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Heads, you’re a misandrist. Tails, you’re also a misandrist.

Watch out for the Misandry Bears and their giant Misandry Teeth.

You may recall a post I did the other day about Roger Ebert’s recent claim that women are superior to men. You may also recall that my basic thesis was that Ebert was completely wrong. Heck, you didn’t even have to read my post to see what my stance was; I made it clear in the title itself, which started off with the words “no, women aren’t better than men.”

Well, apparently my saying explicitly that women are not superior to men, and approvingly quoting another feminist saying the same thing, was too much to handle for the proprietor of an exciting new blog chronicling how wrong and bad I and my commetariat are. Mikhael Varpole of the imaginatively named Anti-Man Boobz blog (motto: “Exposing Man Boobz as a vile hate cult”) wrote about Ebert’s claim, and my response, in a recent post.

Here’s what he wrote:

Naturally, Futrelle and the boob gallery had to get in on the action. To his credit, Futrelle doesn’t condone Ebert’s misandry- but then again Dave’s always been a sneaky one that way. He won’t stand in solidarity with Ebert- but note that he’s happy to spin an instance of bold-faced misandry into an opportunity to bash MRAs who are righteously angry, ultimately concluding:

Guys, I hate to have to tell you this, but you’re sort of making it look like Ebert might have a point.

Remember what I said about subtle bigotry? This is a prime example. Misandry and misandric attitudes are dismissed in our culture because the concept itself is seen as illegitimate. And by portraying AVfM’s righteous anger as childish and “proving Ebert’s point”, Futrelle is knowingly and consciously destroying the legitimacy of misandry as a concept. It’s psychological manipulation on a global scale, and it’s downright sinister. And Futrelle, along with his lickspittle toadies, are happily contributing to the anti-male conspiracy.

Yes, explicitly stating that women aren’t superior to men is an exceedingly subtle form of misandry indeed.

Oh, and in case you’ve forgotten what the allegedly “righteous” anger of the AVFM crowd looks like, here’s are a couple of excerpts from the angry screeds I quoted from in my post:

Feminism has provided today’s pampered princesses with the privilege-stuffed, consequence-free Nirvana that they believe they’re entitled to. Do you really think they can be swayed with reason and logic?

And:

[E]verything on this earth from the knickers these women wear on their fat buts, all the way through to just about every single thing they touch in their day, up to and including homes, buildings, cars, trains, rockets, and the food they stuff down their throats, has all been either invented or produced by those useless ‘less than’ human, men.

That doesn’t sound so much like “subtle bigotry” as “just straight-up bigotry.” This is anger of an exceedingly un-righteous kind.

Well, after receiving some gentle mockery at the hands of the Man Boobz commetariat – sorry, at the hands of my “lickspittle toadies” – Varpole posted a comment here trying to clarify his stance.

I disdain commenting here for obvious reasons, but I have to clarify that subtle or “benign” misandry can be as damaging as overt bigotry- moreso, even, because it’s harder to call out. Radfem-level misandry can usually be dismissed (usually). But less overt displays of male-hatred are very difficult, because the concept has no veracity in a misandric, male-hating, anti-man culture. A culture, by the way, that MEN set up, and MEN continue to run, at both the low and high levels.

Well, this is an interesting thesis. Men – sorry, MEN – created the world as we know it, and run things – and yet have decided to set up a culture that is “male-hating [and] anti-man.” How would that even work?

After several commenters – sorry, toadies – asked him to explain this mysterious paradox, Varpole posted a clarification of his clarification on his blog.

First, I admit that “men maintain the culture” is an oversimplification. Obviously, that’s not true- certainly not today, arguably not ever. There are women police officers, women in government, women farmers, women firefighters, etc. Women do contribute to the maintenance of civilization. Not as much as men, but nonetheless.

