When is a slut not a slut? When he’s a dude. So says the (He)artist(e) formerly known as Roissy, in yet another post of his trying to prove that his brand of Pick-Up Assholery is fully proven by SCIENCE!
His evidence in this case? A recent study of speed dating that showed that (straight) women, in addition to being attracted to attractive men (duh!), also seem to be attracted to men with high “sociosexuality” ratings. “Sociosexuality,” for those not fully immersed in the SCIENCE!! of dating, is basically someone’s propensity for casual sex.
In other words, the study found that guys who do a lot of casual dating tended to do better at casual dating.
Heartiste/Roissy puts it this way:
Men who have high sociosexuality (HSS) are more attractive to women because the suite of characteristics associated with HSS suggest prior experience bedding women and possession of mating skills that attract women.
It’s akin to a form of preselection for men, minus the actual women he’s banging being physically present at his side to aid in the alpha judging process that all women, consciously or not, impose on their suitors.
In a very loose sense, high male sociosexuality is male sluttiness.
If you strip out the PUA nonsense about the “alpha judging process,” all this seems fairly self-evident, if not simply tautological. Guys who’ve been with a lot of women will probably do better with women in the future than guys with no experience who view women as strange alien creatures. (Note: In all this, we’re only talking about straight people; PUAs don’t seem aware that gay people exist, outside of their own fantasies of hot bi girl threesomes.)
It’s at this point that Heartiste/Roissy amps up the assholery:
Male sluttiness is not equivalent to female sluttiness. It is more difficult for a man to be slutty that it is for a woman owing to the discrepancy in worth between sperm and egg, so people justifiably perceive male sluts to have higher quality mate value, and higher quality mating skills, than female sluts for whom the act of sexual conquest is merely synonym for being easy.
In other words, it’s bad to be a female slut, but great to be a male slut:
[T]he study results confirm the validity of game when its conclusions find that male sociosexuality is a relatively powerful predictor of attractiveness to women, even to women looking for long-term relationships.
Not only can this SCIENCE!! of game help to get dudes laid – it can basically save the world from evil fat chicks.
It’s vital to readers to get this scientific information validating game out there, because there are a lot of doubters and haters who are blinded by what they won’t see. Sometimes, men need to know that there is an experimental foundation supporting all these seduction techniques and peculiarities of female behavior. It’s not necessary to know this stuff to start gaming chicks out in the field right now, but for men with a cynical bent or shy disposition, it helps to know that there are rules that govern human interaction. It may be the boost they need.
Turning former nerds into wily lotharios will help to put those uppity female sluts in their place:
[A] moment of candor. This blog is first and foremost a source of self-amusement, but it is also a true and real desire to teach and to see men succeed sexually and emotionally with women. Men who become better at attracting women increase their options in the mating market. Men with increased options cause women to behave better. Women behaving better redounds to the benefit of families, and to society.
And by “behave better”, I mean the whole panoply of awful modern female behavior: cheating, cock carouseling, divorcing on a whim, eat pray loving, straycationing, spinstering, attention whoring, voting and fattening up into repulsive dirigibles.
Yep, he did slyly insert “voting” into all that. Sneaky!
So slut it up, fellas! It’s the only way to put those evil lady sluts in their place. And, thereby, save the world from sex-having, vote-casting slatterns.
“Actually, what would be really funny if you glared at him and said “I’m Japanese” just for the reaction.”
Ever read Renegade Evolution’s blog? She once had a customer (she’s a sex worker) ask her to do a geisha scene because of some shit about “your people”. She pointed out that since her ancestors are actually Mongolian she would have to ride in on a horse and set their village on fire.
@captainbathrobe:
Thanks. 🙂 I missed you guys too. This place really helped me stay somewhat sane last summer…
@Cassandra:
I know I’m pink and squishy inside. (and technically outside as well )
The sad part is that he dumped me for being trans when I had just opened my mouth to say it wasn’t going to work (b/c of his whole “I’M SO OPPRESSED AS A WHITE GUY” thing) xD (he wasn’t transphobic, he just wanted sex NOW)
Sounds like good riddance, Ami. You deserve better.
@CassandraSays
I have no idea. I remembered the shirt and googled it. On the plus side, we can assume that any woman or girl who sees someone wearing that will walk away.
