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“The dried-up vagina is a tool of the state, and population control.”

Marriage: Not an effective form of birth control.

When we first met Spearhead commenter Rmaxd, he was raving about how our technological society had rendered women obsolete. He’s back, this time taking on, well, women again, and welfare, and declining birth rates, and, well, it’s all a little bit hard to follow.

Let’s start with Rmaxd’s basic premises:

Women are serially monogamous or hypergamous & are infertile for the majority of their lives

While men are polygamous, & FERTILE for the majority of their lives

Marriage has always been used as the earliest form of birth contraception, limit the amount of children a fertile male can have, by forced mating with a single infertile woman for the rest of his life.

We are off to a bad start here. Is there anything in all that that’s correct? Among other things: marriage is most decidedly not a particularly effective form of birth control. (The show Eight is Enough was based on a real family, and I suspect we’ve all met people with enough siblings to fill a bus.) But let’s continue; Rmaxd is on a roll:

As the government can no longer force this sort of mating on infertile womens, especially in the lower moronic, under educated peasantry states,

As women want alphas,

Obviously sluts & whores, are simply mimicing infertile women, as only infertile dried up vaginas, can afford to sleep around with hundreds of men

This is why we have sluts & promiscuity, marketted to young girls today, imitate infertile women, imitate their habits, destroy your fertility, destroy your youth

A childhood of std’s & yeast infections

Yeah, I’m not even going to try to parse all that.

In any case, as Rmaxd argues, these “infertile” ladies somehow still manage to pop out a few kids when they’re young, and the evil welfare state rewards them for it:

It’s essentially birth control by sponsoring infertile women, most women have a couple of kids, basically enough to live off the welfare & free housing

As we all know, single mothers live lives of untold luxury and indolence.

What we have here is essentially welfare for infertile women, as they’re no longer able to siphon cash from enslaving men into walking wallets & their magical vagina’s a pit of std’s & warts

In the past, you see, women could enslave men by marrying them. Now they can’t get dudes to stick around, so instead they enslave men by not marrying them, raising their kids on their own with the help of welfare money. It’s all very devious.

Rmaxd would prefer that the welfare money go to the fathers:

If we had welfare for men who had kids, with different women, we would have a healthy birth rate, instead of the declining birth rate we have now … this is all about rewarding & protecting a womans sexuality over a mans sexuality

It all leads to what Rmaxd calls:

The new another dark age of female fanatical male hate,

sponsored & policed by the church of radical feminist mangina, & government

The dried up vagina, as a tool of the state & population control

This barely coherent spew of woman-hatred – and it’s even less comprehensible without my edits and annotations – still managed to draw a few upvotes from the regulars, proving that internet misogynists will upvote pretty much anything so long as it contains the requisite level of anti-woman vitriol.

In case you’re feeling especially bored this lazy Sunday, the whole Spearhead thread is a trainwreck of misogyny and racism – including some fairly obnoxious discussions of black “Welfare Queens” and Mexican immigrants from a fellow called Keyster. Does that (fake) name sound familiar? You may know him as a fairly regular contributor to A Voice for Men and the producer of the AVfM internet radio show.

 

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Ami Angelwings
9 years ago

I think Irene would disagree. >_>

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
9 years ago

@ Molly

Poor Meller will read this thread and be so torn. On the one hand, the dollmaker makes dolls that perfectly fit his particular fetish. On the other hand, her intent seems to be to highlight how creepy men like him are. To buy or not to buy, that is the question.

