When is a slut not a slut? When he’s a dude. So says the (He)artist(e) formerly known as Roissy, in yet another post of his trying to prove that his brand of Pick-Up Assholery is fully proven by SCIENCE!
His evidence in this case? A recent study of speed dating that showed that (straight) women, in addition to being attracted to attractive men (duh!), also seem to be attracted to men with high “sociosexuality” ratings. “Sociosexuality,” for those not fully immersed in the SCIENCE!! of dating, is basically someone’s propensity for casual sex.
In other words, the study found that guys who do a lot of casual dating tended to do better at casual dating.
Heartiste/Roissy puts it this way:
Men who have high sociosexuality (HSS) are more attractive to women because the suite of characteristics associated with HSS suggest prior experience bedding women and possession of mating skills that attract women.
It’s akin to a form of preselection for men, minus the actual women he’s banging being physically present at his side to aid in the alpha judging process that all women, consciously or not, impose on their suitors.
In a very loose sense, high male sociosexuality is male sluttiness.
If you strip out the PUA nonsense about the “alpha judging process,” all this seems fairly self-evident, if not simply tautological. Guys who’ve been with a lot of women will probably do better with women in the future than guys with no experience who view women as strange alien creatures. (Note: In all this, we’re only talking about straight people; PUAs don’t seem aware that gay people exist, outside of their own fantasies of hot bi girl threesomes.)
It’s at this point that Heartiste/Roissy amps up the assholery:
Male sluttiness is not equivalent to female sluttiness. It is more difficult for a man to be slutty that it is for a woman owing to the discrepancy in worth between sperm and egg, so people justifiably perceive male sluts to have higher quality mate value, and higher quality mating skills, than female sluts for whom the act of sexual conquest is merely synonym for being easy.
In other words, it’s bad to be a female slut, but great to be a male slut:
[T]he study results confirm the validity of game when its conclusions find that male sociosexuality is a relatively powerful predictor of attractiveness to women, even to women looking for long-term relationships.
Not only can this SCIENCE!! of game help to get dudes laid – it can basically save the world from evil fat chicks.
It’s vital to readers to get this scientific information validating game out there, because there are a lot of doubters and haters who are blinded by what they won’t see. Sometimes, men need to know that there is an experimental foundation supporting all these seduction techniques and peculiarities of female behavior. It’s not necessary to know this stuff to start gaming chicks out in the field right now, but for men with a cynical bent or shy disposition, it helps to know that there are rules that govern human interaction. It may be the boost they need.
Turning former nerds into wily lotharios will help to put those uppity female sluts in their place:
[A] moment of candor. This blog is first and foremost a source of self-amusement, but it is also a true and real desire to teach and to see men succeed sexually and emotionally with women. Men who become better at attracting women increase their options in the mating market. Men with increased options cause women to behave better. Women behaving better redounds to the benefit of families, and to society.
And by “behave better”, I mean the whole panoply of awful modern female behavior: cheating, cock carouseling, divorcing on a whim, eat pray loving, straycationing, spinstering, attention whoring, voting and fattening up into repulsive dirigibles.
Yep, he did slyly insert “voting” into all that. Sneaky!
So slut it up, fellas! It’s the only way to put those evil lady sluts in their place. And, thereby, save the world from sex-having, vote-casting slatterns.
I did read the link. It was about a short women firefighter who was struggling. If the story is true, then she wasn’t fit to be a firefighter and she should be forced to meet the physical requirements or be fired.
Doesn’t mean that there aren’t women who could qualify if they trained for it.
I think it’s actually my Dad’s fault that I’m so short. Him and his damn short genes, corrupting my mother’s pristine daughter-hatching egg.
@Ami
MISANDRY THAT’S WHAT!!!!
not transphobia, or homophobia…nope. It’s not like that makes logical sense or anything
Asshat: You’re not actually gonna provide any backup for your claim that ALL MEN are taller than ALL WOMEN (unless that’s not what you’re claiming, you need to have this shit together BEFORE you post, makes the inevitable ‘citation needed’ so much easier to deal with), are you?
Nephrite, I’m taller than my husband. Which one of us doesn’t exist?
