So Alexander Ryking is a Tumblr blogger and one of Tumblr’s community “editors” for politics. He thinks of himself as a liberal.
He is also a raging misogynist who regularly calls women “cunts” and tells feminists to “kill yourselves you feminazi twats.”
In recent days he’s turned his douchebag-o-meter up to 11. As a result, there’s now a petition up on Change.org to have him removed as a politics editor on Tumblr. It’s already gotten more than 3000 signatures, with several hundred new signatures added in the time it’s taken me to write this post.
Here’s unknowable woman, a frequent target of his cyber-wrath, with more details on his recent meltdown. (Read the post on her Tumblr blog for links to the evidence of his douchebaggery.)
Alexander Ryking, who has a history of attempting to silence women bloggers (he told Jess of STFUConservatives and the other “feminazis” to “go kill themselves” several months ago, and has also been rude to women of color but I haven’t been on Tumblr long enough to have personally witnessed that), defended The Amazing’s Atheist’s violent rape threats on Reddit by tagging his posts with “I support TAA.”
I and many, many other Tumblr users were disgusted by this, so we decided to tag our criticisms of Ryking that night with “Ryking’s banana republic”—a reference to his co-opting of [social justice] concepts, NOT a homophobic dig, and the person who coined it was a queer man anyway. Someone also wrote a few jokingly romantic lines about Ryking’s blind defense of TAA and new atheism, and Ryking interpreted this as homophobic and misandric…it wasn’t, but because I reblogged it, Ryking insists that I am now a homophobe, which is hilarious given my own sexual identity but whatever.
We also responded to some of his posts with pictures of extreme close-ups of our eyes.
Seriously. That is what this guy is calling “abuse.”
We did NOT threaten him, make personal attacks against his sexuality, tell him to go kill himself, send him rude messages, or commit any other acts that could reasonably be interpreted as the “cyberbullying” Ryking claims it is. I did temporarily change my URL to rykingsbananarepublic and I make no apologies for that. Why should I? Why shouldn’t a group of feminists and their allies be allowed to respond creatively to misogyny? The only actual cyberbullying that has taken place was TAA’s initial rape threats on Reddit; I wouldn’t even go so far as to claim Ryking’s tweets to me and other Twitter users are cyberbullying, though I leave it up to the other people who were insulted by him to label their experiences as bullying or not.
Anyway, a few nights later, I tweeted something in defense of Whitney Houston’s legacy, and suddenly there was Ryking going ballistic. He found me on Twitter, called me a cunt right off the bat, and insisted that I claimed Whitney Houston’s death was “more important than the death of 5,000 Syrians” (I didn’t! Here is what I actually said!). I had never exchanged tweets with this man before, and was confused about his sudden interest in my thoughts about Whitney Houston and Syria. Naturally, I responded, told him how wrong he was, and the next day I screencapped some of the things he said and posted them … I never expected that post to get the amount of notes it did, but I think that just goes to show how widespread the dislike for him is.
Ryking, for his part, has responded to the widespread criticism by striking the pose of a victim, and pretending that it is somehow all related to race. Apparently, the evil feminazis are impugning his white manhood, though he’s not white.
So-called feminists have subjected me to white-bashing comments (even though I’m Hispanic) and sexist attacks impugning my manhood (slash-fiction scenes featuring me and heterosexual men; being called faggot; being told to man-up; insults about my body;) by people who don’t realize I’m gay. After nearly two decades online, I learned early on that when you’re attacked, you defend yourself by attacking right back and just as viciously, if not more so. And that’s what exactly what I’ve done. …
What’s really at issue here is not my rude behavior but that you and others like you want to punish any man who refuses to conform to your rancid, misandrist orthodoxy by discounting everything he says and using his gender and race as the excuse for doing so. …
You don’t want me stripped of my editorial privilege based on my behavior but because I reject your sick, bigoted, misandrist (per)version of feminism.
Yep, apparently the dude who loves to call women “cunts” is the final arbiter of what is and what isn’t “true feminism.” Who knew?
I signed the petition. How about you?
@Moewicus:
Funny thing is, aren’t we asking mags to womansplain misandry? ^_^ Funny thing, that life.
why is invalid litter dept. so compelling? it’s iambic pentameter. tap it out.
i don’t think it was intentional, but it’s kind of impressive.
okay…if we’re going down that route XD
http://youtu.be/2w1Q6MW4KHQ
weeeellllll, i dunno if i count. before i went to law school i was a scenic carpenter, but theater tech is a dangerous job that’s female dominated. i have opinions about gender roles and those jobs, and i think there’s a weird macho culture associated with it, but it’s a totally different scene from most manual labor jobs.
Oh, forget it. 🙂
DO NOT WATCH THAT VIDEO! VIDEO IS SO BAD! SONG IS SO GOOD!
question: what do i always post?
answer: that youtube of it’s expected i’m gone paired up with that single image of milhouse
fucccccccccccccccccccccccck…
uh huh.
@Sharculese
I can’t count how many times I saw the minutemen play. Good times, good times. Ah, I am old.
Long time lurker here, crawling out of the woodwork to drop a link I thought you might like: http://memegenerator.net/Rye-King
Bless the internet. 😀
@cloudiah
screw you for being cooler than me 😛
@Sharculese, totally not cool, just totally OLD. 🙂 And lucky geographically.
I LIKE LOS CAMPESINOS! BECAUSE THEY WRITE SONGS ABOUT THINGS I CAN UNDERSTAND!
being an over-educated drunk with intimacy issues. yes. i get that.
Also drunk as fuck. Will blame my video fails on that, not on any inherent internet incompetence.
You kept a distance out of fear you’d break,
but what good’s a single wind chime hanging quiet all alone?
The music our collisions would make
is the sound that turns “the road that leads us back home” into “home.”
*enjoys videos whilst patiently waiting for evidences*
Granted, it’s mostly Dr. Who episodes, but yeah. I definitely should have started watching it much earlier.
SWITCHING GEARS
i saw mogwai on this tour when they were in athens. they all wore black and green adidas tracksuits which was a cool effect. i spent a ton of time drooling over their light set-up. most importantly, i can still close my eyes and still picture the blowout. they didnt have the smoke or the colored lights, it was just smart spots painting the crowd and strobing
For my part, I do believe there’s such a thing as misandry, in the sense that there are people in existence who are prejudiced against men. There is also the very real issue of men being mistreated, not for being men, but for failing to conform to society’s standards of masculinity.
But the notion that because women are gradually gaining social equality with men, we’re all suddenly living in a some sort of misandric dystopian gynocracy is just fucking laughable.
Taking away the privilege of men, as a class, to act like assholes to women with near (if not total) impunity is not the same thing as systematic oppression. Not even close.
this video i was in the crowd for. a silver mt. zion had never played georgia before and were super nervous about being in the south, but the rapport between them and the crowd was incredible. i’ve never been at another show where the band had so much fun talking to the audience.
@Dracula:
The way I figure is that Misandry is supposed to be an idea comparable to Misogyny, as in systematic oppression against a gender. In that sense, misandry doesn’t exist, though of course there are people prejudiced against men in existence.
The “failing to conform to society’s standards of masculinity” is not as much misandry as ridiculous and/or antiquated notions of masculinity and femininity, and everyone suffers from those. Funny that so many MRA talking points revolve around these standards, yet they are so insistent at keeping them.