Reading through some comments on Men’s Rights hub A Voice for Men the other day, I ran across a fairly bloodthirsty contribution from an MRA with the charming nickname Brutal Antipathy, suggesting that the Occupy Wall Street protesters needed a bit of what he called “the ol’ Tienanmen Square treatment.”
Mr. Antipathy’s rhetorical outburst struck me as fairly typical of the tough-guy rhetoric that the site’s regulars love to indulge in — though usually the targets of the rhetoric are feminists, not Occupy Wall Street activists.
So I was a bit surprised to see site founder Paul Elam respond with this:
It seems a little odd for Elam to claim to be shocked — shocked! — to find such rhetoric on his site. Elam, after all, seems to positively revel in making his own vaguely threatening pronouncements towards his ideological enemies.
In a recent fundraising appeal, for example, Elam let out all the stops:
We now have a team of individuals that goes beyond what we advertise on our pages, and we are gearing up to add a new doomsday prophesy to 2012. Let’s put it this way: The fembots better hope the Mayan’s were right about next year, because they would rather deal with that than the things we are cooking up. …
Progress for men will not be gained by debate, reason or typical channels of grievance available to segments of the population that the world actually gives a damn about. The progress we need will only be realized by inflicting enough pain on the agents of hate, in public view, that it literally shocks society out of its current coma.
Elam is purposefully vague about just what he means by “inflicting pain,” but it is hard not to read this comment as a threat of something dire.
Others on the site are similarly fond of this sort of vague, threatening language. MRA blogger Fidelbogen, recently brought on board as a contributor to AVfM, let loose in a recent comment on those who think MRAs should tone down their rhetoric towards feminists and other enemies:
Apparently, Elam believes that the deliberate vagueness of these kinds of threats makes them shining examples of Gandhian non-violence — or at least that it gives the site the requisite “plausible deniability” if — when? — someone actually moves beyond the threats to actual violence.
It’s ok, evidently, to talk about “inflicting pain” on your enemies, so long as you don’t specify just how. It’s ok to boast about frightening your enemies, to muse about “stalking” individual feminists, to post their personal information online, and so on and so on.
Heck, apparently it’s not even a problem if someone, using the personal information provided on the site, actually tracks down individuals targeted by Elam and pals and quite literally kills them. As AVfM managing editor John the Other put it in a recent post (which I wrote about here):
And what if they get killed David? What if rather than be arrested – as promoters of hate, and public advocates of murder, what if these depraved and murderous female supremacists come to harm at the hands of a citizen. If that happens, it will mean that a society’s system of law, designed to prevent hate organizations, and to allow redress of grievance through non violent due process is gone, wiped out by your ideology of violence and hate.
Nonetheless, JtO, like Elam, insists that “I do not and will not lend myself to the support of violence, or indeed, of murder.”
But all this dancing around the issue of violence is rather a moot point, given the one rather striking exception that Elam has allowed to his “no explicit advocacy of violence” rule.
And that is the terrorist manifesto he’s been hosting on his site since last summer.
I’m referring, of course, to the lengthy manifesto written by Tom Ball, a man who burned himself to death on the steps of a courthouse in Keane, New Hampshire last summer in a protest against what he saw as unfair treatment in family court.
Ball has been hailed as a hero in numerous articles on AVfM, and he is mentioned in an “invocation” in the new theme song for AVfM Radio.
The manifesto is posted on AVfM — in its “activism” category.
What sort of “activism” did Ball advocate? Hint: It involves Molotov cocktails, and government buildings.
In his words (emphasis mine):
So boys, we need to start burning down police stations and courthouses. … [T]he dirty deeds are being carried out by our local police, prosecutors and judges. These are the people we pay good money to protect us and our families. And what do we get for our tax money? Collaborators who are no different than the Vichy of France or the Quislings of Norway during the Second World War. All because they go along to get along. They are an embarrassment, the whole lot of them. And they need to be held accountable. So burn them out. …
There is no evidence that the police, courts, or government is planning to do anything different in the immediate future. And they will not do anything different until we make it so uncomfortable that they must change. Bureaucracy at its worst. So burn them out. This is too important to be using that touchy- feeling coaching that is so popular with business these days. You need to flatten them, like Wile E. Coyote. They need to be taught never to replace the rule of law. BURN-THEM-OUT!