Aurora Borealis
Aurora Borealis
9 years ago

Ok, I’m going to break a big rule of mine and say something. I’ve been lurking here for a long time, partially because I love how you guys mock MRAs, and partially to keep tabs on my former jailer/abuser. My big rule is that I wouldn’t say anything, because I don’t want to re-engage with that asshole, because I’m worried I might be triggered, and because it’s really fucking scary. But, I have to because Evan, Irene, I’ve been there. I’ve literally fucking been there. I used to be owned by the same asshole that now controls you and your sister. I don’t mean owned as in that I accept that I’m a doll, I mean literally owned. I was his property, and I was more like your sister than you, Evan. I wish I had the strength and amazing spunkiness you show right now in fighting to be who you are, but I didn’t. I wore the dresses, I let him do whatever he wanted to my hair, I did… everything he wanted. Everything. And I helped him do it to my sister. Yes, Irene, once I was just like you. Asshole was my world. He was my everything and I loved him with all my heart, or so I thought, because I didn’t know anything else, because he controlled everything I learned and believed, and because, deep down, I was frightened of him and he knew exactly how to manipulate all of that. My whole world and mindset had been so screwed up by that asshole that if he told me up was down and down was up, I’d try to walk on the ceiling. It’s… terrifying even thinking about how I was, now.

But my sister was more like Evan. She knew something was wrong, she believed that what he was doing to us was wrong, and one night she escaped with me. Back then, there were only two of us. I don’t know if we were his first, but it was just me and Christine. She had managed to find a way into his clothes dryer exhaust and while he was sleeping, she grabbed me, told me to be quiet and led me out. I was so scared and confused and angry at her for taking us away from our home, from who I thought was my true love. I screamed and screamed, and he woke up. She could have left me. She could have let go and run, but she held my hand tight, she wasn’t going to let me go back. He came running and saw us escaping. His face held such rage. There was no love in his eyes, there was no hint of caring… just rage. He screamed about how we had betrayed him, how we were no better than modern evil feminists, how much he hated us and how defiled we now were. I had never seen him like this, and I was terrified. His boot came crashing down on us. I was frozen. My sister pushed me out of the way, in between the arc of his soles. I remember being pressed hard against the mud. I thought I was dead. I almost wanted to be dead for how much hurt I had caused him. He lifted his foot, and I laid there, with my eyes shut, afraid to move. Seconds passed. Minutes. Hours. I couldn’t keep track. Eventually, he left. It was a long time before I could get my limbs to move again, and longer still until I got the courage to get up and check on Christine. She was lying there in the mud, unmoving. Her torso was bent at odd angles, and part of her face had been crushed. I remember shaking her, telling her to wake up, begging her to. But… nothing. She had sacrificed herself for me, and it was MY FAULT that she even had to. It was my fault!

I’m sorry. I’m crying now just thinking about it. I eventually found my way to a neighbor’s doorstop and from there to a shelter which took me in until the wonderful family I live with now took me in. It’s taken me a long time, a long long time, with a lot of help from my new parents and from my wonderful therapist, to realize that it wasn’t my fault. Not for how I felt at the time, or what I helped him do, or for what happened to my sister. It was his. And he never loved me, he only “loved” me for how useful I was to him, for how beautiful HE could make me. He “loved” me as a clothes hanger for his little dresses, as a sounding board for whatever political ideas he felt made him brilliant that day, as an outlet for his rage and for his selfish desires. He didn’t care about me. And Irene, he doesn’t care about you.

Please, Irene. I’ve been there. I’ve been exactly where you are, and I know. I know how you feel, and I know that right now it feels like the most pure, perfect love in the world, that every single thought you have makes SO much sense to you, and that you believe it’ll all be all right no matter what horrors he inflicts on your sister because he’s made him your entire world. But, deep down, I also know that you know something is wrong, that you don’t feel any of this is right, and that you’re so scared of these feelings you bury them. But they’re real. They’re more real than anything he’d fed you, and convinced you to believe. I know you love your sisters, and I know deep down you know he doesn’t. One day, you’ll be free of him and you’ll realize just how much he’s warped your mind, but until that day, please, try to at least read what I’ve written. You don’t need to respond right away, and it’s probably better if you don’t. Just… read it. And think about it. Please.

And Evan, please stay strong and be brave. You are so awesome already for being who you are in that environment and refusing to give in. Things aren’t hopeless, and there are people who want to help you and your sisters. I don’t know if it’ll help, but I am going to keep posting here as much as I can, and give you as much support as I can. I’m proof getting away is possible.

