A startling new development on the frontiers of anti-male oppression. According to the loquacious lady MRA known as girlwriteswhat on Reddit, men are being oppressed by evil feminist dudes cruelly clamping down on their right to bitch about ladies in the bathroom. In a recent comment she writes:
No space is allowed to be male-only, or male-viewpoint-only, but women insist on female-only or female-viewpoint-only spaces all the time.
The only male safe space left on the planet is the men’s bathroom, ffs. And even then, there will be feminist-leaning men policing what is said. It’s very frustrating.
As a dude feminist who is a regular user of men’s restrooms, I should note that dudes do not actually talk in restrooms.
Happily, this does not prevent me, as a dude feminist, from policing the non-existent speech of other dudes in said restrooms.
Here is the complete transcript of a restroom discussion I recently policed:
Dude One: [silently urinates]
Dude Two: [silently urinates]
Dude Three: [silently poops]
Me: Goddessdamnit, keep it down with all your lady-bashing! Men are bad!
Always glad to help.
HT to Shit Reddit Says, which has just ended its month-long moratorium on r/mensrights posts, for pointing me to girlwriteswhat’s observation.
[silently poops]
I’m jealous of Dude 3’s skills.
I’m wondering how many people converse in bathrooms in general. I’m guessing it mostly happens on TV and in movies.
Bathrooms full of strangers in public, yeah.
On a university campus,though, when friends leave a class and go to the bathroom together, there is talk!
ANd sometimes that talk is about the ladyprof who happens to be caught in the stall (or about her colleagues; I restrict the impulse to say, hey, check the stalls before complaining people)…..I assume same thing happens in men’s rooms, in between all the feminist men bashing other men, but I do not know through direct experience.
I’m wondering how much time she’s spending in the men’s room.
If I don’t have the ability to silence all dissent, I have no rights. Now, anyone who disagrees with me on anything, be quiet! XD
Most of my time is spent in men’s restrooms policing the speech of other men. Well, that and the glory hole.
The only “policing the speech of men” I can see going on the men’s room is washing off graffiti.
Or maybe crossing it out.
That’s not true. No mainstream Grand Lodge will acknowledge a Freemason lodge that allows women to be members. I know that MRA trolls claim that the Order of the Eastern Star is the same thing as a Masonic Lodge, but that’s not true. Women also are not allowed to join the Knights of Columbus, and again the ladies’ auxiliaries are not the same things. Finally, women are not allowed to become Catholic priests. There are plenty of spaces for men only besides men’s restrooms.
And she knows what dudes talk about in the bathroom how?
I talk to friends through the bathroom cubicle walls as we’re both going, but only those who I know are okay with it. Some people find it creepy, and I get that. We warn each other when foul smells are on the way, too.
There’s also golf at the Augusta National Golf Club. Women can’t go there either.
Exactly, Nobinayamu & Lady Zombie, how does she know this? Oh, pulling it out her ass, most likely while in the ladies’ room.
Well, since the rest of the world is still a safe space for most men, excuse me while I give this the consideration it deserves.
When will women like girlwriteswhat realize that sexists and MRAs really DON’T like the only girl in the treehouse?
@Hellkell:”When will women like girlwriteswhat realize that sexists and MRAs really DON’T like the only girl in the treehouse?”
Price wrote a Spearhead piece promoting her videos last week. Some of the comments were supportive, saying that it was important to have female allies in the MRM, others expressed skepticism that a woman could be trusted at all
http://www.the-spearhead.com/2012/01/18/women-weigh-in-on-mens-issues/
Opus: “What Man would make an MRM video dressed in a Low-Cut Top and wearing Lipstick and Mascara? (31 up, 14 down)
Rebel:
A woman within the MRM? NO GOOD! And I’ll tell you why: she only has to say nice words, the words we want to hear and… bingo!, she is in control! .. and the shepherd can bring the sheeps safely home…right? She can bring food on the table for the ladies”
(33 upvotes, 13 down)
I also want to mention Cuts Fitness for Men, before some MRA’s start whining about Curves. It’s a gym for men only. There are gender neutral gyms, too, for people that don’t want a gender segregated fitness center.
@ hellkell I admit that has always made me curious. Are the women who try to buddy up to the MRAs aware that they’re not really wanted on MRA blogs and websites? Well, except maybe as a virtual punching bag?
The women who post on the Spearhead are told really viscous things and if one of them complains about being called a cunt repeatedly, the others rush in to shush her. “You have to understand, dear. They’re angry.”
I’m curious as to what they’re saying that compels people to speak up. Since the world isn’t exactly a fabulous hairy-pitted feminist Wymin’s World gyntopia I’m guessing you’d have to be saying something pretty gross to get called out publicly.
This is the first time I’ve read an MRA comment that’s supposed to be from a female commenter and never doubted that it was.
Women who kiss up to MRA types are just like all other misogynist women: they’re so goddamn desperate for male attention and validation, they’re willing to do anything–including trashing their own gender–to get it. Unfortunately there will always be women out there who swoon when they hear “You’re not like those other women…”
Being a novelty is fun and validating…if you’re into that sort of thing.
Do people actually talk in toilets? Even female toilets (in contrast to the stereotype)? The only things I’ve ever heard in the toilets are “That one’s out of bog roll”, “Sorry!” or “You go first, I’m not desperate.”
… Unless these guys are organising meetups in public loos? O.o
Can’t they make some sort of adorable ramshackle clubhouse? And I demand that they all sport freckles and cowlicks.
Oh look, massive downvotes on the ShitRedditsays page. Something tells me the MRM has been there.
“Policing” = “failing to fawningly agree with.”
If a safe space is one in which everyone agrees with everything I say, then I’ve never been in a safe space and I wouldn’t want to be.
It’s totally true. My magina friends march into those bathrooms and slam the heads of any others bitching about ladies into the wall.
There are no male viewpoint-only spaces? I take it she’s never heard of a men’s club. Or a hell of a lot of Grand Lodges in Freemasonry.
I went to a college where the majority of students were women, but we only had one all-women’s dorm. At the end of every semester, we would receieve a bill for list of times when people had broken a window or scribbled graffiti on the wall (as drunken college kids are wont to do) that all the students in that dorm had to chip in and pay. And every year, the list looked like this:
Dorm A $15.00
Dorm B $10.00
Dorm C-E $8.00
Women’s dorm: $0.00