Today, on this terrible so-called holiday, devoted to hearts and flowers and men giving things to ladies that are on average more expensive than the things ladies give to men, statistically speaking, I would like to relay a few words of hope to all the brave and noble Men Going Their Own Way, from our friend Spidey on MGTOWforums.com. Yes, it is true that “Valentines day is nothing more then another day where women have their egos inflated.” But remember this:
For every one of you that stays single, there is some b**** out there spending valentines day alone unable to force you to waste time and money on her
Stay strong, fellas. Resist the lure of the evil ladies and their never ending hunger for diamonds and chocolate and your precious seed.
Today, fellas, take a few moments to silently relaxate. Here, author Ronald Chevalier (who couldn’t possibly be Jemaine Clement of Flight of the Conchords) illustrates how, without threatening your seed.
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Kind of hard to hear complaints when someone makes the other person sit in the kitchen.
What you think she would get to sit in the dining room?
It’s fun to analyze insults. For instance, saying stuff like “I have a girl who makes me food and doesn’t complain about giving me sex!” implies at least one thing; that his default world is one in which women do complain. Which is might imply he has a worldview of male-dominated families, where possession a subservient wife is the ideal of any husband.
Don’t forget his focus on Ozy’s man(s) and Holly’s man, rather than Ozy and Holly themselves… And his notion that feminists are angry when a man gets something nice without the woman complaining.
Smug conservative misogynist who apparently found someone to serve him, and therefore has achieved an ideal life in his eyes, likely on the older side, and probably worth ignoring.
How well did I do?
Well, he did say a man getting what he wants. In this case, what he wants is to be serviced in a way that’s specifically not reciprocal, by a woman who isn’t enjoying it but is willing to do it for him because he’s just that important.
His only error is in assuming that this is what all men want.
Well, he also made the error of bragging to women about it.
I don’t think he understands that “bet you wish you had a man to uncomplainingly service!” is not an effective taunt.
She will only be allowed to eat a salad.
She will have a good time laughing with it, though.
I assume that he’s also assuming that all the women here are single, and not by choice. You know, because he is every man and all men hate feminists.
Shorther version – boring troll is boring.
If only people saw each other as people all this MRA stupidity (and so much more stupidity around the world) would vanish instantly.
But that will probably never happen.
Hmmm, boring troll has a four word name and is specifically going after Holly and Ozy? Kinda sounds familiar. . .
You win one blow job and grilled item of your choice.
Hippodaemia – Do Your Own Research was around before MRAL started socking hard, and his style seems different.
A lot of the trolls seem to target Ozy and me. I’m not 100% sure why. Maybe it’s because we respond to trolls more directly than some other posters? Maybe it’s because we have our own blogs?
I wonder a lot if it’s because we’ve both identified ourselves as young and sexually adventurous, and there’s something weirdly titillating for the misogynists in antagonizing the “sexy” feminists.
What about vegetarians? “Textured Vegetable Protein and Blow Job Day” just doesn’t have the same ring to it.
Oh, OK then. I haven’t been around very much lately and hadn’t encountered DYOR before.
What if you shortened it? TVP&BJ Day has a bit of a ring.
Or GI and BJ day?
Grilled item and blow job?
Grilled Pepper And Squash Kebabs And Mutual Oral Sex Day!
…I feel like I just reclaimed something.
@Holly:
GPSKMOSD? Terrible acronym…
GI-MOSD, now that’s an acronym worth reclaiming. ^_^
Holly: Oh, man, I would be down with that. Can I have onions in the kebab? And bondage to go with the sex bit?
Grilled Pepper And Squash Kebabs And Mutual Oral Sex Day!
…I feel like I just reclaimed something.
Mmmm…those both sound good! So much better than Steak and Joyless Blowjob Day.
Yay! A friend of mine just got engaged on St. Valentine’s Day! 🙂 SUCK IT MRA!
Oh my gosh, I missed the part where someone called us fat! (On account of the snuggling, and the mutually pleasurable and desired sex, and the watching of John Carpenter’s The Thing). Y’all, I am heartbroken that this man doesn’t think I’m thin enough, and therefore sexy enough. I renounce this foolish life of feminism! Where do I find a dude who wants me to give him blowjobs regardless of whether I find it enjoyable?
DYOR: I can’t wait until tomorrow because my sweet cupcake will cook me a steak and will not complain when giving her man what he likes.
That sounds like you have a problem in your relationship.
I’ve always had a problem with, “steak and blowjob day”, because 1: It seems to be a “tit for tat” sort of thing, as if Valentine’s Day is something women are forcing on men.
My experience has always been that men want to do it as much as women do. That, in years past, when being more obviously affectionate was harder, it was a way to say they cared without seeming like a wimp.
2: If blowjobs are a chore, something one gets only a s special treat, then your partner doesn’t enjoy them, and really shouldn’t be doing it.
3: I don’t have to wait for special occasions. My partners do it when they feel like it, which is more than a couple of times a year.
You seem to hate it when a man gets what he wants without any complaining,
You seem to like thinking feminists are unhappy. Trust us, if it was making us unhappy, we’d be working to change it. Since it’s not (see all the feminists who are in relationships; even in this age of legally obtainable divorces, without an act of parliament), you may assume most of them (because some people are too stubborn to cut their losses), are happy.
When someone tells me they like giving blowjobs, I believe them. When they tell me this as I’m saying I’m not in the mood for one, and they look a bit sad, I really believe them.
I could care less what your girlfriend looks like (or what she likes to do with, or to, you. I don’t care what she likes done with, or to, her). I am sure, from the little interactions we are having here, that a large number of, “chubby”, women are happy you aren’t interested.
I’m also pretty sure you are feeling a bit insecure in how your partner looks, or you’d not be trying to score, “man points” by the passive aggressive negging in your comment.
So enjoy that blowjob, and sometime next week think about this… many of the posters here will be getting/giving blowjobs (and liking it), screwing in the halls, having anal, shagging comfortably in the morning because they can, attending orgies (or having a quiet little ménage a trois with a friend; long term or just for the evening), enjoying a pleasant dinner with one of their multiple partners, etc, and going on with the regularly active sex lives they routinely enjoy.
Even the fat ones.
Oh hey, that reminds me, since someone pointed out “Fuck Nestle”
There is *also* non-conflict chocolate, though I forget the brand names atm. It’s a bit more expensive, but the price is well worth the cost of admission. Comparing it against similarly priced chocolate that uses what is basically slave labor, it’s better.
You left out cuddling.
Here’s a guide to ethically produced chocolate brands:
http://vision.ucsd.edu/~kbranson/stopchocolateslavery/main.html
For every one of your MRA morons who stays single to “show” women, there is some woman out there fucking someone else. And enjoying every second of it. And not giving a shit about you.