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Does A Voice for Men really think that firebombing is a form of non-violence?

Reading through some comments on Men’s Rights hub A Voice for Men the other day, I ran across a fairly bloodthirsty contribution from an MRA with the charming nickname Brutal Antipathy, suggesting that the Occupy Wall Street protesters needed a bit of what he called “the ol’ Tienanmen Square treatment.”

Mr. Antipathy’s rhetorical outburst struck me as fairly typical of the tough-guy rhetoric that the site’s regulars love to indulge in — though usually the targets of the rhetoric are feminists, not Occupy Wall Street activists.

So I was a bit surprised to see site founder Paul Elam respond with this:

It seems a little odd for Elam to claim to be shocked — shocked! — to find such rhetoric on his site. Elam, after all, seems to positively revel in making his own vaguely threatening pronouncements towards his ideological enemies.

In a recent fundraising appeal, for example, Elam let out all the stops:

We now have a team of individuals that goes beyond what we advertise on our pages, and we are gearing up to add a new doomsday prophesy to 2012.  Let’s put it this way: The fembots better hope the Mayan’s were right about next year, because they would rather deal with that than the things we are cooking up. …

Progress for men will not be gained by debate, reason or typical channels of grievance available to segments of the population that the world actually gives a damn about. The progress we need will only be realized by inflicting enough pain on the agents of hate, in public view, that it literally shocks society out of its current coma.

Elam is purposefully vague about just what he means by “inflicting pain,” but it is hard not to read this comment as a threat of something dire.

Others on the site are similarly fond of this sort of vague, threatening language. MRA blogger Fidelbogen, recently brought on board as a contributor to AVfM, let loose in a recent comment on those who think MRAs should tone down their rhetoric towards feminists and other enemies:

Apparently, Elam believes that the deliberate vagueness of these kinds of threats makes them shining examples of Gandhian non-violence — or at least that it gives the site the requisite “plausible deniability” if — when? — someone actually moves beyond the threats to actual violence.

It’s ok, evidently, to talk about “inflicting pain” on your enemies, so long as you don’t specify just how. It’s ok to boast about frightening your enemies, to muse about “stalking” individual feminists, to post their personal information online, and so on and so on.

Heck, apparently it’s not even a problem if someone, using the personal information provided on the site, actually tracks down individuals targeted by Elam and pals and quite literally kills them. As AVfM managing editor John the Other put it in a recent post (which I wrote about here):

And what if they get killed David? What if rather than be arrested – as promoters of hate, and public advocates of murder, what if these depraved and murderous female supremacists come to harm at the hands of a citizen. If that happens, it will mean that a society’s system of law, designed to prevent hate organizations, and to allow redress of grievance through non violent due process is gone, wiped out by your ideology of violence and hate.

Nonetheless, JtO, like Elam, insists that “I do not and will not lend myself to the support of violence, or indeed, of murder.”

But all this dancing around the issue of violence is rather a moot point, given the one rather striking exception that Elam has allowed to his “no explicit advocacy of violence” rule.

And that is the terrorist manifesto he’s been hosting on his site since last summer.

I’m referring, of course, to the lengthy manifesto written by Tom Ball, a man who burned himself to death on the steps of a courthouse in Keane, New Hampshire last summer in a protest against what he saw as unfair treatment in family court.

Ball has been hailed as a hero in numerous articles on AVfM, and he is mentioned in an “invocation” in the new theme song for AVfM Radio.

The manifesto is posted on AVfM — in its “activism” category.

What sort of “activism” did Ball advocate? Hint: It involves Molotov cocktails, and government buildings.

In his words (emphasis mine):

So boys, we need to start burning down police stations and courthouses. … [T]he dirty deeds are being carried out by our local police, prosecutors and judges. These are the people we pay good money to protect us and our families. And what do we get for our tax money? Collaborators who are no different than the Vichy of France or the Quislings of Norway during the Second World War. All because they go along to get along. They are an embarrassment, the whole lot of them. And they need to be held accountable. So burn them out.

There is no evidence that the police, courts, or government is planning to do anything different in the immediate future. And they will not do anything different until we make it so uncomfortable that they must change. Bureaucracy at its worst. So burn them out. This is too important to be using that touchy- feeling coaching that is so popular with business these days. You need to flatten them, like Wile E. Coyote. They need to be taught never to replace the rule of law. BURN-THEM-OUT!

Most of the police stations built in New England over the last 20 years are stone or brick. Fortunately, the roofs are still wood. The advantage of fire on the roof is that it is above the sprinklers. But even the sprinklers going off work to our advantage. There is no way they can work in a building with six inches of water. And I am certain we will disrupt their momentum once they start working out of a FEMA

At this point the AVfM editors cut Ball off in mid-sentence, and insert this “Editor’s note”:

Editor’s note:

Several paragraphs in this copy of Mr Ball’s original letter have been omitted. The omitted paragraphs contained detailed instructions on the manufacture and use of simple incendiary devices.