I’m going to ignore the height thing because I get it, men and women are genetically the same. You’re, of course, absolutely right as always my Queen. There’s exactly the same chance of men and women being the same heights, of having a penis or a vagina, of having breasts, of being intelligent. You’re all so right. Let’s pretend statistics doesn’t exist, or that men aren’t taller than women. One person claims to be 6 feet tall, that means there’s the same distribution of men and women at all heights.
Right.
Are we done pretending that you haven’t lost the genetic argument yet?
Can we move on to the lies that Mantard Futrelle is telling about the MRM and that we’re anywhere similar to the PUAs?
Or do you want to continue blathering on about some stupid girl show and pretending that I’m saying something I’m not?
Asshat: You’re not actually gonna provide any backup for your claim that ALL MEN are taller than ALL WOMEN
Where did I say that?
I think that Nephrite Yeqon is AlekNovy or one of his supporters. He talks like an MGTOW.
I did read the link. It was about a short women firefighter who was struggling. If the story is true, then she wasn’t fit to be a firefighter and she should be forced to meet the physical requirements or be fired.
Are you going to lobby that she be fired? Where are the protests outside fire houses by feminists to fire inadequate women?
You can claim whatever you like. Actions speak louder than words.
That link from AVfM was about as believable as a Daily Fail story. I’m sooooo sure that one of their resident misogynist women just happened to see all of this. Of course.
MRAL, is that you?
@niceguy
Is there anybody you don’t suspect I am? Is feminism that backed into a corner you now have to claim your enemies aren’t legion?
He wants us to take him seriously again, which we weren’t doing to his non sock puppet.
You’re as terrible at this as you are at everything else you do, MRAL.
“Where did I say that?”
You said that when you refused to acknowledge that some women are taller then men. You also called people on this site liars when they claimed to be 6 foot tall.
Nah, Alek has a quite distinctive writing style, and no sense of shame about his association with unsavory people. I don’t think this is him.
Even if it’s not MRAL, the suck is strong with this one.
Wait… hold up… Feminism’s enemies are legion? All 100 of them? Damn…
That link from AVfM was about as believable as a Daily Fail story. I’m sooooo sure that one of their resident misogynist women just happened to see all of this. Of course.
http://traitorsofmen.blogspot.com/2012/01/manboobz-minions-caught-attacking-male.html
Surprise surprise, just like you did with another MRA here, your response to being unable to refute something is to call them a liar. Is there anybody you don’t hate?
You said that when you refused to acknowledge that some women are taller then men. You also called people on this site liars when they claimed to be 6 foot tall.
Where did I refuse to acknowledge? Point me to specifically where I said no woman could be taller than any man.
Brazil is run by feminists and that why the men appear shorter in the stats AND real life?
FUNNIEST THING READ TODAY!
*next to Scars cartoon
Tell me? Can you hear mt derisive laughter were you are?
Well, yeah, Nephrite… no one can really predict what sex someone will be before they are conceived… or how tall they’ll be… or where they’ll be on the IQ scale. You can *guess*, by looking at the rest of their family, but that’s hardly foolproof.
And that last one, “intelligence”… Are you going to argue that men are just naturally smarter than women now?
Are you going to lobby that she be fired? Where are the protests outside fire houses by feminists to fire inadequate women?
Nowhere, because we’re not–what’s the word?–“assholes.”
Hey jackass…I just agreed that generally men are taller than women.
Now answer my next fucking question. WHY DOES IT MATTER?? How does it benefit men? is it because it means you’re physically stronger too and can work dangerous, strenuous jobs and possible be injured or die? I thought you didn’t want that?
“And that last one, “intelligence”… Are you going to argue that men are just naturally smarter than women now?”
Oh please let him try to argue that. Popcorn, anyone?
OKAY LET’S START AGAIN CLASS
Amy Angelwing claimed that men and women do not have different genetics and therefore that men and women should have access to the same genes.
I pointed out that if that were true men shouldn’t be taller than women.
Kathy started talking about being 6 feet tall for reasons only her insecurities can know.
Other people started to call me MRAL (whoever that is) and claim I was “obsessed” despite Kathy having mentioned that she’s 6 feet tall multiple times.
Nobody has addressed how if what Amy Angelwing said is true, then why is there not an equal distribution of men and women at every height? How come men have penises and women have vaginas? How come men are bigger and stronger and faster than women? If we all have equal access to genes, and genetics works as Amy thinks it does, how come men and women aren’t the same?