often try to insult women by saying that if they fail to please men, they will end up “alone” with their cat(s).
Just as a thought experiment – would anybody ever suggest that a man, living with his beloved dog, was “alone,” because his dog was insufficient company? No. It’s only when a woman lives with her kitties that a human living with beloved pets is considered to be a pathetic loser.
It’s so sad – most humans, men and women, love their pets, and it shouldn’t be controversial or challenging for us all to agree that our pets are wonderful, lovable and dear. How did loving pets become a MRA-issue?
Wasn’t there a study about how men smell bad when they don’t have a woman or sexual partner? Like they give off weird pheromones that turn women off when they’re celibate.
I counter your baby sloth with good ol’ Barry
Kitties = MISANDRY!!!
Pugs eating bananas are the alpha thugs of the animal kingdom. TOTES irresistible. I’ll admit it. I ride the alpha pug carousel, uh huh.
Thank you, thank you, thank you for finally putting up a post re: Dalrock! What a vile, nasty and stupid man he seems to be, claiming to be a “Christian”. The comments he puts up are not Christian.
Post after post after post is about Game, like it’s So Important, and men being “Leaders”.
They are trying to intellectualize Game, which is Un Fucking Readable. Absolute Babble. Absolutely Pathetic.
Dalrock wrote, “Feminism is trying to turn my daughter into a whore and that infuriates me”. You can’t make that shit up.
Here is a baby capybara for everyone.
Misandry!
If loving a cat is wrong than I don’t wanna be right.
I like that second picture with the kitten photobombing in the foreground.
Today at work I was going through our collection of pictures of oil-recovery equipment and in one of them, my boss’ dog is sitting in the background photobombing a picture of a skimmer.
I think we can all agree that our MRA friends have really wonderful arguments, but have they considered … chinchillas?
The black & white one is so sweet…and sleepy. And baby tigers!
Dalrock was angry he wasn’t included on the ACLU list & called them “commies”. He’s also a big time gun owner. He took it upon himself to announce to the world wide web that his wife was a virgin when they got married.
It’s like a certain branch of the MRM: saying they’re Christian, obsessed with biblical patriarchy, angry at certain evangelical (?) pastors.
Holy crap, the second one from the top looks almost EXACTLY like Kamikaze as a kitten! No argument can stand against the awesome power of such cuteness!
I can’t believe you have all failed to consider the obvious wisdom of husky. puppies.
Aw, David- you’re so awesome- it doesn’t matter what you look like physically- on the internetz, we are judged by the contents of our brains and our abilities to convey our thoughts. It is a cheap (and irrelevant) dig to try and insult someone’s appearance (which, ostensibly, has nothing to do with your thoughts or quality therein), and yet it’s the go-to excuse (beyond implying or outright threatening violence) for these MRA schmucks.
Ok, I’m not just gushing about the blog- I’m gushing about TEH CUTENEZZ. Seriously- there are some days that I get up and see the most recent round of MRA nonsense and think “WHAT IS THE POINT OF EVEN TRYING WITH THESE YAHOOS?” And then there are kittehs, and suddenly things are better. Ahhhhh, now for some tea, and some cute youtube searching of cute kitty videos. 🙂
@Jessay- HOLY CRAP, that voice sounds like me! O_O
But I would think that I would have remembered reading that piece of “MRA treasure” aloud, lol.
I have a husband, a child, and I’m older than 26….and sometimes I buy scented candles with money from my job, which I work at for a reasonable wage (apple candles that smell like actual apples are SO AMAZING but to be fair my husband likes anything with lavender in it). In fact, I’m probably going to have to support my husband for awhile while he’s looking for a job because he’s getting to the end of his rope on graveyard shift and it’s looking like there are hardly any options available for him to move to.
It’s amazing how MRAs will argue that women are powerless and can’t do shit, and then turn around and say things like “oh, women ruined EVERYTHING!”
Uh….HUH?! O_o DOES NOT COMPUTE.
I RAN OUT OF D’AWWWW.
DAMN YOU ALL.
I think you will find that the MRM has failed to account for Snoopy the Exotic Shorthair.