If you are really interested in seeing the omitted sections, you can find the complete manifesto elsewhere in the Mansophere.

Ball was quite serious about all this, and hoped that his self-immolation would inspire other “activists” to “manufacture and use” his favored sort of “simple incendiary devices,” as the AVfM editors gingerly put it. Ball himself was a bit more blunt:

I only managed to get the main door of the Cheshire County Courthouse in Keene, NH. I would appreciate it if some of you boys would finish the job for me. They harmed my children. The place is evil. So take it out. …

And bring a can of spray paint to these fires. Paint the word COLLABORATORS ( two L’s with an S on the end) on the building before you burn it.

Ball frankly acknowledged that if others followed his suggestions, people would die:

There will be some casualties in this war. Some killed, some wounded, some captured. Some of them will be theirs. Some of the casualties will be ours.

How does Ball’s explicit advocacy of terrorist acts directed at government buildings, acts that if carried out would almost inevitably mean the deaths of people within those buildings, square with Elam’s purported no-advocacy-of-violence policy for his website?

You’ll have to ask him. I have no fucking clue.

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mayfly
mayfly
12 years ago

I find this denunciation of violence odd coming from the man who declared, “I am not going to stop. You see, I find you, as a feminist, to be a loathsome, vile piece of human garbage. I find you so pernicious and repugnant that the idea of fucking your shit up gives me an erection.”

He’s practically like Gandhi, you guys.

Morgan
Morgan
12 years ago

Since I’ve seen it a couple times, I feel compelled to point out — as one who has family about a half-hour’s drive from the town in question, an uncle and friend who graduated from Keene State — Keene NH is in fact spelled as I have done: Keene, not Keane.

Crumbelievable
Crumbelievable
12 years ago

@mayfly: I’ll never forget Gandhi’s immortal words: “The idea of fucking up the British Empire’s shit gives me an erection.”

captainbathrobe
12 years ago

@Polliwog,

Yeah, like someone who hears gunshots can’t testify in a murder trial. Sheesh. That’s beyond stupid.

Dani Alexis
Dani Alexis
12 years ago

Sexual assault
which makes that person feel uncomfortable, distressed, frightened or threatened, or which results in harm or injury to that person;

This is just one of the bullet points of what constitutes sexual assault. If a woman even feels “uncomfortable” at any moment in time a man is locked away

NWO, darling, the common-law definition of “assault” has included making someone “uncomfortable,” in the sense of “making them think you are about to assault them,” for centuries. That’s not a “women are out to get you” thing; that’s a recognition that threats are bad for social stability too.

But, hey, how would you know this? You’re not a lawyer, or at least not a lawyer on any planet in this star system.

Crumbelievable
Crumbelievable
12 years ago

I wonder if Elam would ban you if you posted a comment saying that feminists should be put into medieval torture devices. Or maybe he’d give you a position as one of his writers. Yeah, that seems more likely.

no more mr nice guy
12 years ago

Is it possible that the host of AVfM forbid death threats ? Maybe Paul Elam doesn’t want to be TOSsed. A few years ago, there was thread on Antimisandry were a guy was saying that women deserved to be raped, other guys join in and approved him, the thread was locked (and removed later) by the admins because they didn’t want to be TOSsed. Two years ago, the love-shy forum was TOSsed after being invaded by MRAs saying that women deserve to be raped.

Holly Pervocracy
12 years ago

All in favor of ignoring NWO?

Aye!

Wait, I’m Jewish… Nay! (That means Aye in Jew Lies.)

Holly Pervocracy
12 years ago

I suspect Paul Elam has gotten some legal threats of the not-so-aggrandizing-after-all type recently. He’s stopped pushing register-her in every post, which could just mean he got bored of his new toy after not getting enough attention, but could also mean someone sent a legal threat that really scared him.

He seems to be quietly pulling back on a lot of the scarier rhetoric, and that makes me wonder if his imaginary lawyers have been getting some scary letters from some real lawyers.

Crumbelievable
Crumbelievable
12 years ago

“Is it possible that the host of AVfM forbid death threats ?”

Go read the ‘Stalking Sady Doyle’ article. I think Futrelle wrote about it. Basically, Doyle, a feminist blogger and founder of Tiger Beatdown, wrote a piece about her experiences receiving threats of death and anal rape. Elam’s response boiled down to “That’s what you get for a being a feminist, because feminists are all bigots.” He went on to say that these threats she received were just a taste of what was to come. Of course, he added some line like “You will not be brought down by rape but by the illuminating light of truth” to cover his ass. But think about it—what kind of illuminating light of truth follows from threats to rape your ass? Also note that the piece was titled “Stalking Sady Doyle” and included the line, “We are coming for you.”