Most of the police stations built in New England over the last 20 years are stone or brick. Fortunately, the roofs are still wood. The advantage of fire on the roof is that it is above the sprinklers. But even the sprinklers going off work to our advantage. There is no way they can work in a building with six inches of water. And I am certain we will disrupt their momentum once they start working out of a FEMA
At this point the AVfM editors cut Ball off in mid-sentence, and insert this “Editor’s note”:
Editor’s note:
Several paragraphs in this copy of Mr Ball’s original letter have been omitted. The omitted paragraphs contained detailed instructions on the manufacture and use of simple incendiary devices.
If you are really interested in seeing the omitted sections, you can find the complete manifesto elsewhere in the Mansophere.
Ball was quite serious about all this, and hoped that his self-immolation would inspire other “activists” to “manufacture and use” his favored sort of “simple incendiary devices,” as the AVfM editors gingerly put it. Ball himself was a bit more blunt:
I only managed to get the main door of the Cheshire County Courthouse in Keene, NH. I would appreciate it if some of you boys would finish the job for me. They harmed my children. The place is evil. So take it out. …
And bring a can of spray paint to these fires. Paint the word COLLABORATORS ( two L’s with an S on the end) on the building before you burn it.
Ball frankly acknowledged that if others followed his suggestions, people would die:
There will be some casualties in this war. Some killed, some wounded, some captured. Some of them will be theirs. Some of the casualties will be ours.
How does Ball’s explicit advocacy of terrorist acts directed at government buildings, acts that if carried out would almost inevitably mean the deaths of people within those buildings, square with Elam’s purported no-advocacy-of-violence policy for his website?
You’ll have to ask him. I have no fucking clue.
I’m Boss Humorless Bitch and Southern Region Assistant District Manager Cat Lady.
@Happy Anti-MRA :
One thing is sure, Paul Elam want to be a cult leader for closeted sociopaths and he loves the attention he gets. I’m sure he has more followings with his posting now than he had a few years ago.
Polliwog: re non-insulting insults.
Exactly. Plus using “y” (gyrls, wymmnz) etc. just reminds me fondly of the good old radical lexicography and orthography of the 70s and 80s when we was kicking the “men” out of Womyn!)
Good times, good times (*some sarcasm there since other elements of radical feminism of that time were racism and transphobia).
@ No More Mr Nice Guy
You could well be onto something – Elam’s readership didn’t seem to be going anywhere until he started AVfM. Although, even now, there seem to be a few dozen hardcore adherants to his site and plenty of rubber-neckers, like our good selves.
If you read even a few comments by Elam, it quickly becomes clear that he has a seriously immature outlook on what debate is. He has finished E-mails with “I win!”, constantly has to claim victory – including when it is clear he’s made a fool out of himself – and then contradicts himself in the most blatant way.
He’s an oddity. I have just finished watching one of his videos – he described how he would never allow another woman to become a financial liability. I didn’t realise there enough money in counseling to support two people…
TITLES! We GET titles! YAY!
I think I am Raving Researcher, Coiner of Alliterative Polysyllabic Insults, and one of the MANY Cat Lady Administrators!
forweg: Elam is hosting a letter on the site that openly advocates the idea that in this supposed war that is going on that deaths will occur and that some of them will be the “other side”. While the directions on how to make a bomb are removed, the general idea that people they oppose will be dying still stands.
David correctly states that the letter is listed in a section called “activism”.
David correctly quotes Elam in supporting the idea that those he opposes must have pain inflicted on them.
I see no other way to frame it other than the AV4M site is advocating violence against those they disagree with. So when he comes in and berates someone for suggesting Tienanmen square treatment… the MRA doth protest to much, me thinks.
I took the Assistant DM position because I figured you’d want the DM title for our region, Itiliana! 🙂
I’ll be Assistant to the Regional Managing Editor. Now, if you’ll excuse me, I have to tend to my beet farm.
