Today in Did That Really Get 196 Upvotes on Reddit: A Redditor claiming to be the owner of a brothel in Thailand explains how what he euphemistically calls the “problems in the sex industry” are mostly the fault of evil, lazy whores. Literally.
Let’s join the discussion already in progress. (ChaChaKrahp is the alleged brothel owner.)
A little further on in the discussion he makes this charming claim:
According to him, sex trafficking isn’t really a big issue, but when it does occur it “is more likely to victimize men” than women. (The main victims in his mind being trafficked men (by which I assume he means transwomen) … and male sex tourists.)
Those poor, poor Western sex tourists, suffering so at the hands of women and girls who’ve been kidnapped and sold into sex slavery!
But let’s just put this whole “trafficking” thing out of our heads. As ChaChaKrahp explains it, prostitution in Thailand is just a way for lazy ladies to make money. It’s totally on the up and up – “[j]ust like college girls in the US that work as strippers for $300 per night instead of picking strawberries for $50 per day.”
The only real problem is all those evil ladies ripping off dudes.
Did that last bit sound a little … MRAish to you?
Though this discussion isn’t in the Men’s Rights subreddit., ChaChaKrahp shares a lot of opinions and obsessions with the MRA crowd, peppering the discussion with MRA talking points on everything from dangerous jobs and breast cancer funding to false rape accusations and paternity fraud. While he claims not to “give a shit about MRA groups,” he links to prominent Father’s Rights site fathersandfamilies.com, and rails endlessly about the evils of feminism. He walks like a duck and quacks like a duck.
While ChaChaKrahp seems quite sincere in his beliefs, this is the Internet, and so there’s a chance that this “brothel owner” is not actually a brothel owner at all, just some dude making this all up for Reddit karma points and lulz.
Even if that’s the case, we still have all those hundreds of Redditors who read his comments and happily upvoted them, either because they thought what he said was sensible or true, or because the thought of owning a brothel in Thailand gave them boners.
The question remains: does Reddit attract the worst representatives of those in its heavily young, male, geek demographic, or is this how most of these (mostly) guys really think — even if they don’t usually say so out loud?
(Thanks to ShitRedditSays for pointing me to this lovely thread.)
EDITED TO ADD: Brothel Owner under attack (by a few people)! Send in the r/mensrights upvote brigade to upvote him even more than he’s already being upvoted!!!
My other complication on the mix CD is that I am incredibly picky about these things, because the songs have to resonate somehow with the way I feel about the person (which is another reason I can’t reuse songs from someone else’s CD. Hell, my girlfriend and I broke up before I finished the latest one for her, and I still don’t feel like I can use those songs, because those are her songs.) I am a huge Cure fan and have been for 20 years but I just don’t think any of their stuff quite works with this guy.
That PM Dawn song may be quite promising, though. I need to listen to the sample a couple more times. Thanks!
Burgundy, maybe Queen, “you’re my best friend.”
Or this song by the Kinks:
The gender’s wrong, but who cares?
Lauralot: That’s my favorite TMBG song!
No One Knows My Plan, that is.
The Maccabeats version of Bad Day, from the album Voices from the Heights
Arguably a bit codependent, but still a great song. (And the only band I’ve ever worked with that made me feel a little starstruck…couldn’t help it, I’ve loved them since I was a teenager.)
ChaChaKrahp…
Another MRA with an anal/scatological username. Why am I not surprised.
@Katz: My favorite TMBG song is tied between “No One Knows My Plan” and “Where Your Eyes Don’t Go.” “Four of Two” is also high on my list.
@Bostonian
I haven’t heard a single song of theirs but they’re locked in hip hop history after that KRS confrontation.
Currently listening to some Aussie hip hop. Them boys don’t play!
At this rate, the card will have to say “Happy birthday from [burgundy] and all the folks at Man Boobz.” You guys rock.
burgundy – The Compromise by the Format is a relationshipy song for me, but I’m not much of a music junkie or know your tastes/relationship.
the video is origami awesome
@Shadow
re:Aus-hop, which group? Only people from around here I can really get into are TZU and a local group called Free Agent Crew.
Arguably, Regurgitator and Butterfingers have had their moments in the genre, but Butterfingers are more jokey and Regurgitator more a genre-hopping rock group.
And then of course there inevitably comes the breakup song.
How about Love You Madly? I also like that the music video is a complete non sequitur.
@lowquack: “A quick question: what exactly Paul Elam got against Australia? Even for him, he extraordinarly little actual content or reasoning behind why he thinks it’s some hellhole run by Evil Feminists”
Some of the leaders of that Radfem site had a conference in Sydney recently. I think that’s part of it.
Or it could be, as David suggested, because of feminist koalas.
Honestly, any time an MRA tells me how such and such place is ruled by horribly-oppressive feminist regime, it only makes me want to travel there even more.
No Air (duet with Chris Brown), Jordin Sparks
Apparently it’s old favorite bands from my teens night.
@lowquacks
I forgot you’re from Aus! I’m listening to Pez’s A mind of my own right now, it’s tied for favorite Aussie album with Illy’s Long Story Short. I don’t really follow the Aussie scene per se, I just happen to hear of a dope album once in a while. I haven’t checked out Tzu, but I’ve heeard good things about them.
This track always puts a smile on my face. The perfect smoking track too.
I think it was a hit out there innit?