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Muck Ryking: Petition to remove Alexander Ryking as a Tumblr politics editor

Evidently Ryking wasn't in debate club in high school.

So Alexander Ryking is a Tumblr blogger and one of Tumblr’s community “editors” for politics. He thinks of himself as a liberal.

He is also a raging misogynist who regularly calls women “cunts” and tells feminists to “kill yourselves you feminazi twats.”

In recent days he’s turned his douchebag-o-meter up to 11. As a result, there’s now a petition up on Change.org to have him removed as a politics editor on Tumblr. It’s already gotten more than 3000 signatures, with several hundred new signatures added in the time it’s taken me to write this post.

Here’s unknowable woman, a frequent target of his cyber-wrath, with more details on his recent meltdown. (Read the post on her Tumblr blog for links to the evidence of his douchebaggery.)

Alexander Ryking, who has a history of attempting to silence women bloggers (he told Jess of STFUConservatives and the other “feminazis” to “go kill themselves” several months ago, and has also been rude to women of color but I haven’t been on Tumblr long enough to have personally witnessed that), defended The Amazing’s Atheist’s violent rape threats on Reddit by tagging his posts with “I support TAA.”

I and many, many other Tumblr users were disgusted by this, so we decided to tag our criticisms of Ryking that night with “Ryking’s banana republic”—a reference to his co-opting of [social justice] concepts, NOT a homophobic dig, and the person who coined it was a queer man anyway. Someone also wrote a few jokingly romantic lines about Ryking’s blind defense of TAA and new atheism, and Ryking interpreted this as homophobic and misandric…it wasn’t, but because I reblogged it, Ryking insists that I am now a homophobe, which is hilarious given my own sexual identity but whatever.

We also responded to some of his posts with pictures of extreme close-ups of our eyes.

Seriously. That is what this guy is calling “abuse.”

We did NOT threaten him, make personal attacks against his sexuality, tell him to go kill himself, send him rude messages, or commit any other acts that could reasonably be interpreted as the “cyberbullying” Ryking claims it is. I did temporarily change my URL to rykingsbananarepublic and I make no apologies for that. Why should I? Why shouldn’t a group of feminists and their allies be allowed to respond creatively to misogyny? The only actual cyberbullying that has taken place was TAA’s initial rape threats on Reddit; I wouldn’t even go so far as to claim Ryking’s tweets to me and other Twitter users are cyberbullying, though I leave it up to the other people who were insulted by him to label their experiences as bullying or not.

Anyway, a few nights later, I tweeted something in defense of Whitney Houston’s legacy, and suddenly there was Ryking going ballistic. He found me on Twitter, called me a cunt right off the bat, and insisted that I claimed Whitney Houston’s death was “more important than the death of 5,000 Syrians” (I didn’t! Here is what I actually said!). I had never exchanged tweets with this man before, and was confused about his sudden interest in my thoughts about Whitney Houston and Syria. Naturally, I responded, told him how wrong he was, and the next day I screencapped some of the things he said and posted them … I never expected that post to get the amount of notes it did, but I think that just goes to show how widespread the dislike for him is.

Ryking, for his part, has responded to the widespread criticism by striking the pose of a victim, and pretending that it is somehow all related to race. Apparently, the evil feminazis are impugning his white manhood, though he’s not white.

So-called feminists have subjected me to white-bashing comments (even though I’m Hispanic) and sexist attacks impugning my manhood (slash-fiction scenes featuring me and heterosexual men; being called faggot; being told to man-up; insults about my body;) by people who don’t realize I’m gay. After nearly two decades online, I learned early on that when you’re attacked, you defend yourself by attacking right back and just as viciously, if not more so. And that’s what exactly what I’ve done. …

What’s really at issue here is not my rude behavior but that you and others like you want to punish any man who refuses to conform to your rancid, misandrist orthodoxy by discounting everything he says and using his gender and race as the excuse for doing so. …

You don’t want me stripped of my editorial privilege based on my behavior but because I reject your sick, bigoted, misandrist (per)version of feminism.

Yep, apparently the dude who loves to call women “cunts” is the final arbiter of what is and what isn’t “true feminism.” Who knew?

I signed the petition. How about you?

