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The SPLC responds to MRAs critical of its report on the Men’s Rights movement [UPDATED w/ NEW LINKS]

Arthur Goldwag, the author of the SPLC’s recent report on hatred in the Men’s Rights movement, has now responded to some of the hysteria his article provoked amongst MRAs. As Goldwag notes, contrary to what most MRAs seemed to conclude from the report,

the SPLC did not label MRAs as members of a hate movement; nor did our article claim that the grievances they air on their websites – false rape accusations, ruinous divorce settlements and the like – are all without merit. But we didcall out specific examples of misogyny and the threat, overt or implicit, of violence.

Thomas James Ball, for example, who was hailed as a martyr on so many men’s rights forums, called for arson attacks on courthouses and police stations. The Norwegian mass killer Anders Breivik wrote extensively about the evils of feminism. We included as much as we did about Register-Her.com because it is so intimidating to its targets, not all of whom are criminals. When Elam accused Vliet Tiptree, a pseudonymous contributor to RadFem Hub, of “calling for extermination of half the human race; the male half, that is,” he offered a cash reward for her real identity. The names and locations of several candidates were publically aired.

Goldwag also takes a look at some of the radical feminists that have become boogeywomen for so many MRAs, and deals with other MRA complaints.

If you’re a regular reader of Man Boobz you’ll want to read the whole thing.

The Men’s Rights subreddit has already linked to Goldwag’s article, which has provoked not only the predictable SPLC-bashing but also some criticism of A Voice for Men and Paul Elam.

Obviously Elam and other MRAs will respond to Goldwag’s latest as well. Post links in the comments below as you find them, and I’ll add them to this post.

EDITED TO ADD: And, right on schedule, AVfM responds to Goldwag’s response. It’s a John the Other post, so be prepared to read a lot of words saying not very much.

On his own blog, Goldwag responds to Mr. The Other.

Goldwag’s piece also got some criticism from the STFUfauxminists Tumblr blog for quoting a RadFem known for her transphobia.

I’ll add more links as I find them.

ETA 2: MORE LINKS

Goldwag responds to Paul Elam

RadFem News Service

 

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Argenti Aertheri
12 years ago
lauralot89
12 years ago

Scottish folds are unreasonably cute.

Bostonian
12 years ago

Now I want a scottish fold kitten.

Rutee Katreya
12 years ago

Contract?
/人◕ ‿‿ ◕人\

cloudiah
12 years ago

It’s no scottish fold, but still cute:

hellkell
hellkell
12 years ago

I hope bugbrennan got her attention fix and fucked off. That was revolting.

Thanks for kitty vids.

red_locker
12 years ago

Bugbrennan is the equivalent of that one bully in school who says lots of disparaging things and then goes, “Well, at least I’m right.”

Seriously, that’s all I read from her. Some activism.

And I concur on the Kitty vids.

Argenti Aertheri
12 years ago

Vacuuming a cat…my aunt vacuumed her dogs, but I’ve never seen a cat stand for such indignities before.

lauralot89
12 years ago

I wish my cats would allow themselves to be vacuumed. I swear, they give off more fur in one day than they ought to have on their entire bodies…

cloudiah
12 years ago

Apparently vacuuming a cat is a thing, it’s all over youtube. (Not even counting Roomba riding.)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=52i_kDU6ew0

Argenti Aertheri
12 years ago

I’m reading Elam’s open letter to the SPLC and this is just…impressively stupid. I’m not sure I’ve ever read anything that was both this well written and this wrong.

A “white knight” is an expression describing a traditional male, one who practices chivalry to a degree that is irrational and demeaning in this day and age. Also, the term “mangina” is not a euphemism for “weak men,” but rather a label for men who enable and excuse female misconduct – ranging from physical violence to exculpatory false reporting of crimes[10] – solely because the offender is female (and to gain women’s approval).

Um, that’s not how MRAs use those words, but ok? It’s really hilarious to think of MRAs bashing “traditional male[s]” considering how many seem to be all “women shouldn’t work, women should make babies when their men want, and get me a sandwich bitch” >.< Hi guys, you *are* "traditional male[s]"

Oh gods, and that citition leads to — "In a follow-up study of rape claims filed over a three-year period at two large Midwestern universities, Kanin found that of 64 rape cases, 50% turned out to be false.4 Among the false charges, 53% of the women admitted they filed the false claim as an alibi.5"
Kanin EJ. An alarming national trend: False rape allegations. Archives of Sexual Behavior, Vol. 23, No. 1, 1994 http://www.sexcriminals.com/library/doc-1002-1.pdf (page 2 and the addenda respectively)

N=2 =/= valid stats!! I really want to give the entire MRM a crash course in introductory statistics.

