When is a slut not a slut? When he’s a dude. So says the (He)artist(e) formerly known as Roissy, in yet another post of his trying to prove that his brand of Pick-Up Assholery is fully proven by SCIENCE!
His evidence in this case? A recent study of speed dating that showed that (straight) women, in addition to being attracted to attractive men (duh!), also seem to be attracted to men with high “sociosexuality” ratings. “Sociosexuality,” for those not fully immersed in the SCIENCE!! of dating, is basically someone’s propensity for casual sex.
In other words, the study found that guys who do a lot of casual dating tended to do better at casual dating.
Heartiste/Roissy puts it this way:
Men who have high sociosexuality (HSS) are more attractive to women because the suite of characteristics associated with HSS suggest prior experience bedding women and possession of mating skills that attract women.
It’s akin to a form of preselection for men, minus the actual women he’s banging being physically present at his side to aid in the alpha judging process that all women, consciously or not, impose on their suitors.
In a very loose sense, high male sociosexuality is male sluttiness.
If you strip out the PUA nonsense about the “alpha judging process,” all this seems fairly self-evident, if not simply tautological. Guys who’ve been with a lot of women will probably do better with women in the future than guys with no experience who view women as strange alien creatures. (Note: In all this, we’re only talking about straight people; PUAs don’t seem aware that gay people exist, outside of their own fantasies of hot bi girl threesomes.)
It’s at this point that Heartiste/Roissy amps up the assholery:
Male sluttiness is not equivalent to female sluttiness. It is more difficult for a man to be slutty that it is for a woman owing to the discrepancy in worth between sperm and egg, so people justifiably perceive male sluts to have higher quality mate value, and higher quality mating skills, than female sluts for whom the act of sexual conquest is merely synonym for being easy.
In other words, it’s bad to be a female slut, but great to be a male slut:
[T]he study results confirm the validity of game when its conclusions find that male sociosexuality is a relatively powerful predictor of attractiveness to women, even to women looking for long-term relationships.
Not only can this SCIENCE!! of game help to get dudes laid – it can basically save the world from evil fat chicks.
It’s vital to readers to get this scientific information validating game out there, because there are a lot of doubters and haters who are blinded by what they won’t see. Sometimes, men need to know that there is an experimental foundation supporting all these seduction techniques and peculiarities of female behavior. It’s not necessary to know this stuff to start gaming chicks out in the field right now, but for men with a cynical bent or shy disposition, it helps to know that there are rules that govern human interaction. It may be the boost they need.
Turning former nerds into wily lotharios will help to put those uppity female sluts in their place:
[A] moment of candor. This blog is first and foremost a source of self-amusement, but it is also a true and real desire to teach and to see men succeed sexually and emotionally with women. Men who become better at attracting women increase their options in the mating market. Men with increased options cause women to behave better. Women behaving better redounds to the benefit of families, and to society.
And by “behave better”, I mean the whole panoply of awful modern female behavior: cheating, cock carouseling, divorcing on a whim, eat pray loving, straycationing, spinstering, attention whoring, voting and fattening up into repulsive dirigibles.
Yep, he did slyly insert “voting” into all that. Sneaky!
So slut it up, fellas! It’s the only way to put those evil lady sluts in their place. And, thereby, save the world from sex-having, vote-casting slatterns.
Hahahahahahahahahahha!!!!!!
I just read the full post!!!
Here’s the part that slays me:
Get that? Basically, just *repeating* a person’s ideas and feelings back to her from her frame of reference makes her like you more, and makes her feel like you know her bettter
Way to miss the whole nuance and point of what they’re trying to tell you! Mindlessly repeating back what she just said will make you look like a moron. Trying to fake real interest and genuine understanding won’t work if all you’re thinking about is how quIckly you can get her to suck your cock! But you stay failing Roissy.
Roissy, saving the worlds women from jackasses.
