When is a slut not a slut? When he’s a dude. So says the (He)artist(e) formerly known as Roissy, in yet another post of his trying to prove that his brand of Pick-Up Assholery is fully proven by SCIENCE!
His evidence in this case? A recent study of speed dating that showed that (straight) women, in addition to being attracted to attractive men (duh!), also seem to be attracted to men with high “sociosexuality” ratings. “Sociosexuality,” for those not fully immersed in the SCIENCE!! of dating, is basically someone’s propensity for casual sex.
In other words, the study found that guys who do a lot of casual dating tended to do better at casual dating.
Heartiste/Roissy puts it this way:
Men who have high sociosexuality (HSS) are more attractive to women because the suite of characteristics associated with HSS suggest prior experience bedding women and possession of mating skills that attract women.
It’s akin to a form of preselection for men, minus the actual women he’s banging being physically present at his side to aid in the alpha judging process that all women, consciously or not, impose on their suitors.
In a very loose sense, high male sociosexuality is male sluttiness.
If you strip out the PUA nonsense about the “alpha judging process,” all this seems fairly self-evident, if not simply tautological. Guys who’ve been with a lot of women will probably do better with women in the future than guys with no experience who view women as strange alien creatures. (Note: In all this, we’re only talking about straight people; PUAs don’t seem aware that gay people exist, outside of their own fantasies of hot bi girl threesomes.)
It’s at this point that Heartiste/Roissy amps up the assholery:
Male sluttiness is not equivalent to female sluttiness. It is more difficult for a man to be slutty that it is for a woman owing to the discrepancy in worth between sperm and egg, so people justifiably perceive male sluts to have higher quality mate value, and higher quality mating skills, than female sluts for whom the act of sexual conquest is merely synonym for being easy.
In other words, it’s bad to be a female slut, but great to be a male slut:
[T]he study results confirm the validity of game when its conclusions find that male sociosexuality is a relatively powerful predictor of attractiveness to women, even to women looking for long-term relationships.
Not only can this SCIENCE!! of game help to get dudes laid – it can basically save the world from evil fat chicks.
It’s vital to readers to get this scientific information validating game out there, because there are a lot of doubters and haters who are blinded by what they won’t see. Sometimes, men need to know that there is an experimental foundation supporting all these seduction techniques and peculiarities of female behavior. It’s not necessary to know this stuff to start gaming chicks out in the field right now, but for men with a cynical bent or shy disposition, it helps to know that there are rules that govern human interaction. It may be the boost they need.
Turning former nerds into wily lotharios will help to put those uppity female sluts in their place:
[A] moment of candor. This blog is first and foremost a source of self-amusement, but it is also a true and real desire to teach and to see men succeed sexually and emotionally with women. Men who become better at attracting women increase their options in the mating market. Men with increased options cause women to behave better. Women behaving better redounds to the benefit of families, and to society.
And by “behave better”, I mean the whole panoply of awful modern female behavior: cheating, cock carouseling, divorcing on a whim, eat pray loving, straycationing, spinstering, attention whoring, voting and fattening up into repulsive dirigibles.
Yep, he did slyly insert “voting” into all that. Sneaky!
So slut it up, fellas! It’s the only way to put those evil lady sluts in their place. And, thereby, save the world from sex-having, vote-casting slatterns.
I can actually explain the hockey thing but he’d prolly just dismiss it as some conspiracy. Ozy’s whole thing actually applies here. It’s about training and practicing skills. There’s no pro hockey league for women, there aren’t actually anything close to it once you get out of college. While boys and men get constant practice against people of quality skill and strength, the women’s team doesn’t b/c they’re the best in Canada and while girls hockey is increasing in popularity, the number who get to that elite level are really low. Also I doubt that the Canadian women were playing to win. It’s also possible that there was checking during those games, which while women CAN check, they aren’t ALLOWED to by the IOC (and no it’s not feminism’s fault) therefore they might be less used to it.
Either way 2 games is a tiny sample space, and it’s really about practicing against people who are well trained and skilled… it’s not like they had arm wrestling contests… >_>
Also, Molly, did you notice that you’re the FIRST PERSON he’s spelled the name right? o_O
I’m Amy, Cassandra is Casandra, CB is Bathrob, KathleenB is Kathy, Ozymandias, is Ozyman…
he DOES like you Molly! XD
Cassandra: Given the kind of sex they seem to be having a Fleshlight would make a perfectly acceptable substitute on a sensory level if they weren’t so obsessed with using sex to prove dominance over women.
A flehslight is likely to be better. They can give it practical direction, which I can’t see them being able to do with women… that would require communication; which requires seeing women as people.
MRAL gets stuck in situations and just swears… so far Nephrite has managed to turn everything around xD
Ami: It’s not even an “eye for an eye” since he’s never personally attacked us either…
He’s attacked me. It was a response to a comment I left in his blog. He doesn’t know it was me (I used a cloaked e-mail addy).
@Ami:
Dang, and he didn’t even use my name when he responded to me. I want to be Kirbiwall! :3
Agh! I’M A SLUT! I’M A SLUT! I’VE HAD MORE THAN TWO SEX PARTNERS AND I WEIGH 257 POUNDS AND HAVE COLD SORES AGH GET AWAY!
@ Ami
Yeah, the hockey thing is pretty obvious if you understand how athletic training works. It’s also why the majority of elite male players come from traditionally hockey-focused areas. and why it’s more fun to play any sport against people slightly better than you if you’re trying to improve.
Ami: Efas google searched and found Pecunium’s picture and posted it to go “you don’t look tough, so therefore you have no credibility to be talking about strength, survival, etc”
I don’t think he worked that hard. I know where that photo came from, and it’s from my photography blog. And he didn’t know how to use it (to make insults/threats work, they have to be plausible. I know what I look like, and I know how effective/vulnerable I am).
But yes, I think that mocking Roissy for his looks, validates him, and gives ammunition to anti-feminists. It’s not as if we don’t have the tools to take them down when they show up, we ought not give the ammutniion to take away and use elsewhere.
Well that was fun, was just waiting my date to get ready.
Friday night, remember?
Take care losers.
(Don’t worry Kirby baby, I’ll be back)
*clings onto Kirby*
NO! MINE!
Is she still recharging at the power socket from last night?
@ CassandraSays and Ami:
Problem is that he thinks that is incontrovertible proof that men are better than women. In sports. Any talk of the relative privilege men have in having constant competition would be lost on his poor soul.
I thought men were the 99%
How does he have a date? o_O
Doesn’t that make him a traitor too? -_o
Maybe his date is male?
I’ll give Nephrite 5… no… 10 minutes before he’s done with his “date.” 🙂
*falls over due to clinging*
I’m saving my money for this (only two more weeks to go omg!) 😀
He has a date with some online porn. Since he’s posting from his dorm room he can only do it while his roomate is out.
What shall it be, Nephrite? Pistols at ten paces? Fisticuffs? Penile fencing? I’ll have you know I am a world-class penile fencer. You won’t even get near me!
So… how much you wanna bet that his date will take just enough time to eat supper and he’ll be back in about 1-2 hours? xD
Penises at dawn!
@Nephy
Nope. I just want you to put your money where your mouth is. You say men are naturally stronger and smarter. So prove it. Show me you can do all those things. Show me all your male friends can do them too.
I vote for penile fencing! With pictures!
What shall it be, Nephrite? Pistols at ten paces? Fisticuffs? Penile fencing? I’ll have you know I am a world-class penile fencer.
Sorry, I don’t think it’s fair to fight with a sword when you have a dagger.
Let’s hope this woman dodges the bullet and sneaks off at some point.