On the other hand, women, feminists, and their assorted mangina lackeys have a disproportionate influence in the media and pop culture. Feminists and their dogs control the messages beamed at us through music, video games, and Hollywood. They have the print news media.  They control primary education (how many teachers are men?) and thus the shaping of our youth. The infamous SOPA was almost certainly backed by feminists, in an attempt to bring the Internet (not coincidentally, the primary holdout of MRAs) under their control. Even when it is a male hand holding the pen, a male voice speaking into the mic, they are generally manginas who kowtow to female demands (see: Roger Ebert; Bill Clinton; H.L. Mencken). Thus, they are mouthpieces for the misandrist NWO, and are not in any way representative of men as a class; it’s just a different mechanism for the female perspective. …

I’m not saying thy’re calling for mass castration or anything like that (such a move would be too obvious). But there is a systematic denigration of men and masculinity in the media, and a subtle promotion of a misandrist, feminist, female supremacist ideology. In the news, in television, movies, literature, comic strips- we see the epidemic with our own eyes.

Huh. MEN created and still run the world, but “women, feminists, and their assorted mangina lackeys” dominate the media and popular culture with their evil anti-man agenda? There’s no getting around it: Varpole seems to be suggesting that MEN are just terrible at running the world.

Wouldn’t such an argument be … misandry?

Not even subtle misandry, at that.

I look forward to more blatant misandry from Anti-Man Boobz in the future.

As well as some critiques of his misandry from a mysterious, even newer blog that sprung up the other day: Anti-Anti-Manboobz, devoted to debunking Anti-Man Boobz and being meta as fuck.

Wheels within wheels.

 

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cloudiah
12 years ago

I’ma stick with old Teddy…
“Nuclear war would really set back cable.” – Ted Turner

Kyrie
Kyrie
12 years ago

“Fear cuts deeper than swords.”
― George R.R. Martin

cloudiah
12 years ago

Switching it up:
“Right now I feel that I’ve got my feet on the ground as far as my head is concerned.” — Baseball pitcher Bo Belinsky

Dracula
Dracula
12 years ago

“The oldest and strongest emotion of mankind is fear. And the oldest and strongest kind of fear is fear of the unknown.” – H.P. Lovecraft

Yisheng Qingwa
12 years ago

“Ever since the world began
Woman was always teaching man
And I you listen to my bid attentively
I goin’ tell you how she smarter than me”

Harry Belafonte

ozymandias42
12 years ago

“I will not procrastinate regarding any ritual granting immortality.” –Evil Overlord List.

““Other men were stronger, faster, younger, why was Syrio Forel the best? I will tell you now.” He touched the tip of his little finger lightly to his eyelid. “The seeing, the true seeing, that is the heart of it.”– George R. R. Martin

“If you trust in yourself and believe in your dreams and follow your star you’ll still be beaten by people who spent their time working hard and learning things and weren’t so lazy.”– Terry Pratchett

Arielle Shander
12 years ago

“Did ya fill a quota? Admittedly, I don’t have much time for games. From what I’ve seen though, during character creation you can make your character look pretty much anyway you want. Don’t blame men for your indulgence in creating the busty babe.”

NWOSlave be trollin’. No, there’s no “quota” in my school, hence the reason there are almost no women in my program. Also, don’t talk about what you know almost nothing about. You admit you don’t play games, then you accuse us women indulge in creating busty babes (which is, like, total troll shit). Even though character creation is getting better, something like bust size is seldom customizable.

“See, in this industry, you often get gigs based on word of mouth. You get on set and find that they are missing some crew members, so they have you recommend people you’ve worked with in the past. And the men always have each other’s backs and call each other. The only people who spread my name for paying gigs have been women. And it’s treated almost like a responsibility of women in the industry to help your fellow female film makers out because you know the men aren’t going to keep them in mind.”

Thanks for sharing your experience, Jessay. I’m still in school (I’m graduating in the fall), so I haven’t been job-hunting yet (but I will be soon). Right now, I have a site dedicated to showing off my projects and employment, as well as my writing. I’ve also had an internship, and now I have a part-time, temporary position with the same company (they rehired me, which would likely reflect well on me).

There’s a women’s game development group on LinkedIn that I joined, and if I recall correctly, a man created it. Maybe there’s a film-making equivalent on it, too? I hope you can find more places that are willing to help get your name out there.

