Consider the plight of the poor, horny Man Going His Own Way. He may have convinced himself that women are icky monsters out to highjack his sperm and steal his money. He may have convinced himself we live in a femi-fascist gynocracy out to destroy men and civilization generally. Yet his disobedient penis can’t stop thinking about sex with these evil, filthy women.
And so he turns to his fellow MGTOWers to ask for help: what can I do, my brethren, to stop popping so many boners? Ed1974, a newbie on MGTOWforums.com, puts it this way in a plaintive recent post:
[M]ore than almost anything I want to be woman-free and contentment to live a woman-free life. For more or less all of my adult life I’ve played in to society’s demands that I have to have a woman, and preferably a pretty woman, in my life. I’ve done a lot of Internet dating and every friggin time I get involved with a woman I regret it. Either I just want to get some ass and the woman wants a lot more than that and makes a mess out of my life when I leave, or I end up spending way more money than I ever wanted to spend just to have her grace my life with her presence, or something else that fucks up my life. The bottom line is I sincerely want to live a life without the desire to have a woman in my life.
So Ed is taking steps to quell his desire:
1. I downloaded a firewall blocking all dating sites.
2. I’m going to read as many books on misandry that I can.
3. I’m going to take myself out of situations where I can get in trouble, such as bars.
4. I’m going to fill free time that I would normally spend out with some woman with something productive.
I also want to remember the bad times where I’ve had women who I’ve tried to get out of my life end up stalking me for months on end. And to be perfectly honest, I want to remember the time I got the clap from some skank. I also want to remember that I should be thankful that I’m not a baby daddy and I’ve never had any false rape charges against me.
Alas, but poor pretty Eddie is afraid that this won’t be enough, and begs the assembled MGTOWers for “other steps I should take.”
Site admin Nacho Vidal suggests he go another way entirely:
My advice would be to scrap the ‘steps’ you’ve taken and take your wanking up a notch! Also, have you looked into hiring a whore or two once a month?
Others jump in to endorse the masturbation-and-prostitute strategy, and encourage him to cultivate his hatred of women by reading from the ample selection of stories on the site about evil, depraved, disgusting women. As fairi5fair puts it:
I go to college and still get the biochemical reactions that play into the mate-spawn-die script when I see a 20 year old with a candy apple ass and perky tits, but my growing understanding of women in general helps to make it less urgent and more negligible everyday.
A few others have more novel advice. Our friend womanhater suggests a trip to the mall:
Sit in the food court, and spend a good three hours there. Leisurely sip on some coffee, and simply watch.
See all the soulless men being dragged around by cupcake holding her bags. You’ll see the total absence of hope in the eyes of men in this trap. You’ll see his brain calculating the immense debt being run up, and yet he knows he’s fucked.
Pay attention to the stupid whores in training aged 15 or so, and simply listen the absolute shit running out of their mouth. Watch their behavior and internalize that every twat you see aged 25 was doing the exact same shit a decade ago.
Every time I start to feel my ghosting resolve start to slip, I go to the mall for a few hours. Clears my fucking head every time.
NewWorldMan suggests a sort of mind-over-boner strategy:
Sounds like BS, I know, but telling myself (actually saying the sentence in my head at the moment of attraction): “I control my dick, my dick doesn’t control me — actually works for me.
Frederick326 suggests an anatomy lesson:
Read up on vaginas. They’re fucking disgusting.
And fairi5fair also links to the (somewhat NSFW) video below. I’m not sure what exactly it’s supposed to accomplish other than to remind us that Japan leads the world in baffling entertainment product:
And to think, they will never know what it is to love *sniff*
He had to block all dating sites? I found that using a dating site was enough to keep me from using dating sites 🙂
And seriously, ALL? There are so many. If sorting through the riffraff on eHarmony or OKCupid is too daunting a task, there are sites for self-selecting based on any interest you can imagine. Do drugs? Have an STD? Which one? Scientist? Armed Forces? Thinly veiled mail-order bride? Sugar daddy – be one or want one? (There are at least two of those sites, and they have women looking to be the sugar-provider in the relationship) Are you fat? Conventionally attractive? Over 35? Under 35? There is a dating service for self-identified ugly people, and I almost joined because most of them were more ‘eccentric’ than ‘elephant man’ and everyone seemed to have a good sense of humor.
Hell, even the buy-a-bride package tours have repeat customers. Sometimes the store just doesn’t have what you want in stock and you have to go again later.
Katz, I thought it was “don’t carpool.”
Is it that hard to be a MGTOW? I would have thought hatred for women, porn and sex-toys would do the trick, but apparently that’s tougher than I would have guessed…
Really, all he needs to do to cement his celibacy is explain his views on gender to any woman he’s in danger of sleeping with.
Oh, they could make t-shirt for these MGTOW in learning, with something like “I hate independent women (or just women), manginas and queers” and in the back “I don’t want to have sex with you. Seriously, fuck off”.
I think all their troubles would be over, and they can use these for their future demonstrations.
@ithiliana
I actually read your entire propaganda piece. Please tell me you don’t actually get paid with taxpayer funds to indoctrinate the youth of our country?
