Just a little heads up for any of you in the Chicago area: I’ll be speaking at Northwestern University on Monday, as part of its annual “Sex Week.”
My topic? “How to hate women and have terrible sex: Misogynistic sex myths, and how they ruin sex for everyone.” Nice Guys, Friend Zones, and the Alpha Asshole Cock Carousel will all make appearances.
The talk will be at 8 PM in Room G02 of Annenberg Hall on the Northwestern Campus in Evanston.
(Here’s a map.)
There will be free condoms and lube. (Apparently.)
For more about sex week, see the official website, or take a look at this piece in the Daily Northwestern.
Sex week is sponsored by the College Feminists; I’m talking at the invitation of Men Against Rape and Sexual Assault.
I’ll be writing the lecture over the weekend, so please feel free to offer suggestions as to which misogynistic sex myths I should talk about.
EDITED TO ADD: The Spearhead has discovered that I’m doing this talk. W. F. Price writes about it with his usual objectivity, by which I mean that his piece is filled with lies and weird projection.
Thirded, and I don’t even wear nail polish or get manicures.
You know what level I’m at.
Shaenon, I do have some advice for David. Remember all, use sex as leverage. Don’t worry about enjoying it. Your lover is the consumer, and you are the consumed. Keep yourself prodigiously clean, always and everywhere – sex can happen at any time, in a car, in a bathroom, at the Biltmore. Acting nieve or ditsy is very helpful in navigating the world, but not having to take responsibility.
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Profit!!!
Pell, you never watch porn? That is disturbing.
That’s a great sex myth, mags! David will definitely have to include that one!
You guys don’t think his vagina-sneeze orgasm explanation was funny? And NWO thinks Joe Biden is Middle Eastern! And Arks has never made a woman enjoy sex! It’s been a great troll day!
Actually I think that watching your nails dry probably would be more exciting than sex with Pell. Who’s with me on this?
Stop fantacising about it, I do have standards.
“I’ve seen no evidence that women enjoy sex.”
You really need to get out more, then. There a whole world outside your basement and manosphere boards, you know.
I agree, katz!
Seriously, dude, the internet is positively, chock-o-block full of sites where you can ask women (or at least people presenting as women) lots of questions about their sex lives and they’ll totally play along.
Go find one.
Ok at the risk of TMI-ing, I would personally have to say that I did not orgasm during penetrative sex for about a year. This was largely due to issues with my partner’s stamina, my inability to be brought to orgasm from oral sex or hand stimulation, and the simple fact that it was hard for me to get the performativity out of my head for sex and really just enjoy the ride.
I have a huge unprotected sex fetish, and yes, I consider it a fetish- it super turns me on when there’s semen inside of me- that’s just how I roll. This is why I can only have sex with someone I’m fluid-bonded with (in my case, it’s my husband who is awesome), because I do not like having sex with condoms and tend to be slightly allergic to the material/spermicide.
So I took the Pill for years until it made me gain weight and get high blood pressure (surprise surprise, the weight and blood pressure problems went away when I stopped taking it (luckily by the time this all happened, my husband was cool with this and we were both really hoping to start our family soon anyway). Then after my first pregnancy, I got an IUD and it was FREAKING AMAZING to have sex all the time without worrying about pregnancy. Of couse, now I’m pregnant again (we want two kids total), so after this, I’m going back to the IUD and my husband has talked about getting a vasectomy. I’ve told him many times that it is his body and he can choose to do whatever he wants with it, but honestly, as long as I have my IUD, I don’t think I will have many worries about the potency of his sperm.
As for “clitoral/vaginal” orgasms, I can honestly say that the best orgasms are when I orgasm at the same time as my partner, and I have no idea if it’s clitoral or vaginal or whatever. All I know is that it feels good and I enjoy it and there’s nothing or no one in the world I’d trade for that moment. Not only can it send me over the edge to feel him orgasming inside of me (I have very developed Kegal muscles and can feel him pulsing in me, which is tres hot), but the psychological and emotional rush of watching someone else go over the edge with you is really powerful.
I would never, ever in a million years give up the enjoyable sex I have with my partner just because some other person tells me that my orgasms may or may not be “authentic.”
Seriously, anyone who minimizes the pleasure and experiences of others can fuck right off.
45 adventure, 30 trade, 27 battle. I’m not really sure how trade caught up with battle, but it’s probably because I haven’t been shanking people on the high seas recently enough. Trade can level incidentally, after all. My other Uncharted Waters character is something like 36 adventure, 50 trade, 33 battle, but I need to sit her down at my farm and wait if I’m to make more fantastic dresses.
Either that or level 40 atm; I retired my previous team for some bonus skill points and I’m grinding their levels back up. That part’s going pretty quickly; mostly because me and my girlfriends’ characters are awesome and in a ridiculously well managed gimmick trio.
Pell, you never watch porn? That is disturbing.
Of course I’ve seen it but I don’t watch it. The females look completely fake with fake tits and with that worn out look. I prefer sweet innocent and pure minded girls.
ssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss creeper alert!
… I think Pell is on a mission to personify all of the sex myths given on this thread.
“…I prefer sweet innocent and pure minded girls…”
A bit creepy. No?
“I prefer sweet innocent and pure minded girls.”
Eeeeeewwww. Should I be worried he thought I was an inexperienced girl-? EEEWWWWW!
This particular troll seems to be aiming for a nearly note-perfect Roissy impersonation, minus the greek letters.
I hate to break this to you Pell, but sweet innocent and pure minded girls usually won’t take in in the ass.
Nah, this lackwit is too much of a perfect storm of bullshit. It’s not that nobody believes any of these things, or even all of them simultaneously, it’s just the manner of presentation screams fake.
Plus, nobody uses “female” as a noun that often unless they’re trying to piss off feminists.
@mags:
I don’t think that matters to Pell, since the only “mature” method of having sex is missionary.
Nanasha-do you realise that you’ve just agreed with me?
That does explain why he doesn’t watch porn, no? I’m thinking most of the major online portals probably won’t allow users to upload kiddieporn.
Pell’s sex strategy
1. Find innocent, pure-minded girls.
2. Tell them that they need to have semen in their vaginas to orgasm.
Whoops, forgot to close my bold tag.