Today in Did That Really Get 196 Upvotes on Reddit: A Redditor claiming to be the owner of a brothel in Thailand explains how what he euphemistically calls the “problems in the sex industry” are mostly the fault of evil, lazy whores. Literally.
Let’s join the discussion already in progress. (ChaChaKrahp is the alleged brothel owner.)
A little further on in the discussion he makes this charming claim:
According to him, sex trafficking isn’t really a big issue, but when it does occur it “is more likely to victimize men” than women. (The main victims in his mind being trafficked men (by which I assume he means transwomen) … and male sex tourists.)
Those poor, poor Western sex tourists, suffering so at the hands of women and girls who’ve been kidnapped and sold into sex slavery!
But let’s just put this whole “trafficking” thing out of our heads. As ChaChaKrahp explains it, prostitution in Thailand is just a way for lazy ladies to make money. It’s totally on the up and up – “[j]ust like college girls in the US that work as strippers for $300 per night instead of picking strawberries for $50 per day.”
The only real problem is all those evil ladies ripping off dudes.
Did that last bit sound a little … MRAish to you?
Though this discussion isn’t in the Men’s Rights subreddit., ChaChaKrahp shares a lot of opinions and obsessions with the MRA crowd, peppering the discussion with MRA talking points on everything from dangerous jobs and breast cancer funding to false rape accusations and paternity fraud. While he claims not to “give a shit about MRA groups,” he links to prominent Father’s Rights site fathersandfamilies.com, and rails endlessly about the evils of feminism. He walks like a duck and quacks like a duck.
While ChaChaKrahp seems quite sincere in his beliefs, this is the Internet, and so there’s a chance that this “brothel owner” is not actually a brothel owner at all, just some dude making this all up for Reddit karma points and lulz.
Even if that’s the case, we still have all those hundreds of Redditors who read his comments and happily upvoted them, either because they thought what he said was sensible or true, or because the thought of owning a brothel in Thailand gave them boners.
The question remains: does Reddit attract the worst representatives of those in its heavily young, male, geek demographic, or is this how most of these (mostly) guys really think — even if they don’t usually say so out loud?
(Thanks to ShitRedditSays for pointing me to this lovely thread.)
EDITED TO ADD: Brothel Owner under attack (by a few people)! Send in the r/mensrights upvote brigade to upvote him even more than he’s already being upvoted!!!
@Cassandra
One of my fave J-rock songs 🙂
Actually, on the JPop front (sorry Shadow), since this is an anti-misogyny blog I have to post this one. How can you not love a sexy alterna guy whose first single was called Girls Be Ambitious?
(And on the annoying MRAL front – see how pretty he is? Those tattoos are fucking awesome in real life.)
Most of this shit is crap. Listen to some real music, like the stuff I posted, the work of actual artists.
Does anyone know the Black Keys song Never Gonna Give You Up? Is it supposed to be horrible? The first verse is
Never gonna give you up
No matter how you treat me
Never gonna give you up
So don’t you think of leaving
I mean, no one could possibly think that was ok, right? It’s like Sex Type Thing, it’s written to expose a particularly toxic viewpoint, right?
You mean like your asinine “A Voice for Men” song?
I’m actually not sure where they were going with that (Black Keys), could be either very clever or totally clueless.
@burgundy
something nice to look at before falling asleep xD
I love my randomizer. (Because as a feminist I want to destroy all men, naturally)
I don’t know if they’re making a point or not, but either way, probably not right for your purposes XD.
and my favorite robot musicians…
Look, feminists! In a band! And they’re not singing about hating men!
Sorry MRAL, I forgot that the purpose of music is to make yourself feel better than other people. 😛
At least one person didn’t figure out that American Woman wasn’t pro-American:
i actually see it a lot where (white, hetero) men are totally good and understanding of other groups issues but very hostile towards women and women’s issues. i think it’s pretty simple that it’s cause women have more power to hurt THEIR feelings personally and it’s easier to take it out on all women. it’s among the reasons feminism and gender issues will always be different than certain other issues, we live under the same roofs and such.
It’s like the mp3 player knows that there’s a pretentious asshole in the virtual room…
@Viscaria, oh I know. 😀 I was more wondering if it belonged in the “creepy-ass song” category with Every Breath You Take.
I am, however, using Tighten Up.
Oh gosh if we’re doing MUPPETS:
By the way, is it weird that most of my music knowledge is about stuff that was written before there was a me?
http://www.youtube.com/verify_age?next_url=/watch%3Ffeature%3Dplayer_embedded%26v%3DcuwoUM4oYe0#at=15
@CassandraSays
The thing is, I don’t speak japanese or cantonese (or any other east asian language for that matter) so my appreciation of the scene is very shallow as it is. Combine that with a general preference for chest thumping music and you can see why we are not a match made in heaven loll
@MRAL
While I got love for Thom Yorke, I have a feeling that hearing him try to do what the artists that people have been posting do would be painful, to say the least
@Viscaria
As a huge Marvin Gaye and Bob Marley fan, I stand before you to tell you that you are not alone
*salutes his fellow soldier*
these gals would give Meller a heart attack lol
On the one hand, we have pandering fluff that takes no effort to discern and understand. On the other (mine) we have thought-provoking classical or neoclassical art that takes a sophisticated mind. I know which one I’m going for.
Viscaria: Not at all. Most music was written before there was a you, so most of the good music probably was, too.