The regulars over on the Men’s Rights Subreddit are currently getting amused and/or outraged by the existence of a book titled “Girl, Get That Child Support,” a guide to help single mothers track down deadbeat dads and get the child support they are owed. A few of them were apparently so overstimulated by the book’s title, and a reference to “Baby Mamas” in the subtitle, that this little conversation ensued:
Note the upvotes and the (scarcity of) downvotes. And the complete lack of anyone saying “hey, you’re being racist assholes.”
The Men’s Rights Movement, the “most significant civil rights movement of the 3rd millennium.”
Where are my (‘d)s going?
Pecunium, I see your (quite lovely) booby with lizard and raise you my blue footed booby with a baby and red footed booby draining salt water from its nostrils.
As for Ruby, I am standing by my argument that she is some kind of computer algorithm. No human being could be that consistently obtuse. Right?
…Okay, the limerick wasn’t all that substantial, but by this point we’re all rather frustrated by the non-interactive nature of your trolling.
…You only realized it was a limerick by the shape of the lines, didn’t you.
Maybe I need to compose a limerick to the effect that science is about the methods and results of your work, not about the fanciness of your title? Maybe then. And after that I’ll try to make a limerick on the theme of “Sociology: it EXISTS.”
Then where are the studies? If the studies are not published through the peer review process in a reputable scientific journal, then it isn’t science. Also, I’m a scientist at a reputable university, therefore what I say is true. 😛
No, the burden of proof is on the person trying to prove a theory. I don’t have to disprove you if you have no proof.
Academic peer reviewed research articles are the actual standard for science. It is entirely possible for real scientists to say things that are not science. In fact, we do it ALL the time. Because science is not “everything a scientist says”. If Enrico Fermi had said, “eggs are delicious”, that doesn’t make it science! For something to be science, it requires published, reproducible experimental evidence.
You can’t just say, “oh yeah, well Linus Pauling (2 nobel prizes: 1 in chemistry, 1 in peace) ( says vitamin C cures cancer, therefor it’s science!”. No. Science is statements backed up by reproducible experimental evidence. You have to have published experimental evidence before I will believe what you say has any merit as “science”. Right now, it is just an assertion.
There once was a scientist who had a prestigious title
But his methods involved a tiny sample size of Americans
And he decided being American was genetic
Genetically hardcoded in all humans for certain
This isn’t a limerick but it’s shaped like one so maybe you’ll read it
@Holly: Hahah! Awesome “limeric”
LOL!
Ruby: You want papers.
Here’s one.
Education, Hypergamy and the “Success Gap” : Elaina Rose
Department of Economics, University of Washington, 2006
It’s by an economist, so it’s at least as relevant as yours. It’s more recent too, so it must be better.
Have a quotation. The most important part is in bold
Got it… A SCIENTIST, says your theory is full of shit.
For follow up I’ll quote a second study she did.
Education and Hypergamy in Marriage Markets: Elaina Rose, March 2004
Fucking blockquotes.
I’ll try it again.
Ruby: You want papers.
Here’s one.
Education, Hypergamy and the “Success Gap” : Elaina Rose
Department of Economics, University of Washington, 2006
It’s by an economist, so it’s at least as relevant as yours. It’s more recent too, so it must be better.
Have a quotation. The most important part is in bold
Got it… A SCIENTIST, says your theory is full of shit.
For follow up I’ll quote a second study she did.
Education and Hypergamy in Marriage Markets: Elaina Rose, March 2004
Nope. Dave, feel free to pull the second one, there is nothing new in it.
Cloudiah: Did you take those booby-pictures?
Ruby, have some more:
The Marriage Market and Homogamy by Age in Italy: Romina Frabono, National Statistical Office (ISTAT)
Looks like it’s not true in Italy either.
The time to collect that was about thirty seconds. What delayed me was reading the papers, and extracting/formatting, the replies.
I could, I suppose, have just done what you did, and said, “Thre is SCIENCE”,and then made you read them, but that’s not what decent people do.
Decent people treat others fairly, and respectfully. They present arguments honestly, and they pay attention to the responses of those with whom they are dealing.
You do none of that.
You are not a decent person.
Which comments are not insults. They are assessments of your person, based on your actions.
The limericks, were the same, though I admit they were insulting in format.
Which was by intent.
For everyone else, have some more boobies.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/pecunium/3393121733/in/set-72157603860044740
http://www.flickr.com/photos/pecunium/3393155961/in/set-72157603860044740
and some cute
http://www.flickr.com/photos/pecunium/3016556237/in/set-72157603860044740
http://www.flickr.com/photos/pecunium/2927462197/in/set-72157603860044740
Sonavabitch….
That’s the first time I’ve ever filled the comment bar
Ruby – A dissertation on your dogged style of discourse, published by a pair of prestigious Pythons:
Ah, I see Ruby’s one of those “it’s racist to point out racism” pinheads. How surprising.
Hah, now Ruby has reminded me of an anecdote related to the OP. I once ranted at length to my ex about the attitudes that people hold towards AAE, how they think it’s not proper English, not “grammatical”, evidence of an inability to learn, evidence of stupidity. I talked about how this affects so many aspects of speaker’s lives, and how pointless all the marginalization was. When I ran out of steam, he said: “Yeah okay, i get what you’re saying, but don’t you think it’s a little racist of you to call it African American English? That implies only African American people don’t know how to speak English properly.”
Here’s a hint, Ruby: if pretty much every single ego psych “study” is done on White western people, and you’re saying it would be racist to suggest that maybe other groups of people might have different social structures, you’re implying that having different social structures than White people do would be a bad thing. Which is like saying, White western society is the best kind of society. Which is hugely frickin’ racist.
Wait, hypergamy was originally a scientific term, and not something MRAs just made up?
Molly: Yes. Hypergamy is the use of marriage to improve one’s social position.
It is not, however, a “female” trait. It’s a social function. In societies with a large gap between social classes, members of the disavantaged class find it useful, when they can, to “marry up”.
Since this structual disadvantage is largely borne by women, it tends to be a practice they engage in more often.
But, as the studies show contra Ruby, this isn’t genetic, it’s economic.
@Maija
Really?!! You wouldn’t happen to be Toronto side would you? No one else around me seems to use “uni”, they usually use school or the name of the university. The few that have used it have been immigrants. Huh, live and learn.
BTW, what do you guys use for research? I usually use my uni’s resources, but most of those are behind paywalls.
In my corner of Alberta, and in my limited experience, “I’m going to school” tends to mean I’m on the train at this moment, headed to campus. “I’m going to uni” implies it is habitual, i.e. I am enrolled in University and am taking classes.