Hellkell: I’ve always tried to avoid the upper administrative positions because of all the report writing! And paperwork! The quarterly litterbox orders alone would ruin a good week!
And trying to keep up with the tuna distribution! A nightmare!
lj4, you’re being…surprisingly reasonable. At the moment. You’re not going to pull an MRAL on us, are you?
Can I be Dungeon Master?
I hope not.
Crumbelievable –
Correcto. The law peoples describes assault: an “intentional act” taken specifically to make someone feel threatened.
You need the element of “Intent” in an intentional tort like “assault”.
The perpetrator must want and intend to make another feel threatened.
And of course tort law looks to the “reasonable” person standard. Would the actions of the perpetrator make a reasonable person in the same situation feel fearful and threatened.
This guy Elam can hide his calls for violence and rape against targeted feminists all he wants but I will tell you folks this: if he were to be taken to civil court or even criminal he would have a hard time using the satire defense when what he says could clearly make any reasonable woman feel fearful.
Judges aint stupid.
The satire defense while typically has prevented people from recovering in defamation, these women ain’t public figures like most of them cases about satire and reputation/defamation. Public officials have a harder time recovering from satire. Private folks got an easier time proving defamation and even criminal conduct like using satire to get away with instigating violence against folks.
(last response was to Seraph)
I would like to be Dictator’s First Assistant.
First they ignore us …
Then they laugh at us …
Then they fight us …
Then we win …
Thanks, Futrelle. Your pointless and incoherent article is a clear sign that the most significant civil rights movement of the 3rd millennium, the movement for equal rights for men, is progressing from stage 2 to stage 3.
The MRM:
Equal protection under the law for all.
Equal protection of government for all.
Feminism:
Hate.
You don’t know son, they’re even importing Manboobzers!! Weez iz in demand!
@Ithiliana
I thought that WAS what they were mocking, aren’t they? If not, that just makes the whole thing ten times stupider!
@Zarat
Is stage 4 equal virtual distance from the other sex for all? Have you let the rest of the MRM know that your plans involve a lot of hand time for your comrades and nothing else?
The MRM:
Enslave women!
Feminism:
Lol, wut?
@Joanna:
The MRM:
We are the MRM!! Heed our call brothers!!
Their brothers:
Lol, wut?
Zarat, I’m pretty sure manboobz is phase 2. You know, the motto? “Misogyny, I mock it”? We’re definitely still laughing at you. And sometimes being a bit afraid or disgusted that such horrible people exists. And sometimes we go back to phase 1 and talk about kittens or food.
MRAs love this quote. But sometimes they forget that people also laugh at clowns. Doesn’t mean that the Clown Revolution is coming.
…oh God, it doesn’t, right? Oh no. I regret thinking about this.
They ‘re coming, Holly…
@Joanna
“The MRM:
Enslave women!”
I know where this comes from, and I sympathize. We freedom fighters of the MRM need to work on message clarity. Backwards-looking articles occasionally pepper MRM sites (most are fond memories of times long past). Here is an example:
http://www.the-spearhead.com/2012/01/11/the-impending-doom-of-rino-dads-and-their-daughters/
However, be assured that very few MRAs would agree to return to the 50s. These “old times” are only attractive compared to the absolute hellish existence of men today. We are fighting for a future where liberty means something, for both men and women.
Here is the simplified time-line:
To 1950s: Men and women had obligations towards each other. The obligations were different, and both genders could legitimately complain about legal discrimination.
Today: Women have no obligations towards anyone. Men have more obligations towards women than ever, both collectively and individually.
The future that the MRM is fighting for: Neither men nor women have any obligations towards each other. All people are completely free.
Oh look, it’s Antz trying to make the MRM = Gandhi comparison again. Oh well. I suppose since it applied to Indians’ struggle against the British Raj, it’s almost certainly (with absolutely no factual parallels, but whatevs) applicable to the MRM’s mighty struggle against … what is it you’re struggling against again? Seems you think it’s feminism, but looks more to me like common sense, reality, or humanity at large.
Also, I am now Manboobz’ National Thundercunt Correspondent. I’m getting business cards made!