The only interesting exerpt I found was this….. “NOTE: A number of my students have noted the ‘repetition’ in academic writing–as if it is a bug rather than a feature.”
Where as your reason for doing so was…… “In long, complex articles (or chapters in long, complex books), a certain amount of repetition is helpful in working through the article.”
Hitler was far more honest, saying… “if you tell a lie long enough and loud enough people will listen.”
He also said… “let me control text books and I will control the world.”
You seem to be busy doing both with my money. Which is why you’re pro total State control and I’m pro-freedom. Indoctrination is sooo much easier when backed by the guns of the State, isn’t it?
What if in a stateless, totally libertarian world, private citizens chose to set up a private school that promoted feminism?
Silly NWO *pats head*
That is an evil EVIL movie Spear. *throws a plastic fork in your general direction*
YOU ARE TEARING ME APART LISA!!!
I’m pretty sure Hitler also said the following:
“Give me the graduate students and I’ll control the TAs.”
“Critical rusticity is an opposition stance to urbanism.”
Suddenly things don’t seem so innocent now, now do they?!
@NWO: I am employed by the state of Texas. I teach at a university, as I’ve said.
And my c.v. and syllabi including assigned readings are on my university’s web site as public information (these are excepts from lecture notes). This reading is from a graduate seminar on intersectional theories! I also teach creative writing, grant writing, stylistics, and will be teaching THE HOBBIT next semester!
This piece is a very good interdisciplinary historical study.
I can assure you that nothing I teach has ever turned anybody gay, though–because, big surprise, that’s not how it works.
But some of my students are, in fact, gay or lesbian, as are some of my colleagues.
@Moewicus: Yup, I’m in your country, queering your rural! (“your” meaning anybody who thinks rural=straight).
Some of the more exciting work in queer studies is rural and suburban queer theorizing–breaking apart the idea that “homosexuality” is an “urban lifestyle.”
ithiliana, it doesn’t matter because NWO still thinks you’re wrong.
@ithiliana
Yet all of your teaching does indoctrinate acceptance of gayness, doesn’t it? Is there an oppossing view as to the very real detriments to accepting gayness into society? Perhaps citing numerous societies, nation-states, empires, civilisations which have collapsed in the past that have accepted gayness as the norm, and how quickly they’ve collapsed afterwards? Or how gays are at least 15 times as likely to be pedophiles and rapists. Are far more likey to be sociopaths. Perhaps the story of how the word sodomite came to be. Or is all that irrelevant and swept under the rug?
@Joanna: Sorry, did you mean what I said about I do doesn’t matter because he thinks I’m wrong?
Because, yep, nothing I say or do will make him change his mind. I don’t expect anything I say to DKM, Brandon, or NWO to change a single tiny neuron in their brains. I like poking them, and I like emphasizing all the stuff that is out there they cannot control–including queer theory being taught at Texas universities–and that I’m not doing it secretly. This is all public record.
But unless they are in Texas, their taxpayer $ ain’t paying me (though I have received several federal grants….)
That’s right NWO, gays will bring the end of all humanity. *pats head*
Gosh, I’m not much up on that part of history; could you name them?
That’s a fascinating statistic! I never heard it before! What study did you get that from?
Oh, I know this one! It means people who threaten to rape guests in their city! Very terrible people.
Citations please
The key to getting over women is to simply stop and assess what they actually are. “Read up on vaginas. They’re fucking disgusting.” – it sounds like a joke comment, but there’s a grain of truth to it. The feminist project relies on men sexually desiring women to the point that they’re willing to trade their status and success for it. So what would women do if men suddenly realised that what they’re spending their whole lives chasing isn’t even that great, in fact actually quite repulsive, and that they’re going to take their money and status elsewhere? Think of women like soylent green, and feminists like the company who don’t want you to know it’s people.
When I look at a woman, I see a sad and stunted little failed attempt at a human. Her body is bloated, jiggly and malformed. Her skin is covered with stretch marks caused by the balloonings and deformations undergone during puberty (or from being a fat fuck) and usually acne as well, a consequence of either her unstable hormones or the slut pill girls love to take these days. They leak fluids everywhere, more like a child or an old person in a nursing home than a real person. Just milk and blood and foul discharges everywhere, coming from all kinds of dank and drooling cavities I don’t want to think about. And they take hours of face painting and hair styling and removal to even look passable in day-to-day life. Even the clitoris is laughable – the most half-assed attempt at a cock I’ve ever seen.
The fact is, a man needs a woman like a fish needs a hook in its fucking face. If you want to go your own way, all you have to do is stop, just stop – and think objectively about what you’re chasing after. The desire should quickly fade.
Ironically, Slavey gets all of his information about sodomy by pulling it out of his ass.
NWO: My colleague who teaches Shakespeare’s plays in their complete and uncensored glory also covers the complexity of Elizabethan constructions of sexuality, including what “sodomy” means in that context. Such a shock to some of our Texas students who don’t know how many of the “dead white male authors” in the canon were not exactly straight. Like that dude Shakespeare.
What you’re babbling about isn’t taught in my department (and probably nowhere on my campus) because it’s not in any way accurate, true, or historically verifiable.