Argenti Aertheri
12 years ago

Deon’s 6% is probably about right actually, I’ve seen 3-8% from actual reliable sources. Nothing like Elam’s 50%+ >.<

cloudiah
12 years ago

I heard that 436% of rape accusations made by women are false charges. All women make false rape accusations more than once, that is why the percentage is so high.

#mrmsucksatstatistics

Deon Gillian (@DeonGillian)

yeeeaaaah, no. what frs does is find any news story that has something to do with rape and twists it to fit into their grand false rape conspiracy where no rapes ever happen. and then of course they tie it all together with the dumb little false equivalency your waving for all your might here, that point to anything and saying ‘hey, this looks like rape’ is goes against the presumption of innocence, a term neither of you seems to understand.

I understand what the presumption of innocence is, thanks. Where does it say that FRS believes all or most rape accusations are false? It doesn’t sound like they even take a position on that.

Maybe I’m being charitable, but after reading a dozen or so blogposts on FRS there message really just seems to be: “Hey, some rape accusations are false. Being falsely accused of rape is a terrible thing, and let’s make sure that the innocent are not punished with the guilty.”

I don’t know anything about Pierce Harlan or his beliefs outside of that website, but I didn’t see anything that struck me as terribly objectionable. Could you point to something that illustrates what you’re talking about?

Jessay (@jessay)
12 years ago

I’m really irritated that they keep bringing up eugenics as a feminist idea when there was just a goddamn post about breeding white women out of existence like yesterday? Two days ago?

Crumbelievable
Crumbelievable
12 years ago

@Deon:

Here’s the best example of why Harlan is a despicable asshat.

http://manboobz.com/2011/12/15/the-false-rape-society-is-shocked-shocked-by-a-fraternitys-who-would-you-rape-survey/

It’s not possible in Harlan’s mind that some people out there actually have terrible views about women and rape victims (Frat boys? With misogynistic views of women? Why I never!) ‘Clearly’, Harlan decides,’it’s a bold statement about false accusations! Did I tell you how much I obsess over false accusations yet?’

Also note that when Harlan uses the phrase “rape of women”, rape is in scare quotes. And it’s prefaced by the word “fantasy”

Because women don’t ACTUALLY get raped, har har.

Argenti Aertheri
12 years ago

@Deon, to crunch some numbers for you, 54% of rapes aren’t reported at all, so even if I’m generous and assume the 6% of false claims means of reports, and not of arrests (which, mind you, makes little sense in the context of “it ruins people’s lives”) — 6% of 46% is 2.76% — the percent of rapists convinced and actually sentenced to jail time that they actually serve? 3%

Can you now see why feminists treat false reports as a non-issue? There are less false reports than there are actually rapists serving time.

Should I be less generous and use the percent of reports that lead to arrest, which is more logical, we need to find 6% of a mere 12%, are you sitting down? Good, it’s 0.72% — less than 1%. So for every 100 rapes, maybe 1 false report is made that leads to an arrest, and if there’s no arrest, no one’s life is ruined.

Better questions — why are more than half of all rapes not even reported? Where you drinking? What were you wearing? Did you have sexual relations with him before? What do you do to lead him on? — these sort of questions are why people don’t report (and that’s assuming the victim is a woman, you can add straight up disbelief if the victim is a man, disbelief which the MRAs only seem to encourage with their assbackwards definitions of rape)

Deon Gillian (@DeonGillian)

@Argenti

Fair enough. I wouldn’t go so far as to call it a “non-issue”, but it’s certainly less of an issue than the problem of rape itself.

The percentage of rapes that are reported has increased pretty drastically over the last ten years. It was only about 25% a few decades ago. Rates of sexual assault have also decreased substantially over that same time; declining by almost 45% since the early 1990’s. So the problem is getting better and attitudes are gradually changing. Though, there is obviously a long ways to go, and the problem will never be completely eliminated.

Other than continuing to educate and attempting to change attitudes, I’m not sure what a solution to the low arrest and conviction rate would be. Keep in mind that the vast majority of all types of crimes never lead to charges or convictions, including murder.

Pecunium
12 years ago

Dean Gillian: What’s not up for debate is the fact that false rape accusations are real and bad. How can anyone honestly claim otherwise?

We don’t.

What, however, the FRS and other people whom we are decrying do is pretend that False Accusation of Rape is common, and devastating to the accused.

They also do things such as pretend that all false convictions are the result of false accusation. That is dishonest, and discounts the real rapes which took place (some of the cases they tout as “false” also involved the murder of the person who was raped. That’s insult to injury. It might even be the rare case of, “libel of the dead”, which is a pretty vile thing, on top of the erasing of the rape).

Rape is falsely accused no more often than any other crime. Rape is less often prosecuted than any other crime; esp. when you compare it to other crimes in which the victim can identify the accuser.

It’s got a lower conviction rate than any other crime, esp. when you compare it to other crimes with videographic evidence of the events.