Dracula
Dracula
12 years ago

“This thing all things devours:
Birds, beasts, trees, flowers;
Gnaws iron, bites steel;
Grinds hard stones to meal;
Slays king, ruins town,
And beats high mountain down.”

– Gollum

Rutee Katreya
12 years ago

From what I’ve seen though, during character creation you can make your character look pretty much anyway you want.

Not if you want to be flat.

Hershele Ostropoler
12 years ago

@Ozy: I think Pterry was being a little hard on “following your star” which is getting out and doing shit.

Argenti Aertheri
12 years ago

Oh is it random quote day? 🙂

The United States is a nation of laws: badly written and randomly enforced.- Frank Zappa

Tulgey Logger
Tulgey Logger
12 years ago

“A rotten pear sits somewhere in my car.
To rid it of the smell I drive it very far.”

-me

Magpie
Magpie
12 years ago

Random quote from parliamentary inquiry:

Coffee mugs containing a misspelling of the US President’s name were given a ”mafia-style” burial under concrete, a Senate hearing was told yesterday. The Department of Parliamentary Services had 200 mugs made to coincide with a planned 2010 visit of President Barack Obama. But after two mugs were sold, it was noticed the President’s given name was misspelled ”Barrack”. Departmental official Bronwyn Graham told the hearing the remaining 198 mugs were broken into fragments and used in a concrete pour for the Parliament House loading dock. Ms Graham said ”the last thing we wanted was for the fragments to be found on a garbage tip somewhere”.

Dan Harrison

Read more: http://www.smh.com.au/national/hiding-evidence-is-a-mugs-game-20120521-1z1fk.html#ixzz1vYp60dYp

Pecunium
12 years ago

The highest praise a translation can attain is when the reader casts it into the fire and begins to learn the original language for himself.

Phillip Vellacort

Viscaria
Viscaria
12 years ago

” Just what I always wanted. My own little bunny rabbit. I will name him George, and I will hug him and pet him and squeeze him…” — Hugo the Abominable Snowman

Dracula
Dracula
12 years ago

“Elves are wonderful. They provoke wonder.
Elves are marvellous. They cause marvels.
Elves are fantastic. They create fantasies.
Elves are glamorous. They project glamour.
Elves are enchanting. They weave enchantment.
Elves are terrific. They beget terror.
The thing about words is that meaning can twist just like a snake, and if you want to find snakes look for them behind words that have changed their meaning.
No one ever said elves are nice.
Elves are bad.”

Terry Pratchett – Lords and Ladies

ABNOY
ABNOY
12 years ago

Bah, if no one noticed, the Bon Jon Jovi was connected to watching the Disney Channel because it was entertaining….

Viscaria
Viscaria
12 years ago

Dude, you think NWO watches the Disney Channel because it is entertaining? And then comes here to ragepost about how it’s all teenage/preteen sluts who are there to torture men with boners, because MISANDRY!!?!? No.

Argenti Aertheri
12 years ago

Viscaria — “…I will name him George, and I will hug him and pet him and squeeze him…” — Hugo the Abominable Snowman

Thank you for the context on that, I picked that bit of it up when I was too young to remember the source and can now properly cite why I want to name everything George (I don’t actually want to name everything George, but any line about how I will hug and pet anything starts with “I will name him George”…because I’m weird like that)

ABNOY — it’s not NWO’s “connection” to the Disney Channel that’s the problem here, it’s that he clearly hates it and yet he keeps watching it — and that only makes sense if there’s a child threatening to have a fit if you change the channel.

traindodger
12 years ago

Uhh… do these guys know how many sweatshop workers are women?

hellkell
hellkell
12 years ago

“Go to school, I ain’t goin’ for it, kiss my ass, bust the cap on the Moet.” –Socrates

Shadow
Shadow
12 years ago

“9 to 5 is how you survive, I ain’t tryna survive, I’m tryna live it to the limit and love it a lot” – Karl Marx

Dracula
Dracula
12 years ago

“I’m the King of Rock,
there is none higher.
Sucker MCs can call me sire.”

– Oscar Wilde

hellkell
hellkell
12 years ago

“had a little horsey named Paul Revere, just me and my horsey and a quart of beer”–Goerge Washington