@Ami Angelwings
I once kicked a guy out of my apartment for yelling at me for not having sex with him because I was having an episode of depression. He claimed I was being unfair. Bullet. Dodged.
nuu! My kirby went away! Damn you angled brackets!
(>^_^)> <(^_^<)
Yeah, anyone who acts entitled to sex should definitely be avoided.
I feel incredibly lucky never to have actually dated one of the “if you don’t give me sex right now you’re so meeeaaaan” guys. I’ve had guys try to manipulate me into specific sex acts, but never the it’s so unfair that you’re not in the mood stuff.
“She pointed out that since her ancestors are actually Mongolian she would have to ride in on a horse and set their village on fire.”
That’s hilarious!
I heard a story online once where someone turned to this Asian woman on the street and said “Ohhh, I’ve got yellow fever!” and she said “Good. Go die from it!”
HellKell, I am not sure what SXSW is, so no not for that. I would like to know what it is though. I am going to be there for Spring Break.
I’m going to work out :3 Take care ppls! 😀
Nice talking to you! 🙂
Bostonian, South by Southwest is two weeks of music, film, and interactive conferences/shows/panels/drunkfests.
I have to do some SWSX for work, but I generally avoid it like plague, because even with a badge, you’re not guaranteed to get in any shows.
Let’s not even talk about what it does to ATX’s already hellacious traffic.
Good night, Ami!
Someone said: My understanding is that most of the food in Africa is grown by women.
MRA responded with my favorite: Because men are too busy fighting and DYING to protect them so they can grow that food.
The men are fighting each other for the food the women grow, which when translated into MRA doublespeak it comes out men protecting women so they can grow food. Awesome.
oof perhaps I should avoid it then, I will have both kids in tow.
Thebewilderness: IT’s also not as if women aren’t dying for the same shit, on both the aggressor and defender sides. Women in africa are frequently armed. That’s why they stopped killing women in witch hunts and started killing kids.
Bostonian, yeah, it’s not the most family-friendly environment, and it’s expensive–even the wristbands are almost 200 bucks.
Yikes @ the price!
Alrighty folks, it’s about bedtime for this marshmallow. Shame Nephrite hasn’t gotten back from his date yet, he would have been fun to toy around with more. Good night, y’all. 🙂
G’night. I have to head out as well.
Wait, he’s against “spinstering” too? Interesting. I can’t imagine why he’d care what happens to women after they’re all dried up and grey (you know, 29 or so).
Speaking of, sort of: somehow my surfing has taken me to this place.
http://stay-at-home-daughters.blogspot.com/2007/11/thoughts-on-college-education-for-women_01.html
Why does the sentence “O Lord!” Pop into my head? Now if these ladies want to rely on their husbands or the charity of kin and community as well as God that’s great! But not all of us have that luxury. Many women must work outside the home for the best pay they can get even with the hubby alive and working. In a small way, I almost wish I had their privilege, to stay at home and not worry so much about the larger details of survival. However, squashing my personality to fit that one dimensional mold of theirs is way too much to pay.
I know, singing to the choir.
Nephrite Yeqon: @Amy Angelwing
You really are that blonde aren’t you? Do you really have no clue how genetics work? Why are men and women so different if genes aren’t being passed down by sex? So now almighty feminist “science” is claiming that men and women are exactly the same? If tall genes are passed down to both how come men are taller than women?
I know I’m late to the smackdown, but you don’t know how genetics work, do you?
How many gene pairs are different in males and females? How many gene pairs do men have that women don’t?
None.
Because the only place in the genetic code where one sex is independent of the other is in the X chromosome. So all of these differences you, and the other ev-psych idjits, believe in, have to be the result of pairings reflected in those two genes.
But even that doesn’t work, because that extra bit has a specific function that kills a lot of things (that’s why calico cats are almost always female).
So… where are these, “lady genes”, which are supposed to be so specific?
Then again…, my little kidney stone, are you someone’s sock-puppet? Is your IP in Boston? At an institute of higher learning?
Kirby: I play go.
One of the nice things about getting an iPad (freak of fate, I found it in a bush), is that there is a decent Go App, so I can play during my commute.
I am, of course, pathetic at the game.