 

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CassandraSays
CassandraSays
12 years ago

” No one thinks women aren’t people, at least nowhere that any of you guys live.”

More assumptions! I used to live in Saudi Arabia. Not everyone who comments here is in the US. Deal with it, bubba.

Shadow
Shadow
12 years ago

http://www.guardian.co.uk/news/datablog/2010/apr/12/maternal-mortality-rates-millennium-development-goals

http://www.arhp.org/publications-and-resources/contraception-journal/march-2011

Tell us again how silly the right to abortion is? I mean, what the fuck would women be hesitant to go through childbirth for, aside from laziness and satanism?!!!

Nathan
Nathan
12 years ago

And since you’re so interested in me (so you can use my alleged “privilege” as a beatstick and silencing tool, as feminists often do), I’ll tell you that I’m also, in the financial sense, a member of the middle-lower class, and I work 9-hour days, five days a week at a factory in CA, and I’m not going to get more specific. I’m not special- I have 250 coworkers- but no, I wouldn’t call myself “privileged”. This computer, yeah, I am lucky to have it. It was a gift.

red_locker
12 years ago

“And since you’re so interested in me (so you can use my alleged “privilege” as a beatstick and silencing tool, as feminists often do), I’ll tell you that I’m also, in the financial sense, a member of the middle-lower class, and I work 9-hour days, five days a week at a factory in CA, and I’m not going to get more specific. I’m not special- I have 250 coworkers- but no, I wouldn’t call myself “privileged”. This computer, yeah, I am lucky to have it. It was a gift.”

Nope, sorry, doesn’t excuse the stupid shit you said.

hellkell
hellkell
12 years ago

This no-talent assclown Nathan still here? Are we sure he’s not MRAL, because the “deal with it, bubba” is very similar to his “think on it.”

Of course, there’s no shortage of clueless, privileged dipshits in the world, so it could be another one.

Holly Pervocracy
12 years ago

I’ll tell you that I’m also, in the financial sense, a member of the middle-lower class, and I work 9-hour days, five days a week at a factory in CA, and I’m not going to get more specific. I’m not special- I have 250 coworkers- but no, I wouldn’t call myself “privileged”. This computer, yeah, I am lucky to have it. It was a gift.

…Which part of this makes you a woman?

Privilege is a multi-part thing. It isn’t “you’re privileged and you live on a yacht and spit on the plebes” or “you aren’t privileged.” You can be the poorest most miserable man in the world and you will still have the privilege of gender, just as the richest happiest woman in the world still lacks the privilege of gender.

Shadow
Shadow
12 years ago

http://articles.latimes.com/2011/sep/13/business/la-fi-poverty-california-20110914

Tell me again how your lower-middle class ass is not privileged?

Rutee Katreya
12 years ago

Don’t worry, ignorant comments about the status of queer people and non-whites made the rest abundantly clear, hon. You’re just another clueless little white boy who pays as much attention to everyone else as he does feminism (Good lord I love watching Ithiliana call out the folks who claim to have read feminist thought).

hellkell
hellkell
12 years ago

Nathan, we’re using your own jackassery as a beatstick, we really don’t need to use your privilege.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
12 years ago

Also, Nathan, you’re not off the hook for the whole “well I bet you’re super privileged and have a great social life, unlike many men!” comment. What people say when they’re getting emotional is often what they really mean, and that little outburst was very telling indeed in terms of where you’re coming from.

PosterformerlyknownasElizabeth

@Holly Pervocracy- Are you telling me that, in a modern society, women’s “basic human rights” are not controversial? And please point to something other than the abortion debate. This is the kind of ridiculous overstatement that people point to when they talk about how feminism sucks.

Oh I am sorry, is abortion off the table for some reason? Are we to ignore the fact that Virginia wants to force women to have to have a wand suck up her vagina to get an abortion because she is obviously too stupid to know what she is doing according to these men (and some women)? That apparently having sex, even once, gives the state license to do whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaatever it wants to a woman-up to and including what would be considered rape by any other reasonable person?

That women are being told “not only do you not get to have access to birth control because that means you are a Slutty McSluterton, you also have no say in the laws being created that affect you.”