Crumbelievable
Crumbelievable
12 years ago

@Holly:
That Seasonal Fundraiser article Dave quoted is only about 3 weeks old. And considering that song Elam just released that honors Thomas Ball, I’m not giving Elam any benefit of the doubt.

ozymandias42
12 years ago

Oh, good, Owly’s here. I’ve been having a bad couple days and need to take out my RAAAAAAEEEEEG at my school’s regressive policies about rape survivors at someone.

Unfortunately, I can’t read the link, because unlike NWO I am actually doing good stuff to help people out. Specifically, I’m working on revising my school’s sexual harassment/sexual assault/abuse policies to be inclusive, promote prevention-based techniques instead of simply intervention-based, and support and empower survivors while protecting due process rights for the accused. This means that I spend about four hours a day doing rape-and-abuse-related shit, and I don’t want to do that with my free time.

I’m not sure if I’d be more annoyed if he were misrepresenting it or if it actually did erase male survivors and I have to be forced to agree with NWO. I mean, the concept of agreeing with NWO makes my skin crawl.

I am amuse that he doesn’t seem to understand the concept of linguistic quirks. I say alsoalso! Ami says neone! We horrible, horrible people, playing around with the fluidity of language and the flexibility of English! Wordplay is probably misandry.

Of course, NWO fucking hates fluidity in all its forms, not just the linguistic. He has enough problems with the idea that some people are attracted to the same gender as them: imagine the idea that someone might be attracted to multiple genders, or no genders, or sometimes one gender and sometimes another and sometimes nothing at all! And don’t get him started on the horror of people changing their genders. God forbid someone assigned male become a woman, or someone have multiple genders, or be one of the horrible horrible Zie Creatures. That’s probably misandry too.

I also love how NWO thinks we didn’t oppose NDAA. NWO, I wrote my damn congresspeople. I called the president. I did my part. Did you?

Polliwog
Polliwog
12 years ago

I am amuse that he doesn’t seem to understand the concept of linguistic quirks. I say alsoalso! Ami says neone! We horrible, horrible people, playing around with the fluidity of language and the flexibility of English! Wordplay is probably misandry.

Yeah, I love that “alsoalso” is “edgy,” especially since I started saying, “also also also also there were ice cream sundaes/ponies/a bouncy castle/whatever!” when I was a small, excitable child, and do it now less when I am trying to sound “edgy” and more when I am poking fun at myself by acting like…a small, excitable child. I had no idea poking fun at my own dorkiness was edgy, but in a way, it’s not surprising that NWO would think so; I think he finds the entire concept of “fun” foreign and suspicious.

ozymandias42
12 years ago

Polli: I say “alsoalso” because my standard state is small, excitable child. I’ve been a small, excitable child for twenty years and I see no reason to change. Would anyone like to pet my stuffed Cthulhu?

Polliwog
Polliwog
12 years ago

Polli: I say “alsoalso” because my standard state is small, excitable child. I’ve been a small, excitable child for twenty years and I see no reason to change. Would anyone like to pet my stuffed Cthulhu?

Growing up is totally overrated. *nod*

Is it just the standard Cthulhu or one of the specialty Cthulhus? I used to have a Beach Fun Cthulhu but gave him away to a friend who needed betentacled hugs at the time. 🙂

Caraz
Caraz
12 years ago

NWO had fun once. It was 1973 and he didn’t like it much. Truefact.

forweg
12 years ago

Aderp Aderp Aderp.

Holly Pervocracy
12 years ago

Although I still don’t understand how David is going to have sex with all of us through the Internet, I think it’s a fascinating look into MRA psychology that “you’re being nice to women so they’ll like you” is the most damning insult they know.

That and a lot of playgroundish “You say we advocate violence? Well, we say you’re ugly!” So, you know, QED.

cynickal
cynickal
12 years ago

I just can’t keep up with all this liberal edginess.
Alsoalso too, git offa mah lawn!

kiki
kiki
12 years ago

better hope the Mayan’s were right about next year

Aieee! It’s the apostropheclypse!

Joanna
12 years ago

@Holly: Apparently, I had sex with Hugo Schwyzer and it was a bad thing.

pillowinhell
pillowinhell
12 years ago

So Elam uses the favorite tactic of abusers and cowards…what a surprise. Yawn.

I had an ex who tried this tactic with me…it was effective in the short term but over the long run it totally backfired. Eventually some folks just decide that they’re gonna do what they want or need to and damn the torpedoes. I didn’t realize my ex was an MRA, and he’s what twigged me to feminism.

Also, karma caught up with him and bit him on the ass. He got exactly what hed spent so long threatening me with.

Pecunium
12 years ago

For the Lovecraftian Child in all of us.

Tintin In Innsmouth

ozymandias42
12 years ago

Polli: It’s a Mini Cthulhu. I wuvs him…

Holly: Check the Feminist Agenda, section 4, subclause 24. It clearly sets aside a million-dollar budget for the travel and miscellaneous expenses of feminists from the Internet seeking to have sex with manginas. Some people want to bump it up to two million, but I don’t want to take it out of the bonbons budget.