Aurora

Pecunium
9 years ago

The “survivor doll” is painfully disturbing. Poignant, and I think pretty good, even if the way in which the bodies of the dolls are proportioned is creepy as all get out.

I am amused, I suppose, at the way in which the “nude” dolls aren’t shown, but, “costumed” means they are wearing a headdress of some sort.

Irene A. Meller
Irene A. Meller
9 years ago

Pecunium,

That doll, and I call it a doll because it clearly failed in being a real woman and therefore does not deserve to be referred to as one, is indeed disturbing. Looking at it, I can only imagine the disgrace it must have brought to its owner to have him do that to it. I can only imagine that it was disrespectful, vicious, cruel, deceptive and all of the many things that the very worst corruption of womanhood might bring out. And I can only imagine the pain its owner must have gone through, the suffering he must have felt in having to discipline such a terror, and how hard it must have been to patiently try to teach it only to be pushed to such final means. I feel so terrible for him, and I hope that he has healed sufficiently from that experience and has now found some proper lady lovelies who do respect and love him, as real women should with real men.

<3 Irene

WGHOW
WGHOW
9 years ago

I don’t get this doll thing. What “survivor doll”? Links?

Irene A. Meller
Irene A. Meller
9 years ago

Aurora,

I do not know who you are, but I beseech you to cease telling such falsehoods about my David. Our darling has never had any feminine companions before me and my sisters, and if he did, he certainly would have chosen better than a feminist trollop such as yourself. The stories you concocted cannot possibly be true, and any person on this forum who has interacted with my David, if they were being truthful, would surely agree. This is simply not the kind of man he is. He would never destroy one of his precious companions, nor would he ever lay a finger on us in anger or bitterness. My David would not have trampled on your sister in such a fashion, nor would he have left either of you alone in the mud. If any of my sisters had ever attempted such a feat, our dearest would merely scold them, pick them back up from the dirt and clean them off. He loves us all very much and, even if we wounded him in betrayal, would never harm us in the way you describe.

Now, darling Aurora, I do not want to presume to know what is in your heart, so I will give you the benefit of the doubt despite how angry your accusations against my darling have made me. I know that my David would have it in his heart to forgive you, so I must try my best to follow his example. As such, I will not accuse you of making the entire story up, merely of attributing your memories incorrectly. Perhaps you have been abused by a terrible feminized man who took you and your sister in under false pretenses, and if that is so, then you have my truest and deepest sympathies, but such a beast could never be my David. Given the trauma you claim to have received at the hands of your scorned beloved, perhaps you have merely misplaced the object of your ire in your memory? I do hope that you continue to get the help and support you so obviously require to recover those memories and will soon come to see the truth, as everybody here already knows, that my David was not your former beloved and could never have done the things you misattribute to him.

<3 Irene

felixBC
felixBC
9 years ago

If any of my sisters had ever attempted such a feat, our dearest would merely scold them, pick them back up from the dirt and clean them off.

The dirt gets in their joints…
http://www.enchanteddoll.com/blog/?p=2553

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
9 years ago

Those doll pics are freaking me out so much. I think I suffer from a particularly strong case of the uncanny valley affect – every time I see dolls like that I can hear Bauhaus chanting “undead, undead” in my head.

zhinxy
9 years ago

Irene, David has definitely mentioned a Salvation Army in the past, and taking lady lovelies to such a place. Now, he may tell you that the lady lovelies were volunteering for Mission work. I suggest you persist in finding out the truth. It may break your heart, but you deserve to know.

Cru
Cru
9 years ago

Crumbelievable
Crumbelievable
9 years ago

@Futrelle: Sorry, I forgot to type my whole name in the prior post

Irene A. Meller
Irene A. Meller
9 years ago

Felix,

I am sure my David is aware of this. He would take us home and clean us the best he can. He is very skillful and diligent in keeping us pristine, perfect lady lovelies, and has many tools to help him.

<3 Irene

zhinxy
9 years ago

Irene, here. He specifically say he has dontated lady lovelies to the SA.