But hey, that is not a basic human right-the right to have self determination of one’s own body unless of course, one is a man. And then naturally, one gets to have all the self determination one wants.

kirbywarp
kirbywarp
12 years ago

@Nathan:

*ahem* PRIVILEGE IS NOT A JUDGEMENT ON YOUR STATION IN LIFE

You spoke recently about how backlash against gay rights isn’t really a thing. Tell that to all the gay kids the have been bullied, all the gay couples wanting to get married but being unable to because of religious nuts… You are privileged by not having to deal with that shit; and you can’t use personal experience to have any say on the matter.

Shadow
Shadow
12 years ago

@CassandraSays

I didn’t realise you got married! Congratulations!!

Rutee Katreya
12 years ago

OT, I’m so happy Jackassery is getting picked up. AFAIK, The Venture Bros. coined it, but it’s such a perfect word for what it describes that I’ve been happy to use it.

Nathan
Nathan
12 years ago

Cassandra, where was I allegedly “coming from”? All I was saying was that you probably had a good life. Again, it was a dumb statement, because I don’t know that, but I don’t see what it’s “indicative” of.

Also, to Holly Pervocracy, the problem is that men are not universally privileged as a gender. The white girls who like David Foster Wallace but are not good enough to write like him and so write in annoying chatspeak that is occasionally amusing but mostly just obnoxious would like to think it is, but, sorry.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
12 years ago

Even here in Gay Central, the gayest place on earth (aka the Bay Area) we have occasional queerbashing incidents. Gavin Newsom’s decision on the gay marriage issue may well create long term problems for him in terms of seeking higher political office (totally uncontroversial here, but on a national level, some other Democrats were not amused). There was an attempt to ban gay marriage right here in California via ballot. No backlash against gay rights?

Damn, Nathan, you are one self-centered little jackass. I guess if it doesn’t directly affect you who cares, right?

kirbywarp
kirbywarp
12 years ago

@Nathan:

Alright, this is getting annoying. Please define privilege before we go any further.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
12 years ago

It’s indicative of the lulzy assumptions that you make about feminism and individual feminists based on your own prejudices, Nathan. Your little outbust, and the fact that you chose those particular words when you wanted to strike out at me, provides a fascinating little window into your mental world.

@Shadow

Actually I was married for almost 15 years! Now separated, but it kind of looks like we may be getting back together. He wants to, I’m still thinking about it.

Holly Pervocracy
12 years ago

Nathan – Okay, here’s the thing “privilege” means. It means that if you take the exact same person, with the same family and money and everything, they are better off being male than female.

It does not mean that every man is better off than every woman. It means that every man is better off gender-wise.

Nathan
Nathan
12 years ago

Jesus, talk about a mass attack… I can’t even keep up with all the people yelling. But you’re all basically saying the same thing. The antifeminist resentment is different because it is widespread. It is not a hatred of a group of people but an ideology.

Rutee Katreya
12 years ago

Kukukukuku, you’re really bad at this, MRAL. That said…

Also, to Holly Pervocracy, the problem is that men are not universally privileged as a gender. The white girls who like David Foster Wallace but are not good enough to write like him and so write in annoying chatspeak that is occasionally amusing but mostly just obnoxious would like to think it is, but, sorry.

This is a hell of a non sequitor. Like, for real, I kind of want to paste it into a little hand dictionary that has the term.

Bostonian
12 years ago

No one has yelled at you here at all. If you think this is attacking, go make a profeminist comment at A Voice for Men and get back to me.

PosterformerlyknownasElizabeth

“Women as people”, come on dude. No one thinks women aren’t people, at least nowhere that any of you guys live.

Actually I live in Arizona. So yes, there are people out here who do not believe women are people. I work with them. I go to conferences with them. I have to deal with them on a near daily basis.

So yes, I know that there are men (and some women) who do not view women as people.

kirbywarp
kirbywarp
12 years ago

@Rutee:

David already checked, its probably not MRAL.

@Nathan:

You’ve got a whole bunch of commentors on a website dedicated to mocking misogyny… Yeah, they’re gonna want to put in their two cents. If its that terrible for you to keep up, just say who you’re going to talk to and then follow through. It’s pretty simple. o_o

Holly Pervocracy
12 years ago

Rutee – I know, right?

Apparently his proof that men aren’t privileged as a gender is that he respects a man’s writing but thinks women’s writing is silly prattle…

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