So no, the FRS does more than link to news stories about false rape accusations and advocate for due process and the presumption of innocence in rape cases. They campaign to make the onus of proof fall on the victim, not the state. They want to make the burden of proof not, “beyond a reasonable doubt,” but beyond all doubt. They deny that a raped person has the right to determine that they were raped.

The FRS has had people advocate for, “accuser jeopardy” where bringing a charge (or, for some, filing a complaint) means that, if the accused is convicted, the accuser goes to prison.

That’s more than just advocating for due process. That’s advocating for rape.

Pecunium
12 years ago

Compare and contrast:

May 16: Anyway, Rutee (whose avatar is the Pokémon Mismagius… yeah, I know) is someone who will probably be contributing to this blog quite a bit in the future.

With,

May 17: I don’t have any intention of picking on one person (aside from David Futrelle), and I wasn’t planning on posting about Rutee any time soon

Deon Gillian (@DeonGillian)

@Pecunium

I don’t necessarily dispute your appraisal of the FRS, but you’ve stated several things in your post that are either wrong or confusing to me.

Rape is falsely accused no more often than any other crime.

This simply isn’t true. Rape sits alongside crimes like auto-theft and arson as being one of the most falsely reported crimes. The average felony has an estimated false accusation rate of about 2%. Rape is estimated to be falsely reported at a rate of between 6-10% (though it should be noted that a significant portion of those don’t involve naming a specific perpetrator).

Rape is less often prosecuted than any other crime

Again, this isn’t true. Rape is prosecuted less often than murder, but crimes like burglary result is far fewer charges than rape.

It’s got a lower conviction rate than any other crime

This is your most egregious falsehood. Rape charges actually result in conviction far more often than most other serious crimes. Rape has nearly double the conviction rate of murder (67% of tried rape cases vs 38% of tried murder cases).

Where are you getting this information? 5 minutes worth of research would show that it simply isn’t accurate.

They campaign to make the onus of proof fall on the victim, not the state…They deny that a raped person has the right to determine that they were raped.

I don’t know what these statements are supposed to mean. If they really think that a rape accuser should be incarcerated should the case fail to reach a conviction, that’s deplorable. Proven false accusers should absolutely be prosecuted, but only if it can be proven that they deliberately lied in making the report. Proven by the same standard under which accused rapists are tried, beyond a reasonable doubt. Other than that, I really don’t understand what you’re getting at with your complaints.

Sharculese
12 years ago

I don’t know what these statements are supposed to mean. If they really think that a rape accuser should be incarcerated should the case fail to reach a conviction, that’s deplorable.

aaaaaaand the inevitable turn straight into whiny concern-trollville

Flib
Flib
12 years ago

See, I’m just laughing at his attempts at posing as someone who is well read (in social science) by using key words and quoting Weber. He has the ridiculousness of calling everyone else a “pseudo-intellectual” when he himself is the very definition of it (Urban Dictionary #1 for the 4 easy steps). The projection is just funny.

Oh, and I just checked back on his sad little blog. Now it seems SOPA was being pushed by feminists (again, no evidence) and they are some sort of anonymous cabal. Why would feminists push it (even though most feminist spaces I’ve been to has been against it)? CLEARLY because the internet is the only “holding” of the brave MRA resistance movement. It must have nothing to do with ISP’s wanting a larger share of content, not at all, it’s FEMINISM! that wants to control all exposure anyone would get about men, because misandry.

Methodology? What stinking methodology? It’s name some names and presumption that everything he says is gold plated truth. This guy is a lot more hilariously paranoid then I first thought. He’s been expecting people to assail his castle walls it seems, but he has nary a comment, even from other fellow MRA’s. I think that is pretty funny too.

Sharculese
12 years ago

deon, i also can’t help but notice youre ignoring crumbelievable’s direct evidence of what a despicable cretin pierce harlan is. i’d accuse you of being his sockpuppet, but i’ve seen him in comments before and there’s no way he could go this long without flying into a lickspittle rage

Sharculese
12 years ago

one time mr destructo posted a criticism of frs’s defense of josh lueke. how did Pierce Harlan: Reasonable, Moderate Rape Apologist respond:

No, you would have to learn to write in the English language before I could discern if you were anathema to me, sir. Your incomprehensible, puerile blather is laughable.

In any event, on behalf of the men and women wrongly accused of heinous crimes — from the hanging trees of the Old South to the stories we’ve covered just today — thank you for what appears to be your vile and hateful sentiments. You would do well to read this http://falserapesociety.blogspot.com/p/lamb-to-slaughter-hofstra-false-rape.html — our most important entry — but I am certain you will find what happened to these young men quite acceptable. You and the smiling lynch mob in Duluth and a thousand other places.

yeah, he’s totally just trying to start a debate about rape prosecutions.