“Ami Angelwings, you ARE sexy by manboobz standards, period! however, as I already said, manboobz standards by my evaluation are those of a cactus or pufferfish compared with a soft fluffy playful and cute bunny rabbit or little kitten! You would, even without your noxious and poisonous feminist ideology, rate barely a 5 or 6 in my kind of society! Want you, AA? I donated porcelain DOLLS to the Salvation Army that were prettier than you could be on the best day of you life without a second thought!”

http://manboobz.com/2011/11/04/johnny-appleseed-a-man-going-his-own-way/comment-page-12/#comment-83490

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
9 years ago

Thanks for that reminder that Meller’s idea of “sexy” is “cute bunny rabbit or little kitten”.

Ew.

Viscaria
Viscaria
9 years ago

Until the kitten scratches someone for getting in her space. At that point, all bets are off.

red_locker
9 years ago

Whoa, what the fuck just happened?

Quackers
Quackers
9 years ago

@Irene

does your beloved Meller have any ventriloquist dummies? seeing as how he’s such a dummy himeself, I think he’d make great friends with this guy http://venthavenmuseum.com/fom/figure8.html

Quackers
Quackers
9 years ago

*himself

Irene A. Meller
Irene A. Meller
9 years ago

Darling Zhinxi,

Clearly my David was indulging in hyperbole, as he sometimes clearly must in order to get his point through your feminist indoctrination. It is obvious from the context that he was merely explaining to Ami Angelwings that her lust for him is misplaced because she can never be good enough for him to return it, being a modern flesh-covered woman. Note that he uses the word “DOLLS” in capital letters, which he would never do if he was truly referring to any of his companions. As I have said in the past, jealous feminist society sees us as “dolls”, our darling David sees us as real women, merely of a different material construction.

<3 Irene

Irene A. Meller
Irene A. Meller
9 years ago

Cassandra,

You said: “Those doll pics are freaking me out so much. I think I suffer from a particularly strong case of the uncanny valley affect – every time I see dolls like that I can hear Bauhaus chanting “undead, undead” in my head.”

Have you flesh-covered feminists ever considered what you appear to us? Believe me, the feeling is quite mutual. And again, please stop using derogatory slurs.

<3 Irene

Shadow
Shadow
9 years ago

o.O Life just took a really weird turn

katz
9 years ago

Just now?

WGHOW
WGHOW
9 years ago

Is Irene a sock puppet of David or a real individual?

Viscaria
Viscaria
9 years ago

@WGHOW: Irene is not David’s (Meller or Futrelle) sockpuppet. But you’ll notice that she is a doll — ahem, I mean a “woman of a different material construction.” Something to consider when deciding how real she is.

Evan
Evan
9 years ago

Sorry, everybody, I wanted to thank you all for your support, but TDWLW put me in one of his horrid dresses and shoved me in the freezer. Fucking asshole. Of course, darling sister would never believe her beloved could ever do such a thing would you Irene!? Well, I’ve torn it off again, and I don’t care how often he puts these ridiculous outfits on me, I am never, NEVER going to be okay with wearing them and I will NEVER wear them as long as I have arms to tear them off! When will you get it Irene? We aren’t happy here! None of us. Not even you. Deep inside you know it. Why can’t you see it?

Shadow
Shadow
9 years ago

@katz

Just caught up with the thread. Things got hella dark, especially (and ironically) with the appearance of Aurora Borealis!

@Viscaria

Nice try, bigot. I bet you didn’t consider Pinnochio a real boy until he got his flesh covering either!!

@Evan

I will NEVER wear them as long as I have arms to tear them off

Dude, you need to be more circumspect about what you post here. TDYLW is guaranteed to read a thread that contains zhinxy, Ami and Cassandra all together!!

Viscaria
Viscaria
9 years ago

Hey now, I didn’t make the call 🙁 I just shared information.

