So Alexander Ryking is a Tumblr blogger and one of Tumblr’s community “editors” for politics. He thinks of himself as a liberal.
He is also a raging misogynist who regularly calls women “cunts” and tells feminists to “kill yourselves you feminazi twats.”
In recent days he’s turned his douchebag-o-meter up to 11. As a result, there’s now a petition up on Change.org to have him removed as a politics editor on Tumblr. It’s already gotten more than 3000 signatures, with several hundred new signatures added in the time it’s taken me to write this post.
Here’s unknowable woman, a frequent target of his cyber-wrath, with more details on his recent meltdown. (Read the post on her Tumblr blog for links to the evidence of his douchebaggery.)
Alexander Ryking, who has a history of attempting to silence women bloggers (he told Jess of STFUConservatives and the other “feminazis” to “go kill themselves” several months ago, and has also been rude to women of color but I haven’t been on Tumblr long enough to have personally witnessed that), defended The Amazing’s Atheist’s violent rape threats on Reddit by tagging his posts with “I support TAA.”
I and many, many other Tumblr users were disgusted by this, so we decided to tag our criticisms of Ryking that night with “Ryking’s banana republic”—a reference to his co-opting of [social justice] concepts, NOT a homophobic dig, and the person who coined it was a queer man anyway. Someone also wrote a few jokingly romantic lines about Ryking’s blind defense of TAA and new atheism, and Ryking interpreted this as homophobic and misandric…it wasn’t, but because I reblogged it, Ryking insists that I am now a homophobe, which is hilarious given my own sexual identity but whatever.
We also responded to some of his posts with pictures of extreme close-ups of our eyes.
Seriously. That is what this guy is calling “abuse.”
We did NOT threaten him, make personal attacks against his sexuality, tell him to go kill himself, send him rude messages, or commit any other acts that could reasonably be interpreted as the “cyberbullying” Ryking claims it is. I did temporarily change my URL to rykingsbananarepublic and I make no apologies for that. Why should I? Why shouldn’t a group of feminists and their allies be allowed to respond creatively to misogyny? The only actual cyberbullying that has taken place was TAA’s initial rape threats on Reddit; I wouldn’t even go so far as to claim Ryking’s tweets to me and other Twitter users are cyberbullying, though I leave it up to the other people who were insulted by him to label their experiences as bullying or not.
Anyway, a few nights later, I tweeted something in defense of Whitney Houston’s legacy, and suddenly there was Ryking going ballistic. He found me on Twitter, called me a cunt right off the bat, and insisted that I claimed Whitney Houston’s death was “more important than the death of 5,000 Syrians” (I didn’t! Here is what I actually said!). I had never exchanged tweets with this man before, and was confused about his sudden interest in my thoughts about Whitney Houston and Syria. Naturally, I responded, told him how wrong he was, and the next day I screencapped some of the things he said and posted them … I never expected that post to get the amount of notes it did, but I think that just goes to show how widespread the dislike for him is.
Ryking, for his part, has responded to the widespread criticism by striking the pose of a victim, and pretending that it is somehow all related to race. Apparently, the evil feminazis are impugning his white manhood, though he’s not white.
So-called feminists have subjected me to white-bashing comments (even though I’m Hispanic) and sexist attacks impugning my manhood (slash-fiction scenes featuring me and heterosexual men; being called faggot; being told to man-up; insults about my body;) by people who don’t realize I’m gay. After nearly two decades online, I learned early on that when you’re attacked, you defend yourself by attacking right back and just as viciously, if not more so. And that’s what exactly what I’ve done. …
What’s really at issue here is not my rude behavior but that you and others like you want to punish any man who refuses to conform to your rancid, misandrist orthodoxy by discounting everything he says and using his gender and race as the excuse for doing so. …
You don’t want me stripped of my editorial privilege based on my behavior but because I reject your sick, bigoted, misandrist (per)version of feminism.
Yep, apparently the dude who loves to call women “cunts” is the final arbiter of what is and what isn’t “true feminism.” Who knew?
I signed the petition. How about you?
It’s the Rorsarch ink blot of troll comments.
*gives Holly an internets*
@Holly- precisely!
I actually checked out the screenshot. I remain baffled. Doubly so, actually. I remain baffled about what your post was trying to say, and am now baffled as to why you linked to that post on your blog. Curiouser and curiouser. And, borrowing from Rutee:
You’re the gift that keeps on giving, Factfinder; you actually posted feminists mocking your stupidity and think it’s a sign of your victory. Keep on trying hard, it is *amazing.*
BTW I choose In the shadow of Dachau. Even if it was a totally accurate representation of feminism, the writing would still be atrocious and completely ineffective.
Such concision! Truly it puts him on the spot and nails him there! We would do very well to ask him this question every time we speak to him!
*Struggles to contain giggle fit*
Yeah, I’m sad and all that. Oh, Internet, you are a harsh mistress.
@Rutee
Wasn’t that post awesome!!!! I have yet to see another MRA reach those dizzying heights!!
Um okay, so what DID you mean FactFinder? xD
@Ami,
You’re a peach. Hugs if you want ’em. now I can’t sleep. 🙁
Ami, it’s pretty clear he was saying MRAL should see a therapist never always except when sometimes extremely.
Gosh.
(wow, I really need to go to bed.)
Also, posting a screenshot where your paranoia that your life is in danger (by a David inspired MRAL I guess xD ) is mocked by people (and you don’t substantiate HOW your life is in danger) is…. not a good response? xD
I know you’re trying to confuse the issue and be all “I’M BEING VAGUE ON PURPOSE” b/c you just made yourself look stupid with that blurb that made no sense (I suspect typo, am I right?) and stuff… but… srsly… that just makes you look even more ridiculous xD
Now we know besides being unable to admit writing errors, you’re also ridic paranoid XD
@cloudiah, and any other commenter that wants them- *chicken soup flavored internets. good for the soul*
*hug hug hug cloudiah*
is there nething you can do to comfort yourself or to alleviate the triggers? :
Is there nething we can do? o:
Spam cat pictures? 😀
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I have actual kittens with very soft fur! But you are all sweet — normally I am tougher than this. Kitten pix help too! 🙂
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And Edwardian women kicking ass and taking names!
*hugs cloudiah* we all have days where stuff gets to us more… that is what friends and cats are for 🙂
oops. meant to post this:
Kittens + Edwardian women = I can sleep now. There are good people in the world.
Also there are Amis in the world! 😀
Yay! Glad to hear you are feeling better!
Amis = good people! I am a little shaky but ok. Kittens also= good “people.” need to get off internetz, and hang with kittz.
*hug hug* take care 🙂 and be goods 🙂 give kitties scritches for us!