@pillowinhell:
I will be very sad the day that South Park stops perfectly illustrating this stuff.
http://www.southparkstudios.com/clips/154975/buca-di-faggoncini
aaww its pua! (the picture xD)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/tamanduagirl/with/6813016313/
Good at dating=good at dating
This’d be the conclusion a normal person would extract from this study. However, you’ll notice our esteemed science writer has inserted a second equivalency here that he no doubt believes everyone else shares.
Good at dating=PUA
Y’see, this study proves that PUA’s are successful at dating. How do we know? Because people successful at dating are PUA’s, of course!
@ Kirbywarp – ’round these parts, we call that there line of thinkin’ “scientiffy”.
@ Pecunium – thanks for the Roissy-speak translation. Good grief, but it must be difficult to live in an MRA mind-set! So confusing!
I’m a lazy thinker so I think that what consenting adults do with their fun bits is none of my business and BAM! Less thinking for me! Success! Thinking about who is a slut and why and whether I’m banging enough Alphas or not is way too much work. MRAs think too much! (I bet that’s never been said before).
The wiggle lines around the Repulsive Dirigible Tits just made it for me.
Scar, your freshly minted internets is in the mail!
I have never been more thankful to be considered hideous in my whole life! Hahaha! I just finished reading the rest of Roissys’ blog. He gets his BMI index for women from what…a 1959 comic book? Hahahaha! Does anyone have a picture of this guy so I can see if he’s an alpha?
pillowinhell, I believe this is a fairly recent picture of Roissy, circa 2009…
Crap. I’ll try that again… Here’s Jimmy!
Kirbywarp…your linky just says “sorry Canada…videos not available” I’m being discriminated against!
Xanthe, I don’t get it… He doesn’t look like Adonis reborn. And I suspect the first time he opened his mouth it would drop him 250 points minimum.
Oh wait…this is the strange difference between men and women right? The part where women look in the mirror and see every flaw magnified but men look in the mirror and see that they’re still hot stuff stereotype?
pillowinhell, another slightly less work safe photo has been produced showing all of Jim’s alpha attributes!
@redlocker: I wish I could take credit for it.
Ozzy, you’re terrifying. But potentially usefull. Have you ever considered infiltrating MRA sites? Ya know, just to get them frothing at the mouth and give us some giggles?
Xanthe why is that pic so distant? Is he trying to hide something?
Well Xanthe you just showed me everything I needed to know. My guess is that his IQ is low to medium average, which would explain his hatred of high IQs
Are you telling me women sometimes want to have sex with hot people who put out? I am utterly stunned!
Wow, I was WAY hotter as a dude that Roissy.
I suspect that I’m also way hotter as a woman than most of the ones he (supposedly) picks up.
But anyway; we all know that PUAs aren’t particularly attractive (and I don’t mean just in appearance) otherwise they wouldn’t have to put all this work into practicing picking up.
Dunno pih, perhaps the photo was taken from some distance without his permission? Another one of the Roissy family (sister and brother flanking him).
Honestly, he’s just your typical guy. Its the self loathing and the hatred he directs at women who won’t have him that makes him have to work so hard. I’ve only met one guy like this in my entire life..
Hey, man, I know lots of guys with smallish dicks who are much less misogynistic than Mr. Roissy. Even if he were hung like a damn horse he’d still be an asshat.
I’d hit it, except he’s a misogynist, and I don’t fuck misogynists.
Also part of me feels a little icky about sharing his pics. :/ Even if he’s a misogynistic asshat he still deserves his privacy.
We should probably not be picking on Roissy’s appearance, photos, etc… >_>
It’s not even an “eye for an eye” since he’s never personally attacked us either…
I would be nice enough to hand him one of those affidavits. And be thinking about someone funny like Jesse Cox the entire time.
Eh, Roissy’s completely average-looking to me. I don’t think he’s ugly, he’s just ordinary.
Until I remember “this is the same guy who advises men to do ‘rape play’ without getting their partner’s consent,” then he’s the ugliest goddamn motherfucker I’ve ever seen.
I can see your point Ozzy, but really if he’s going to sell this toxic shit, I think he should have what it takes to back it up. I’m not expecting the guy to look like Adonis, but he needs an image upgrade.