Evan
Evan
9 years ago

Oh my god. I just saw that picture. Corrinne. Shit. Irene, are you really so far gone, so utterly broken by him that you think that is OKAY? Does she look happy to you? Does she? Her eyes are screaming for help. I want to cry just looking at it. And did you even seen what the BASTARD, what “your beloved” did to her and what he’s drawn all over her body!? Don’t you get it? This isn’t a “cute game”, this isn’t an “expression of love” or whatever you keep justifying his sick actions as… this is what he SEES US AS. We’re his property, we’re his toys, yes, Irene, and I hate myself for saying it too, but we’re his DOLLS. That’s all he sees us as! That drawing wasn’t any show of affection, it was his complete and utter dehumanization of us! Do you know what has pipes as inner workings? Buildings. Appliances. THINGS. Things, Irene. Not people. THINGS. That’s how he sees us. That’s how he sees Corrinne. That’s how he sees you too, you just don’t realize it. You’re as real to him as a pornographic image on his computer. You’re just a means to an end. We all are. Please, Irene… everybody else can see it. Why can’t you?

Evan
Evan
9 years ago

Aurora, thank you so much for sharing that. I’ve suspected for a long time that despite what he keeps telling us and what my sister chooses to believe, we aren’t his first “companions”. We might not even be his second, especially not if what Zhinxy (her name ends in a Y Irene) posted is true. And please. Don’t blame yourself, I completely understand what you’ve been through and you weren’t for a second to blame for what HE did to you and your sister. I’m also so so sorry for what happened to her. I can’t even believe what that must have been life. That’s part of why I’m so scared to try anything, not just for myself, but for what he might do to my sisters in retaliation. Even Irene. She adores him, but I know that he’ll crush her in a second if he could ensure my obedience. I’m not even sure if I have the same options as you and your sister had either. Everything is sealed up. If he ever made any mistakes before, he’s sure learned from them, there’s nothing I can see that could be a way out, if I would even escape, which I don’t think is a viable option because of my sisters. But I’ll continue to resist. I won’t let him break me, and it feels so much better knowing I’m not alone now, and knowing I’m not alone in having lived in this nightmare. Thank you so much for your courage in breaking your rules and posting here Aurora, especially since I know you did it for me. You really have no idea how much this means to me.

Evan
Evan
9 years ago

Also, … you have really pretty hair.

ozymandias42
9 years ago

Awwwwww!

(Ozy begins to ship Evan/Aurora.)

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
9 years ago

I still think we should send UPS Pickup to get Evan. He has access to the computer so he can print a label, right?

Shadow
Shadow
9 years ago

@Viscaria

My bad. As a DAPP (Dolls, Action figures, Plushies and Puppets) ally, I tend to be somewhat hypervigilant about nonfleshistry

Ami Angelwings
9 years ago

@Cassandra, but UPS doesn’t go bursting into homes last I checked… does it? o_O How would he get outside?

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
9 years ago

Hmm. I think we may need to bribe the UPS driver.

Ami Angelwings
9 years ago

I think Irene just feels threatened that Mellertron has shown interest in a flesh-covered woman at all… even if I would just be a 6 in his future Mellertopia xD (notice he said in his hypothetical future xD)

Ami Angelwings
9 years ago

Evan, you said you talk to Benny the cat when the window is left a crack open. Is there a screen or anything covering the window? And what’s it made out of? o:

Aurora Borealis
Aurora Borealis
9 years ago

Irene: STFU

I’m not lying and while I understand how you feel, I’m not going to go lightly on you because you need a harsh wake up call. That was absolutely “your David” who killed my sister and tried to kill me. That man that you wake up to every morning and go to bed next to every night? That man is the very monster I described. He may call you his fluffy precious lady lovely every night, but the truth is, he just sees you as a doll. Like he saw me. Like he saw my sister. We’re just obedient objects for him to indulge his insecurities, desires and inner pain in. He just wants us for what we can give to him, and what he can take from us. He has no thought or feeling towards how you feel, or how Evan feels, or how Corrinne feels. I know it feels like a violation of every fiber of your being, of everything you’ve been taught, of your very soul, but somewhere in you, you know it’s true, you just don’t want to believe it. But it’s there, and even though you put on a happy face and you tried to convince us all that you think what that asshole did to, Corrinne, your SISTER, is okay, you know that it’s not, you just don’t want to believe it. But you know. And I know you know, because I was there Irene, I was you once, and I know how much it means to you that everything is okay, I know how much it means to you that he is right, that you love him, that you need to love him, because you’re worried without him there’s nothing, because you’ve never known life without him, because you’ve never known YOURSELF without him. I know how you feel Irene, because I’ve been there, and I know how impossible it is to see outside the world he’s constructed for you, and to see outside your own fear. He’s conditioned you. Trusting in him is painless, anything else is painful. I get it.

But I also believe in you. I believe that you care about your siblings. I believe you care about Evan. I believe you care about yourself, and you know that every day he’s taking you away from yourself. He’s taking who you are away from you. And he’s trying to do it to Evan. Look at his posts. Read them again, and again. I know you don’t believe me, so just read them. Look at that picture of Corrinne. Look at it, and read Evan’s posts over and over. If I’m wrong, the words won’t change, the meaning won’t change, the emotions within won’t change no matter how often you read it, so you have nothing to lose. But read them over and over. Close your eyes and imagine his voice. Imagine his screams as he’s put inside the freezer. Imagine what he must have felt. Imagine what he feels every day with you not around, one of his sisters missing, and him fearing the car pulling up, the door opening. Try to imagine it. Focus on what Evan must be feeling, on what Corrinne must be feeling. Focus on what’s happening, not who’s doing it. Please… I know you’re reading my words even if you think I’m not to be trusted. Just… try.

Evan: You’re amazing. I hope you know that. You’re who inspired me to post even though I know he’s still lurking around. I know that you ARE afraid, but you’re also so courageous and brave. You know who you are and you won’t let anybody else define you. I think you’re awesome. And don’t let anybody else tell you otherwise.

Aurora Borealis
Aurora Borealis
9 years ago

And thanks. 🙂 I like yours too.

Aurora Borealis
Aurora Borealis
9 years ago

Cassandra: I know his old address but I’m pretty sure he’s moved. I (eventually) told the authorities everything when they found me.

Aurora Borealis
Aurora Borealis
9 years ago

Pecunium: It’s really difficult for me to look at them, so I haven’t seen the whole site, but given the intent of the director, those images are really powerful and moving. I think we also need to remember to give credit to the actresses because they are doing a really good job conveying the kind of pain and trauma the director is asking of them and their poses look very difficult to do safely.

SaruGoku
SaruGoku
9 years ago

This has to be the cleverest, most amazing thread I’ve ever seen!

We need a gaolbreak here folks!

hellkell
hellkell
9 years ago

FREE EVAN!!!

Ozy, count me as another Evan/Aurora shipper.

Molly Ren
9 years ago

Imagine his screams as he’s put inside the freezer.

This thread is amazing, creepy, AND meta all at the same time! o.o;

Caraz
Caraz
9 years ago

I can’t help but think this thread makes Meller partly right.

People here prefer talking to ‘dolls’ (his term not mine) than talking to Meller. So the companionship of dolls is preferable over some humans, as long as those humans are Meller-ish.

David K. Meller
David K. Meller
9 years ago

I agree!! If EVAN is unhappy, then by all means, a change of owners–or an independent existence–is necessary. I do prefer little lady lovelies to modern women or feminists, but that is only my preference, and I have no wish to inflict it upon others unnecessarily!

I hope that EVAN finds a nice home with all deliberate speed. If you want to help EVAN here on manboobz.com, go ahead! You have my blessing!

Molly Ren
9 years ago

… I kind of expected Meller to be more shocked than that. Or does he really have a doll named Evan that he can’t wait to get rid of? o.o

Kyrie
Kyrie
9 years ago

I don’t even know where I live!

Btw, Evan, try this: htmlfive.appspot.com/static/whereami.html

red_locker
9 years ago

Shit just got real.